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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was wondering what people actually think about them. I'm sure not many people like them regardless of if they have them themselves. I'm not against them personally. Where all humans afterall. Are they a big turn off? Whats the general consensus?
I suppose it would be quite mixed. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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I am very lucky to have a man who loves them. He loves to stroke and kiss them and says all the time how much he enjoys the feel of them.
He has made quite a few women feel better, boosting their confidence with how excited and genuinely happy he is to play with and caress their skin.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I agree its not just weight gain that cause them I know many smaller people who have them. I'm not a big guy myself and so I read up on it just to find out a bit more and apparently its all to do with skin elasticity. That determines whether you'll be prone to then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am very lucky to have a man who loves them. He loves to stroke and kiss them and says all the time how much he enjoys the feel of them.
He has made quite a few women feel better, boosting their confidence with how excited and genuinely happy he is to play with and caress their skin.... "
I love them. They are a part of a persons story and what makes them unique. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was wondering what people actually think about them. I'm sure not many people like them regardless of if they have them themselves. I'm not against them personally. Where all humans afterall. Are they a big turn off? Whats the general consensus?
I suppose it would be quite mixed."
Maybe I'm an exception to the rule but I love them!!! My ex give birth to twins of 6lb 4 and 6lb 6, which gave here what she described as ugly stretch marks! She never believed me when I told her that I loved to touch and kiss her there! But I did!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree its not just weight gain that cause them I know many smaller people who have them. I'm not a big guy myself and so I read up on it just to find out a bit more and apparently its all to do with skin elasticity. That determines whether you'll be prone to then. "
its the dermis that tears and doesn't mend, which is why you get the ridges and troughs when your body recovers from pregnancy or weight loss. I can tell you that during pregnancy they are painful and itchy. I've not had any man look revolted by them,not even younger men who might not have touched them before. When I was slim they looked worse as they weren't stretched out so the troughs are more pronounced |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have them after having three kids and no ones really bothered about them. Theyre not as visible now and even if they were, its not a big deal lol just something in life that many people have to deal with
Someone i know calls them her 'tiger stripes' and 'love ribbons' lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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iv got them i think they ruin the way i look, but cant do nothing about them so why worry, nobody i meet is likely to say to my face they dont like them are they. |
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"I think most people have them, regardless of sex and body size.
I don't pay much attention to them."
I have them and have never given birth maybe it's because I am a cuddly bear lol
When I was a bouncer they would never hit me because if I fell on top of them I would have killed them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anyone who knocks stretch marks is a bastard it cant be helped its either due to giving birth or being overweight, and what are you starting a thread about this for? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It seems threads like this are started are always about woman, dragging them down.
Is it supposed to turn us on?
Insecurity is all I can think of for doing this.
One man's downfall is another man's treasure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP never mentioned Females?!!! Men get em too! I read it as streach marks who ever got em ... Not having a go at women at all! " I agree with what your saying, but a majority are woman.
I was pointing out all about woman, as a majority have them, and you never see a woman banging on about the male and what happens to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had 6 kids but suffer faint stretch marks on my bum and legs so I don't focus on them at all I do however notice my c section scar quite often when taking pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It amazes me how defensive people get. OP said nothing about women or fat people!
I don't mind mine, but then I don't have that many (especially for a fat woman ). Most people have them. Nothing to get excited about in my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i prefer to keep my top on so people arent put off by my big tummy and stretch marks, they dont look good in my photos. "
I whip my clothes off and prance around naked. Might even give my stomach a little wobble if I'm in a playful mood |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they were on me, I'm guessing I would hate them. I was lucky and didn't get any, although I hate my c-section scar...I always tell potential meets about it (you can hardly see it, but for me it's a big point of insecurity). Either of these on another lady wouldn't bother me tho x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i prefer to keep my top on so people arent put off by my big tummy and stretch marks, they dont look good in my photos. "
I know what u men but sod it xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP didn't mention weight gain or was not gender specific, some people are so defensive... I've got shit loads, I don't like them but they're part of me so I've learnt to live with them!
