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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I personally think married couples who have sex with other people don't have a proper marriage. It is everything against what a marriage should be. I am on here as single guy but if in relationship or marriage, I wouldn't be. What do others think?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

i think that your entitled to your opinion..

and that your wrong..

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

lol bored are we?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't agree with you at all but I don't expect you thought that any married couple on here would

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You should update your profile saying you don't want to meet married couples. Will save any contacting you.

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By *gents 3 and 4Couple over a year ago

truro

"i think that your entitled to your opinion..

and that your wrong.."

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

oh dear lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wondering what you think swinging is and are you really in the right place?

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By *stwoCouple over a year ago

anywhere

Think he wants his ego massaged

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We've been married twenty years and a little kid telling us we don't have a proper marriage means absolutely nothing. We've been together almost as long as you have been alive. I've proberly got pants that are older than your longest relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Another thread that's not going to end well for the OP.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Wondering what you think swinging is and are you really in the right place?"

Totally agree, or is that the echo of trip trap I hear?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I personally think married couples who have sex with other people don't have a proper marriage. It is everything against what a marriage should be. I am on here as single guy but if in relationship or marriage, I wouldn't be. What do others think? "

I think you are wrong but your opinion is valid nonetheless. I think most couples on here are on here because they are secure in their marriage and want to have fun. If they were not secure, this is probably the last place they would be

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We've been married twenty years and a little kid telling us we don't have a proper marriage means absolutely nothing. We've been together almost as long as you have been alive. I've proberly got pants that are older than your longest relationship. "

Coffee and phone!! Oooops

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Woops!

Just a tad insulting to practically every couple on here!

If it is against everything you believe marriage to be do you still meet couples?

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By *its_n_piecesCouple over a year ago

hmmmm .... hasn't got a full grip on the meaning of the terms swinger, swingers or swinging .... wikipedia might be a good place to start

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

'granny pants'..?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Id have kept quiet about the pants

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ha ha. .....I love these threads. Just waiting to see who will bite. ...

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

your starter for ten. What is a "proper marriage"?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anyone fancy a chocolate hobnob

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Ha ha. .....I love these threads. Just waiting to see who will bite. ...

I don't think anyone will but we'll all have fun anyway

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Where the bloomin 'eck is Tina?

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

...and yet you want to meet couples?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can have your own opinion of course

But it's a load of ****

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

"Where the bloomin 'eck is Tina?"

You have to invoke her.

BOOBIES!!!!!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"your starter for ten. What is a "proper marriage"?"

would think it would be a many faceted journey totally individual to each couple, which requires hard work, humour, honesty, an ability to trust and forgive each others failings etc etc..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Surely it is the sign of a very secure marriage as someone has already said. If one is on here without the others knowledge then maybe things aren't all rosey but people have their own reasons for being on here and they are none of my business.

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

wow....

pass the popcorn....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Capt Mainwaring had it about right:

'Stupid boy'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Swinging is partner swapping.

So if anyone is not "proper" round here, it's probably the single person. (No offence to non judgemental single people)

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"your starter for ten. What is a "proper marriage"?

would think it would be a many faceted journey totally individual to each couple, which requires hard work, humour, honesty, an ability to trust and forgive each others failings etc etc..

yep I'd say that's a pretty fair description, I'd be interested to hear the ops.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

does anyone actually believe this is his real opinion???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

actually I think you're right. They don't have a proper marriage in the traditional way. What they have is something much more.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Anyway, what does this other think? I think that I don't really care what anyone else thinks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Arseholes, every body has one.

I've learnt not to ever judge how others conduct their own relationships, different things work for different people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"does anyone actually believe this is his real opinion???"
No its attention seeking!

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"does anyone actually believe this is his real opinion???"

no of course not but it livens up a dull Sunday afternoon for him and us

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Arseholes, every body has one.

I've learnt not to ever judge how others conduct their own relationships, different things work for different people. "

Don't even get me started on gay marriages lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"To have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death us do part."[6]

These are to common marriage vows...I see nothing about avoiding gang bangs, orgies and MMF lol x

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Arseholes, every body has one.

I've learnt not to ever judge how others conduct their own relationships, different things work for different people.

