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Some Verifications just put me off .
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over a year ago
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You read we did this and that and ooo loads of cum and fingers right up my bum lol. Well some just put me off no matter how good people look and yes we should meet make up our own minds, But it do make me think yuk. Some paint pics in my head with their words and not always nice. Less is more at times here I feel . Maybe that's what they hope to do put others off so they can keep to themselves. .? |
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"You read we did this and that and ooo loads of cum and fingers right up my bum lol. Well some just put me off no matter how good people look and yes we should meet make up our own minds, But it do make me think yuk. Some paint pics in my head with their words and not always nice. Less is more at times here I feel . Maybe that's what they hope to do put others off so they can keep to themselves. .?"
Not all have such stunning pictures. Shock value may be What they have.  |
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"You read we did this and that and ooo loads of cum and fingers right up my bum lol. Well some just put me off no matter how good people look and yes we should meet make up our own minds, But it do make me think yuk. Some paint pics in my head with their words and not always nice. Less is more at times here I feel . Maybe that's what they hope to do put others off so they can keep to themselves. .?
Not all have such stunning pictures. Shock value may be What they have. "
well I read one or two today made me gag on my choc egg . lol xx  |
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over a year ago
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"Some are a bit OTT,no need for a lot of the info,but I tend to just laugh at them and move on. "
Some love to go deep into the in s and out of ......... no telling . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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depends on my mood,, if im horny i'll read them
if not i'll read the first line , get the gist of the type of veri and stop reading.. thats if i can be bothered to read it at all..
an indicator of a detailed veri with either lampost pissing/territory marking or gross detail is the length of the post. if its big i just wont read it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You read we did this and that and ooo loads of cum and fingers right up my bum lol. Well some just put me off no matter how good people look and yes we should meet make up our own minds, But it do make me think yuk. Some paint pics in my head with their words and not always nice. Less is more at times here I feel . Maybe that's what they hope to do put others off so they can keep to themselves. .?"
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"You read we did this and that and ooo loads of cum and fingers right up my bum lol. Well some just put me off no matter how good people look and yes we should meet make up our own minds, But it do make me think yuk. Some paint pics in my head with their words and not always nice. Less is more at times here I feel . Maybe that's what they hope to do put others off so they can keep to themselves. .?"
I think you are failing to grasp what some people use and want verifications for. In essence many swingers like exhibitionism be it having sex on a bed in front of people or watching their partner have sex and seeing others reaction and reliving the moment later. Many people use verifications in an exhibitionist way too and why not! People like dirty talk, people like titillating clothes to go out in god knows how many like going commando under a short skirt to shock the use of a verification in a similar way is just a personal choice for people. There are couples out there who love to read back though their verifications’ in a memory jogger and why not its their choice. So should we belittle/look down/ demean or whatever you wish to call it at people who choose graphic verifications? Well personally I think not its their kink if they want graphic ones good for them I say If I don’t like I move on but certainly wouldn’t demean them as I wouldn’t about pictures people have that I don’t find appealing either. |
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"You read we did this and that and ooo loads of cum and fingers right up my bum lol. Well some just put me off no matter how good people look and yes we should meet make up our own minds, But it do make me think yuk. Some paint pics in my head with their words and not always nice. Less is more at times here I feel . Maybe that's what they hope to do put others off so they can keep to themselves. .?
I think you are failing to grasp what some people use and want verifications for. In essence many swingers like exhibitionism be it having sex on a bed in front of people or watching their partner have sex and seeing others reaction and reliving the moment later. Many people use verifications in an exhibitionist way too and why not! People like dirty talk, people like titillating clothes to go out in god knows how many like going commando under a short skirt to shock the use of a verification in a similar way is just a personal choice for people. There are couples out there who love to read back though their verifications’ in a memory jogger and why not its their choice. So should we belittle/look down/ demean or whatever you wish to call it at people who choose graphic verifications? Well personally I think not its their kink if they want graphic ones good for them I say If I don’t like I move on but certainly wouldn’t demean them as I wouldn’t about pictures people have that I don’t find appealing either. "
When I read fingers up there bum with cum I think poo in there nails and mouth. Licking and sucking out sorry no matter how erotic . I think less is more at times here . |
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"You read we did this and that and ooo loads of cum and fingers right up my bum lol. Well some just put me off no matter how good people look and yes we should meet make up our own minds, But it do make me think yuk. Some paint pics in my head with their words and not always nice. Less is more at times here I feel . Maybe that's what they hope to do put others off so they can keep to themselves. .?
