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How many close friends have you got.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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2 female who wouldn't speak to me if they I was on here
1 male, 1 ex fb.
My best friend ever died 11 years ago, R.I.P. Elaine. She was the one I was always in mischief with x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Horribly, none. Quite a few friends but no one close. My fault, I'm sure. I had one once but he died and I never found another.
Oooh! Benidorm is on! Maybe that's why  "
Aaaaaw this made me smile, laugh and say Aaaaaw all at the same time!  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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I female i went out with her when i was fourteen we got back in touch two years ago after thirty three years and have become friends with benefits i can tell her every thing even about here in fact it was one of the first things i told her she didn't. Judge me maybe that's why we are so close  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have any one close to me any more, I lost my mum a couple off years ago, I find my own company is better and I don't really trust any one
My girl friends seem to be very stuck up my attitude is live life to the full because I'm going to and life is to short I'm 31 no parents both dead no hubby he was a contrail freak but I do have 3 great children who I guess r my best friends xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tend to get on far better with men but there are 2 females that if I needed honest advice is get it "
Femme doesn't count... 
She just threatened to chop off my dick with a meat tenderiser. .so....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None, I have close colleagues at work, but rarely make friends.. I've moved so many times, since being a child... I've lost the ability or inclination to make close friends.... I made a few good ones in Liverpool, but then, moved. I was a loner as a child... And this continues... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"None, I have close colleagues at work, but rarely make friends.. I've moved so many times, since being a child... I've lost the ability or inclination to make close friends.... I made a few good ones in Liverpool, but then, moved. I was a loner as a child... And this continues..."
I'm very much a loner too so I understand, I spent my childhood in isolation so it's a state I'm very much used to. I'm not inclined to form bonds for company. It's a miracle I have two friends but even them I see perhaps 3 or 4 times a year and that's enough. |
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"None, I have close colleagues at work, but rarely make friends.. I've moved so many times, since being a child... I've lost the ability or inclination to make close friends.... I made a few good ones in Liverpool, but then, moved. I was a loner as a child... And this continues..."
You have me  |
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"I tend to get on far better with men but there are 2 females that if I needed honest advice is get it
Femme doesn't count...
She just threatened to chop off my dick with a meat tenderiser. .so.... "
Good for her lol |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I tend to get on far better with men but there are 2 females that if I needed honest advice is get it
Femme doesn't count...
She just threatened to chop off my dick with a meat tenderiser. .so....
Good for her lol "
He obviously doesn't know a tenderiser from a Chopper...hey ho  |
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"None, I have close colleagues at work, but rarely make friends.. I've moved so many times, since being a child... I've lost the ability or inclination to make close friends.... I made a few good ones in Liverpool, but then, moved. I was a loner as a child... And this continues...
I'm very much a loner too so I understand, I spent my childhood in isolation so it's a state I'm very much used to. I'm not inclined to form bonds for company. It's a miracle I have two friends but even them I see perhaps 3 or 4 times a year and that's enough."
I think my inability to form close friends stems from being bullied as a child. Being rejected by people I thought were my friends has caused me to have a lot of social insecurities. I don't like to feel I am imposing my friendship on people for fear of being rejected even now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tend to get on far better with men but there are 2 females that if I needed honest advice is get it
Femme doesn't count...
She just threatened to chop off my dick with a meat tenderiser. .so....
Good for her lol He obviously doesn't know a tenderiser from a Chopper...hey ho "
I'm a single male..you actually think I cook Femme?...  |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I tend to get on far better with men but there are 2 females that if I needed honest advice is get it
Femme doesn't count...
She just threatened to chop off my dick with a meat tenderiser. .so....
Good for her lol He obviously doesn't know a tenderiser from a Chopper...hey ho
I'm a single male..you actually think I cook Femme?... "
Oh dear Ben I don't use them for cooking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"None, I have close colleagues at work, but rarely make friends.. I've moved so many times, since being a child... I've lost the ability or inclination to make close friends.... I made a few good ones in Liverpool, but then, moved. I was a loner as a child... And this continues...
You have me "
Aww chopsy thank you... I have a couple of close friends on here.. I seem to be gaining more which is nice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tend to get on far better with men but there are 2 females that if I needed honest advice is get it
Femme doesn't count...