Don't even get me started on gay marriages lol. "

oh go on...you know you want to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

totally agree, we absolutely bore each other in bed and are totally incompatible out of it we are only together out of sheer routine and because we have kids,and we thank our lucky stars there are men like you only too happy to help us out in our pursuit for sexual gratification in our un proper marriage and for that we salute you.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"your starter for ten. What is a "proper marriage"?

would think it would be a many faceted journey totally individual to each couple, which requires hard work, humour, honesty, an ability to trust and forgive each others failings etc etc..

yep I'd say that's a pretty fair description, I'd be interested to hear the ops."

not sure he will respond, would like him to elaborate on why he thinks that..

sometimes some folks just chuck the stink bomb into the room and walk away..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

for the op to believe his own post he must be a devout religious person?? in which case a site like this would be out of bounds?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think every marriage is different.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We've definitely been married longer than you've been alive also have kids older than you. Our marriage is rock solid, if you don't believe married couples should be swinging why then are you a: on a swingers site in the first place and b: putting yourself in the position of spoiling someone else's marriage. you really do need to look up what swinging actually is and as said above, question why you're really here, oh wait I know, you think it's a guaranteed shag site !! (Mrs O)

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

""To have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death us do part."[6]

These are to common marriage vows...I see nothing about avoiding gang bangs, orgies and MMF lol x "

I think there might be a bit in the religious service about not having sex with other people but as I didn't get married in church I wouldn't know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think you are qualified to make judgement calls on the validity of other peoples relationships.

You are entitled to your opinion but suspect it will mean little to many.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i think that your entitled to your opinion..

and that your wrong.."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We've definitely been married longer than you've been alive also have kids older than you. Our marriage is rock solid, if you don't believe married couples should be swinging why then are you a: on a swingers site in the first place and b: putting yourself in the position of spoiling someone else's marriage. you really do need to look up what swinging actually is and as said above, question why you're really here, oh wait I know, you think it's a guaranteed shag site !! (Mrs O) "

Exactly that. It isn't a swinging site in anyway but name. It is a sex site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree OP we're supposed to forsake all others, but I'm a trollop with lax morals, so is my husband. In fact we have the very worst kind of marriage (ha, marriage, we're an insult to marraige) as we even see other people ALONE!!! OMG, I know ALONE!!!

And all the blokes I shag, they're immoral too. And the women he shags, they're the worst......cos they're women!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Exactly that. It isn't a swinging site in anyway but name. It is a sex site. "

It's an "allsorts" site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

better than cheating on each other.everybody is different thank god..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think you're fully entitled to your opinion.

I would though ask you to expand your rationale. Different cultures define marriage in different ways. How are you defining marriage?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

And all the blokes I shag, they're immoral too. And the women he shags, they're the worst......cos they're women!

shame on you! I bet those women actually enjoy sex too...the trollops

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You are welcome

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Oh lol, I haven't been this amused by a thread for a while

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't feed the trolls people

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By *ackandkateCouple over a year ago

Truro

I suppose the OP's next post will be that couples wont reply to his messages

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And all the blokes I shag, they're immoral too. And the women he shags, they're the worst......cos they're women!

but you are a man utd fan so god will forgive you and allow you into the kingdom of heaven

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i think that your entitled to your opinion..

and that your wrong..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Exactly that. It isn't a swinging site in anyway but name. It is a sex site. "

Oh sorry must be my eye sight, thought the site was called Fabswingers

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman over a year ago

Glenrothes

Giggling here at your last sentence!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Exactly that. It isn't a swinging site in anyway but name. It is a sex site. "

Clue in the name !!!

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By *unwmidscplCouple over a year ago

birmingham

sounds like another male who will indulge with other peoples partners but not allow his own any fun rather selfish attitude.and also totally wrong. prob once married keep a single males profile on here too.but that's fine isn't it ????????

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I think you're fully entitled to your opinion.

I would though ask you to expand your rationale. Different cultures define marriage in different ways. How are you defining marriage? "

I just think when you are married in the eyes of God, you are meant to be with that one person. I would like to think that when I found that person to marry, they are enough for me. Don't need anyone else. Otherwise what really does marriage change about your relationship?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

for some, swinging is the glue that keeps them together.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think you're fully entitled to your opinion.