I think you are failing to grasp what some people use and want verifications for. In essence many swingers like exhibitionism be it having sex on a bed in front of people or watching their partner have sex and seeing others reaction and reliving the moment later. Many people use verifications in an exhibitionist way too and why not! People like dirty talk, people like titillating clothes to go out in god knows how many like going commando under a short skirt to shock the use of a verification in a similar way is just a personal choice for people. There are couples out there who love to read back though their verifications’ in a memory jogger and why not its their choice. So should we belittle/look down/ demean or whatever you wish to call it at people who choose graphic verifications? Well personally I think not its their kink if they want graphic ones good for them I say If I don’t like I move on but certainly wouldn’t demean them as I wouldn’t about pictures people have that I don’t find appealing either. "
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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I think its got fuck all to do with anyone else, what someone decides to write in a verification, if the person given it chooses to display it, then they must be happy with it, its their profile...who gives a fuck? |
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"I think its got fuck all to do with anyone else, what someone decides to write in a verification, if the person given it chooses to display it, then they must be happy with it, its their profile...who gives a fuck?"
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"I think its got fuck all to do with anyone else, what someone decides to write in a verification, if the person given it chooses to display it, then they must be happy with it, its their profile...who gives a fuck?"
I have my views you have your others do too ......... why we have a forum different views and I think less is more in feed backs and some find it erotic I don't .
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I think its got fuck all to do with anyone else, what someone decides to write in a verification, if the person given it chooses to display it, then they must be happy with it, its their profile...who gives a fuck?I have my views you have your others do too ......... why we have a forum different views and I think less is more in feed backs and some find it erotic I don't ."
Then stop reading Jo....when you get to the bits that are making you gag.....its easy.
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"I think its got fuck all to do with anyone else, what someone decides to write in a verification, if the person given it chooses to display it, then they must be happy with it, its their profile...who gives a fuck?I have my views you have your others do too ......... why we have a forum different views and I think less is more in feed backs and some find it erotic I don't ."
Don't read them then~simples |
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Not all have such stunning pictures. Shock value may be What they have. well I read one or two today made me gag on my choc egg . lol xx "
If you are gagging on your choc egg you are obviously pushing it in too far. Take advice from the Cadbury Bunny and slow down and relax, take time over your egg, you will enjoy it more x |
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"I think its got fuck all to do with anyone else, what someone decides to write in a verification, if the person given it chooses to display it, then they must be happy with it, its their profile...who gives a fuck?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You read we did this and that and ooo loads of cum and fingers right up my bum lol. Well some just put me off no matter how good people look and yes we should meet make up our own minds, But it do make me think yuk. Some paint pics in my head with their words and not always nice. Less is more at times here I feel . Maybe that's what they hope to do put others off so they can keep to themselves. .?
I think you are failing to grasp what some people use and want verifications for. In essence many swingers like exhibitionism be it having sex on a bed in front of people or watching their partner have sex and seeing others reaction and reliving the moment later. Many people use verifications in an exhibitionist way too and why not! People like dirty talk, people like titillating clothes to go out in god knows how many like going commando under a short skirt to shock the use of a verification in a similar way is just a personal choice for people. There are couples out there who love to read back though their verifications’ in a memory jogger and why not its their choice. So should we belittle/look down/ demean or whatever you wish to call it at people who choose graphic verifications? Well personally I think not its their kink if they want graphic ones good for them I say If I don’t like I move on but certainly wouldn’t demean them as I wouldn’t about pictures people have that I don’t find appealing either. When I read fingers up there bum with cum I think poo in there nails and mouth. Licking and sucking out sorry no matter how erotic. I think less is more at times here. "
But that's peoples kink why feel the need to look down on someone for their kink? You don't like it fine that's your choice. What I don't understand is the need to discuss in a negative way something you find unpleasant, actually more so dwell in it personally if I don't like something I dismiss it not turn it and castigate someone on their choice of kink it shows a lack of understanding of others in my opinion and a little judgemental its far easier to put such things aside and dwell on things that appeal more to you. |
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"I think its got fuck all to do with anyone else, what someone decides to write in a verification, if the person given it chooses to display it, then they must be happy with it, its their profile...who gives a fuck?I have my views you have your others do too ......... why we have a forum different views and I think less is more in feed backs and some find it erotic I don't ."
The question then has to be asked of you if you find such things unpleasant why put a thread up about them wouldn't it have been better for your thoughts to dismiss them rather than feed on them with a thread? As I am thinking about it I am curious for the motivation now what is it? |
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"I think its got fuck all to do with anyone else, what someone decides to write in a verification, if the person given it chooses to display it, then they must be happy with it, its their profile...who gives a fuck?I have my views you have your others do too ......... why we have a forum different views and I think less is more in feed backs and some find it erotic I don't .Then stop reading Jo....when you get to the bits that are making you gag.....its easy."
If it puts me off it must 100s of others too ... I have a open mind love erotic fun but some things better left for the bed room . Don't wish to read about licking bums the cum and fingers up there and then think of poo cum .. I am sent mail saying read my feed backs , lol so I look like today.
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"I think its got fuck all to do with anyone else, what someone decides to write in a verification, if the person given it chooses to display it, then they must be happy with it, its their profile...who gives a fuck?I have my views you have your others do too ......... why we have a forum different views and I think less is more in feed backs and some find it erotic I don't .
