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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Do you feel you are misunderstood on here?
Come on, get it off your chest and let's get to know each other better.
Always. "
I get that feeling about you.
Tell me what you think people don't get? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you feel you are misunderstood on here?
Come on, get it off your chest and let's get to know each other better.
Always. "
I've miss understood you already, why are you writing messages on your profile to people who have blocked you? they cant read it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you feel you are misunderstood on here?
Come on, get it off your chest and let's get to know each other better.
Always.
I've miss understood you already, why are you writing messages on your profile to people who have blocked you? they cant read it "
It was a thread to infuse some humour - it's obviously not aimed at anyone who has blocked me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you feel you are misunderstood on here?
Come on, get it off your chest and let's get to know each other better.
Always.
I get that feeling about you.
Tell me what you think people don't get?"
Perhaps you tell me why you get that feeling? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had my fair share of hate mail on here from people who have took a comment the wrong way, such is life
Do they think you put your foot in it?
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no idea, the problem is there's no emotion in front, if your talking face to face you can usually gage by peoples face how to take what they are saying, where as on here you can put a sarcastic comment men as a joke and people can take it serious and get offended
I seem to get that a lot |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Do you feel you are misunderstood on here?
Come on, get it off your chest and let's get to know each other better.
Always.
I get that feeling about you.
Tell me what you think people don't get?
Perhaps you tell me why you get that feeling? "
Earnest humour.
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I don't think I am. I think everyone knows I see life as one big chance for mirth and messing about. I hope that comes over in everything I do, whether it be engaging check out peeps in crosstalk conversations, or asking someone to hold my whoopee cushion whilst I get something out of my hand bag on a night out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you feel you are misunderstood on here?
Come on, get it off your chest and let's get to know each other better.
Always.
I get that feeling about you.
Tell me what you think people don't get?
Perhaps you tell me why you get that feeling?
Earnest humour.
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I forget that my dryness can read more cruelly than intended. I get that. But I'm not changing my tone to please the readers either. Fab is fun yet it often seems so serious! My threads are to get some banter going - not a thread about what crisps we all like.
Salt and shake x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No not really.
I think if you come under attack (I have with some zeal but I may have asked for it) you can look at things a few ways, you can take a stance that nobody gets you and fall into a bit of a victim complex, or you can reflect on whether anything about your own behaviour led to you ending up feeling misunderstood, apologise if you think you were being a dick (or don't if not) and chalk it up to experience.
And don't forget some people positively enjoy the idea of being misunderstood. It's what singles them out as special. |
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By *utzzCouple
over a year ago
wrexham |
"Sometimes my sense of humour can be misunderstood not just on here but in real life I have quite a dry sarcastic sense of humour but I don't mean any harm  "
me too! Really doesn't work in text, much better spoken with a twinkle in the eye... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been blocked by a few profiles who may either have misunderstood me, or mistakenly thought I was having a dig at them, or thought they actually had a chance of me messaging them, and didn't like my tone on here so blocked me just in case. That's a long sentence, I hope you all understood me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No not really.
I think if you come under attack (I have with some zeal but I may have asked for it) you can look at things a few ways, you can take a stance that nobody gets you and fall into a bit of a victim complex, or you can reflect on whether anything about your own behaviour led to you ending up feeling misunderstood, apologise if you think you were being a dick (or don't if not) and chalk it up to experience.
And don't forget some people positively enjoy the idea of being misunderstood. It's what singles them out as special."
would that be a Zombie attack?  |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Do you feel you are misunderstood on here?
Come on, get it off your chest and let's get to know each other better.
Always.
I get that feeling about you.
Tell me what you think people don't get?
Perhaps you tell me why you get that feeling?
Earnest humour.
I forget that my dryness can read more cruelly than intended. I get that. But I'm not changing my tone to please the readers either. Fab is fun yet it often seems so serious! My threads are to get some banter going - not a thread about what crisps we all like.
Salt and shake x"
A biscuit or cake thread will win people over.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Sometimes my sense of humour can be misunderstood not just on here but in real life I have quite a dry sarcastic sense of humour but I don't mean any harm "
You have a halo - how can anyone doubt that you mean them well? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't feel I am....I seem to be getting on ok with folk for the most part that is all
Peppa Pig puts everyone at ease. She has the answer to everything in life.
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She's my hero |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No not really.
I think if you come under attack (I have with some zeal but I may have asked for it) you can look at things a few ways, you can take a stance that nobody gets you and fall into a bit of a victim complex, or you can reflect on whether anything about your own behaviour led to you ending up feeling misunderstood, apologise if you think you were being a dick (or don't if not) and chalk it up to experience.
And don't forget some people positively enjoy the idea of being misunderstood. It's what singles them out as special.
would that be a Zombie attack? "
No, god no. Godzilla, we all know zombies aren't real. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Never given it a moments thought to be fair. Maybe that's the problem, I need to think things through a bit more lol "
There is nothing either good or bad but thinking makes it so. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"No not really.
