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over a year ago
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I did my first at a party, I'm glad I did.
It just came natural, I walked in that party no expectations, not knowing.
I did not try neither did she, it happened. |
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My first experience was in a club... Not advised as so many eyes watching and i never enjoyed. Will try again one day but would like a couple or one on one x |
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Think through the options of how it could happen - at home together alone, with partners, at a club or party pre-agreed or not etc, and see which may work for you. Sometimes something you can just dip your toe into, and walk away from is easier. If you dont have to explain afterwards, but could just move into play with a different partner, it could reduce the stigma. Most of these things we worry about are way less of an issue once we have done them. Overall, the right partner for you is important and in the right setting. Good luck! |
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It certainly took me by surprise my first time. It wasnt planned. It happened very naturally and I loved it.
I seem to be having fun with more women than men these days.. 
If you feel sexy and in the mood with the right person, it will just flow...
You will know soon enough if its for you.  Good luck. |
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"Think through the options of how it could happen - at home together alone, with partners, at a club or party pre-agreed or not etc, and see which may work for you. Sometimes something you can just dip your toe into, and walk away from is easier. If you dont have to explain afterwards, but could just move into play with a different partner, it could reduce the stigma. Most of these things we worry about are way less of an issue once we have done them. Overall, the right partner for you is important and in the right setting. Good luck! "
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My advice from a male perspective, but based on experience. Find someone you trust who is bi. Explain how you feel and see where it goes. She'll understand your nerves and not take anything too far too soon. |
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