The question then has to be asked of you if you find such things unpleasant why put a thread up about them wouldn't it have been better for your thoughts to dismiss them rather than feed on them with a thread? As I am thinking about it I am curious for the motivation now what is it? "
I had mail today saying meet them and read feed-back I did that and made me feel like this . |
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"I think its got fuck all to do with anyone else, what someone decides to write in a verification, if the person given it chooses to display it, then they must be happy with it, its their profile...who gives a fuck?I have my views you have your others do too ......... why we have a forum different views and I think less is more in feed backs and some find it erotic I don't .
The question then has to be asked of you if you find such things unpleasant why put a thread up about them wouldn't it have been better for your thoughts to dismiss them rather than feed on them with a thread? As I am thinking about it I am curious for the motivation now what is it? I had mail today saying meet them and read feed-back I did that and made me feel like this ."
And did they say put a thread up about it too? |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I think its got fuck all to do with anyone else, what someone decides to write in a verification, if the person given it chooses to display it, then they must be happy with it, its their profile...who gives a fuck?I have my views you have your others do too ......... why we have a forum different views and I think less is more in feed backs and some find it erotic I don't .Then stop reading Jo....when you get to the bits that are making you gag.....its easy.If it puts me off it must 100s of others too ... I have a open mind love erotic fun but some things better left for the bed room . Don't wish to read about licking bums the cum and fingers up there and then think of poo cum .. I am sent mail saying read my feed backs , lol so I look like today."
So stop reading then.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think its got fuck all to do with anyone else, what someone decides to write in a verification, if the person given it chooses to display it, then they must be happy with it, its their profile...who gives a fuck?"
Absolutely right
If you don't like it , don't read it !
Those who wish to partake of various activities may see a veri which highlights the person does it for real so the 'graphic' veri works .
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"I think its got fuck all to do with anyone else, what someone decides to write in a verification, if the person given it chooses to display it, then they must be happy with it, its their profile...who gives a fuck?I have my views you have your others do too ......... why we have a forum different views and I think less is more in feed backs and some find it erotic I don't .
The question then has to be asked of you if you find such things unpleasant why put a thread up about them wouldn't it have been better for your thoughts to dismiss them rather than feed on them with a thread? As I am thinking about it I am curious for the motivation now what is it? I had mail today saying meet them and read feed-back I did that and made me feel like this .
And did they say put a thread up about it too? "
You should know its a forum and we chat about most things here that makes us feel just like you are now saying you like but I don't . We are all different here that's what makes this all fun . |
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"I think its got fuck all to do with anyone else, what someone decides to write in a verification, if the person given it chooses to display it, then they must be happy with it, its their profile...who gives a fuck?I have my views you have your others do too ......... why we have a forum different views and I think less is more in feed backs and some find it erotic I don't .Then stop reading Jo....when you get to the bits that are making you gag.....its easy.If it puts me off it must 100s of others too ... I have a open mind love erotic fun but some things better left for the bed room . Don't wish to read about licking bums the cum and fingers up there and then think of poo cum .. I am sent mail saying read my feed backs , lol so I look like today."
So......you just come and write it in the Forums instead. Hmmm  |
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"I think its got fuck all to do with anyone else, what someone decides to write in a verification, if the person given it chooses to display it, then they must be happy with it, its their profile...who gives a fuck?I have my views you have your others do too ......... why we have a forum different views and I think less is more in feed backs and some find it erotic I don't .Then stop reading Jo....when you get to the bits that are making you gag.....its easy.If it puts me off it must 100s of others too ... I have a open mind love erotic fun but some things better left for the bed room . Don't wish to read about licking bums the cum and fingers up there and then think of poo cum .. I am sent mail saying read my feed backs , lol so I look like today.
So......you just come and write it in the Forums instead. Hmmm "
I get loads of mail everyday here and all I am saying is feedback some put me off meeting so it must others too ... I am sure some may give a feedback hoping it may put people of too .Each to there own i know. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do think people worry far to much about other profiles on here...if the profile and verifications don't suit what you are looking for then just move on... "
I sure do i move on . |
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over a year ago
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"Veris, they can be alright. Now, chocolate egg - I want to know why there's some left!"
I have been away and only just got my Big Hotel choc egg ... My girl have a friend makes the choc there so we get seconds , lol |
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I think veris should be ticky boxes....
Showed up....Yes/No
Looked like profile pic....Yes/No
Seems harmless.....Yes/No
Meet was social....Yes/No
Meet included satisfactory sexual activity.....Yes/No
Would meet again...Yes/No
Hard cock/Moist gusset.....Yes/No
Sorted.....
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"I think veris should be ticky boxes....
Showed up....Yes/No
Looked like profile pic....Yes/No
Seems harmless.....Yes/No
Meet was social....Yes/No
Meet included satisfactory sexual activity.....Yes/No
Would meet again...Yes/No
Hard cock/Moist gusset.....Yes/No
Sorted.....
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well that's sorted , lol xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think veris should be ticky boxes....
Showed up....Yes/No
Looked like profile pic....Yes/No
Seems harmless.....Yes/No
Meet was social....Yes/No
Meet included satisfactory sexual activity.....Yes/No
Would meet again...Yes/No
Hard cock/Moist gusset.....Yes/No
Sorted.....