Would I be put off by a man with them? No
Do I care if men see mine? Yes, very self conscious of my mummy tummy!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP didn't mention weight gain or was not gender specific, some people are so defensive... I've got shit loads, I don't like them but they're part of me so I've learnt to live with them!
Would I be put off by a man with them? No
Do I care if men see mine? Yes, very self conscious of my mummy tummy!
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This ^^ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I started this thread because I had a genuine interest in what people thought about stretch marks. I didn't make it gender bias so I'm not sure why any gender would take it personally. By no means am I insecure about my stretch marks because they are part of me 'it is what it is' lol. Hopefully nobody is offended by my interest |
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"I started this thread because I had a genuine interest in what people thought about stretch marks. I didn't make it gender bias so I'm not sure why any gender would take it personally. By no means am I insecure about my stretch marks because they are part of me 'it is what it is' lol. Hopefully nobody is offended by my interest "
i'm not!Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I started this thread because I had a genuine interest in what people thought about stretch marks. I didn't make it gender bias so I'm not sure why any gender would take it personally. By no means am I insecure about my stretch marks because they are part of me 'it is what it is' lol. Hopefully nobody is offended by my interest " my apologies for my post..sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I started this thread because I had a genuine interest in what people thought about stretch marks. I didn't make it gender bias so I'm not sure why any gender would take it personally. By no means am I insecure about my stretch marks because they are part of me 'it is what it is' lol. Hopefully nobody is offended by my interest "
I wasn't offended either,If you stick around you'll learn that some people get off on acting personally insulted at nothing
I have some,I don't really like them even though they're barely visible now,but no one has ever mentioned them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I started this thread because I had a genuine interest in what people thought about stretch marks. I didn't make it gender bias so I'm not sure why any gender would take it personally. By no means am I insecure about my stretch marks because they are part of me 'it is what it is' lol. Hopefully nobody is offended by my interest
I wasn't offended either,If you stick around you'll learn that some people get off on acting personally insulted at nothing
I have some,I don't really like them even though they're barely visible now,but no one has ever mentioned them"
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I had a baby at 18 so got my share of strechmarks but hubby loves everysingle on of them and they along with alllll my other inperfections make me who I am and if that turns others off "each to their own" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got some on my legs when I was a skinny teenager. I had three babies and didn't get one. So they are faint now but they never ever bothered me one bit. I don't care about them on other people either.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not something that bothers me, everyone has some imperfections. Although it does remind me of Tom Conti in Shirley Valentine when he says about stretch marks, "...they show that you are alive, that you have given life; don’t be ashamed of these marks. They are beautiful." - Remember that one next time you're asked chaps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not something that bothers me, everyone has some imperfections. Although it does remind me of Tom Conti in Shirley Valentine when he says about stretch marks, "...they show that you are alive, that you have given life; don’t be ashamed of these marks. They are beautiful." - Remember that one next time you're asked chaps."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have heard people voice their opinions about weight, color, height, race and everything under the sun when it comes to preferences but never heard anyone complaining about stretch marks on other people.
Im not particularly fond of mine but I have never actually noticed them on other people so I usually assume no one really notices mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I notice them on a womans belly and abdomen they are they are super sexy! They say I am a fit and fertile woman I have given birth!
What could be more attractive? "
Well I could blame mine on my son now but truth is they were there before I had him lol. So what if present without giving birth then? |
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"I notice them on a womans belly and abdomen they are they are super sexy! They say I am a fit and fertile woman I have given birth!
What could be more attractive?
Well I could blame mine on my son now but truth is they were there before I had him lol. So what if present without giving birth then?"
You had a sexy mummies belly before you were a mummy! That's cheating! How can I ever believe anything I see again? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I notice them on a womans belly and abdomen they are they are super sexy! They say I am a fit and fertile woman I have given birth!
What could be more attractive?
Well I could blame mine on my son now but truth is they were there before I had him lol. So what if present without giving birth then?
You had a sexy mummies belly before you were a mummy! That's cheating! How can I ever believe anything I see again? "
Im just special like that |
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