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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

why do guys not read profiles. is it because their brains hanging somewhere between their legs and has limited use?

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"why do guys not read profiles. is it because their brains hanging somewhere between their legs and has limited use?"
Its not just guys.....single females and couples are just as guilty.

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

Just as high a percentage of women and couples don't bother to read profiles.

Men just get generalised as there are more of them.

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

"why do guys not read profiles. is it because their brains hanging somewhere between their legs and has limited use?Its not just guys.....single females and couples are just as guilty."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Off with their cocks!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Use your filters and do the searching yourself!

Problem solved

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Off with their cocks!"

Apparently when you cut thing off they grow back thicker and longer,,

I can t wait,, My cocks going to be huge,,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I must be the odd one here as I really don't have this problem. Most of the men messaging me have read my profile and we then have a bit of a chat, if I say no thanks to meeting I never get a stroppy answer just a thanks for replying.

Those that message at twp o'clock asking me to watch them wank/have phone sex just get deleted. Am I missing out?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

constantly messaged and when i decline to chat i get abusive messages back.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"why do guys not read profiles. is it because their brains hanging somewhere between their legs and has limited use?Its not just guys.....single females and couples are just as guilty."

as always femme you provide balance thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"constantly messaged and when i decline to chat i get abusive messages back."

Its very simple,say no thank you and then block so there is no stroppy come back

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Off with their cocks!"

back to.elizabethan times

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"constantly messaged and when i decline to chat i get abusive messages back."

Take it as a complement. Why many women like to put this lable on men that they have their brains hunging between their legs?! Are women more inteligent then men or what?! 99.99% of the genuis ppl and inventors since the begining of hystory are men does that tell you anything? How long and how much does a woman spend with her body and appearance compared to men? Ask yourself. Men dont read a profile because its a waist of time reading a 100 profiles without a single reply. Once replied to positively they read. It's actually the opposit. They are too smart to waste their time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You mean why do some guys not read profiles. We're not all divs!

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

sometimes I just can't be arsed reading them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

well, no offence, but being a bloke that reads a profile or 2 before i message, to ensure we are all on the same page, your profile gives no indication as to what you are looking for, so blokes are bound to give it a go.

its just a rant about airline pilots and getting pics of dicks.

as long as they avoid that, from what i can see, they have a chance.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" 99.99% of the genuis ppl and inventors since the begining of hystory are men does that tell you anything? "

Yes, it tells me men have more time to ffaff about where as women get on with the important day to day things!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lol you gotta love these threads can see about 5 aday haha.

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"constantly messaged and when i decline to chat i get abusive messages back."
Use what the site provides you with ...if this has happened....and its happened a lot why don't you just use some grey matter and instantly block those who you message you? Or use your filters and look for the guys YOU want to meet?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"constantly messaged and when i decline to chat i get abusive messages back.

Take it as a complement. Why many women like to put this lable on men that they have their brains hunging between their legs?! Are women more inteligent then men or what?! 99.99% of the genuis ppl and inventors since the begining of hystory are men does thaot tell you anything? How long and how much does a woman spend with her body and appearance compared to men? Ask yourself. Men dont read a profile because its a waist of time reading a 100 profiles without a single reply. Once replied to positively they read. It's actually the opposit. They are too smart to waste their time. "

Wow....great attitude, very insightful. I think we all learned something there......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What are they supposed to be reading?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"why do guys not read profiles. is it because their brains hanging somewhere between their legs and has limited use?"

No it's because their balls are full and need emptying. So while wanking looking at the pics they think 'God I wanna shag her'. So send the 'Fancy a fuck' message.

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By *rymeplsMan over a year ago

manchester

"I must be the odd one here as I really don't have this problem. Most of the men messaging me have read my profile and we then have a bit of a chat, if I say no thanks to meeting I never get a stroppy answer just a thanks for replying.

Those that message at twp o'clock asking me to watch them wank/have phone sex just get deleted. Am I missing out?

