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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've found that I am definitely part of the quality over quantity club. But i'm finding it a little hard to find genuine women who are after the same, and have been verified in some way! So I'd like to hear some stories of people who have found regular buddies on here and how it started! People who are looking for the same are also welcome to comment! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have found they just naturally occur over time,its not something you can make happen"
This... I also think, some you just instantly click with.. And they seem to be on your wavelength |
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On a more serious note I prefer quality over quantity...I rarely meet so not really looked for regular however it would be nice to meet someone you click with on a friendship level and have fun also |
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over a year ago
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"I brought him off ebay
I searched eBay for you but could only find a lamb cutlet in stockings
I do worry about you... "
it was a very nice lamb cutlet but post and packing was a rip off
... and thank you for worrtinh? My social worker said I was special |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We were very lucky the first guy we ever met has become a very good friend with lots of regular meets and hopefully many more in the future. Nearly every other meet we have had have just been social, think im too bloody fussy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have found they just naturally occur over time,its not something you can make happen"
I guess that does make sense.
I'm hoping I attracted similar minded people to this thread, so let me ask another question: When i find women who have like 5 different verification's every month for several months, I find it to be a proper turn off . Do other people feel the same then? Whats your verification limit? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have found they just naturally occur over time,its not something you can make happen
I guess that does make sense.
I'm hoping I attracted similar minded people to this thread, so let me ask another question: When i find women who have like 5 different verification's every month for several months, I find it to be a proper turn off . Do other people feel the same then? Whats your verification limit? "
But what are the veris for? Socials or full on marathon sex sessions with five blokes and a cucumber? Veris can be very misleading |
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"On a more serious note I prefer quality over quantity...I rarely meet so not really looked for regular however it would be nice to meet someone you click with on a friendship level and have fun also "
Thats exactly the sort of thing i'm looking for! Someone to share all the dirty secrets with, but also someone to just enjoy a drink or coffee with, perhaps some touching and rubbing under the table! Not always just a shag and out! |
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"I have found they just naturally occur over time,its not something you can make happen"
this completely. When I meet, it's with the intention of there being future meets but just because you get on socially doesn't always mean you're compatible in sex. I've had meets that didn't get past 1 play session because that spark, although there when chatting socially, just wasn't in play.
My best friend is a former partner I met on here, neither planned or expected the level of friendship we have before meeting.
I've also got play friends on here that I've known for a few years now and though we don't meet that often, again, I don't think we ever expected to be friends as long as we have been |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I much prefer regular meets and although it's early days, so far so good. I have meet a few people who I've clicked with socially but really didn't do it for me sexually. The trouble with this is that you don't know until you try - unless that is anyone else has a different approach? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm too greedy ( good girl) lol no seriously we are hoping to meet people regularly who we click with but it's trial and error had a few in the past then took a break for a while it's like starting over again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with most comments on here.
Finding someone you connect with is so much more fun than just random one offs. Its the banter, the getting to know what makes them tick that I find most appealing.
It's more relaxing and I feel a lot more comfortable and able to enjoy myself with people with whom I have built up a relationship with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I look for those who share the same sense of humour as me and can bounce of my cheeky conversations. If they can do that, i know they're for keeps.
I rarely meet off here but when i do - i love a good laugh, cheeky conversations and some good sex.
...i know not everyone is looking for the same thing as me. And i'm not really what everyone looks for in terms of appearance and so forth. But, i've found some that like me for me and we have met regularly and has been fab!
So, just let it happen naturally.
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