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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have just read an article on a woman that reported her child to the police, for threatening to stab her.
What if at all would you report your child for? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow, difficult question. I would try and weight up the gravity of what they'd done. Even sitting here now and thinking about it I can't make my mind up one way or the other. I think if it was serious enough I would want them to do the right thing and turn themselves in. I would then support them through whatever happened afterward. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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I was attacked (by an adult) many years ago and it was his mother who reported him to the police.
It's a difficult one but I would tell them I am reporting them for criminal activities and then report them.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is it, I was wondering what peoples views were to make me post.
This particular lady, was tired of her d*unken son threatening her, but he wouldn't leave either. |
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There was an infamous murder of an organist one Christmas eve a couple of years ago near me and the family, including mum and Dad, of one of the participants helped to alibi him.
The police were aware he was involved but due to an unshakable alibi were unable to include him in the prosecution. I know this because I know hos younger sister who he and the rest of the family terrorised into keeping quiet.
I would shop a family member for crimes against a person, especially violent crimes. I have in the past threatened to call the police on friends who wanted to drive under.the.influence unless they handed their keys over - they all have done so I've never had to act on it. |
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"I have just read an article on a woman that reported her child to the police, for threatening to stab her.
What if at all would you report your child for?"
Personally my first thought was how much abuse had been inflicted on the child to push it to the point where it felt it had no choice but too threaten to stab its mother? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is it, I was wondering what peoples views were to make me post.
This particular lady, was tired of her d*unken son threatening her, but he wouldn't leave either."
Then id have done the same as her,just because shes his mother doesn't mean she has to put up with abusive behaviour,maybe it will make him think twice about his actions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definately anything with murderous intent, but it's hard to say for other stuff....If he robbed a bank and fled to the West Indies I'd probably go with him  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Then I read the later post where you refer to 'd*unken son'...
How old is this child? Personally I would say that we leave childhood behind at puberty."
So if someone goes through puberty at 14 they are no longer a child ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Then I read the later post where you refer to 'd*unken son'...
How old is this child? Personally I would say that we leave childhood behind at puberty."
21, I can only go by if abused all his life and lost it
Or maybe just an animal of a son with no respect. |
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By *opinovMan
over a year ago
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"I have just read an article on a woman that reported her child to the police, for threatening to stab her.
What if at all would you report your child for?"
For a moment, I thought you meant reporting them to admin on here for a post they'd made.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have just read an article on a woman that reported her child to the police, for threatening to stab her.
What if at all would you report your child for?
For a moment, I thought you meant reporting them to admin on here for a post they'd made.
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soppy sod |
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"Then I read the later post where you refer to 'd*unken son'...
How old is this child? Personally I would say that we leave childhood behind at puberty.
So if someone goes through puberty at 14 they are no longer a child ?"
If I am being totally honest I would say that unless there is a serious mental defect that alters development that regardless of actually going through puberty that no teenagers are children. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Through work I met a customer and she ha two attempted murders against her by her son, bearing in mind he wasn't there when I went round to the house he was locked up and correctly so |
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Depends on the situation, knew a guy years ago shopped his son to the police for theft, his son was a drug user and he tried everywhich way to help him, he knew he burgled to fuel his habit but still the father stood by hime till one day the son broke into his own house and burgled it. that was the final straw he reported him to the police and with his previous he got put away, it saved his life as whilst in prison he came off the drugs.
Could i do it to my family?? too right I could |
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"My son could be 26 but I would still call him my child as he is my child regardless of age"
Really?
So if you meet someone on the street while your with your 26 year old son you say "this is my child xxxx" not "this is my son xxxx"?
Will you still be calling him a child when he is married and raising his own family? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My son could be 26 but I would still call him my child as he is my child regardless of age
Really?
So if you meet someone on the street while your with your 26 year old son you say "this is my child xxxx" not "this is my son xxxx"?
Will you still be calling him a child when he is married and raising his own family?"
my son and daughter will be my babies till the day I die, so Yes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My son could be 26 but I would still call him my child as he is my child regardless of age
Really?
So if you meet someone on the street while your with your 26 year old son you say "this is my child xxxx" not "this is my son xxxx"?
Will you still be calling him a child when he is married and raising his own family?"
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They are still my child so yeah I could well say that or son maybe both who knows my point is they will always be my child so yeah I would call them it regardless of age |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Then I read the later post where you refer to 'd*unken son'...
How old is this child? Personally I would say that we leave childhood behind at puberty.
So if someone goes through puberty at 14 they are no longer a child ?
If I am being totally honest I would say that unless there is a serious mental defect that alters development that regardless of actually going through puberty that no teenagers are children. "
So anyone over the age of twelve should be treated as an Adult, very dangerous ground i think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always told mine when they were young, tell me anything but don't lie and ill forgive most things but mug old people or rob someone's house and that's it !!!
Few other things I wouldn't be to happy with either of course. |
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"Then I read the later post where you refer to 'd*unken son'...
How old is this child? Personally I would say that we leave childhood behind at puberty.
So if someone goes through puberty at 14 they are no longer a child ?
If I am being totally honest I would say that unless there is a serious mental defect that alters development that regardless of actually going through puberty that no teenagers are children.
So anyone over the age of twelve should be treated as an Adult, very dangerous ground i think"
At no point did I say that anyone becomes an adult at any age. What I said was that no teenager (unless there is a medical reason) is a child. The is journey from childhood to adulthood, we even have special juvenile courts to deal with offences committed by those who are no longer children but have yet to reach adulthood. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Then I read the later post where you refer to 'd*unken son'...
How old is this child? Personally I would say that we leave childhood behind at puberty.
So if someone goes through puberty at 14 they are no longer a child ?
If I am being totally honest I would say that unless there is a serious mental defect that alters development that regardless of actually going through puberty that no teenagers are children.
So anyone over the age of twelve should be treated as an Adult, very dangerous ground i think
At no point did I say that anyone becomes an adult at any age. What I said was that no teenager (unless there is a medical reason) is a child. The is journey from childhood to adulthood, we even have special juvenile courts to deal with offences committed by those who are no longer children but have yet to reach adulthood. "
you said they leave childhood at Puberty, maybe i am reading it wrong
youth Courts are there for those that are deemed old enough to be responsible for their actions but under the age to which they are able to be sent to an adult prison |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My son could be 26 but I would still call him my child as he is my child regardless of age
Really?
So if you meet someone on the street while your with your 26 year old son you say "this is my child xxxx" not "this is my son xxxx"?
Will you still be calling him a child when he is married and raising his own family?"
always your children yes? i wouldnt think twice about saying this is my child - go as far to say they will always be my babies -
and yes i would report them - have always told them i would from being small - so far so good they havent strayed from the straight and narrow |
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"Then I read the later post where you refer to 'd*unken son'...
How old is this child? Personally I would say that we leave childhood behind at puberty."
So in your opinion, a 9 year old girl can be an adult???? really??
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