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Awww but I like reading sucked like a dyson, and gushed like a fountain. Can you include those as well...please |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think veris should be ticky boxes....
Showed up....Yes/No
Looked like profile pic....Yes/No
Seems harmless.....Yes/No
Meet was social....Yes/No
Meet included satisfactory sexual activity.....Yes/No
Would meet again...Yes/No
Hard cock/Moist gusset.....Yes/No
Sorted.....
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hahaha I love it |
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Is it me or is the complaint being aired generally one about graphic language being used in crude verifications?
If this is the case then surly the verification says more about the writer than the profile being verified. |
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"Is it me or is the complaint being aired generally one about graphic language being used in crude verifications?
If this is the case then surly the verification says more about the writer than the profile being verified."
Yes its reflection and we need to make our own minds up i know but its hard when you don't know people and saying the in s and out of there sex i find at time off putting and put me right off. |
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"Is it me or is the complaint being aired generally one about graphic language being used in crude verifications?
If this is the case then surly the verification says more about the writer than the profile being verified."
Showing what others say give them a say over you as a person if on your profile . And when you don't know people its what you go on reading them if wishing to meet at times some do and i read if there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love graphic meets
I don't love graphic verifications
While I understand that the exhibitionists among us love to display every last detail of their meets and their amazing sexual skills,id rather work someone out for myself without the aid of someone one elses overblown account of supposedly gold medal standard bedroom olympics |
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"I've given in to fab forum peer pressure and panicked and checked my veris for salacious details and graphic descriptions.... 
All clear its your profile there no pressure .. you know what you like to read about yourself . x"
Yes, a distinct lack of 'huge cock' comments! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No disrespect to you OP but,Its a swinging site!!! Personally, I like to read very explicit veris to make sure I'm gonna get a good meet!!!!! (sorry,couldn't resist!) xx |
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"Is it me or is the complaint being aired generally one about graphic language being used in crude verifications?
If this is the case then surly the verification says more about the writer than the profile being verified. Showing what others say give them a say over you as a person if on your profile . And when you don't know people its what you go on reading them if wishing to meet at times some do and i read if there."
I fully understand what you have said but I have a point.
Firstly I always publish verifications, good or not so good. They are the only independent way anyone can judge who I am and if they may want to meet me. However I would expect anyone who had got as far as reading my verifications with a view to meeting me to also follow the link to the profiles providing the verifications and see what they and I had to say about them too (if published).
Would you rather that I edit my verifications or publish them all? |
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"Is it me or is the complaint being aired generally one about graphic language being used in crude verifications?
If this is the case then surly the verification says more about the writer than the profile being verified. Showing what others say give them a say over you as a person if on your profile . And when you don't know people its what you go on reading them if wishing to meet at times some do and i read if there.
I fully understand what you have said but I have a point.
Firstly I always publish verifications, good or not so good. They are the only independent way anyone can judge who I am and if they may want to meet me. However I would expect anyone who had got as far as reading my verifications with a view to meeting me to also follow the link to the profiles providing the verifications and see what they and I had to say about them too (if published).
Would you rather that I edit my verifications or publish them all?"
I just think it can go all to far that is all ...People can say about you what they wish and maybe not in the words you would wish to use. And i would never show if i did not like .. I don't wish others to know about my sex . |
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"Yeah, all well and good. I put up a veri stating I was a 'shit shag' so I'm honest so people can make an informed decision. Veris are only one facet in a decision making process anyway. "
The shit shag veri is clearly a joke though |
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"You read we did this and that and ooo loads of cum and fingers right up my bum lol. Well some just put me off no matter how good people look and yes we should meet make up our own minds, But it do make me think yuk. Some paint pics in my head with their words and not always nice. Less is more at times here I feel . Maybe that's what they hope to do put others off so they can keep to themselves. .?
Not all have such stunning pictures. Shock value may be What they have. well I read one or two today made me gag on my choc egg . lol xx "
Lol, you are beggining to sound as bad as these dodgy veris xx |
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"You read we did this and that and ooo loads of cum and fingers right up my bum lol. Well some just put me off no matter how good people look and yes we should meet make up our own minds, But it do make me think yuk. Some paint pics in my head with their words and not always nice. Less is more at times here I feel . Maybe that's what they hope to do put others off so they can keep to themselves. .?
Not all have such stunning pictures. Shock value may be What they have. well I read one or two today made me gag on my choc egg . lol xx
Lol, you are beggining to sound as bad as these dodgy veris xx"
lol yes and maybe a good thing as i saved a lot for later xxx so will start on the egg later in bed looking at the TV . |
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"You read we did this and that and ooo loads of cum and fingers right up my bum lol. Well some just put me off no matter how good people look and yes we should meet make up our own minds, But it do make me think yuk. Some paint pics in my head with their words and not always nice. Less is more at times here I feel . Maybe that's what they hope to do put others off so they can keep to themselves. .?
