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married and nsa...your views please.

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

What does nsa mean to you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

means no expectations and no hassle, which doesnt lend itself to meeting people that are married as they can only do certain times, places, have to rush and so on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"means no expectations and no hassle, which doesnt lend itself to meeting people that are married as they can only do certain times, places, have to rush and so on."

Yep this!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

It means when they come to my house their with me, when they go back out again its back to normal. Both living our own lives

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you're married then surely there are strings attached because you wouldn't be able to do the things single people could......

Overnight stays, lipstick on the collar, nail marks.......the list is endless

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

I have sex and I go.

Respect has been shown, a desire to share sexual enjoyment and nothing more.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"What does nsa mean to you?"

it means no strings attached....attached being the operative word.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What does nsa mean to you?

it means no strings attached....attached being the operative word.

I always held the strings to be the most operative word within that idiom.

Have to re-evaluate everything now.

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"means no expectations and no hassle, which doesnt lend itself to meeting people that are married as they can only do certain times, places, have to rush and so on."

Thank you,as you may have read in another thread someone said being married was a string,wouldn't that be baggage rather than strings?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No matter how you want to justify or use various different descriptions some people just won't meet married men and nothing will change their minds

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"It means when they come to my house their with me, when they go back out again its back to normal. Both living our own lives

Thank you,that's what I took it to mean.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I stayed away from the other thread! But NSA means No Strings Attached.

Attached to me, means hassle....

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"What does nsa mean to you?

it means no strings attached....attached being the operative word.

I always held the strings to be the most operative word within that idiom.

Have to re-evaluate everything now.

Ooo don't re-evaluate on my account

I think everyone has strings, we have elderly parents, wider family, a job etc all of which I _iew as strings but they aren't attached to us when we meet people for these puposes however a significant life partner is in my opinion

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"means no expectations and no hassle, which doesnt lend itself to meeting people that are married as they can only do certain times, places, have to rush and so on."

But does that mean nsa or just awkward?

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"If you're married then surely there are strings attached because you wouldn't be able to do the things single people could......

Overnight stays, lipstick on the collar, nail marks.......the list is endless"
fair comment. Ty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What does nsa mean to you?

it means no strings attached....attached being the operative word.

I always held the strings to be the most operative word within that idiom.

Have to re-evaluate everything now.

Ooo don't re-evaluate on my account

Indeed because if they find out you could be in for some hassle from the other half. Really don't need that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

means no strings attached.

some people will meet married people some won't which I think is a separate issue to NSA sex

of course there are married people on here who just get on with it and don't look for approval in a public forum.

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"I have sex and I go.

Respect has been shown, a desire to share sexual enjoyment and nothing more."

Bob on. Ty

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It means that you don't have to go food shopping together and you can kick them out of bed...without them uttering the words well I actually live here...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Id say being married was a string.

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"What does nsa mean to you?

it means no strings attached....attached being the operative word.

I always held the strings to be the most operative word within that idiom.

Have to re-evaluate everything now.

"
lol very good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"means no expectations and no hassle, which doesnt lend itself to meeting people that are married as they can only do certain times, places, have to rush and so on.

Thank you,as you may have read in another thread someone said being married was a string,wouldn't that be baggage rather than strings?"

no, its not a string, its a fuckin rope!

the biggest string you could possibly imagine thats involved with this lifestyle.

yes, i read some of the other thread you started.

and the same still rings true.

honesty is everything, with everyone, not just strangers.

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"No matter how you want to justify or use various different descriptions some people just won't meet married men and nothing will change their minds"
No problem with your _iews,I'm asking a question that's all.

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"I stayed away from the other thread! But NSA means No Strings Attached.

Attached to me, means hassle....

"
Fair enough,I'm just playing devils advocate. Ty.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And then there are people who are married who meet people alone like us.

We have a no strings arrangement. It's not complicated or time constrained with us, but we're not lying to anyone.

It's getting involved in other peoples lies that makes what should be a straightforward pleasurable act potentially messy and complicated and therefore comes with strings.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"means no expectations and no hassle, which doesnt lend itself to meeting people that are married as they can only do certain times, places, have to rush and so on.

