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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
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Is it Thursday, can I have a rant please?? Do guys not realise that a 'conversation' on a mobile consisting of half line sentences is not really going to have us ladies entranced, it's more like pulling teeth!! Get a laptop, wait 'til you have time to type more with one finger, change SOMETHING!!!
I thank you.......  |
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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Why would the device make a difference to a person's communication style? I'm on my mobile now and conversing in full sentences  "
I don't know but it seems to. A few years ago before everyone used mobiles messages were always a few lines long at least.
I can see why, I hate typing on a mobile - I use my desktop whenever possible. |
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over a year ago
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I would have to agree with everyone, a bad workman always blames his tools as the saying goes and most smart phones are really easy to use while conversing with people. |
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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I would have said come back to me when you can chat more freely,maybe he was doing 2 things at once,maybe thats just how he communicates anyway "
I think a lot of guys do. I remember my 'beloved vet' as I used to call my horse vet - we would chat for hours in person or on the phone, but I could never get more than a line out of him over email.
I just wondered if they realised that it really does not do them any favours. |
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"I would have said come back to me when you can chat more freely,maybe he was doing 2 things at once,maybe thats just how he communicates anyway
I think a lot of guys do. I remember my 'beloved vet' as I used to call my horse vet - we would chat for hours in person or on the phone, but I could never get more than a line out of him over email.
I just wondered if they realised that it really does not do them any favours."
The penny will drop as very soon for them when you have moved on to pastures greener and more entertaining. Their loss for sure. |
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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
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I just wondered if they realised that it really does not do them any favours.
The penny will drop as very soon for them when you have moved on to pastures greener and more entertaining. Their loss for sure. "
Well, this is my heads up! Men of Fabs - many ladies need more than one line each message!! |
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Ah not a conversation as in speak but the written word conversation.
Dunno but if they can do that on a mobile then in all probability they would do it on anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I just wondered if they realised that it really does not do them any favours.
The penny will drop as very soon for them when you have moved on to pastures greener and more entertaining. Their loss for sure.
Well, this is my heads up! Men of Fabs - many ladies need more than one line each message!!"
Duly noted Frisky_Mare thanks for the heads up, and may you find the man with the words in his vocabulary to enjoy lots of thrilling and enlighten conversation with. Have a happy rest of your Thursday x |
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"Why would the device make a difference to a person's communication?
I use my desktop whenever possible."
I would love to get you over the desktop 
Nothing wrong with my communication skills  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why would the device make a difference to a person's communication?
I use my desktop whenever possible.
I would love to get you over the desktop
Nothing wrong with my communication skills "
lol |
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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Why continue chatting to someone if you don't like their communication style?  "
I tend not to, though some of my favourite meets are rubbish online. But that's my point - they could be really nice guys that get repeatedly rejected because they are assuming that the kind of text/micro conversations one might have in other circumstances are enough, and they are often not.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As a bit of a social Neanderthal myself I prefer short and sweet. I rabbit on in person but I don't want to be staring at my phone reading a novel all day long |
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"Why continue chatting to someone if you don't like their communication style?
I tend not to, though some of my favourite meets are rubbish online. But that's my point - they could be really nice guys that get repeatedly rejected because they are assuming that the kind of text/micro conversations one might have in other circumstances are enough, and they are often not. "
Drag them off for a coffee. If all they do is grunt... run. If they are hot...... well.... you know what to do...  |
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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
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Drag them off for a coffee. If all they do is grunt... run. If they are hot...... well.... you know what to do... "
Haha, I might like the grunting!
But sadly for the guys concerned there is so much choice on here I won't even meet for coffee if someone does not interest me online first. |
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Drag them off for a coffee. If all they do is grunt... run. If they are hot...... well.... you know what to do...
Haha, I might like the grunting!
But sadly for the guys concerned there is so much choice on here I won't even meet for coffee if someone does not interest me online first."
I thought it was just me that liked grunting.  |
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Drag them off for a coffee. If all they do is grunt... run. If they are hot...... well.... you know what to do...
Haha, I might like the grunting!
But sadly for the guys concerned there is so much choice on here I won't even meet for coffee if someone does not interest me online first."
I thought you said some of your favourite meets were rubbish online,is that a different kind of rubbish to what the thread is about? |
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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
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Nope, same thing. Sometimes I have met someone for other reasons, and have had a wonderful meet, and they are still rubbish online - so that is my point, there are wonderful guys out there who are not getting meets because of their reluctance/inability to communicate well on a phone app. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it Thursday, can I have a rant please?? Do guys not realise that a 'conversation' on a mobile consisting of half line sentences is not really going to have us ladies entranced, it's more like pulling teeth!! Get a laptop, wait 'til you have time to type more with one finger, change SOMETHING!!!
I thank you....... "
Have you considered the guy might be doing his best he may have typing issues he might have an old phone or on a budget as times are tough. some guys don't make an effort some women don't too I just hope he doesn't realise this and feel ridiculed. |
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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
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Have you considered the guy might be doing his best he may have typing issues he might have an old phone or on a budget as times are tough. some guys don't make an effort some women don't too I just hope he doesn't realise this and feel ridiculed. "
It's aimed at the many, no-one in particular, though I did actually mentioned it to one guy I was talking to this morning, and he agreed it was difficult - suggested we talk on the phone instead.
BTW Honeypot what is that garment you have on in your avatar pic, I really like it/them - but I cannot message you direct to ask?? |
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