I would though ask you to expand your rationale. Different cultures define marriage in different ways. How are you defining marriage?

What if you aren't married in the eyes of god?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

what about Mormons? they are married in the eyes of God but can have many wives/partners at the same time.

Looks like God is on board with it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"what about Mormons? they are married in the eyes of God but can have many wives/partners at the same time.

Looks like God is on board with it

He should ban them from making music tho ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was married in the eyes of Elvis.

I had to promise to never leave his blue suede shoes out in the rain, to regularly get him all shook up and to love him tender.

I'm fulfilling my remit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was married in the eyes of Elvis.

I had to promise to never leave his blue suede shoes out in the rain, to regularly get him all shook up and to love him tender.

I'm fulfilling my remit.

You too huh?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I made some chocolate muffins, anyone like one?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ffs! They say single guys aren't swingers and now you're saying married couples aren't either.

Bloody hell mate! I have a hard enough time getting meets and now it's just getting tougher!

...and no. I don't agree with your statement. Marriage is a contract between two people who can choose to do whatever they want. As long as they both consent to it and the other isn't meeting behind the others back. Then why can't they? Only means their marriage is rock solid.

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

And all the blokes I shag, they're immoral too. And the women he shags, they're the worst......cos they're women!

shame on you! I bet those women actually enjoy sex too...the trollops

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ffs! They say single guys aren't swingers and now you're saying married couples aren't either.

Bloody hell mate! I have a hard enough time getting meets and now it's just getting tougher!

Does it really? To me it says, you are not enough for me so let's meet others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ffs! They say single guys aren't swingers and now you're saying married couples aren't either.

Bloody hell mate! I have a hard enough time getting meets and now it's just getting tougher!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was married in the eyes of Elvis.

I had to promise to never leave his blue suede shoes out in the rain, to regularly get him all shook up and to love him tender.

I'm fulfilling my remit.

You too huh?

A-huh-huh.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bro I'm not gonna tear you a new asshole in this thread like others have done.

But, can I ask what your definition of "Swinging" is?...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Bro I'm not gonna tear you a new asshole in this thread like others have done.

But, can I ask what your definition of "Swinging" is?..."

I know what swinging is but this is not swinging site. It is a sex site. Otherwise how would singles join? It is only swingers site by name

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ffs! They say single guys aren't swingers and now you're saying married couples aren't either.

Bloody hell mate! I have a hard enough time getting meets and now it's just getting tougher!

Does it really? To me it says, you are not enough for me so let's meet others. "

No, it means, as others have said, we are solid , let's add something else.

For most of us, NOTHING is missing, its extra fun.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bro I'm not gonna tear you a new asshole in this thread like others have done.

But, can I ask what your definition of "Swinging" is?...

I know what swinging is but this is not swinging site. It is a sex site. Otherwise how would singles join? It is only swingers site by name "

Do you meet couples or not?...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ffs! They say single guys aren't swingers and now you're saying married couples aren't either.

Bloody hell mate! I have a hard enough time getting meets and now it's just getting tougher!

Does it really? To me it says, you are not enough for me so let's meet others.

No, it means, as others have said, we are solid , let's add something else.

For most of us, NOTHING is missing, its extra fun."

Ok I accept that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Bro I'm not gonna tear you a new asshole in this thread like others have done.

But, can I ask what your definition of "Swinging" is?...

I know what swinging is but this is not swinging site. It is a sex site. Otherwise how would singles join? It is only swingers site by name

Do you meet couples or not?..."

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bro I'm not gonna tear you a new asshole in this thread like others have done.

But, can I ask what your definition of "Swinging" is?...

I know what swinging is but this is not swinging site. It is a sex site. Otherwise how would singles join? It is only swingers site by name

Do you meet couples or not?...

Yes "

Then your opening post is oxymoron to say the least.

..and you're wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ffs! They say single guys aren't swingers and now you're saying married couples aren't either.

Bloody hell mate! I have a hard enough time getting meets and now it's just getting tougher!

Does it really? To me it says, you are not enough for me so let's meet others. "

That's like saying 'ooh these pair of shoes fit me rather well and are my favourite but i can't wear any other pair even though i may like to try it for a bit of fun'.