But does that mean nsa or just awkward?"

look, no matter how you want to justify it to yourself, and pretend it doesnt matter that you have a wife sat at home thinking she is married to the perfect man for her, a wife that doesnt know is a string.

a massive one

awkward is meeting a couple and one gets d*unk, or doesnt really fancy it

awkward is not being able to get a hard on

what you have isnt awkward.

you know when you ask your wife what she wants for her birthday, and she says 'oh, nothing'

do you have the balls to actually not get her anything, or do you get her something?

of course you do.

so, when she says 'oh go and get sex elsewhere' suddenly you are happy to take that literally, as long as she doesnt know you are taking it literally.

dude, if you love her like you say you do, either talk to her about whats missing, go to relate, or tell her you want to split.

you are doing neither of you any favours.

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"No matter how you want to justify or use various different descriptions some people just won't meet married men and nothing will change their minds"
I'm not trying to justify anything. Just a Question for a reply. I'm not trying to offend anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are many married men and women on here without their partners knowledge. I have no interest in playing with someone else's partner and make it clear on my profile so I appreciate people being honest from the start, some aren't. I am in no way judging them as their reasons for being on here have nothing to do with me and I don't really care as they're not bothering me. I do feel however that if you are married, it would probably be best just to go about your business on here without drawing attention to yourself but that's just my opinion.

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"What does nsa mean to you?

it means no strings attached....attached being the operative word.

I always held the strings to be the most operative word within that idiom.

Have to re-evaluate everything now.

Ooo don't re-evaluate on my account fair comment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

you are trying to justify it.

this is the 2nd thread you have started about being honest and lying, today

are you going to keep starting threads until you get the answers you want?

ok,

being married to someone else doesnt matter as long as you are getting your balls emptied.

is that better?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And then there are people who are married who meet people alone like us.

We have a no strings arrangement. It's not complicated or time constrained with us, but we're not lying to anyone.

It's getting involved in other peoples lies that makes what should be a straightforward pleasurable act potentially messy and complicated and therefore comes with strings."

I personally will not meet anyone who is on this site behind their partners back.Im presuming that this is what this particular thread is all about.When I first joined I had a message from a bloke stating the only time he could meet was 7am in the morning!Presumably whilst wifey was still in the land of nod!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"If you're married then surely there are strings attached because you wouldn't be able to do the things single people could......

Overnight stays, lipstick on the collar, nail marks.......the list is endless"
fair point.ty.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I stayed away from the other thread! But NSA means No Strings Attached.

Attached to me, means hassle....

I did too and I agree with you. NSA means no strings attached.

Had the hassle and heartache that went with the attached once. Lesson learnt the hard way.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"And then there are people who are married who meet people alone like us.

We have a no strings arrangement. It's not complicated or time constrained with us, but we're not lying to anyone.

It's getting involved in other peoples lies that makes what should be a straightforward pleasurable act potentially messy and complicated and therefore comes with strings.

Have to agree I don't meet married or attached men...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What does nsa mean to you?

it means no strings attached....attached being the operative word.

I always held the strings to be the most operative word within that idiom.

Have to re-evaluate everything now.

Ooo don't re-evaluate on my account

I'm just teasing

In the context of sex, it's clear that a very particular string is being referred to.....which as someone's pointed out can potentially become like a rope!

Another thing I also agree with is the need for openness and honesty with all concerned - the partner at home, and potential playmates.

The best sorta fun is rope free...and guilt free.

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"No matter how you want to justify or use various different descriptions some people just won't meet married men and nothing will change their minds"
Not trying to change minds,its just a question.th

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"What does nsa mean to you?

it means no strings attached....attached being the operative word.

I always held the strings to be the most operative word within that idiom.

Have to re-evaluate everything now.

Ooo don't re-evaluate on my account fair comment thank you

Indeed because if they find out you could be in for some hassle from the other half. Really don't need that."

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"means no strings attached.

some people will meet married people some won't which I think is a separate issue to NSA sex

of course there are married people on here who just get on with it and don't look for approval in a public forum.

"
not looking for approval for anything,just looking for people's own interpretations. Ty.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nsa

No strings attached,

I usually take the word discreet as he/she can't find out

Not in all cases i know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"means no expectations and no hassle, which doesnt lend itself to meeting people that are married as they can only do certain times, places, have to rush and so on."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just can't meet a married guy as each time one contacts me I say " fine!!! as long as I can chat to your wife about the best way to please you and we fuck in your marital bed and you don't mind me gushing all over it too" they don't contact me again for some reason

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"It means that you don't have to go food shopping together and you can kick them out of bed...without them uttering the words well I actually live here...

"
lol ty

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"means no expectations and no hassle, which doesnt lend itself to meeting people that are married as they can only do certain times, places, have to rush and so on.