"
only on sleep

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By *ScotsmanMan over a year ago

ayrshire

probably because pussy dont talk

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

and to be fair, I have read some profiles and you would think there was a Faberge Egg between their legs, not a vagina....

so, we can both be influenced by our genitals

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Those that message at twp o'clock asking me to watch them wank/have phone sex just get deleted. Am I missing out?

only on sleep

lol exactly!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a theory about the types of profiles/ people that get hassled with abuse... and those people that don't............

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"I have a theory about the types of profiles/ people that get hassled with abuse... and those people that don't............"

me too.....

you reap what you sow...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Here is my rant of the day.. women block us cos its a confidence boost, nothing else.

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I have a theory about the types of profiles/ people that get hassled with abuse... and those people that don't............"
It maybe the same as mine, then again it may not be.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a theory about the types of profiles/ people that get hassled with abuse... and those people that don't............"

Do share?

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Here is my rant of the day.. women block us cos its a confidence boost, nothing else."
I think in certain circumstances you may be right.

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By *rymeplsMan over a year ago

manchester

I just get messages from guys whose eyes are obviously painted on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a theory about the types of profiles/ people that get hassled with abuse... and those people that don't............"

I do too. Are we thinking the same thing?

Negative, big shouty capitals, do this, don't do that instructions? Am I right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Here is my rant of the day.. women block us cos its a confidence boost, nothing else.I think in certain circumstances you may be right."
Thanks and yes in some circumstance as well

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"I have a theory about the types of profiles/ people that get hassled with abuse... and those people that don't............

I do too. Are we thinking the same thing?

Negative, big shouty capitals, do this, don't do that instructions? Am I right?

yup.... the more you rant, the more fools you attract

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I have a theory about the types of profiles/ people that get hassled with abuse... and those people that don't............

I do too. Are we thinking the same thing?

Negative, big shouty capitals, do this, don't do that instructions? Am I right?

yup.... the more you rant, the more fools you attract"
Negativity breeds negativity

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a theory about the types of profiles/ people that get hassled with abuse... and those people that don't............

I do too. Are we thinking the same thing?

Negative, big shouty capitals, do this, don't do that instructions? Am I right?

yup.... the more you rant, the more fools you attract"

do I get a prize now?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Here is my rant of the day.. women block us cos its a confidence boost, nothing else."

In what way is blocking a confidence boost?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

I'm still looking for the faberge egg between my legs...

Thankfully, if you get a lot of messages, a reasonable proportion of them from thoughtful users who've read your profile as well as respected and understood the interests etc, then it just means that it's fairly easy to spot the crap and involve yourself with the decent matches. Ok, you may have to delete a few, even respond, but it's probably better to have a selection than none, as some guys on here get, apparently.

It can be easy to take control by yourself, and set filters, emphasise key points, and use delete and block - if you're of that mindset.

Now, back to looking for my faberge egg...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a theory about the types of profiles/ people that get hassled with abuse... and those people that don't............

I do too. Are we thinking the same thing?

Negative, big shouty capitals, do this, don't do that instructions? Am I right?

in a shell of nuts yes

Im just trying to work out if the only males that are not welcome are pilots with there three card trick hanging out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP just read your profile and it would put me off instantly. It's just one big rant.

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple over a year ago

Takeley

"and to be fair, I have read some profiles and you would think there was a Faberge Egg between their legs, not a vagina....

so, we can both be influenced by our genitals

"
You mean there isn't???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Here is my rant of the day.. women block us cos its a confidence boost, nothing else.

In what way is blocking a confidence boost? "
Yes as you might email them saying, hi nice pic and things then they just block u for no reason, so its kinda boost thing there as they might get of to not replying lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a theory about the types of profiles/ people that get hassled with abuse... and those people that don't............

I do too. Are we thinking the same thing?

Negative, big shouty capitals, do this, don't do that instructions? Am I right?

yup.... the more you rant, the more fools you attract

do I get a prize now?

Yep! You get a cake.

But I ate it. Sorry about that.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"constantly messaged and when i decline to chat i get abusive messages back.

Take it as a complement. Why many women like to put this lable on men that they have their brains hunging between their legs?! Are women more inteligent then men or what?! 99.99% of the genuis ppl and inventors since the begining of hystory are men does thaot tell you anything? How long and how much does a woman spend with her body and appearance compared to men? Ask yourself. Men dont read a profile because its a waist of time reading a 100 profiles without a single reply. Once replied to positively they read. It's actually the opposit. They are too smart to waste their time.