....the world's crappest example but why can't you have a favourite pair of shoes but still wear another for different occasions or for a bit of fun.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ffs! They say single guys aren't swingers and now you're saying married couples aren't either.

Bloody hell mate! I have a hard enough time getting meets and now it's just getting tougher!

Does it really? To me it says, you are not enough for me so let's meet others.

No, it means, as others have said, we are solid , let's add something else.

For most of us, NOTHING is missing, its extra fun.

Ok I accept that. "

That's good of you.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Bro I'm not gonna tear you a new asshole in this thread like others have done.

But, can I ask what your definition of "Swinging" is?...

I know what swinging is but this is not swinging site. It is a sex site. Otherwise how would singles join? It is only swingers site by name "

if its a sex site why do so many not meet for sex? lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Bro I'm not gonna tear you a new asshole in this thread like others have done.

But, can I ask what your definition of "Swinging" is?...

I know what swinging is but this is not swinging site. It is a sex site. Otherwise how would singles join? It is only swingers site by name

Do you meet couples or not?...

Yes

Then your opening post is oxymoron to say the least.

..and you're wrong.

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Oxy what?

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

Moron....oxymoron

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Bro I'm not gonna tear you a new asshole in this thread like others have done.

But, can I ask what your definition of "Swinging" is?...

I know what swinging is but this is not swinging site. It is a sex site. Otherwise how would singles join? It is only swingers site by name

if its a sex site why do so many not meet for sex? lol"

It's a frickin sex site lol com on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Moron....oxymoron"

lol

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Its a swingers site, the clue is in the name.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Moron....oxymoron"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think you're fully entitled to your opinion.

I would though ask you to expand your rationale. Different cultures define marriage in different ways. How are you defining marriage?

Do you believe that a prerequisite of marriage is a belief in God (if so which God?).

Where does your belief that 'you are meant to be with that one person' actually come from?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Bro I'm not gonna tear you a new asshole in this thread like others have done.

But, can I ask what your definition of "Swinging" is?...

I know what swinging is but this is not swinging site. It is a sex site. Otherwise how would singles join? It is only swingers site by name

if its a sex site why do so many not meet for sex? lol

It's a frickin sex site lol com on "

thats not answering the question is it now??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bro I'm not gonna tear you a new asshole in this thread like others have done.

But, can I ask what your definition of "Swinging" is?...

I know what swinging is but this is not swinging site. It is a sex site. Otherwise how would singles join? It is only swingers site by name

if its a sex site why do so many not meet for sex? lol

It's a frickin sex site lol com on "

Where does it say this is a sex site?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bloody good job that we only live together then.... And that we are not married

Everyone is entitled to their own opinions and I've heard many single men and women say that when/if they get into a relatshionship then they wouldn't have sex with anyone else!

All the couples we know, married and un married, us included have a very strain and loving relatshionship and that's something that's needed when including others into your sex life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Moron....oxymoron"

...i've been having a really shit few days. That made me smile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bro I'm not gonna tear you a new asshole in this thread like others have done.

But, can I ask what your definition of "Swinging" is?...

I know what swinging is but this is not swinging site. It is a sex site. Otherwise how would singles join? It is only swingers site by name

if its a sex site why do so many not meet for sex? lol

It's a frickin sex site lol com on

Where does it say this is a sex site?"

Why then is there a social meet up option in the meets and events section?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You should update your profile saying you don't want to meet married couples. Will save any contacting you."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh and it's a swinging site to us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Moron....oxymoron"

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"does anyone actually believe this is his real opinion???"

nope just bored lil boy syndrome

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You guys certainly do have that 'frustrated' aura about you

crystal

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Ffs! They say single guys aren't swingers and now you're saying married couples aren't either.

Bloody hell mate! I have a hard enough time getting meets and now it's just getting tougher!

Does it really? To me it says, you are not enough for me so let's meet others. "

that's just to you, on a serious note you really can't know what goes on within a relationship and one thing you relaise when you honestly love someone is that you don't own them and they don't own you, and that sex is not the same thing as love. I used the phrase "honestly love" deliberately.