Not all have such stunning pictures. Shock value may be What they have. well I read one or two today made me gag on my choc egg . lol xx
Lol, you are beggining to sound as bad as these dodgy veris xx lol yes and maybe a good thing as i saved a lot for later xxx so will start on the egg later in bed looking at the TV . "
Now there is an image worth savouring! |
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"You read we did this and that and ooo loads of cum and fingers right up my bum lol. Well some just put me off no matter how good people look and yes we should meet make up our own minds, But it do make me think yuk. Some paint pics in my head with their words and not always nice. Less is more at times here I feel . Maybe that's what they hope to do put others off so they can keep to themselves. .?"
going back to the original post.......radical, I know! Yes sometimes I am put off by veris and mainly because the person is happy to publish them, says a lot about who they are. If a bloke contacts me and is happy to publish a veri from someone who extols the virtues of his "shitting on a glass coffee table" skills then I politely decline. Or maybe even that he was very efficient with mopping up the blood!! |
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Thing is, what they talk about doing I have quite probably enjoyed doing myself at some point.
Whilst it may be horny in the heat of the moment to do it, seeing it written down in the cold light of day when you are just having a nosey mooch can catch you a bit off guard.
Each to their own tho eh ? |
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I do believe that people should display what they like on their profiles and I'm sure that graphic verifications can be a turn on. However Im not keen on them myself and I would never write a very sexual verification for someone.
I can see why the OP finds them a turn off. I'm not a fan of very sexual messaging or stories etc. Id rather do it and keep the details in my head than write it. But we have to accept freedom of choice.
As to the rather derisive comments to the OP about why she felt the need to post about this, the forums are full daily of comments about cock pics, backgrounds in pics, graphic sexual pics etc, about many aspects of other peoples profiles. The OP is not alone in.complaining or commenting about them. |
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"I do believe that people should display what they like on their profiles and I'm sure that graphic verifications can be a turn on. However Im not keen on them myself and I would never write a very sexual verification for someone.
I can see why the OP finds them a turn off. I'm not a fan of very sexual messaging or stories etc. Id rather do it and keep the details in my head than write it. But we have to accept freedom of choice.
As to the rather derisive comments to the OP about why she felt the need to post about this, the forums are full daily of comments about cock pics, backgrounds in pics, graphic sexual pics etc, about many aspects of other peoples profiles. The OP is not alone in.complaining or commenting about them. "
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"I do believe that people should display what they like on their profiles and I'm sure that graphic verifications can be a turn on. However Im not keen on them myself and I would never write a very sexual verification for someone.
I can see why the OP finds them a turn off. I'm not a fan of very sexual messaging or stories etc. Id rather do it and keep the details in my head than write it. But we have to accept freedom of choice.
As to the rather derisive comments to the OP about why she felt the need to post about this, the forums are full daily of comments about cock pics, backgrounds in pics, graphic sexual pics etc, about many aspects of other peoples profiles. The OP is not alone in.complaining or commenting about them. "
The voice of reason..... |
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over a year ago
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just my 2 cents worth here
but
a) I'm not ashamed of any of the activities I've undertaken via fab
so
b) if someone takes the time to write me a veri, i display it. not all are graphic. i respect the person i just let inside my body by displaying their account of our activities.
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I do believe that people should display what they like on their profiles and I'm sure that graphic verifications can be a turn on. However Im not keen on them myself and I would never write a very sexual verification for someone.
I can see why the OP finds them a turn off. I'm not a fan of very sexual messaging or stories etc. Id rather do it and keep the details in my head than write it. But we have to accept freedom of choice.
As to the rather derisive comments to the OP about why she felt the need to post about this, the forums are full daily of comments about cock pics, backgrounds in pics, graphic sexual pics etc, about many aspects of other peoples profiles. The OP is not alone in.complaining or commenting about them. "
Who said she was? |
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"You read we did this and that and ooo loads of cum and fingers right up my bum lol. Well some just put me off no matter how good people look and yes we should meet make up our own minds, But it do make me think yuk. Some paint pics in my head with their words and not always nice. Less is more at times here I feel . Maybe that's what they hope to do put others off so they can keep to themselves. .?
I think you are failing to grasp what some people use and want verifications for. In essence many swingers like exhibitionism be it having sex on a bed in front of people or watching their partner have sex and seeing others reaction and reliving the moment later. Many people use verifications in an exhibitionist way too and why not! People like dirty talk, people like titillating clothes to go out in god knows how many like going commando under a short skirt to shock the use of a verification in a similar way is just a personal choice for people. There are couples out there who love to read back though their verifications’ in a memory jogger and why not its their choice. So should we belittle/look down/ demean or whatever you wish to call it at people who choose graphic verifications? Well personally I think not its their kink if they want graphic ones good for them I say If I don’t like I move on but certainly wouldn’t demean them as I wouldn’t about pictures people have that I don’t find appealing either. "
I quite like reading them. Especially if I know the 2 people from the forums. It feels like a little voyeuristic view in to their lives. I also enjoy graphic erotica though so maybe they go somewhat hand in hand. |
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"I do believe that people should display what they like on their profiles and I'm sure that graphic verifications can be a turn on. However Im not keen on them myself and I would never write a very sexual verification for someone.