Wow....great attitude, very insightful. I think we all learned something there......

Yes, some men are too smart to waste time spell checking when they ramble on about the genius of 'men'..

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

"Here is my rant of the day.. women block us cos its a confidence boost, nothing else.

In what way is blocking a confidence boost? Yes as you might email them saying, hi nice pic and things then they just block u for no reason, so its kinda boost thing there as they might get of to not replying lol."

Odd.

Just odd.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a theory about the types of profiles/ people that get hassled with abuse... and those people that don't............

I do too. Are we thinking the same thing?

Negative, big shouty capitals, do this, don't do that instructions? Am I right?

yup.... the more you rant, the more fools you attract

do I get a prize now?

Yep! You get a cake.

But I ate it. Sorry about that.

Well there's charming for you. And us being on the same wavelength too pfttt

Please tell me it wasn't chocolate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A positive attitude attracts positive people, a negative one attracts, well, you work it out!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most of the men that message me have read my profile the odd few who clearly haven't read it don't get a reply. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We not all bad some Do try lol

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By *rymeplsMan over a year ago

manchester

"A positive attitude attracts positive people, a negative one attracts, well, you work it out!"
negative ones?

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By *r-UniqueMan over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

The same reason why girls automatically say on their profile "no cock pics". Yet when a guy is posting on the forums. They normally have that as their display pic and have a lot of pics like that and hardy any face ones. So when lurkers are just reading the forums and they see these guys getting responses. They think it's acceptable. So if thy can get away with it. Why can't they. Also some guys do read profiles and no matter where you are or what you do. You can't please everybody.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a theory about the types of profiles/ people that get hassled with abuse... and those people that don't............"

We're in the don't pile as is my singles profile.

I/we don't get abuse. It's happened once on here and that was a female forum user.

Must be the fact my profile is funny I guess and self-mocking rather than demanding and moany.

And on my other profile there's no filters so the floodgates are wide open, still no abuse.

Sad really, I love abuse.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The vast majority that message me havn't read my profile which is why I either have all my filters on I just ignore the messages,Its just how it is and always has been,I don't think its rant worthy though

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By *r-UniqueMan over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

Must be the fact my profile is funny I guess and self-mocking rather than demanding and moany.

If this is the she-devil. I can make you demanding and moany if you let me

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"why do guys not read profiles. is it because their brains hanging somewhere between their legs and has limited use?"

read profiles... no offence... your profile doesn't actually say anything about you... or anything about what you are after..... its just one long mish-mash rant

It may have sounded good in your head.. but I am none the wiser for reading it and its 2 minutes of my life I'm not getting back!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

fyi my original post was pretty funny and witty. until i started getting all the obvious idiots on here who think their profession is enough to get you into bed.. if guys can't be themselves, no matter what job they do, then i'm not interested. and my profile says just that. maybe comes across as a bit harsh but hey, do i care?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"fyi my original post was pretty funny and witty. until i started getting all the obvious idiots on here who think their profession is enough to get you into bed.. if guys can't be themselves, no matter what job they do, then i'm not interested. and my profile says just that. maybe comes across as a bit harsh but hey, do i care?"

So you turned your profile into a rant towards the very people that don't read them anyway? How does that make sense?

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By *anny PepperoniMan over a year ago

Matlock

"why do guys not read profiles. is it because their brains hanging somewhere between their legs and has limited use?"

In fairness there isn't much to read except a list of don't want this and that. It's likely to put off the decent guys and the ones that don't give a shit will probably message anyway. You reap what you sow.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Here is my rant of the day.. women block us cos its a confidence boost, nothing else.

Actually I feel the opposite is true, allowing the same person to message you over and over if you have no interest is actually quite cruel imho and results in bursting full inboxes because you don't wish to take control of the situation.

Then complaining on here that you get so much hassle, I think that has a lot more to do with ego boosting than having a near empty inbox because you take sensible precautions and look for your own men.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well Id say you do care because you started this thread. Or am I missing something

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cared enough to create a forum thread......