I know that some people think that swinging means that your partner isn't enough and in some cases I think its actually true but in many cases it couldn't be further from the truth.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think how your message sounds to those couples that do play with single men. Doesn't really make you a very attractive proposition does it ?

I think by posting this thread you might have just committed fabicide !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What about couples who aren't actually properly married or living together or engaged or don't have kids together? They're not proper couples and how dare they advertise themselves as such.

*removes tongue from cheek*

crystal

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By *ittleBitOfFunCouple over a year ago

Cardiff

We don't need swinging to stay together but we do it because it's fun and it's experimenting together. We only meet together and it is something we both enjoying with each other's consent. If either of us didn't want to swing then we would stop straight away, but as we both enjoy it and have a great sex life I don't know what the problem is.

What do you think about the 'singles' who cheat on their partners? Why are you just aiming this at couples who are involved together?

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Bro I'm not gonna tear you a new asshole in this thread like others have done.

But, can I ask what your definition of "Swinging" is?...

I know what swinging is but this is not swinging site. It is a sex site. Otherwise how would singles join? It is only swingers site by name

if its a sex site why do so many not meet for sex? lol

It's a frickin sex site lol com on "

Sometimes I really do wonder how some people get on in the real world, and then think surely they really aren't as thick as they come across on line, NOW I think I know the answer! Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My question to myself quite often is could I watch my husband with another woman? I'm not a jealous person in other aspects of life but I don't know if I could watch the man I love touch a woman intimately. I read what couples on here say about being in love and it's just extra sex and think it sounds amazing. I'd have to catch myself a man who thought the same and see if I could do it. Wonder how difficult it would be to find a man like that

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Oh dear

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Giggling here at your last sentence!"

The spelling mistake ?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I'd much rather see a thread like this than some of the others. Gets everyone talking, gives us a bit of a laugh

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Giggling here at your last sentence!

The spelling mistake ?

Your reference to pants made me laugh, I don't know why

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

To the OP....not everyone will " get " swinging or be able to swing when they have a relationship.

If you can't understand why people do it, then it definitely isn't for you and I wouldn't think anything bad of anyone who can't.....whether they are on a swinging site or not.

Just one question though, how can you play with a couple who you think are doing something bad with their marriage? Surely you would need to respect the couple you were about to play with?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Think how your message sounds to those couples that do play with single men. Doesn't really make you a very attractive proposition does it ?

I think by posting this thread you might have just committed fabicide !"

So I should just sit on the fence and not give my real opinion so I can keep people happy and potential meets open? I have never met anyone from forum so I am not bothered in slightest if my comments put people off. It's just the way it is

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"I'd much rather see a thread like this than some of the others. Gets everyone talking, gives us a bit of a laugh

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"To the OP....not everyone will " get " swinging or be able to swing when they have a relationship.

If you can't understand why people do it, then it definitely isn't for you and I wouldn't think anything bad of anyone who can't.....whether they are on a swinging site or not.

Just one question though, how can you play with a couple who you think are doing something bad with their marriage? Surely you would need to respect the couple you were about to play with?"

cos he likes to get his cock wet innit...no respect needed on sex sites

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"To the OP....not everyone will " get " swinging or be able to swing when they have a relationship.

If you can't understand why people do it, then it definitely isn't for you and I wouldn't think anything bad of anyone who can't.....whether they are on a swinging site or not.

Just one question though, how can you play with a couple who you think are doing something bad with their marriage? Surely you would need to respect the couple you were about to play with?"
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Hmm the fact I don't see it as proper relationship just means it is quite easy for me to meet them. I wouldn't go chasing a married woman in outside world but if one was part of couple on here, I see no issues.

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple over a year ago

harrow

I think you're fully entitled to your opinion.

I would though ask you to expand your rationale. Different cultures define marriage in different ways. How are you defining marriage?

we weren't married in the eyes of god we were married in the eyes of the law

so ya boo suck to you ,and dont really give toss weather you think our marriage is a proper marriage or not .it has nothing to do with you .it still works for us after ten years so not going to change it, for someone who doesn't even understand the definition of swingers or swinging

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So I should just sit on the fence and not give my real opinion so I can keep people happy and potential meets open? "

But your opinion makes about as much sense as farting in a spacesuit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ffs! They say single guys aren't swingers and now you're saying married couples aren't either.

