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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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their choice 
not for me to say it is right or wrong but if they are to do it
be upfront about it to allow others an informed choice.
and just fucking get on with it quietly.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both see other people. Only difference from same room is Mr D doesn't get to see it live. He does usually get photo evidence though....
Not really concerned whether it's considered wrong, it's not illegal, we're consenting adults and it makes us both very happy. |
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"[Removed by poster at 20/04/14 11:52:50]"
im not married.personally,i wouldn't do it.i think that there would be something wrong with the relationship.just my opinion.i just dont like the idea,thats all...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"is it acceptable to swing behind a partners back or even if they know about it?."
Isn't swinging behind a partners back just cheating?
And if they know about it is that not just swinging and the point of this site?  |
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"[Removed by poster at 20/04/14 11:52:50]im not married.personally,i wouldn't do it.i think that there would be something wrong with the relationship.just my opinion.i just dont like the idea,thats all..."
Are you saying that people who are married shouldn't swing or that they shouldn't meet people seperately even with each others knowledge?
There are a lot of people who don't understand how people in a relationship can swing and they usually think there must be some sort of problem. To be honest I don't really care what they think because I know it isn't the case and we are secure enough not to need to justify ourselves to anyone else
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"is it acceptable to swing behind a partners back or even if they know about it?.
Isn't swinging behind a partners back just cheating?
And if they know about it is that not just swinging and the point of this site? "
i would say yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 20/04/14 11:52:50]im not married.personally,i wouldn't do it.i think that there would be something wrong with the relationship.just my opinion.i just dont like the idea,thats all...
Are you saying that people who are married shouldn't swing or that they shouldn't meet people seperately even with each others knowledge?
There are a lot of people who don't understand how people in a relationship can swing and they usually think there must be some sort of problem. To be honest I don't really care what they think because I know it isn't the case and we are secure enough not to need to justify ourselves to anyone else
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Darn
Got to agree with that |
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"[Removed by poster at 20/04/14 11:52:50]im not married.personally,i wouldn't do it.i think that there would be something wrong with the relationship.just my opinion.i just dont like the idea,thats all...
Are you saying that people who are married shouldn't swing or that they shouldn't meet people seperately even with each others knowledge?bot what if you did it without the others knowledge..
There are a lot of people who don't understand how people in a relationship can swing and they usually think there must be some sort of problem. To be honest I don't really care what they think because I know it isn't the case and we are secure enough not to need to justify ourselves to anyone else
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"is it acceptable to swing behind a partners back or even if they know about it?.
Isn't swinging behind a partners back just cheating?
And if they know about it is that not just swinging and the point of this site? i would say yes"
So what are you asking in your original post? |
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"[Removed by poster at 20/04/14 11:52:50]im not married.personally,i wouldn't do it.i think that there would be something wrong with the relationship.just my opinion.i just dont like the idea,thats all...
Are you saying that people who are married shouldn't swing or that they shouldn't meet people seperately even with each others knowledge?
There are a lot of people who don't understand how people in a relationship can swing and they usually think there must be some sort of problem. To be honest I don't really care what they think because I know it isn't the case and we are secure enough not to need to justify ourselves to anyone else
Darn
Got to agree with that "
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"[Removed by poster at 20/04/14 11:52:50]im not married.personally,i wouldn't do it.i think that there would be something wrong with the relationship.just my opinion.i just dont like the idea,thats all...
Are you saying that people who are married shouldn't swing or that they shouldn't meet people seperately even with each others knowledge?
There are a lot of people who don't understand how people in a relationship can swing and they usually think there must be some sort of problem. To be honest I don't really care what they think because I know it isn't the case and we are secure enough not to need to justify ourselves to anyone else
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would you do it without the partners knowledge though... |
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Acceptable to who? Only the people in a relationship know what has been communicated and agreed, and thus what is accepted between them. All of our relationships are different, but the general consensus imo amongst swingers is that deception is not acceptable. I may be wrong as I cant know or speak for everyone. |
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"[Removed by poster at 20/04/14 11:52:50]im not married.personally,i wouldn't do it.i think that there would be something wrong with the relationship.just my opinion.i just dont like the idea,thats all...
Are you saying that people who are married shouldn't swing or that they shouldn't meet people seperately even with each others knowledge?
There are a lot of people who don't understand how people in a relationship can swing and they usually think there must be some sort of problem. To be honest I don't really care what they think because I know it isn't the case and we are secure enough not to need to justify ourselves to anyone else
would you do it without the partners knowledge though..."
Good Lord no! This whole thing is based on trust and honesty for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If your porking someone else without your partners knowledge or consent its not swinging its a bit on the side or playing away, Doesnt matter if its a swinging site or swinging club its still just doing the dirty on the other half.
But as been said before each to their own.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"[Removed by poster at 20/04/14 11:52:50]im not married.personally,i wouldn't do it.i think that there would be something wrong with the relationship.just my opinion.i just dont like the idea,thats all...
Are you saying that people who are married shouldn't swing or that they shouldn't meet people seperately even with each others knowledge?
There are a lot of people who don't understand how people in a relationship can swing and they usually think there must be some sort of problem. To be honest I don't really care what they think because I know it isn't the case and we are secure enough not to need to justify ourselves to anyone else
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Totally agree with this, there doesn't have to be aproblem within the marriage. It's great to know you have a strong relationship and no issues and can meet alone or together and that there is no jealousy issues, and that it spices up your life. xx |
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"[Removed by poster at 20/04/14 11:52:50]im not married.personally,i wouldn't do it.i think that there would be something wrong with the relationship.just my opinion.i just dont like the idea,thats all...
Are you saying that people who are married shouldn't swing or that they shouldn't meet people seperately even with each others knowledge?
There are a lot of people who don't understand how people in a relationship can swing and they usually think there must be some sort of problem. To be honest I don't really care what they think because I know it isn't the case and we are secure enough not to need to justify ourselves to anyone else
would you do it without the partners knowledge though...
Good Lord no! This whole thing is based on trust and honesty for us."
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"is it acceptable to swing behind a partners back or even if they know about it?."
two seperate things....
if they know about it then it is not behind their back..... you are not hiding anything....
so if they know about it... sure!
if they don't.... no! |
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"is it acceptable to swing behind a partners back or even if they know about it?.
two seperate things....
if they know about it then it is not behind their back..... you are not hiding anything....
so if they know about it... sure!
if they don't.... no!"
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