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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've had a few girls who 'love' anal tell me that I'm too big... Is there any advice on how to make it easier? I'm a gentle guy it's not like I hammer it in. I'm around 9" but the issue is my girth....
Haha - this sounds like a 'I've got a massive cock' post but it's not, would love any decent advice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a few girls who 'love' anal tell me that I'm too big... Is there any advice on how to make it easier? I'm a gentle guy it's not like I hammer it in. I'm around 9" but the issue is my girth....
Haha - this sounds like a 'I've got a massive cock' post but it's not, would love any decent advice "
Lots of lube, lots of finger teasing, perhaps try some toys first to get things moving in the right direction. Also relaxation techniques on your partners part will help. You need a fully relaxed lady to take things further. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been turned down for vaginal sex a few times due to my size, but always reassure people that even the biggest cocks should be perfectly comfortable for a woman to receive provided the guy using it is gentle enough - it rarely convinces those who've already made their minds up though. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I asked a Lady of the night if she did anal,?
She said " yes, but it'd be £60 !!"
I said " no thanks, thats a bit expensive," as I walked away she said " tight arse,!!"
I said " in that case, okay then,,"
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"9" girth or long? 
9 in length
You sure about that?"
depends where you put the tape measure I guess
Personally, its all about preparation. My other half is very big, and we can do it, but I need to be really relaxed, and very turned on (not usually a problem) and take it slowly. Certain positions are better |
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You'd find a man who could take it im sure.
They are generally bigger all round.
My BESTEST and most helpful idea to date is this one ....
Get a rubbery dildo with similar but larger dimensions than yours and bingo! Practice on yourself..... tadaaaaa !
Im pleased with that |
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I am at the opposite end of the scale to the OP in both length & girth and find that most ladies prefer it as it fits rather nicely
Also, when doing dp I'm usually the one who gets to go up her bum, which suits me just fine! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't forget that anal sex is much easier with a thorough warm up beforehand, the anus is much more able to receive a penis if the muscles are given sufficient time and gentle enough stimulus to relax them (and of course plenty of lubrication). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've taken a thick 10" before without too much trouble. It's all in the preparation. Fist them first, elbow deep, perhaps. After that they won't complain about your cock...  "
Lol!!!! Classic!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't forget that anal sex is much easier with a thorough warm up beforehand, the anus is much more able to receive a penis if the muscles are given sufficient time and gentle enough stimulus to relax them (and of course plenty of lubrication).
 and thats with any sized cock!! I have never seen one that has been TOO BIG for the job "
As I say, its not that the cock is TOO BIG, its the guy using it is NOT GENTLE enough! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haha - this sounds like a 'I've got a massive cock' post but it's not, would love any decent advice
Are you sure it's not? You said pretty much the same thing 2 weeks ago about DP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As I say, its not that the cock is TOO BIG, its the guy using it is NOT GENTLE enough!
OR the woman isnt relaxed enough..."
That too, but gentleness from the guy can help greatly with that. |
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"I've had a few girls who 'love' anal tell me that I'm too big... Is there any advice on how to make it easier? I'm a gentle guy it's not like I hammer it in. I'm around 9" but the issue is my girth....
Haha - this sounds like a 'I've got a massive cock' post but it's not, would love any decent advice "
well that wouldn't be coming anywhere near my arse that's for sure
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
essex chelmsford |
"I've had a few girls who 'love' anal tell me that I'm too big... Is there any advice on how to make it easier? I'm a gentle guy it's not like I hammer it in. I'm around 9" but the issue is my girth....
Haha - this sounds like a 'I've got a massive cock' post but it's not, would love any decent advice "
it does sound like that and the pics suggest maybe a new tape measure |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"It's not just anal.... I'd like to do DP and things too! Just gotta find a girl who can trust me and that is up for it "
Yeah because girls love to be used to tick things off your list... not seeing much in it for her. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Three words: douche, lube, poppers  "
My mind needs rinsing,,,,, I just read that as ploppers,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They say we are to big cos they dont like anal.. only hardcore girls do lol."
Porno lines aside, I do see lots of the sexy (and they know it) girls on here specifically requesting guys with big cocks for anal sex - perhaps their considerable confidence makes them more willing to receive large cocks anally, or maybe they simply state they enjoy anal sex from large cocks in order to further elicit male desire on here? |
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By *NaughtyCouple
over a year ago
St Albans |
"I've had a few girls who 'love' anal tell me that I'm too big... Is there any advice on how to make it easier? I'm a gentle guy it's not like I hammer it in. I'm around 9" but the issue is my girth....
Haha - this sounds like a 'I've got a massive cock' post but it's not, would love any decent advice
Lots of lube, lots of finger teasing, perhaps try some toys first to get things moving in the right direction. Also relaxation techniques on your partners part will help. You need a fully relaxed lady to take things further."
what works for me is lots of lub - rimming works well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"9" girth or long?
9 in length
You sure about that?
If that's 9" - all I'll say is "fuck me you have massive hands" !! 
A"
Bit uncalled for  Looks like it sizes up well enough to me. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"9" girth or long?
9 in length
You sure about that?
If that's 9" - all I'll say is "fuck me you have massive hands" !!
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Play nice! All I will say, is it is all true!"
I'll take your word for it!
Guess like many I'm just a tad cynical the moment someone starts quoting numbers in a thread or on a profile.
You know how most have a tendency to be very generous with their tape measures and camera angles!
OP - if Foxy says it's true - I stand (well lie down actually) corrected and humbly apologise!
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It partly is about starting when your partner knows that they are ready. Very heightened horniness should make it much easier. Position makes a lot of difference too, as does someones experience - they can also know what works for them. If you do group play, consider going in second, after someone else has prepared the way. As others say, use tons of lube. If it stays tough, get your partner to control their impaling on your cock, as they may relax more, without feeling under pressure. Maybe your partners need to be asking this too? |
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