Thank you,as you may have read in another thread someone said being married was a string,wouldn't that be baggage rather than strings?

no, its not a string, its a fuckin rope!

the biggest string you could possibly imagin. Wow I'm not trying to wind you up. If you don't like my question don't follow the thread.e thats involved with this lifestyle.

yes, i read some of the other thread you started.

and the same still rings true.

honesty is everything, with everyone, not just strangers."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP, why do you keep quoting things that have already been said but don't comment yourself on them?

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"And then there are people who are married who meet people alone like us.

We have a no strings arrangement. It's not complicated or time constrained with us, but we're not lying to anyone.

It's getting involved in other peoples lies that makes what should be a straightforward pleasurable act potentially messy and complicated and therefore comstrings."
point well made.th

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"OP, why do you keep quoting things that have already been said but don't comment yourself on them?"

He is commenting but in the middle so it looks like part of the quote.

It's difficult to work out but it's mostly possible.

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"There are many married men and women on here without their partners knowledge. I have no interest in playing with someone else's partner and make it clear on my profile so I appreciate people being honest from the start, some aren't. I am in no way judging them as their reasons for being on here hawould probably be best just to go about your business on here without drawing attention to yourself but that's just my opinion. "
thank you,but I'm just asking a question. I'm not trying to antagonize,but some people are following. No idea why,if they don't like my question don't follow. Ty for your reply tho.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"means no strings attached.

some people will meet married people some won't which I think is a separate issue to NSA sex

of course there are married people on here who just get on with it and don't look for approval in a public forum.

not looking for approval for anything,just looking for people's own interpretations. Ty."

Okay maybe approval isn't the correct word but I would thought you would have gathered from your last thread what people's _iews are.

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"you are trying to justify it.

this is the 2nd thread you have started about being honest and lying, today

are you going to keep starting threads until you get the answers you want?

ok,

being married to someone else doesnt matter as long as you are getting your balls emptied.

is that better?"
Why are you following if you don't like the question? If I were a wind up merchant is be on a winner with you. Please dont follow.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you're married then surely there are strings attached because you wouldn't be able to do the things single people could......

Overnight stays, lipstick on the collar, nail marks.......the list is endless"

I think it's only fair to point out that not only married me play on FAB but also married women.

The single women that I have plated with liked that fact that I'm married as they though that I'd be less likely to get at attached to them and therefore less strings, less hassle.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"There are many married men and women on here without their partners knowledge. I have no interest in playing with someone else's partner and make it clear on my profile so I appreciate people being honest from the start, some aren't. I am in no way judging them as their reasons for being on here hawould probably be best just to go about your business on here without drawing attention to yourself but that's just my opinion. thank you,but I'm just asking a question. I'm not trying to antagonize,but some people are following. No idea why,if they don't like my question don't follow. Ty for your reply tho."

The forum doesn't work like that. You can't say if you don't agree then don't read the thread. People can discuss and disagree.

The forum would be a really boring place if only people who agreed with a thread read it and posted on it.

When you start a thread you have to expect discussion and some dissenting opinions.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP, why do you keep quoting things that have already been said but don't comment yourself on them?

He is commenting but in the middle so it looks like part of the quote.

It's difficult to work out but it's mostly possible."

Oh right, thanks, I'll go and get my glasses lol

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"Nsa

No strings attached,

I usually take the word discreet as he/she can't find out

Not in all cases i know

"
ty

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"I stayed away from the other thread! But NSA means No Strings Attached.

Attached to me, means hassle....

I did too and I agree with you. NSA means no strings attached. Sorry to hear that. Ty

Had the hassle and heartache that went with the attached once. Lesson learnt the hard way."

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"you are trying to justify it.

this is the 2nd thread you have started about being honest and lying, today

are you going to keep starting threads until you get the answers you want?

ok,

being married to someone else doesnt matter as long as you are getting your balls emptied.

is that better?Why are you following if you don't like the question? If I were a wind up merchant is be on a winner with you. Please dont follow. "

He's discussing it. You comment, he replies. That's the point of the forum. You can't post a thread and dictate who can read it and reply!

His points are as valid as anyone else's.

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"If you're married then surely there are strings attached because you wouldn't be able to do the things single people could......

The single women that I have plated with liked that fact that I'm married as they though that I'd be less likely to get at attached to them and therefore less strings, less hassle."
That's what I thought. Th

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I stayed away from the other thread! But NSA means No Strings Attached.

Attached to me, means hassle....

I did too and I agree with you. NSA means no strings attached. Sorry to hear that. Ty

Had the hassle and heartache that went with the attached once. Lesson learnt the hard way."