She just threatened to chop off my dick with a meat tenderiser. .so....
Good for her lol He obviously doesn't know a tenderiser from a Chopper...hey ho
I'm a single male..you actually think I cook Femme?... Oh dear Ben I don't use them for cooking."
Fuccccckkkkk Youuuuuuu! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"None, I have close colleagues at work, but rarely make friends.. I've moved so many times, since being a child... I've lost the ability or inclination to make close friends.... I made a few good ones in Liverpool, but then, moved. I was a loner as a child... And this continues...
You have me
Aww chopsy thank you... I have a couple of close friends on here.. I seem to be gaining more which is nice. "
I'm drawn to strong women.. Femme not three bad for a cunt! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say 4 or 5. 2 possibly 3 I could tell them anything at all. Others I keep some things back . Got lots of other good friends but still limit what I say to them |
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I lost a life long best friend to cancer, have one of our trio left. Plus another best friend who lives thousands of miles away. Whatever the distance, I spend as much time with them all. 2 of them have called me a slut, and it has stuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a lot of friends but only 3 very close friends."
sorry i thought this was a Alan Partridge type of a question
how many friends you got ?
10
Well i have 11
Sorry i thought it was a spoof/wind up
i have 5 really close friends (non swingers) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Donna has 3 that she calls close friends that have stuck by her as she has them, I have 2 what I call proper mates, mates that are only a call away if I need anything as I am for them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have what I would describe as good friends, but close friends are not really my thing. I don't like to let people get to close. It's a defence mechanism though not necessarily a good thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very enlightening this thread.
I've long believed lifelong friendships are unrealistic for that majority as our lives and necessity dictates our spare time. People you can be very close to you can just drift away from and not mourn the end of the relationship you had. Im quite close to one friend but that's no guarantee he'll still be in my life in 12 months time.
Seems most people have said between 0-3 friends so I suddenly feel more normal about just having 2 friends.
For some reason I imagined everyone would have a lot more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have a problem with keeping in touch with people, let alone keeping them close in my life.
i have many people i would consider acquaintances, a few i would consider friends, but any i could count on in an hour of need?
anyone that i would drop everything to go and help, and would do the same for me, in a mutual feeling of closeness?
nope.
i have 1 or 2 members of family i would do that for, but 1 of those are my parents, so they dont really count.
i tend not to get close to people.
im an enigma
im a very solitary person in reality |
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By *aravancouple OP Man
over a year ago
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"Very enlightening this thread.
I've long believed lifelong friendships are unrealistic for that majority as our lives and necessity dictates our spare time. People you can be very close to you can just drift away from and not mourn the end of the relationship you had. Im quite close to one friend but that's no guarantee he'll still be in my life in 12 months time.
Seems most people have said between 0-3 friends so I suddenly feel more normal about just having 2 friends.
For some reason I imagined everyone would have a lot more."
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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago
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If someone was going drinking or the gym, they always ask me to join him.
When there's an "event" on several people ask me repeatedly to join them (the "gym" buddy is in the same group). One or two of those people give me advice about life as a whole and one other one has actually gone out of heir way before now to make sure I am ok and don't feel left out when there's so many of us out.
Out of all them people. Have any of them been there when I needed them most? No they haven't. Would I ever open up to them without drink involved (even then I would probably regret it). No I wouldn't. So going by that it sounds like I have a lot of many good acquaintances, but no friends? Sounds depressing when you say it like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would only call one of my children if I needed help day or night. I wouldn't burden my friends with my problems. I have 2 friends I chat openly to, one of them I go out with occasionally. My closest childhood friend I grew up with I barely see now as our lives are far apart |
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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago
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"I would only call one of my children if I needed help day or night. I wouldn't burden my friends with my problems. I have 2 friends I chat openly to, one of them I go out with occasionally. My closest childhood friend I grew up with I barely see now as our lives are far apart "
My childhood mates have turned into knobs and it started at a early age. I don't see many from school now, just a couple of them, but I don't socialise with them or anything. It does go to show though people do change their personalities and sometimes it isn't for the better  |
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