I can see why the OP finds them a turn off. I'm not a fan of very sexual messaging or stories etc. Id rather do
it and keep the details in my head than write it. But we have to accept freedom of choice.
As to the rather derisive comments to the OP about why she felt the need to post about this, the forums are full daily of comments about cock pics, backgrounds in pics, graphic sexual pics etc, about many aspects of other peoples profiles. The OP is not alone in.complaining or commenting about them. Who said she was? "
Nobody said she was but I don't see quite the same jeering comments on other posts in quite the same way as I do on this particular OPs posts. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I do believe that people should display what they like on their profiles and I'm sure that graphic verifications can be a turn on. However Im not keen on them myself and I would never write a very sexual verification for someone.
I can see why the OP finds them a turn off. I'm not a fan of very sexual messaging or stories etc. Id rather do
it and keep the details in my head than write it. But we have to accept freedom of choice.
As to the rather derisive comments to the OP about why she felt the need to post about this, the forums are full daily of comments about cock pics, backgrounds in pics, graphic sexual pics etc, about many aspects of other peoples profiles. The OP is not alone in.complaining or commenting about them. Who said she was?
Nobody said she was but I don't see quite the same jeering comments on other posts in quite the same way as I do on this particular OPs posts. "
Well , if its jeering you want look up all the contentious threads and fill ya boots! |
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"I do believe that people should display what they like on their profiles and I'm sure that graphic verifications can be a turn on. However Im not keen on them myself and I would never write a very sexual verification for someone.
I can see why the OP finds them a turn off. I'm not a fan of very sexual messaging or stories etc. Id rather do
it and keep the details in my head than write it. But we have to accept freedom of choice.
As to the rather derisive comments to the OP about why she felt the need to post about this, the forums are full daily of comments about cock pics, backgrounds in pics, graphic sexual pics etc, about many aspects of other peoples profiles. The OP is not alone in.complaining or commenting about them. Who said she was?
Nobody said she was but I don't see quite the same jeering comments on other posts in quite the same way as I do on this particular OPs posts. "
Are you kidding? I've been one of the targets in a thread where women were being called low-life whores, classless and gross for having graphic pictures. |
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"I do believe that people should display what they like on their profiles and I'm sure that graphic verifications can be a turn on. However Im not keen on them myself and I would never write a very sexual verification for someone.
I can see why the OP finds them a turn off. I'm not a fan of very sexual messaging or stories etc. Id rather do
it and keep the details in my head than write it. But we have to accept freedom of choice.
As to the rather derisive comments to the OP about why she felt the need to post about this, the forums are full daily of comments about cock pics, backgrounds in pics, graphic sexual pics etc, about many aspects of other peoples profiles. The OP is not alone in.complaining or commenting about them. Who said she was?
Nobody said she was but I don't see quite the same jeering comments on other posts in quite the same way as I do on this particular OPs posts.
Are you kidding? I've been one of the targets in a thread where women were being called low-life whores, classless and gross for having graphic pictures."
do u have any of their profiles,numbers etc?....i wanna shag them |
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"I do believe that people should display what they like on their profiles and I'm sure that graphic verifications can be a turn on. However Im not keen on them myself and I would never write a very sexual verification for someone.
I can see why the OP finds them a turn off. I'm not a fan of very sexual messaging or stories etc. Id rather do
it and keep the details in my head than write it. But we have to accept freedom of choice.
As to the rather derisive comments to the OP about why she felt the need to post about this, the forums are full daily of comments about cock pics, backgrounds in pics, graphic sexual pics etc, about many aspects of other peoples profiles. The OP is not alone in.complaining or commenting about them. Who said she was?
Nobody said she was but I don't see quite the same jeering comments on other posts in quite the same way as I do on this particular OPs posts.
Are you kidding? I've been one of the targets in a thread where women were being called low-life whores, classless and gross for having graphic pictures.
do u have any of their profiles,numbers etc?....i wanna shag them"
You filthy monkey.  Stay away from strumpets! |
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"I do believe that people should display what they like on their profiles and I'm sure that graphic verifications can be a turn on. However Im not keen on them myself and I would never write a very sexual verification for someone.
I can see why the OP finds them a turn off. I'm not a fan of very sexual messaging or stories etc. Id rather do
it and keep the details in my head than write it. But we have to accept freedom of choice.
As to the rather derisive comments to the OP about why she felt the need to post about this, the forums are full daily of comments about cock pics, backgrounds in pics, graphic sexual pics etc, about many aspects of other peoples profiles. The OP is not alone in.complaining or commenting about them. Who said she was?
Nobody said she was but I don't see quite the same jeering comments on other posts in quite the same way as I do on this particular OPs posts.
Are you kidding? I've been one of the targets in a thread where women were being called low-life whores, classless and gross for having graphic pictures."