I think if you come under attack (I have with some zeal but I may have asked for it) you can look at things a few ways, you can take a stance that nobody gets you and fall into a bit of a victim complex, or you can reflect on whether anything about your own behaviour led to you ending up feeling misunderstood, apologise if you think you were being a dick (or don't if not) and chalk it up to experience.
And don't forget some people positively enjoy the idea of being misunderstood. It's what singles them out as special."
There are some very special people here.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I'm quite good at saying things that people take the wrong way 
Sometimes I wonder if I speak/write proper English lol "
You need to join the Correctly English Society - just in case.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I don't feel I am....I seem to be getting on ok with folk for the most part that is all
Peppa Pig puts everyone at ease. She has the answer to everything in life.
She's my hero "
She gave the best advice ever when she said "push, push, glide."
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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And don't forget some people positively enjoy the idea of being misunderstood. It's what singles them out as special.
There are some very special people here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm quite good at saying things that people take the wrong way
Sometimes I wonder if I speak/write proper English lol
You need to join the Correctly English Society - just in case.
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My sense of humour never helps either  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always think people misunderstand us .
There are exceptions of course , but who is gonna warm to a tory loving couple who are on here to shag and see no value in the social side of swinging ?
Apart from the folk we have met that is !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think I'm misunderstood on here!
what?..who was that aimed at? i think u have weirdoness problems!
Paddy show me your sausage  "
as long as i can shove it between ur moist fanny baps |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I always think people misunderstand us .
There are exceptions of course , but who is gonna warm to a tory loving couple who are on here to shag and see no value in the social side of swinging ?
Apart from the folk we have met that is !
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The forum is so anti-social, isn't it?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't feel I am....I seem to be getting on ok with folk for the most part that is all
Peppa Pig puts everyone at ease. She has the answer to everything in life.
She's my hero "
I'm getting George too at some point....Grrr...dinosaur! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always think people misunderstand us .
There are exceptions of course , but who is gonna warm to a tory loving couple who are on here to shag and see no value in the social side of swinging ?
Apart from the folk we have met that is !
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I think ur confusing being sociable with what some want, which is friendship(to a level of exclusivity) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just a soul whose intentions are good,oh Lord please don't let me be...
What are you on about?
...misunderstood.
Are you? Are you really? Search your soul."
I'll definitely do that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always think people misunderstand us .
There are exceptions of course , but who is gonna warm to a tory loving couple who are on here to shag and see no value in the social side of swinging ?
Apart from the folk we have met that is !
The forum is so anti-social, isn't it?
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Lol ... The forum is a bad habit , and to be fair it can be very anti social |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes my jokes are misunderstood. People think I am being serious when I am not. Sometimes I don't joke about because I can do without the hassle. But sometimes I'm like, fuck it! . If they don't get it's a joke then that's their problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes i think i get misunderstood sometimes. even after over a decade in the uk i often think and speak like an American. that doesn't always translate well in a textual form. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"yes i think i get misunderstood sometimes. even after over a decade in the uk i often think and speak like an American. that doesn't always translate well in a textual form. "
Still getting your fannies and fags mixed up with ours?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had my fair share of hate mail on here from people who have took a comment the wrong way, such is life "
Snap.. Although the forums can be brutal if you don't go with the majority.... |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I think anyone can be misunderstood without context, both on a forum and in 'real' conversations. I don't like upsetting people and occasionally worry my sarcasm gets misread and might cause upset where none was intended - but the alternative is saying nothing. I have chosen to occasionally say something. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I honestly have no idea; nor do I particularly worry about it.
I am who I am. 
You'll have me singing again.
Duet, anyone?"
Let me know when you're ready to start. I'll loosen may jaw and warm up now.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes i think i get misunderstood sometimes. even after over a decade in the uk i often think and speak like an American. that doesn't always translate well in a textual form.
Still getting your fannies and fags mixed up with ours?
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lol! no, those i use in the correct context. thank goodness! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you feel you are misunderstood on here?
Come on, get it off your chest and let's get to know each other better.
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Yes
But if people actually want to get to know me, they know where my box is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm always misunderstood:
If I ask for a meet, its seen as pushy,.. if I hold back its seen as uninterested. Lol.
But then again, there could be worse things "
I'm glad you asked me, just need to squeeze you in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People will always have their own opinion of me ...
I've very little perception of how you fabbers actually think or like of me.... 
Either they do or they don't and there's little I can do to change that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmm... I have no idea how I'm _iewed by fabbers..
Unlike some I've only received an offensive message, perhaps twice, and that was because they felt my profile was overly word and/or pretentious.
Although I'm not here to....impress people... I'd hate to offend.
Hopefully I come across as decent...and if not, my sincerest apologies, you $^%$%£$ $£%£$^%$£!!!
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"Sometimes my sense of humour can be misunderstood not just on here but in real life I have quite a dry sarcastic sense of humour but I don't mean any harm "
I get ya!!! But maybe cos I'm in the same boat lol |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Sometimes my sense of humour can be misunderstood not just on here but in real life I have quite a dry sarcastic sense of humour but I don't mean any harm
I get ya!!! But maybe cos I'm in the same boat lol"
Evie! your boat may be a boot.
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that's the way I pronounce it. Welsh phonetics obviously 
