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over a year ago
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How often (if at all) is it that you come across someone on here who immediately excites you, someone whos pictures get you feel hot and frisky, whos profile reads of intelligence, good humour and sexual promise, who makes you feel 'THIS is the exact sort of person I got into swinging to meet'? |
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Rarely, sadly. And even then the deep character flaws start to emerge after you get to talking.....or sometimes only after you've met, which is even worse I think.
I long to meet men who's character I can really admire as well as all the superficial stuff.
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By (user no longer on site)
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For me, I've gone into chat and shown my daft self on cam. And usually, the people I'll get on with the most are the ones that aren't fazed about the fact that I'm not sitting there furiously masturbating.
As a rather quirky being, I headbob to music and wave to people. The women interested through the chat are the ones I'll keep contact with the most.
This is an opinion I've already made only after being here nearly a month.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rarely, sadly. And even then the deep character flaws start to emerge after you get to talking.....or sometimes only after you've met, which is even worse I think.
I long to meet men who's character I can really admire as well as all the superficial stuff.
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Hardly ever but it has happened and it's exactly what I'm here to find. I don't meet many or often and I have been told I'm far too fussy but it's my profile and this is the way I like to do things  |
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Maybe a couple of times in 6 years,they have matched their profiles perfectly,I still see them now and they continue to be the people I look forward to seeing the most |
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Personally I've only felt that way about a handful of profiles I've come across/women I've met over the years, and they certainly seemed a lot more prevalent years ago. |
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Once. We lived within distance to meet a few times, got on really well, lots in common, went to a party and then he went and got a bloody vanilla girlfriend and abandoned me!!!
Grrrr.... We still chat when I see him about. He's still hot.  |
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Seems to be a lot of disappointed people here - alright then, supposing that such a WOW! person as I described would be around a 9 or 10 out of 10, what sort of score would a person have to get in order for you to actually want to meet them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems to be a lot of disappointed people here - alright then, supposing that such a WOW! person as I described would be around a 9 or 10 out of 10, what sort of score would a person have to get in order for you to actually want to meet them?"
i dont know i like them that much until i meet them though. |
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I think you need to meet to really get a rounded view of how special someone is.
I met a 7 out of 10 to use a crude scale. He turned out to be all the way up to 11.
If you have an extensive wish-list and rigidly believe you need all those component parts to give you that perfect 10 I fear a very long wait, especially in the swinging sphere.
I hope you find her though. |
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This has happened only 3/4 times. where I went on to meet them they were completely what I expected and more. One I never got to meet, it all went wrong somehow, but I'm pretty certain that even now if we met it would be amazing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How often (if at all) is it that you come across someone on here who immediately excites you, someone whos pictures get you feel hot and frisky, whos profile reads of intelligence, good humour and sexual promise, who makes you feel 'THIS is the exact sort of person I got into swinging to meet'?"
Has happened a few times and luckily I got to meet them and remain friends... Would be nice if it could happen more often though please  |
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"Fuck me, I hope I'm not scored out of 10 after a meet. 
11 dear, 11.
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At least all the way up to 11 (you do know it was a joke Spinal Tap quote right???) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How often (if at all) is it that you come across someone on here who immediately excites you, someone whos pictures get you feel hot and frisky, whos profile reads of intelligence, good humour and sexual promise, who makes you feel 'THIS is the exact sort of person I got into swinging to meet'?
Has happened a few times and luckily I got to meet them and remain friends... Would be nice if it could happen more often though please "
Indeed. |
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"Seems to be a lot of disappointed people here - alright then, supposing that such a WOW! person as I described would be around a 9 or 10 out of 10, what sort of score would a person have to get in order for you to actually want to meet them?"
I don't think it works like that - I really can't begin to rate people out of 10, and there are so many variables, eg according to my prevalent mood, and the dynamic between two people too. I got really excited about someone the other day though he was not what I would call good looking, we just clicked from the first message and he got wildly excited over some of the deeper aspects of me, who I was, which in turn really got me going.
But then I heard the first lie, and from there some the slippery slope was very short indeed.....!
Sometimes the spontaneous meet turns out to be the best and the one you thought would be perfect was rubbish (for you). |
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"Fuck me, I hope I'm not scored out of 10 after a meet.
11 dear, 11.
At least all the way up to 11 (you do know it was a joke Spinal Tap quote right???)"
God not watched that for years ! Funny as hell ! |
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