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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I choose not to share my lifestyle with anyone except a few close friends...if anyone at work or family found out what I do, I think I be mortified. What about you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm going pubbing and clubbing with my best mate and his partner a week on Saturday. Their first time for meeting Tina  "
Do they know about Tina or are you surprising them ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I choose not to share my lifestyle with anyone except a few close friends...if anyone at work or family found out what I do, I think I be mortified. What about you?"
my close friends know and my mum knows she just says be careful  |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
"I'm going pubbing and clubbing with my best mate and his partner a week on Saturday. Their first time for meeting Tina
Do they know about Tina or are you surprising them ?"
They know and have seen pics and are pretty interested in it all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm going pubbing and clubbing with my best mate and his partner a week on Saturday. Their first time for meeting Tina
Do they know about Tina or are you surprising them ?
They know and have seen pics and are pretty interested in it all. "
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
"I'm going pubbing and clubbing with my best mate and his partner a week on Saturday. Their first time for meeting Tina
Do they know about Tina or are you surprising them ?
They know and have seen pics and are pretty interested in it all.
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It's a bit nervy on one level, as I've known my best mate for 25 years and I'm a tad concerned that all he'll be able to see is the drab stuff under all the glam  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Private. Fuck the family, got nothing to do with them (unless our paths cross here)...............
Dad?? What you doing here??
Mum's monthly Bukakke session. You been yet?  |
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"I'm going pubbing and clubbing with my best mate and his partner a week on Saturday. Their first time for meeting Tina
Do they know about Tina or are you surprising them ?
They know and have seen pics and are pretty interested in it all.
I hope it goes really well for you xxx
It's a bit nervy on one level, as I've known my best mate for 25 years and I'm a tad concerned that all he'll be able to see is the drab stuff under all the glam "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine don't talk to me now"
i had friends 'lose contact' when i admitted to liking the cock
i had friends 'lose contact' when i introuduced them to a guy
i had friends 'lose contact' when i started seeing someone 23/24 years younger
I think those that have stuck round are my true friends
either that or they are just waiting to see what i'll do next  |
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My mum knows I have men friends, my sons know I have men friends and because its all nsa never the twain shall meet, friends at work know I have men friends and a few know I am on here and have even been on themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't share this part of my life with anyone. They'd probably disown me. This is my secret private life and that's the way I want it to stay.
An ex started a profile on here giving my real name and naming village I live in. I was UNLOS before you could bat an eyelid! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My brother knows ( he was the babysitter) he says I've got no morals and me and my partner don't love and respect each other but hey ho he's entitled to his opinion we just got a different babysitter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My workmates would take the piss. I could take that but it's a proper gossip shop and they would tell anyone and everyone. Which is why my face pics are for the chosen few |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My closest friends know, several are on here! My siblings and mother don't, tho not an easily shocked bunch, so wouldn't be much of an issue, but live in a small town, and would rather not be gossip fodder, face pic is private, and iv blocked guys who live in town. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I choose not to share my lifestyle with anyone except a few close friends...if anyone at work or family found out what I do, I think I be mortified. What about you?"
Some know some don't its not a big secret but also we don't shout about it from the roof tops. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I choose not to share my lifestyle with anyone except a few close friends...if anyone at work or family found out what I do, I think I be mortified. What about you?
Some know some don't its not a big secret but also we don't shout about it from the roof tops. "
You can use our roof if you change your mind |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
Most of my mates know...my parents think I do online dating although my cousin did tell me at the weekend that my Dad knows that the local guy I've been out with a few times is a TV...I also bumped into my Dad and Stepmam at my local earlier this week when I was with a meet so they got introduced - lucky I knew his name and that his profile name wasn't something like SpunkyThickCock - that might have been a bit embarrassing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are very lucky because our best mates are also into this lifestyle so we can talk openly with them. We wouldn't want other friends and family finding out though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few of my friends would disown me lol. My family wouldn't understand. Sex is a taboo subject in most cases but to raise this site would be 10 times worse. |
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People expect generally that I am far, far more extreme than reality, or just that Im a sweet girl - two extremes really. I dont give most the details, except for close friends, though one insists I am a slut, despite her swinging with her ex husband. People generally dont need much detail imo. Im a good time girl, nothing wrong with that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My brother knows ( he was the babysitter) he says I've got no morals and me and my partner don't love and respect each other but hey ho he's entitled to his opinion we just got a different babysitter "
I don't know this, but I'd think that couples that swing have stronger relationships than 'vanilla couples'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My best friend knows, he doesn't exactly love it but has accepted it. I never raise the subject, sometimes curiosity gets the better of him though. Him and his wife are the only people who know.