You need to put your comment at the end, after the close quote tag.

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"you are trying to justify it.

this is the 2nd thread you have started about being honest and lying, today

are you going to keep starting threads until you get the answers you want?

ok,

being married to someone else doesnt matter as long as you are getting your balls emptied.

is that better?"
Why follow if you don't like it? Please go to another thread and enjoy.Ty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you're married then surely there are strings attached because you wouldn't be able to do the things single people could......

The single women that I have plated with liked that fact that I'm married as they though that I'd be less likely to get at attached to them and therefore less strings, less hassle.That's what I thought. Th"

I'd say that was worse as you cannot control your feelings for someone and it would then cause more problems being married if both or one of the people concerned became more attached. I've dated 2 guys who were friends with benefits over the years so you never know what might develop, especially if you see someone regularly. If its a one off then not an issue I guess.

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"OP, why do you keep quoting things that have already been said but don't comment yourself on them?"
???

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Mutual respect and thats it! No strings should also include No elastic too! Opps no! Sorry me draws will fall down!

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"OP, why do you keep quoting things that have already been said but don't comment yourself on them?

He is commenting but in the middle so it looks like part of the quote.

It's difficult to work out but it's mostly possible."
sorry if its not coming through properly,must be my phone.

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

" Mutual respect and thats it! No strings should also include No elastic too! Opps no! Sorry me draws will fall down!

"
lol

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"you are trying to justify it.

this is the 2nd thread you have started about being honest and lying, today

are you going to keep starting threads until you get the answers you want?

ok,

being married to someone else doesnt matter as long as you are getting your balls emptied.

is that better?Why follow if you don't like it? Please go to another thread and enjoy.Ty"

Why post the thread if you don't want honest answers? Please post threads you're happy to discuss, even if people don't agree with you, and enjoy. Ty.

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

Had the hassle and heartache that went with the attached once. Lesson learnt the hard way.

You need to put your comment at the end, after the close quote tag.[/tyquote]That's what I'm doing. Ty anyway.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"OP, why do you keep quoting things that have already been said but don't comment yourself on them?

He is commenting but in the middle so it looks like part of the quote.

It's difficult to work out but it's mostly possible.sorry if its not coming through properly,must be my phone."

No, it's because you are writing some of your comments before the end of the text you are quoting.

You have to put it after the close quote tag at the end of the quote.

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"means no strings attached.looking for people's own interpretations. Ty.

Okay maybe approval isn't the correct word but I would thought you would have gathered from your last thread what people's _iews are.

"
please believee, just asking a question and watching the _iews they aren't all the same.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Had the hassle and heartache that went with the attached once. Lesson learnt the hard way.

You need to put your comment at the end, after the close quote tag.[/tyquote]That's what I'm doing. Ty anyway."

Not always you aren't. Otherwise your comments wouldn't appear in the middle of the quoted text like some of them are.

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"OP, why do you keep quoting things that have al

No, it's because you are writing some of your comments before the end of the text you are quoting.

You have to put it after the close quote tag at the end of the quote."
obviously not tech minded. Sorry.

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"There are many married men and women on here without their partners knowledge. I have no interest in playing with someone else's partner and make it clear on my profile so I appreciate people being honest from the start, some aren't. I am in no way judging them as their reasons for being on here hawould probably be best just to go about your business on here without drawing attention to yourself but that's just my opinion. thank you,but I'm just asking a question. I'm not trying to antagonize,but some people are following. No idea why,if they don't like my question don't follow. Ty for your reply tho.

The forum doesn't work like that. You can't say if you don't agree then don't read the thread. People can discuss and disagree.

The forum would be a really boring place if only people who agreed with a thread read it and posted on it.

When you start a thread you have to expect discussion and some dissenting opinions."

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Why follow if you don't like it? Please go to another thread and enjoy.Ty"

If you post in the forums anyone can comment. Im afraid you cant pick and choose who answers.

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

opinion. thank you,but I'm just asking a qu

The forum would be a really boring place if only people who agreed with a thread read it and posted on it.

When you start a thread you have to expect discussion and some dissenting opinions.[/tyquote]fair enough,but some people have been offensive for no reason. No need its just a question. I know what you mean.th.

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

Had the hassle and heartache that went with the attached once. Lesson learnt the hard way.

You need to put your comment at the end, after the close quote tag.[/tyquote]That's what I'm doing. Ty anyway.

I'm trying.

Not always you aren't. Otherwise your comments wouldn't appear in the middle of the quoted text like some of them are."

