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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i only verify people that i really do like...wouldnt just leave one to be polite...sooooooo.....if the person i leave one for chooses not to display on his profile....what does that mean??? and we have met since i left it so assume he wasnt horrified the first time!!! 
just wondered what you lot think his reasons for not showing it might be? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i only verify people that i really do like...wouldnt just leave one to be polite...sooooooo.....if the person i leave one for chooses not to display on his profile....what does that mean??? and we have met since i left it so assume he wasnt horrified the first time!!!
just wondered what you lot think his reasons for not showing it might be?"
I really like someone who left a verification for me, really good mates with another, in fact he recommended this place to me. Thing is, I don't like everyone to know who I shagged, when and how great I am! lol So, so long as I have the tick, privacy remains, we're all happy as I can privately read those verifications, remember the afternoon/evening and smile!
I gave verfications in response, happy to do so, then I got a mail from this guy who said he knew who I'd met when, was glad I'd had a good time, so I then also hid my friends list!
Privacy/discretion is important, not that I'm married asI'm not, but have grown kids who know their way around the net, hence no pics here - it can always not be me cos they can't see me and have no details!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i knew someone would point that out!!! didnt want to come across as 'needy'!!! lmao!  "
He obviously likes you as you've met up again since
I would'nt worry about it,im happy not to have mine on peoples profiles as I dont show mine 
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By (user no longer on site)
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i know ppl that just leave one veri showing just to show they real people and dont show the rest, its nothing against you its just the way some ppl like to keep veris private |
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"i knew someone would point that out!!! didnt want to come across as 'needy'!!! lmao!
He obviously likes you as you've met up again since
I would'nt worry about it,im happy not to have mine on peoples profiles as I dont show mine
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its the control freak part of my nature coming out......im so fussy about who i verify i felt sort of insulted he didnt display it when hes lucky i gave him one!! whoops! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i know ppl that just leave one veri showing just to show they real people and dont show the rest, its nothing against you its just the way some ppl like to keep veris private "
Yes, but which one of the ones that say I gave the best blow ever should I show? I chose none! lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i knew someone would point that out!!! didnt want to come across as 'needy'!!! lmao!
He obviously likes you as you've met up again since
I would'nt worry about it,im happy not to have mine on peoples profiles as I dont show mine
its the control freak part of my nature coming out......im so fussy about who i verify i felt sort of insulted he didnt display it when hes lucky i gave him one!! whoops! lol "
In that case send him a message saying "OI! whats wrong with showing my veri you ba*****d!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have always displayed verifications from anyone I have met cos of the ear ole bashing I know I would get from any femme I hadnt...  "
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Including the ones you have been asked not to display??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a small group of friends I play with on a regular basis and we haven't verified each other.
We know we're real, we meet up and have lots of fun, no one needs to know.
I have a couple of men I meet once a month for coffee, I like them but they don't meet my play criteria: short, bi etc. The verifications wouldn't be of a sexual nature, but again I don't see the need and neither do they.
My own personal preference: I don't feel the need to document everyone I meet of this site. What someone else thinks about someone I may play with is of little consequence to me!
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I dont show my list of friends or my verifications cos I have been "stalked" my another fem on another site. Everyone I met with she pestered to meet. Some of the guys were not interested in her and she got very demanding and nasty, insisting that she hadto "have" them cos I had! Most unsavoury. I just keep my private life private now, just cos I swing doesnt mean everyone has a right to know. I do send veris to guys that want one, it does not seem to be so fraught! lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i only verify people that i really do like...wouldnt just leave one to be polite...sooooooo.....if the person i leave one for chooses not to display on his profile....what does that mean??? and we have met since i left it so assume he wasnt horrified the first time!!!
just wondered what you lot think his reasons for not showing it might be?"
He may like you a lot and not want to promote your profile if ya get me drift
(ie) ya a special meet to him and he may wanna keep other males at bay
Just a thought xxx |
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I keep mine hidden as I prefer not to "notch the bedpost" and I can understand some ppl who "wish to remain annon" too. But mainly I dont want any prospective contacts perusing my list and thinking they're "not my type" just on the basis of who is listed there, I'd rather they sent a message and made contact so we can then decide if we meet. As I judge people on their own merits and dont have a particular type. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont show mine cause im a man apparently......
but i dont because its no ones business but i will show them to prove i am who i say i am xx"
Im a man too apparently........I bet I have a bigger cock than those that reckon I am one though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i dont show mine cause im a man apparently......
but i dont because its no ones business but i will show them to prove i am who i say i am xx
Im a man too apparently........I bet I have a bigger cock than those that reckon I am one though "
me too lol!! balls can be in strange places!! xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i dont show mine cause im a man apparently......
but i dont because its no ones business but i will show them to prove i am who i say i am xx
Im a man too apparently........I bet I have a bigger cock than those that reckon I am one though
me too lol!! balls can be in strange places!! xx "
The best place for them is resting on your chin
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