My family would disown me if they knew. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"My best friend knows, he doesn't exactly love it but has accepted it. I never raise the subject, sometimes curiosity gets the better of him though. Him and his wife are the only people who know.
My family would disown me if they knew."
I have a friend that thinks its a bit yukky, her words not mine, but has accepted it, we just don't talk about it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My family doesn't know. They would probably be horrified but they wouldn't disown me. My mom is real big on letting people live their own lives and not meddling.
Outside of the swinging world I have only told 2 close friends and one of them confessed that her and her husband have been swinging for years and she always suspected I would be interested lol. Its nice to be able to talk more freely now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The scene as been.part of my life for around 15 years since the days of msn chat and thats exactly what it will.always be, one part of my life i compartmentilise all the parts of my life such as work, social, friends, family and the scene, it seems to work for me.
Therefore my friends and family do not know about this part of my life and discretion is vital for me.
Have fun and happy swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I choose not to share my lifestyle with anyone except a few close friends...if anyone at work or family found out what I do, I think I be mortified. What about you?"
Some know some don't its no big secret though and I don't wear a t shirt proclaiming it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My closest friends are my family and they all know; in fact, I've been trying to get them to join here and Fabguys. Do I care what others think? No, because it's my life, so choose to be who I am and do what I do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few of my close friends know already but think my family would be shocked. Think they accept though. At the end of the day I'm a single grown adult and my sex life is just that... My sex life, not theirs! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not that I'm embarrassed about what I do..it's more to do with their inability to understand and comprehend why I do it."
I'm not embarrassed either. I just like my private life to remain private. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most people in 2014 are more promiscuous now then the 1980s but swinging is still taboo is mainstream circles.
In fact in my experience, most of our married friends have shit sex lives and would not be able to comprehend swinging.
All of who do swing - it is actually a brave thing. Many people would bottle it from actually entering a club or meeting a stranger from this site for sex yet we do it like its normal! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I choose not to share my lifestyle with anyone except a few close friends...if anyone at work or family found out what I do, I think I be mortified. What about you?"
Sex is nothing to be ashamed about. Most of my friends and family know how I choose to spend my time. You shouldn't have to hide who you are, it's not healthy leading a double-life. That said, of course keeping things from your professional life is often a good idea.
I think it's a shame people have to lie about who they are and what they enjoy. Sex is a celebration and extension of self. Embrace it and let others embrace it too. People who frown up this kind of thing, are often the ones who are unhappy with themselves and afraid of their own sexuality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I choose not to share my lifestyle with anyone except a few close friends...if anyone at work or family found out what I do, I think I be mortified. What about you?
Sex is nothing to be ashamed about. Most of my friends and family know how I choose to spend my time. You shouldn't have to hide who you are, it's not healthy leading a double-life. That said, of course keeping things from your professional life is often a good idea.
I think it's a shame people have to lie about who they are and what they enjoy. Sex is a celebration and extension of self. Embrace it and let others embrace it too. People who frown up this kind of thing, are often the ones who are unhappy with themselves and afraid of their own sexuality."
No offence but that's garbage. I do not wish my mother and father to know that Mrs P and myself indulge in threesomes, foursomes and morsesomes and we attend clubs to have sex with strangers. We are not lying just not telling them. We are not hiding who we are or living a double life. We are very happy with our choice of lifestyle but not everybody has to like it or know about it. I've never met a couple as happy as my parents and I'm sure they're happy with their sexuality but I know they would be confused if I told them what our hobby is. This doesn't make them bad people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My parents would disapprove but then they disapprove of everything I've ever done so it's pretty much a given!
Many of our friends know that we lead an unconventional lifestyle but don't know the details.
No idea what crystal's family would make of it but don't envisage them ever finding out as we live so far from them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I introduced my sister to the sight, we also attend clubs together...!! 
And have you made any fella's 'sisters fantasy' come true? "
That's a no...! Never...!! Ever...!!!  |
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"I choose not to share my lifestyle with anyone except a few close friends...if anyone at work or family found out what I do, I think I be mortified. What about you?
Sex is nothing to be ashamed about. Most of my friends and family know how I choose to spend my time. You shouldn't have to hide who you are, it's not healthy leading a double-life. That said, of course keeping things from your professional life is often a good idea.
I think it's a shame people have to lie about who they are and what they enjoy. Sex is a celebration and extension of self. Embrace it and let others embrace it too. People who frown up this kind of thing, are often the ones who are unhappy with themselves and afraid of their own sexuality."
I don't share any detail of my sex life with friends and family and they don't share theirs with me, we don't lie or lead double lives we just don't think its the business of anyone but the people we're actually having sex with.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My workmates knows my sex lifestyle and parents to. I always tell parents whereabouts I am going, mother tells me to, if you run out of condoms I will give you some . |
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