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By *uslaffMan over a year ago

manchester

A northern lass you see ? You tell em girl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"fyi my original post was pretty funny and witty. "

it was?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A northern lass you see ? You tell em girl

I'm a Manc too. Not sure that's relevant.

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By *anny PepperoniMan over a year ago

Matlock

I must have missed the funny witty part. Sorry. My bad, as the young folks say.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a theory about the types of profiles/ people that get hassled with abuse... and those people that don't............

We're in the don't pile as is my singles profile.

I/we don't get abuse. It's happened once on here and that was a female forum user.

Must be the fact my profile is funny I guess and self-mocking rather than demanding and moany.

And on my other profile there's no filters so the floodgates are wide open, still no abuse.

Sad really, I love abuse.

come round here while im trying to sleep.

you will hear abuse you have never witnessed before lol

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Cared enough to create a forum thread......"

exactly... can't try and talk it back now.. we have seen it gets to you...

and yet... the site provides tools to stop the ulcer inducing stuff you hate... so how about using them!!!

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Blah blah blah I don't like (insert group of people) being criticised so I'm going to be insulting to an entire group of people which the criticiser belongs to.

Nothing at all wrong or childish about that approach.

Given the OP is female and probably straight (I haven't looked) she's speaking from her own experiences whrn she says men don't read her profile. Of course she won't mention women because it's unlikely many message her so how would she know some women don't read profiles either.

I don't know what is going on in here lately but the constant men vs. women is getting old. We're here to meet each other so why so many posts slagging each other off and acting for all the world as if we loathe each other.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cared enough to create a forum thread......

exactly... can't try and talk it back now.. we have seen it gets to you...

and yet... the site provides tools to stop the ulcer inducing stuff you hate... so how about using them!!!

But that's far too easy Fabio. Plus it would reduce the threads on the Forums by at least 25% if the last few days are anything to go by

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"why do guys not read profiles. is it because their brains hanging somewhere between their legs and has limited use?Its not just guys.....single females and couples are just as guilty."
thank you your like the 2nd person ive ever seen on here whos said women n couples also

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry.......not feeling the love

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Blah blah blah I don't like (insert group of people) being criticised so I'm going to be insulting to an entire group of people which the criticiser belongs to.

Nothing at all wrong or childish about that approach.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Blah blah blah I don't like (insert group of people) being criticised so I'm going to be insulting to an entire group of people which the criticiser belongs to.

Nothing at all wrong or childish about that approach.

dont you remember the school yard as a kid?

the boy that liked you most used to pull your hair? lol

the girl that liked you most used to abuse you and put you down in front of their friends?

and in secondry school

and college

and work

and old age

dammit, i have had to deal with some amount of rejection

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Here is my rant of the day.. women block us cos its a confidence boost, nothing else.

or they block you so you don't message them again in a few months time when you have forgotten you already had

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"constantly messaged and when i decline to chat i get abusive messages back."

Its odd that as women we know very rarely get this but they are polite and gracious when they decline maybe thats where you are going wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a theory about the types of profiles/ people that get hassled with abuse... and those people that don't............

We're in the don't pile as is my singles profile.

I/we don't get abuse. It's happened once on here and that was a female forum user.

Must be the fact my profile is funny I guess and self-mocking rather than demanding and moany.

And on my other profile there's no filters so the floodgates are wide open, still no abuse.

Sad really, I love abuse.

come round here while im trying to sleep.

you will hear abuse you have never witnessed before lol"

Oh we're similar creatures. A woman woke me up twice on the bus after a 14 hour shift and the second time she used an elbow to do so.

To this day I don't know what possessed me to do what I did after I gave her a filthy look.

I got a ring-binder from my bag and put it between me and her, ie next to my head so she could not see my face.

She moved seats.

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By *anny PepperoniMan over a year ago

Matlock

"Blah blah blah I don't like (insert group of people) being criticised so I'm going to be insulting to an entire group of people which the criticiser belongs to.

Nothing at all wrong or childish about that approach.

Sadly I believe it stems from the fact that many of the folk on this site see it as a route to instant gratification. They seek superficiality and are disappointed when they attract it. They lack patience and perception and are quick to complain about situations that they at least in part bring upon themselves.