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

NSA... For me no strings... No promises, no attachments, no commitment.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"opinion. thank you,but I'm just asking a qu

The forum would be a really boring place if only people who agreed with a thread read it and posted on it.

Nobody has been offensive. You're getting defensive because you don't like the answers. There's a difference.

I'm a bit confused why you started this thread tbh, the general consensus was pretty clear from the last one.

Meeting married people is a hassle and has a risk of repercussions was a majority _iew. The same theme is prevalent here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My head Hurts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"means no strings attached.looking for people's own interpretations. Ty.

Okay maybe approval isn't the correct word but I would thought you would have gathered from your last thread what people's _iews are.

please believee, just asking a question and watching the _iews they aren't all the same."

Okay what does Married / NSA mean to you?

You've put married & NSA in the same question....so are you thinking because this site could be perceived as NSA sex it shouldn't matter if people are married or not?

I'm just trying to understand what you are actually asking _iews about?

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"NSA... For me no strings... No promises, no attachments, no commitment. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hubby and I both have single profiles on here. No secrets and no problems. We're both very happy with the way things are, and have agreed that if either of us wants to give up this lifestyle we both will. We've been together for 25 years and just want a bit of 'extra spice' in our lives.

I do tend to feel a bit sorry for hubby when women say they wont meet married men, even though I'm happy with it. Most men it seems, do not generally tend to have the same mindset about meeting married women lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My head Hurts

lol, you're not the only one!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP there are certain topics that will always get you a rough ride and this is one of them. Moaning at people for posting when they don't agree with you will only make a thread deteriorate further.

Back on topic if you are going to justify your cheating and seek validation you are probably on the wrong site

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I have sex and I go.

Respect has been shown, a desire to share sexual enjoyment and nothing more."

I've only just realised this avatar is a face, haha, I thought I was looking at limbs.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

its possible to have nsa fun with someone who is married, so long as their partner knows. i have a playmate who is married andI've spoken to his wife myself a couple of ttimes and know she's ok with the arrangement. being married doesn't have to be a string. it's married and hiding from the wife that causes the hassle and strings.

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

"OP there are certain topics that will always get you a rough ride and this is one of them. Moaning at people for posting when they don't agree with you will only make a thread deteriorate further.

Back on topic if you are going to justify your cheating and seek validation you are probably on the wrong site"
Aaah I can't defend myself? And I'm still a cheat? So glad you're not a jury member.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"its possible to have nsa fun with someone who is married, so long as their partner knows. i have a playmate who is married andI've spoken to his wife myself a couple of ttimes and know she's ok with the arrangement. being married doesn't have to be a string. it's married and hiding from the wife that causes the hassle and strings. "

Quite right. Mr D meets the guys I meet (and has helped one fix his boiler, not a euphemism lol) and I check-out the profiles of the ladies Mr D meets but if they want to speak to me to verify I'm happy with the arrangement that is fine.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I joined fab as a married woman playing away. It's not right but sex is non existent in my marriage and I have tried last year but it was not good. Men hsve met me knowing I'm married, its in my profile. I can have meets lasting a fair amount of time hours wise, but like most people has to be planned but can sometimes post a random spontaneous request

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP there are certain topics that will always get you a rough ride and this is one of them. Moaning at people for posting when they don't agree with you will only make a thread deteriorate further.

Back on topic if you are going to justify your cheating and seek validation you are probably on the wrong siteAaah I can't defend myself? And I'm still a cheat? So glad you're not a jury member."

What?

Asking people who disagree with you not to post is not defending yourself. In fact to use your analogy it's on a par with not allowing the prosecution the opportunity to cross examine tge defendant!

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

Why do some people think I'm looking for permission to cheat or justify any possible cheating? Its a question. Nothing more.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Why do some people think I'm looking for permission to cheat or justify any possible cheating? Its a question. Nothing more.

Probably based on the hole you dug for yourself on the last thread, and the fact you're on this site. Asking basically the same question over and over will probably still get more or less the same answers.

What did you honestly expect?

Numerous people on the last thread told you they don't meet married people because it's a hassle and there is a risk of trouble if the spouse finds out. How many times do you need to hear it?

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By *harlie906590 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

e not a jury member.

What?

Asking people who disagree with you not to post is not defending yourself. In fact to use your analogy it's on a par with not allowing the prosecution the opportunity to cross examine tge defendant! You accused me of cheating. You don't know me or my circumstances,wrong assumption.

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ok we've had 2 threads-worth and its just going round in circles so Im closing it now sorry

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