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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am a sexually confident women. I know my abilities and I know what I want but i have found that this can scare men or they think I'm some sort of sexual predator why is this ?
I'm obviously not talking about the ones on here I mean in the real world.
Miss giggles.
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By *RS79Man
over a year ago
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"I am a sexually confident women. I know my abilities and I know what I want but i have found that this can scare men or they think I'm some sort of sexual predator why is this ?
I'm obviously not talking about the ones on here I mean in the real world.
Miss giggles.
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Bring it on i say! The more confident the better! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I don't mind if a girl isn't sexually confident, in fact I find a little shyness can be quite appealing in the bedroom (so long as it doesn't actually prevent us from having sex of course), as my usual approach to sex is simply 'lie back, relax and let me lead', and most girls respond very well to this - great sex should be a dance, not a tug of war. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i dont know, but when i first started seeing other men i used to meet them at the pub i would put my arm around them and be affectionate, my husband said men dont like it and it could put them off so i am the exact opposite now and i always wait for them to make the first move. this was when i was on a dating site.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am a sexually confident women. I know my abilities and I know what I want but i have found that this can scare men or they think I'm some sort of sexual predator why is this ?
I'm obviously not talking about the ones on here I mean in the real world.
Miss giggles.
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Some will some won't I am no shrinking violet but don't have this problem with men. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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Confidence is great unless it becomes over confidence. It's not always easy to tell when one starts to become the other. I think it's better if you are a naturally empathetic person and can pick up on where the other person stands.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am a sexually confident women. I know my abilities and I know what I want but i have found that this can scare men or they think I'm some sort of sexual predator why is this ?
I'm obviously not talking about the ones on here I mean in the real world.
Miss giggles.
Some will some won't I am no shrinking violet but don't have this problem with men. "
It's not a problem cos if they can't handle me out side of the bedroom they certainly won't inside lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Confident with men, just exploring women and so not so confident - yet!
I love to know what makes the person I'm with tick, but quite often, I find they're shy of saying what they want or expect me to work it out. Honestly - tell me and let's have a good time!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm quite confident. i know my likes, my dislikes, my fantasies and the things i want to ttry. i communicate that up front. if they aren't floating my boat i will tell them what to do. I've so far been called demanding, but never intimidating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I don't mind if a girl isn't sexually confident, in fact I find a little shyness can be quite appealing in the bedroom (so long as it doesn't actually prevent us from having sex of course), as my usual approach to sex is simply 'lie back, relax and let me lead', and most girls respond very well to this - great sex should be a dance, not a tug of war."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There are certain situations that I'm not confident in of course we all have a little hang ups and it's clubs for me.
You just would of thought that a women that is into her sex and openly admits it would get men going not shy away lol. |
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As long as you meet compatible men, there isnt a problem. If you want a guy who is more into traditional roles, and expects to be the one with more sexual confidence, then it may not be quite as easy. I dont believe in compromising your own self though, so better to find the right guy who is flexible and not intimidated by someone like yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm quite a shy person, I feel a lot more comfortable in clubs than I do when we have private meets, that being said tho it doesn't take me long to get over the nerves and become more confident
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it very much depends who im with. If im really comfortable then sexually im very confident. If im less so or perhaps thinking someone is out my league then im more inclined to follow their lead.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me it very much depends who im with. If im really comfortable then sexually im very confident. If im less so or perhaps thinking someone is out my league then im more inclined to follow their lead.
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Me too. |
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