In my humble opinion that is.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's why if you are 5'4 with a hairy face. You don't have this problem - you won't be getting any messages or profiles to read in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have a theory about the types of profiles/ people that get hassled with abuse... and those people that don't............

We're in the don't pile as is my singles profile.

I/we don't get abuse. It's happened once on here and that was a female forum user.

Must be the fact my profile is funny I guess and self-mocking rather than demanding and moany.

And on my other profile there's no filters so the floodgates are wide open, still no abuse.

Sad really, I love abuse.

come round here while im trying to sleep.

you will hear abuse you have never witnessed before lol

Oh we're similar creatures. A woman woke me up twice on the bus after a 14 hour shift and the second time she used an elbow to do so.

To this day I don't know what possessed me to do what I did after I gave her a filthy look.

I got a ring-binder from my bag and put it between me and her, ie next to my head so she could not see my face.

She moved seats."

lol, dont use public transport, so dont have that.

however, my neighbour loves gardening, and the amount of times he has apologised for mowing mid morning when he hasnt realised im in bed.

its all i can do to not stab him with a hydrangia lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"That's why if you are 5'4 with a hairy face. You don't have this problem - you won't be getting any messages or profiles to read in the first place.

ah dude, its because most of these profiles have xxx rated things in them.

you need to stand on tip toe to see them lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"constantly messaged and when i decline to chat i get abusive messages back.

Its odd that as women we know very rarely get this but they are polite and gracious when they decline maybe thats where you are going wrong."

i've tried that approach only to be constantly asked what i didn't like about them. am i supposed to reply to every one telling them why i'm not interested.. i don't think so.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"constantly messaged and when i decline to chat i get abusive messages back.

Its odd that as women we know very rarely get this but they are polite and gracious when they decline maybe thats where you are going wrong.

i've tried that approach only to be constantly asked what i didn't like about them. am i supposed to reply to every one telling them why i'm not interested.. i don't think so."

I always reply to the first mail they send. Whether it's chit chat or 'no thank you'.

If they reply to the 'no thanks' asking why not... I don't reply again after that. There's no need for further communication.

No hassle.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"constantly messaged and when i decline to chat i get abusive messages back.

Its odd that as women we know very rarely get this but they are polite and gracious when they decline maybe thats where you are going wrong.

i've tried that approach only to be constantly asked what i didn't like about them. am i supposed to reply to every one telling them why i'm not interested.. i don't think so."

"no thanks, happy swinging" then block and delete their message. You probably know from the get-go if you're interested.

Make life easier for yourself,.why would anyone choose not to?

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

A couple of times I've sent polite no thanks messages, I've received messages back asking if I know anyone that might meet them!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A couple of times I've sent polite no thanks messages, I've received messages back asking if I know anyone that might meet them!

Ive had that too,have to admire the cheek of some people

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By *vie RuthWoman over a year ago

Just where the rainbow end.s . .

So that must mean every on here basically doesn.'t read profiles If single women and couple.s are as bad as men

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are not all the same and yes I read profiles and would not message if I was not what they are looking for or live miles Away....

Nice breasts tho xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Evie I almost read your profile but got stuck at your pictures

P.s I never send cock pics

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"why do guys not read profiles. is it because their brains hanging somewhere between their legs and has limited use?"

Some of us do that is why I have so many veri's

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think they just look at the profile pic and that's it., errr " excuse me there is two of us"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"why do guys not read profiles. is it because their brains hanging somewhere between their legs and has limited use?"

Comedy gold

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lost count of the amount of these dreaded single men that have messaged just to say they know they arent our type, but had to say how much the enjoyed reading the profile, so guess some actually do read them, although whether they have sense or not is debatable lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well my profile is as much use as a ashtray on a motorbike

does it stop me from meeting people nope

can you use this site in other ways ? Sure you can, just use it how you want to use it and let other people do the same

simples

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

You are not allowed to discuss a persons profile unless they have asked for it.

Picking on peoples spelling puts people off posting so please don't do it.

To the OP...maybe use your filters and mail the people you are looking for if you are having so many problems.

http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

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