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Why do guys love fucking an attached girl
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It's annimalistic......the same as the young lion sneaking into the pack to breed behind the alphas back. I'm convinced that we're still only a fine sheen away from being annimals...or that we still are annimals....the instinct to eat and breed and multiply still drives the majority of our actions and the answer as to why we want to breed with a 'pack' female lurks within that somewhere....I'm just not clued up as to exactly what it is yet....I'm sure Darwin would have some theories. |
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"What is it that's soooo amazing & turns you guys on so much fucking another guys women? "
You make it sound like the man owns her! What's amazing for me is licking hubby's cock as he fucks his wife as I lick her wet pussy.  |
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"What is it that's soooo amazing & turns you guys on so much fucking another guys women? "
Anyone who fucks me fucks a free woman, I don't belong to A any more than he belongs to me. The slightest whiff of power games or suspicion that a guy thinks we not one hundred percent equal partners and we're off. I find some of the responses to this quite an insight. |
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Its a combination of things I think.
The danger (of getting caught) which heightens the excitement, the power / control aspect, the 'claiming' of something which (morally) is not yours to 'claim', a predatory instinct to mate, one-upmanship.
However, it takes two to do something like this - so its as much the woman 'responsibility' as it is the mans. You have to look at the drivers behind what makes a woman want to do this in order to understand the full picture I think. |
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"I think it's a macho Neanderthal thing... Having something that belongs to another male (competitor) makes us feel better than."
probably the only genuine and truthful response yet. |
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"I think it's a macho Neanderthal thing... Having something that belongs to another male (competitor) makes us feel better than.
probably the only genuine and truthful response yet."
Oh lord! If that really is the only reason I might need to rethink. The men we meet don't come across that way, maybe they just hide it well. |
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A mate of mine fucked a women last month and the partner walked in jumped on top of them both and bit my mates ear off! Haha he won't be doing that again.. |
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I generally don't go near attached women unless their partner knows and it's clear he's okay with it all.
It's all dependent on circumstance too, if some people think they are being 'macho' or providing what another man can't, that's all well and good - but the woman might just be bored and want a different cock / face to look at  |
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"A mate of mine fucked a women last month and the partner walked in jumped on top of them both and bit my mates ear off! Haha he won't be doing that again.."
She sounds like an aggressive lesbian |
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"I think it's a macho Neanderthal thing... Having something that belongs to another male (competitor) makes us feel better than.
probably the only genuine and truthful response yet.
Oh lord! If that really is the only reason I might need to rethink. The men we meet don't come across that way, maybe they just hide it well."
surely you have been around long enough to know people will say mass to get into ya knickers lol.
i trully feel it is a primal need for 'one upmanship, or to assert yourself as an 'alpha male'
which is why we see so many posts about people taking other guys gf's
chatting up a guys bird in a pub
telling a woman that is attached they fancy her, and so on.
the day we can all be happy that someone else has found someone to be with is the day we have truly evolved past our animal instincts |
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"A mate of mine fucked a women last month and the partner walked in jumped on top of them both and bit my mates ear off! Haha he won't be doing that again..
She sounds like an aggressive lesbian "
Ha! Or maybe she was just being kinky and bit abit.to hard |
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Me and my other half have a couples profile and single accounts. I prefer us to meet other attached people as there is definitely less dramatic than meeting single people. He once had a single woman turn into a stalker. Not a very nice experience! |
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"I think it's a macho Neanderthal thing... Having something that belongs to another male (competitor) makes us feel better than.
probably the only genuine and truthful response yet.
Oh lord! If that really is the only reason I might need to rethink. The men we meet don't come across that way, maybe they just hide it well.
surely you have been around long enough to know people will say mass to get into ya knickers lol.
i trully feel it is a primal need for 'one upmanship, or to assert yourself as an 'alpha male'
which is why we see so many posts about people taking other guys gf's
chatting up a guys bird in a pub
telling a woman that is attached they fancy her, and so on.
the day we can all be happy that someone else has found someone to be with is the day we have truly evolved past our animal instincts"
Yep I have been around long enough to know that but I hoped I'd been around long enough to be able to sort out the people who genuinely want an erotic experience for its own sake with nothing to prove on either side. Any guy who hopes to claim me to A's detriment soon realiases that he's on a hiding to nothing  |
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There is an entire world of difference between illicit liaisons without a partners knowledge (or 'Cheating' to give it its proper name) and where its done with the knowledge and blessing of all involved.
I've been on the receiving end of finding your partner cheating and its utterly devastating - its like someones sucked all the air out of your life and you cannot breathe.
Ive also partaken in the latter form - where all involved were aware. Let me tell you that it far more rewarding, exciting and positive (in a Karmic way).
I know which I would go with every time - its happier, healthier and lets you keep both your ears (or balls). |
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"There is an entire world of difference between illicit liaisons without a partners knowledge (or 'Cheating' to give it its proper name) and where its done with the knowledge and blessing of all involved.
I've been on the receiving end of finding your partner cheating and its utterly devastating - its like someones sucked all the air out of your life and you cannot breathe.
Ive also partaken in the latter form - where all involved were aware. Let me tell you that it far more rewarding, exciting and positive (in a Karmic way).
I know which I would go with every time - its happier, healthier and lets you keep both your ears (or balls)."
Well said. |
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"Just to be clear I'm talking about threesomes not me going off on my own with a guy or cuckolding."
yes, my example is more to do with shagging behind someone elses back, but im sure, even on a more subtle scale, and not as macho, it is a turn on to be 'using' another guys lady, rather than getting one of your own, as it were
unfortunately, there is no way to phrase tht which makes it sound like the woman isnt owned, but the point remains the same |
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"Just to be clear I'm talking about threesomes not me going off on my own with a guy or cuckolding.
yes, my example is more to do with shagging behind someone elses back, but im sure, even on a more subtle scale, and not as macho, it is a turn on to be 'using' another guys lady, rather than getting one of your own, as it were
unfortunately, there is no way to phrase tht which makes it sound like the woman isnt owned, but the point remains the same"
Yes I understand. I know what you're saying is true for lots of men. |
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As stated earlier..it is most likely the forbidden fruit thing. It goes for both men and woman from my experience. Provided all parties are aware and are OK with it cannot see any problem.
For me as a man it feels even hornier when the man of the couple is aware and very much in the picture. yummy yummy
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'd play alone with an attached girl, but only if her partner was ok with it - swinging for me is meant to be light and fun, I'm not here to help people cheat. |
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