Bloody hell mate! I have a hard enough time getting meets and now it's just getting tougher!

Does it really? To me it says, you are not enough for me so let's meet others. "

Have you actually took the time to chat with couples?

This really isn't the case for us and probably many other couples,

It's hard to have group sex of a 3sum when there's only 2 of you...

We meet others to explore sexual exploits that are impossible to do with just 2 people... And to add to an already existing great sex life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One reaction: bless

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'd much rather see a thread like this than some of the others. Gets everyone talking, gives us a bit of a laugh

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

"To the OP....not everyone will " get " swinging or be able to swing when they have a relationship.

If you can't understand why people do it, then it definitely isn't for you and I wouldn't think anything bad of anyone who can't.....whether they are on a swinging site or not.

Just one question though, how can you play with a couple who you think are doing something bad with their marriage? Surely you would need to respect the couple you were about to play with?.

So no respect for the couple you meet.

Ok thanks for honest answer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To the OP....not everyone will " get " swinging or be able to swing when they have a relationship.

If you can't understand why people do it, then it definitely isn't for you and I wouldn't think anything bad of anyone who can't.....whether they are on a swinging site or not.

Just one question though, how can you play with a couple who you think are doing something bad with their marriage? Surely you would need to respect the couple you were about to play with?.

So no respect for the couple you meet.

Ok thanks for honest answer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

So I should just sit on the fence and not give my real opinion so I can keep people happy and potential meets open?

But your opinion makes about as much sense as farting in a spacesuit.

It makes sense to him and a lot of other people who think the same.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The Op is entitled to his opinion regardless of whether or not most of us agree with it. His opinion is probably the same as most people who don't swing, and if he sees this as a sex site only then I can understand why he could be on here and have that _iew point.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am more than satisfied with my husband and we have a great sex life,,we joined this site for a bit of fun / spice,,,I just so happen to get turned on watchin him have sex and knowin he is watchin me with another man,,,it takes all sorts to make the world go round and if we were all the same it would be boring

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is it weird that i feel like getting married now and i'm broody?

...WTF!

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple over a year ago

Bedworth

Oooooh! If that's his opinion then thank goodness I'm still legally married to someone else

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"I was married in the eyes of Elvis.

I had to promise to never leave his blue suede shoes out in the rain, to regularly get him all shook up and to love him tender.

I'm fulfilling my remit.

You too huh?

A-huh-huh."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am more than satisfied with my husband and we have a great sex life,,we joined this site for a bit of fun / spice,,,I just so happen to get turned on watchin him have sex and knowin he is watchin me with another man,,,it takes all sorts to make the world go round and if we were all the same it would be boring

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

Has Tina turned up with her FORUM INSURANCE claim forms yet?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone's entitled to their own opinion BUT this seems a little daft as far as opinions go! Couples who are married that swing must contain TRUE love.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Has Tina turned up with her FORUM INSURANCE claim forms yet?

Tina is banned from my threads so she won't be making a contribution

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So I should just sit on the fence and not give my real opinion so I can keep people happy and potential meets open?

But your opinion makes about as much sense as farting in a spacesuit.

It makes sense to him and a lot of other people who think the same."

No it can't possibly make sense to him because he says he meets couples...

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By *wbbabeWoman over a year ago

clacton

Its a swinging site and I admire the married ppl who swing on here.its a social site also not just sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Has Tina turned up with her FORUM INSURANCE claim forms yet?

Tina is banned from my threads so she won't be making a contribution "

Forums are open for anyone to post on...

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple over a year ago

harrow

Was that piece of rope long enough? And no one had to kick the chair out from under him either lol what silly fellow he is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everyone's entitled to their own opinion BUT this seems a little daft as far as opinions go! Couples who are married that swing must contain TRUE love....."

Oh I don't know if that's the case for everyone.

We've been caught in the cross-fire of several situations where the swap was very much led by one party or the other and it became apparent only when they had blazing rows inside clubs.

It's not a given that swinging couples are happy, in love or secure. There can be jealousy, co-coercion and I'm sure a lot of swinging goes on where one person is trying to please the other.

They've got as little or as much chance as any other marriage I think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Has Tina turned up with her FORUM INSURANCE claim forms yet?

