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over a year ago
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sometimes its best to block them because they can be a bit cheeky especialy if you have said no thanks already. if they are pushy online they will probably be pushy when you meet them. |
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over a year ago
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okay I'm going to take a guess as to why they might not take the hint...
certain pictures, profile text & status updates encourages men to message more, we know that that's why we use them to our advantage at times.
i would suggest you block the person after you've replied or delete the message & block.
this will stop repeat messages. |
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If you don't reply the first time it may just be that you've had so many messages that you haven't had time to read them.
If I send a message and it stays unread and undeleted then eventually disappears I sometimes send another a month or so later for that reason.
(Yes, I know they may have not looked at the message and gone straight to my profile)
Best just to delete them. And if you have time send a "no thanks". Block if necessary. |
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By *etwife OP Woman
over a year ago
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Im not moaning about single guys im moaning about the same guy constanly messaging you the same message over and over again surely after the first second even third time of no reply that im not interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do some women whinge so much when they can block,filter or indeed say no thank you?
Is it because we're all meant to say awww poor you it must be terrible being a woman on here I don't know how you cope?
I don't find it terrible,I just use the filters when I don't want messages  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not moaning about single guys im moaning about the same guy constanly messaging you the same message over and over again surely after the first second even third time of no reply that im not interested"
Not necessarily, some people do need to be told. If you block him it's not being rude just another way of filtering out the people you do/do not wish to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Iv stopped sending thanks but no thanks type msgs, always did to start with, to b polite, but too many who wouldn't accept no, or then decided to b rude, that I now just block. Do have a guy who despite blocking, I still get friends requests?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some women whinge so much when they can block,filter or indeed say no thank you?
Is it because we're all meant to say awww poor you it must be terrible being a woman on here I don't know how you cope?
I don't find it terrible,I just use the filters when I don't want messages "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had to block a guy after 2 rude messages. We had only looked at his profile and not even message him!
Anyway, just block and forget. They're not worth worrying about. There's plenty of nice decent respectful guys on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some women whinge so much when they can block,filter or indeed say no thank you?
Is it because we're all meant to say awww poor you it must be terrible being a woman on here I don't know how you cope?
I don't find it terrible,I just use the filters when I don't want messages "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some guys feel the need to hound you. Surely if you don't reply the first time get the hint. And who meets without seeing pic of person Rant Over."
Stop being so picky,...
And give it a shave |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some guys feel the need to hound you. Surely if you don't reply the first time get the hint. And who meets without seeing pic of person Rant Over.
Stop being so picky,...
And give it a shave "
No need for that mate. No need at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do some guys feel the need to hound you. Surely if you don't reply the first time get the hint. And who meets without seeing pic of person Rant Over.
Stop being so picky,...
And give it a shave
No need for that mate. No need at all."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some guys feel the need to hound you. Surely if you don't reply the first time get the hint. And who meets without seeing pic of person Rant Over."
I get the no thanks and leave it at that some guys must be a bit touchy |
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It's not just single men, couples and single women do exactly the same...there are just more men on here so probably seems like you're getting more off men...some people won't stop trying if they want something, use the filters to your advantage, that's what they're there for! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"It's not just single men, couples and single women do exactly the same...there are just more men on here so probably seems like you're getting more off men...some people won't stop trying if they want something, use the filters to your advantage, that's what they're there for! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do some women whinge so much when they can block,filter or indeed say no thank you?
Is it because we're all meant to say awww poor you it must be terrible being a woman on here I don't know how you cope?
I don't find it terrible,I just use the filters when I don't want messages "
it's not rocket science is it really. |
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