Oh yes I remember the delightful lady who said that. Thankfully now UNLOS |
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"I'd like to read some written by someone who can really write well. Graphic and no holds barred "
When I have my next meet I'll give it my best shot. I love to pen stark and graphic filth. |
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"I'd like to read some written by someone who can really write well. Graphic and no holds barred
When I have my next meet I'll give it my best shot. I love to pen stark and graphic filth."
Yeah do mine.. |
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"I'd like to read some written by someone who can really write well. Graphic and no holds barred
When I have my next meet I'll give it my best shot. I love to pen stark and graphic filth."
make it dampen my knickers and lust after the verified |
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"I find it interesting how once some people decide to be 'selective' with their own verifications they start to slag off other people's..... forgetting what they once had displayed."
its very much like a swinging version of maslows hierarchy of needs:
those with the pretense of feeling at the top will look down at those on the bottom...despite doing the very same things as their counterparts.
sometimes I just wanna shag common people...as I dont really have that much interest in peoples social standings.........and more often than not, those at the 'top' can either be boring as fuck(taking themselves too seriously),or rampantly filthy.
the only verifications I'm not particularly keen on is super-overprotective-chain verifications..."treat them well, or answer to me"
"aye fuck off" |
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"I do believe that people should display what they like on their profiles and I'm sure that graphic verifications can be a turn on. However Im not keen on them myself and I would never write a very sexual verification for someone.
I can see why the OP finds them a turn off. I'm not a fan of very sexual messaging or stories etc. Id rather do
it and keep the details in my head than write it. But we have to accept freedom of choice.
As to the rather derisive comments to the OP about why she felt the need to post about this, the forums are full daily of comments about cock pics, backgrounds in pics, graphic sexual pics etc, about many aspects of other peoples profiles. The OP is not alone in.complaining or commenting about them. Who said she was?
Nobody said she was but I don't see quite the same jeering comments on other posts in quite the same way as I do on this particular OPs posts.
Are you kidding? I've been one of the targets in a thread where women were being called low-life whores, classless and gross for having graphic pictures.
Oh yes I remember the delightful lady who said that. Thankfully now UNLOS "
Delightful?  Can't think who you mean |
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"I do believe that people should display what they like on their profiles and I'm sure that graphic verifications can be a turn on. However Im not keen on them myself and I would never write a very sexual verification for someone.
I can see why the OP finds them a turn off. I'm not a fan of very sexual messaging or stories etc. Id rather do
it and keep the details in my head than write it. But we have to accept freedom of choice.
As to the rather derisive comments to the OP about why she felt the need to post about this, the forums are full daily of comments about cock pics, backgrounds in pics, graphic sexual pics etc, about many aspects of other peoples profiles. The OP is not alone in.complaining or commenting about them. Who said she was?
Nobody said she was but I don't see quite the same jeering comments on other posts in quite the same way as I do on this particular OPs posts.
Are you kidding? I've been one of the targets in a thread where women were being called low-life whores, classless and gross for having graphic pictures.
do u have any of their profiles,numbers etc?....i wanna shag them
You filthy monkey. Stay away from strumpets!"
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"I find it interesting how once some people decide to be 'selective' with their own verifications they start to slag off other people's..... forgetting what they once had displayed.
its very much like a swinging version of maslows hierarchy of needs:
those with the pretense of feeling at the top will look down at those on the bottom...despite doing the very same things as their counterparts.
sometimes I just wanna shag common people...as I dont really have that much interest in peoples social standings.........and more often than not, those at the 'top' can either be boring as fuck(taking themselves too seriously),or rampantly filthy.
the only verifications I'm not particularly keen on is super-overprotective-chain verifications..."treat them well, or answer to me"
"aye fuck off""
Paddy if we ever meet will you promise that my verification will say only those last 3 words? |
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"Paddy is addicted to strumpet.....he lures them in with a yellow vest.... 
You're not kidding, I'm slowly being pulled into his orbit."
I'm playing hard to get x |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I do believe that people should display what they like on their profiles and I'm sure that graphic verifications can be a turn on. However Im not keen on them myself and I would never write a very sexual verification for someone.
I can see why the OP finds them a turn off. I'm not a fan of very sexual messaging or stories etc. Id rather do
it and keep the details in my head than write it. But we have to accept freedom of choice.
As to the rather derisive comments to the OP about why she felt the need to post about this, the forums are full daily of comments about cock pics, backgrounds in pics, graphic sexual pics etc, about many aspects of other peoples profiles. The OP is not alone in.complaining or commenting about them. Who said she was?
Nobody said she was but I don't see quite the same jeering comments on other posts in quite the same way as I do on this particular OPs posts.
