"Ladies if you meet up with a guy for the first time and he doesn't offer to buy you a drink.. Do you walk away or stay and see how it goes?"
I wouldn't be amused. I'm all for sharing but guess I'm old fashioned expecting the guy to get the first drink in
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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"Ladies if you meet up with a guy for the first time and he doesn't offer to buy you a drink.. Do you walk away or stay and see how it goes?"
If its a fab meet - I buy my own. Equality and all that... if its a date, I'd expect him to offer, but I'd also offer back. |
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over a year ago
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"Ladies if you meet up with a guy for the first time and he doesn't offer to buy you a drink.. Do you walk away or stay and see how it goes?"
What did you do?...buy her a drink or not?... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Lol. Well I wouldn't dream of not buying the first drink but if the woman insists on paying for her own I wouldn't argue either. Equality is also important. However there's nowt wrong with a bit of old fashioned chivalry from time to time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You take it in turns to buy a drink. Where we come from it's called rounds. It doesn't matter who gets the first round in but all should take it in turns to buy a round. If it's time to leave before all has got a round it doesn't matter, no big deal. People who have soft drinks can be omitted from buying a round if they are on driving duties. |
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"In fact I'd be seathing and would find it difficult to be pleasant. Someone did it to a friend of mine and I still dislike the guy
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When I mentioned to a charmer buying his own drink without offering me one was poor form he retorted: "this ain't a date love!"
Needless to say I didn't sit down.
If you're coming to my home, sleeping in my bed, drinking my coffee, using my shower yet buying half a Peroni is seen as a date...bye!
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"In fact I'd be seathing and would find it difficult to be pleasant. Someone did it to a friend of mine and I still dislike the guy
When I mentioned to a charmer buying his own drink without offering me one was poor form he retorted: "this ain't a date love!"
Needless to say I didn't sit down.
If you're coming to my home, sleeping in my bed, drinking my coffee, using my shower yet buying half a Peroni is seen as a date...bye!
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That is very poor form. Date or not if you are in company and you go to the bar all in your company should be asked if they want one. |
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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago
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"Lol. Well I wouldn't dream of not buying the first drink but if the woman insists on paying for her own I wouldn't argue either. Equality is also important. However there's nowt wrong with a bit of old fashioned chivalry from time to time "
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"In fact I'd be seathing and would find it difficult to be pleasant. Someone did it to a friend of mine and I still dislike the guy
When I mentioned to a charmer buying his own drink without offering me one was poor form he retorted: "this ain't a date love!"
Needless to say I didn't sit down.
If you're coming to my home, sleeping in my bed, drinking my coffee, using my shower yet buying half a Peroni is seen as a date...bye!
That is very poor form. Date or not if you are in company and you go to the bar all in your company should be asked if they want one. "
That's how I saw it. If I'd got to the bar first I'd have asked "what you having?" Common courtesy! |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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"If I'm meeting in a bar and got there first I would text and ask what he wanted and have it waiting for him "
Sorry, I wouldn't drink anything I hadn't seen opened or poured in front of me. Maybe I am over cautious, but have had friends who have had drinks spiked. I'd rather buy my own, or buy a round when we are both there. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"If I'm meeting in a bar and got there first I would text and ask what he wanted and have it waiting for him
Sorry, I wouldn't drink anything I hadn't seen opened or poured in front of me. Maybe I am over cautious, but have had friends who have had drinks spiked. I'd rather buy my own, or buy a round when we are both there."
Jeez, I never even thought of that! |
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"If I'm meeting in a bar and got there first I would text and ask what he wanted and have it waiting for him
Sorry, I wouldn't drink anything I hadn't seen opened or poured in front of me. Maybe I am over cautious, but have had friends who have had drinks spiked. I'd rather buy my own, or buy a round when we are both there."
Very sensible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'd always buy the first drink then go from there. Usually I end up getting a couple more, I like to be the gentleman generally, in a very non-flash way |
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"I honestly don't give a fuck who buys what.
I'll buy drinks I dont mind.
If they want to buy drinks that's cool too.
I honestly don't f'ng care. "
what if they turn up and shes clutching a bottle of tequila already  |
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"I honestly don't give a fuck who buys what.
I'll buy drinks I dont mind.
If they want to buy drinks that's cool too.
I honestly don't f'ng care.
what if they turn up and shes clutching a bottle of tequila already "
We drink it and fuck!  |
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"I honestly don't give a fuck who buys what.
I'll buy drinks I dont mind.
If they want to buy drinks that's cool too.
I honestly don't f'ng care.
what if they turn up and shes clutching a bottle of tequila already
We drink it and fuck! "
oooh now where to lick the salt from |
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"I honestly don't give a fuck who buys what.
I'll buy drinks I dont mind.
If they want to buy drinks that's cool too.
I honestly don't f'ng care.
what if they turn up and shes clutching a bottle of tequila already
We drink it and fuck!
oooh now where to lick the salt from "
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