Tina is banned from my threads so she won't be making a contribution

Forums are open for anyone to post on... "

No no Tina is banned from mine

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Has Tina turned up with her FORUM INSURANCE claim forms yet?

Tina is banned from my threads so she won't be making a contribution

Forums are open for anyone to post on...

No no Tina is banned from mine "

What a ridiculous thing and pretty mean thing to say...Tina can post on whatever threads she wants to...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Has Tina turned up with her FORUM INSURANCE claim forms yet?

Tina is banned from my threads so she won't be making a contribution

Forums are open for anyone to post on...

No no Tina is banned from mine "

Erm no she's not...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So I should just sit on the fence and not give my real opinion so I can keep people happy and potential meets open?

But your opinion makes about as much sense as farting in a spacesuit.

It makes sense to him and a lot of other people who think the same.

No it can't possibly make sense to him because he says he meets couples..."

and he doesn't value the validity of the union any couple he meets have undertaken

way to go

I might have to add an addendum to the comments I made in the arrogant males thread now ...

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

What I think is (well it's more of a fleeting thought)... I wonder if ignorance really is bliss?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Has Tina turned up with her FORUM INSURANCE claim forms yet?

Tina is banned from my threads so she won't be making a contribution

Forums are open for anyone to post on...

No no Tina is banned from mine

What a ridiculous thing and pretty mean thing to say...Tina can post on whatever threads she wants to... "

I'm just messing lol. I know everyone loves Tina and she rules the forum. She can comment if she likes don't worry.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everyone's entitled to their own opinion BUT this seems a little daft as far as opinions go! Couples who are married that swing must contain TRUE love.....

Oh I don't know if that's the case for everyone.

We've been caught in the cross-fire of several situations where the swap was very much led by one party or the other and it became apparent only when they had blazing rows inside clubs.

It's not a given that swinging couples are happy, in love or secure. There can be jealousy, co-coercion and I'm sure a lot of swinging goes on where one person is trying to please the other.

They've got as little or as much chance as any other marriage I think.

Fair point.....maybe I've met the right kind of couples then. Actually found my first ever meet with a couple the most nervy as the jealousy issue was in my mind but thankfully the nerves were settled pretty quick! Like you say marriages have the same chances either way but I don't for one second agree that swinging goes against the whole purpose of being married....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So I am guessing you don't have sex with any of the married women on here then?

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By *atsnCorsetsCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

Or, and here is a thought for you, they're just having lots of fun? Sex isn't love and love isn't sex! Being open minded leads to endless fun possibilities! But to save you accidentally contacting us, especially as we're not married so therefore living in sin which I'm sure you'd also not agree with, we'll block you!

And then have a few lovely fun orgies! Best not to judge others lest you be judged yourself.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Has Tina turned up with her FORUM INSURANCE claim forms yet?

Tina is banned from my threads so she won't be making a contribution

Forums are open for anyone to post on...

No no Tina is banned from mine

What a ridiculous thing and pretty mean thing to say...Tina can post on whatever threads she wants to...

I'm just messing lol. I know everyone loves Tina and she rules the forum. She can comment if she likes don't worry. "

Are you bored today?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A few words from Dolly Parton on this one ....

Now a man will take a good girl

And he'll ruin her reputation

But when he wants to marry

Well, that's a different situation

He'll just walk off and leave her

To do the best she can

While he looks for an angel

To wear his wedding band

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So I should just sit on the fence and not give my real opinion so I can keep people happy and potential meets open?

But your opinion makes about as much sense as farting in a spacesuit.

It makes sense to him and a lot of other people who think the same.

No it can't possibly make sense to him because he says he meets couples...

and he doesn't value the validity of the union any couple he meets have undertaken

way to go

I might have to add an addendum to the comments I made in the arrogant males thread now ...

You two are two blokes looking to meet other blokes for sex. You won't be able to convince me it's a relationship. It's pretty much two single guys who like to shag each other inviting others to join them. Same as most other gay relationships. If you were only with each other, people may take it seriously but you are not. And I understand I don't know you and obviously, it may be different case for you but that's the impression I get when it comes to these things. It just doesn't make sense to me.

