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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
Now I'm a pretty lucky person...I've got the most amazing family, money in the bank and a roof over my head and a few great friends....I just never seem to be lucky in love...Ahhh well hopefully my luck will change  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
Cheeky, it will happen if you want it to and when you are ready for it.
I used to think like this but I have recently come to the view that it was just that I made inappropriate choices and then my own reluctance to fully give myself over to love prevented other relationships from developing.
I have loved and recently I have felt loved. Not in a sexual way but in a safe way and it has only happened because I realised that I didn't have to have everything to accept it as love.
That doesn't mean love with sex can't happen at some point and I feel more confident I would be ready to accept it now. |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"Cheeky, it will happen if you want it to and when you are ready for it.
I used to think like this but I have recently come to the view that it was just that I made inappropriate choices and then my own reluctance to fully give myself over to love prevented other relationships from developing.
I have loved and recently I have felt loved. Not in a sexual way but in a safe way and it has only happened because I realised that I didn't have to have everything to accept it as love.
That doesn't mean love with sex can't happen at some point and I feel more confident I would be ready to accept it now."
Wise words there....I think it's being single for 4 years mostly by choice but also because I have made some crap choices regarding men....I know one day it will happen..... |
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over a year ago
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Being single, for long periods too, means nothing about an individual really. As long as you have the ability to love, and you're ready, then it can happen anywhere.
I'm hoping anyway, I'm yet to find a woman I would love to settle down with etc!
Sure you'll find your man, one day, and if you don't, you might anyway xx |
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"Being single, for long periods too, means nothing about an individual really. As long as you have the ability to love, and you're ready, then it can happen anywhere.
I'm hoping anyway, I'm yet to find a woman I would love to settle down with etc!
Sure you'll find your man, one day, and if you don't, you might anyway xx"
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"Being single, for long periods too, means nothing about an individual really. As long as you have the ability to love, and you're ready, then it can happen anywhere.
I'm hoping anyway, I'm yet to find a woman I would love to settle down with etc!
Sure you'll find your man, one day, and if you don't, you might anyway xx"
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"Now I'm a pretty lucky person...I've got the most amazing family, money in the bank and a roof over my head and a few great friends....I just never seem to be lucky in love...Ahhh well hopefully my luck will change "
bake a cake to share?................   |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"Now I'm a pretty lucky person...I've got the most amazing family, money in the bank and a roof over my head and a few great friends....I just never seem to be lucky in love...Ahhh well hopefully my luck will change
bake a cake to share?................ "
All you think about is cake lol |
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"Now I'm a pretty lucky person...I've got the most amazing family, money in the bank and a roof over my head and a few great friends....I just never seem to be lucky in love...Ahhh well hopefully my luck will change
bake a cake to share?................
All you think about is cake lol "
now there might be a clue there you know
Its taken a while but the penny might be dropping |
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I don't even look as I am not sure it is something I want again, I think I have been on my own for so long I could not live with anyone else now, plus I like the variety that I have at the moment, don't get me wrong in that I wouldn't be open to a proper relationship its just that I would still like my own space and cant imagine living with someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't think anyone can find love.. Love will find you... Enjoy life grasp ever opportunity with both hands and when you least expect it amazing things happen .. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now I'm a pretty lucky person...I've got the most amazing family, money in the bank and a roof over my head and a few great friends....I just never seem to be lucky in love...Ahhh well hopefully my luck will change "
I fell in love with you as soon as I saw the chicken; how much money exactly? |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"Now I'm a pretty lucky person...I've got the most amazing family, money in the bank and a roof over my head and a few great friends....I just never seem to be lucky in love...Ahhh well hopefully my luck will change I fell in love with you as soon as I saw the chicken; how much money exactly?"
£1.50 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now I'm a pretty lucky person...I've got the most amazing family, money in the bank and a roof over my head and a few great friends....I just never seem to be lucky in love...Ahhh well hopefully my luck will change I fell in love with you as soon as I saw the chicken; how much money exactly?..........love is a fickle thing!
£1.50 "
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"Now I'm a pretty lucky person...I've got the most amazing family, money in the bank and a roof over my head and a few great friends....I just never seem to be lucky in love...Ahhh well hopefully my luck will change I fell in love with you as soon as I saw the chicken; how much money exactly?..........love is a fickle thing!