Are you kidding? I've been one of the targets in a thread where women were being called low-life whores, classless and gross for having graphic pictures.
do u have any of their profiles,numbers etc?....i wanna shag them"
 Paddy you crack me up |
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"I find it interesting how once some people decide to be 'selective' with their own verifications they start to slag off other people's..... forgetting what they once had displayed.
its very much like a swinging version of maslows hierarchy of needs:
those with the pretense of feeling at the top will look down at those on the bottom...despite doing the very same things as their counterparts.
sometimes I just wanna shag common people...as I dont really have that much interest in peoples social standings.........and more often than not, those at the 'top' can either be boring as fuck(taking themselves too seriously),or rampantly filthy.
the only verifications I'm not particularly keen on is super-overprotective-chain verifications..."treat them well, or answer to me"
"aye fuck off"
Paddy if we ever meet will you promise that my verification will say only those last 3 words?"
nahh its a blow by blow account of how u blew my cock! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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Today I don't care about veris but am moaning about cock avs in my status.
Moaning in my status about cock avs, I mean, not moaning because there are cock avs in my status.
Tomorrow is another day. I may be bothered about veris tomorrow.
I think most of us go through phases of various things getting to us.
It happens.
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sometimes I just wanna shag common people...
Will it turn you on if I wipe my nose along my sleeve
Or wipe your fanny on the curtains "
Poor Travelodge housekeepers. They see so much unfortunate stuff lol. |
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"I do believe that people should display what they like on their profiles and I'm sure that graphic verifications can be a turn on. However Im not keen on them myself and I would never write a very sexual verification for someone.
I can see why the OP finds them a turn off. I'm not a fan of very sexual messaging or stories etc. Id rather do
it and keep the details in my head than write it. But we have to accept freedom of choice.
As to the rather derisive comments to the OP about why she felt the need to post about this, the forums are full daily of comments about cock pics, backgrounds in pics, graphic sexual pics etc, about many aspects of other peoples profiles. The OP is not alone in.complaining or commenting about them. Who said she was?
Nobody said she was but I don't see quite the same jeering comments on other posts in quite the same way as I do on this particular OPs posts.
Are you kidding? I've been one of the targets in a thread where women were being called low-life whores, classless and gross for having graphic pictures.
do u have any of their profiles,numbers etc?....i wanna shag them
up me crack you paddy "
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"I find it interesting how once some people decide to be 'selective' with their own verifications they start to slag off other people's..... forgetting what they once had displayed.
its very much like a swinging version of maslows hierarchy of needs:
those with the pretense of feeling at the top will look down at those on the bottom...despite doing the very same things as their counterparts.
sometimes I just wanna shag common people...as I dont really have that much interest in peoples social standings.........and more often than not, those at the 'top' can either be boring as fuck(taking themselves too seriously),or rampantly filthy.
the only verifications I'm not particularly keen on is super-overprotective-chain verifications..."treat them well, or answer to me"
"aye fuck off"
Paddy if we ever meet will you promise that my verification will say only those last 3 words?"
I'm thinking those 3 words spoken in a Scottish accent is a bit of a turn on.. 
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"I find it interesting how once some people decide to be 'selective' with their own verifications they start to slag off other people's..... forgetting what they once had displayed.
its very much like a swinging version of maslows hierarchy of needs:
those with the pretense of feeling at the top will look down at those on the bottom...despite doing the very same things as their counterparts.
sometimes I just wanna shag common people...as I dont really have that much interest in peoples social standings.........and more often than not, those at the 'top' can either be boring as fuck(taking themselves too seriously),or rampantly filthy.
the only verifications I'm not particularly keen on is super-overprotective-chain verifications..."treat them well, or answer to me"
"aye fuck off"
Paddy if we ever meet will you promise that my verification will say only those last 3 words?
I'm thinking those 3 words spoken in a Scottish accent is a bit of a turn on..
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"You read we did this and that and ooo loads of cum and fingers right up my bum lol. Well some just put me off no matter how good people look and yes we should meet make up our own minds, But it do make me think yuk. Some paint pics in my head with their words and not always nice. Less is more at times here I feel . Maybe that's what they hope to do put others off so they can keep to themselves. .?
Not all have such stunning pictures. Shock value may be What they have. well I read one or two today made me gag on my choc egg . lol xx "
Lol, if you need something other than choc egg, I found a store in Covent Garden that sells choc anus lol |
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"I find it interesting how once some people decide to be 'selective' with their own verifications they start to slag off other people's..... forgetting what they once had displayed."
I have never in all my time here on fab shown a feedback that was about cum and bum holes and fingers up me and licking out never ... Not in a million years as my sex with others is for me to know and not others . I am very selective I know but that's me. What others wish to do is up to them as we are all different here.
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"You read we did this and that and ooo loads of cum and fingers right up my bum lol. Well some just put me off no matter how good people look and yes we should meet make up our own minds, But it do make me think yuk. Some paint pics in my head with their words and not always nice. Less is more at times here I feel . Maybe that's what they hope to do put others off so they can keep to themselves. .?
Not all have such stunning pictures. Shock value may be What they have. well I read one or two today made me gag on my choc egg . lol xx
Lol, if you need something other than choc egg, I found a store in Covent Garden that sells choc anus lol"
Maybe if Hotel choc i could melt down and have on my strawberries. |
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