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By *he Original TTMan over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

"Moron....oxymoron"

Play nicely Ruggers...!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op your single so you know shit about married couples .

When your married and find the woman who connects with you on every level then you can have a opinion.

I've not read any other comment on the post just yours and your really don't know what your on about

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So I should just sit on the fence and not give my real opinion so I can keep people happy and potential meets open?

But your opinion makes about as much sense as farting in a spacesuit.

It makes sense to him and a lot of other people who think the same.

No it can't possibly make sense to him because he says he meets couples...

and he doesn't value the validity of the union any couple he meets have undertaken

way to go

I might have to add an addendum to the comments I made in the arrogant males thread now ...

As long as it makes sense to us ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A few words from Dolly Parton on this one ....

Now a man will take a good girl

And he'll ruin her reputation

But when he wants to marry

Well, that's a different situation

He'll just walk off and leave her

To do the best she can

While he looks for an angel

To wear his wedding band"

You actually quoting me Dolly frickin Parton?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

I am thinking the OP has played with a few couples on here, well for the last 2 hours anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Has Tina turned up with her FORUM INSURANCE claim forms yet?

Tina is banned from my threads so she won't be making a contribution

Forums are open for anyone to post on...

No no Tina is banned from mine

What a ridiculous thing and pretty mean thing to say...Tina can post on whatever threads she wants to...

I'm just messing lol. I know everyone loves Tina and she rules the forum. She can comment if she likes don't worry.

Are you bored today? "

Just a wind up merchant

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So I should just sit on the fence and not give my real opinion so I can keep people happy and potential meets open?

But your opinion makes about as much sense as farting in a spacesuit.

It makes sense to him and a lot of other people who think the same.

No it can't possibly make sense to him because he says he meets couples...

and he doesn't value the validity of the union any couple he meets have undertaken

way to go

I might have to add an addendum to the comments I made in the arrogant males thread now ...

As long as it makes sense to us ..."

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A few words from Dolly Parton on this one ....

Now a man will take a good girl

And he'll ruin her reputation

But when he wants to marry

Well, that's a different situation

He'll just walk off and leave her

To do the best she can

While he looks for an angel

To wear his wedding band

You actually quoting me Dolly frickin Parton? "

If you're gonna go gay you might as well go all out

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A few words from Dolly Parton on this one ....

Now a man will take a good girl

And he'll ruin her reputation

But when he wants to marry

Well, that's a different situation

He'll just walk off and leave her

To do the best she can

While he looks for an angel

To wear his wedding band

You actually quoting me Dolly frickin Parton?

If you're gonna go gay you might as well go all out

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why get so irate about words on a screen. Everyone is entitled to their opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a fair comment from people who don't understand the concept of swinging, to swing a marriage has to be strong and built on trust, I do however find it a strange comment from a man who wants to meet couples and be part of the swinging lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Seems some, as in OP, think this is a sex site. I wonder if they ever look up swinging on wiki ? Either that or they have all their blood in their cock and left none for their brain to function with!!

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple over a year ago

harrow

Oh dear the rope wasn't long enough by the look of the OP's last comment .now he's making judgments about gay relationships . Talk about forgeting to throw the grenade after you pull the pin

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am thinking the OP has played with a few couples on here, well for the last 2 hours anyway

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"I am thinking the OP has played with a few couples on here, well for the last 2 hours anyway

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"I am thinking the OP has played with a few couples on here, well for the last 2 hours anyway

Lol.

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By *EXY50ishWoman over a year ago

Anywhere and nowhere

I honestly cant decide if I agree with you or not !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think you're fully entitled to your opinion.

I would though ask you to expand your rationale. Different cultures define marriage in different ways. How are you defining marriage?

It's a valid point , and not that easy to explain , but here goes .

We started swinging before we got married , 3 years ago . We got married 18 months ago .

We love each other as much as anyone can love anyone .

So why do we swing ?

Because we can !

Our love for each other is strong enough for us to be honest enough with each other , so much so we can engage in our fantasies .

We have no jealousy issues , we don't wish for anything , we can and do everything imaginable with other men , women and couples , and look forward to each and every day .

We married to show the world how much we love each other , and as time goes by our love and respect for each other gets stronger .

Hope this helps

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