£1.50 "
Righty ho |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now I'm a pretty lucky person...I've got the most amazing family, money in the bank and a roof over my head and a few great friends....I just never seem to be lucky in love...Ahhh well hopefully my luck will change I fell in love with you as soon as I saw the chicken; how much money exactly?..........love is a fickle thing!
£1.50
Righty ho "
Save up a bit and for £2 i could be a righty ho. |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"Now I'm a pretty lucky person...I've got the most amazing family, money in the bank and a roof over my head and a few great friends....I just never seem to be lucky in love...Ahhh well hopefully my luck will change I fell in love with you as soon as I saw the chicken; how much money exactly?..........love is a fickle thing!
£1.50
Righty ho
Save up a bit and for £2 i could be a righty ho. "
Lol that's good to know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cheeky, it will happen if you want it to and when you are ready for it.
I used to think like this but I have recently come to the view that it was just that I made inappropriate choices and then my own reluctance to fully give myself over to love prevented other relationships from developing.
I have loved and recently I have felt loved. Not in a sexual way but in a safe way and it has only happened because I realised that I didn't have to have everything to accept it as love.
That doesn't mean love with sex can't happen at some point and I feel more confident I would be ready to accept it now."
if it's possible to feel love in a sexual way, then I think I have  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now I'm a pretty lucky person...I've got the most amazing family, money in the bank and a roof over my head and a few great friends....I just never seem to be lucky in love...Ahhh well hopefully my luck will change I fell in love with you as soon as I saw the chicken; how much money exactly?..........love is a fickle thing!
£1.50
Righty ho
Save up a bit and for £2 i could be a righty ho.
Lol that's good to know "
I'll even lend you the 50p. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm unlucky in love too 
It's so hard once you've been single for a while, then you need someone to tick all them boxes.
I must say I'm not optimistic but I won't rule it out |
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"Now I'm a pretty lucky person...I've got the most amazing family, money in the bank and a roof over my head and a few great friends....I just never seem to be lucky in love...Ahhh well hopefully my luck will change "
All the best things in life take time from a good cake to a classic movie maybe the love in your life will be a titanic epic when it happens. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
I don't think I have to have a man in my life to be complete. In fact the last couple of relationships have taught me not to settle, so until I find the guy for me (if I ever do) I'll enjoy life and not seek to change things I have no control over. |
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"I don't think I have to have a man in my life to be complete. In fact the last couple of relationships have taught me not to settle, so until I find the guy for me (if I ever do) I'll enjoy life and not seek to change things I have no control over."
The only true constant in our your life is yourself. Just enjoy what else comes along because nothing is forever.
That's what I've learnt from (failed) relationships. SO yeah, similar perspective I guess. |
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"Me four! It'll happen when you least expect it and when you're not looking for it!
I know I'm in a silly mood tonight "
We all have them moods every so often, thinking about anything and everything too much. Doesn't matter whether you're open to loving or not, when it's meant to happen, it will...sometimes people knowingly fall in love and sometimes unknowingly, whatever the case, you'll know when you really have or are being loved back...until then be happy, enjoy loving you're family, friends and yourself...love from a partner isn't everything, yes it's beautiful when it does happen and there's no other feeling like it but it's not everything so don't be put down by not having it...if you get in this mood again, get yourself off here and have some great sex...it's awesome at making you stop thinking about stuff like this for a while! |
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"I don't think I have to have a man in my life to be complete. In fact the last couple of relationships have taught me not to settle, so until I find the guy for me (if I ever do) I'll enjoy life and not seek to change things I have no control over.
The only true constant in our your life is yourself. Just enjoy what else comes along because nothing is forever.
That's what I've learnt from (failed) relationships. SO yeah, similar perspective I guess."
I agree completely! |
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"Me four! It'll happen when you least expect it and when you're not looking for it! "
Hey sexysofia
Why don't me n you give it a try and see if there is chemistry between us
Hopefully the spontaneity of it will be most unexpected.
Luv Roga
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im the same lovely. It sucks ive just gone for the wrong girls who I thought was right been single ish for sbout 4 years now and it sucks need a spooning partner any offers cant beat a cutch x |
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