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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You're a couple and you have a meet planned with another couple.
When you get there, your partner/ other half says they changed their mind and don't want to full swap anymore.
What would you do? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"You're a couple and you have a meet planned with another couple.
When you get there, your partner/ other half says they changed their mind and don't want to full swap anymore.
What would you do?"
Respect their wishes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're a couple and you have a meet planned with another couple.
When you get there, your partner/ other half says they changed their mind and don't want to full swap anymore.
What would you do?"
Go with it.
Uncomfortable and awkward as it would be, their feelings would be more important to me than those of the other couple.
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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago
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"You're a couple and you have a meet planned with another couple.
When you get there, your partner/ other half says they changed their mind and don't want to full swap anymore.
What would you do?
Respect their wishes."
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"You're a couple and you have a meet planned with another couple.
When you get there, your partner/ other half says they changed their mind and don't want to full swap anymore.
What would you do?"
I'd respect their feelings and not do whatever it is they are not happy with as I would expect him to do if I had the same reservations. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You're a couple and you have a meet planned with another couple.
When you get there, your partner/ other half says they changed their mind and don't want to full swap anymore.
What would you do?
Go with it.
Uncomfortable and awkward as it would be, their feelings would be more important to me than those of the other couple.
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I agree it would be pretty awkward. It was on another thread that got me thinking. Sounded like the husband was apologising for his wife's change of heart. But I would hope the person would stick together with their other half. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is he telling me alone or everyone together?
Telling you on one side away from them."
Id ask if he even felt comfortable with soft swap before we went any further because there must be some sort of issue and I wouldn't want to force a situation if there was going to be any sort of atmosphere |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Respect his or her wishers...& politely explain that you dont want too..but id be honest & tell them why I wouldnt want too..but hey thats just me!..Iit wouldnt be fair to keep them second guessing either of why you didnt want to play... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Respect his wishes.
I always state this could happen in a delicate way during messaging,
and state, it happens, from both sides, and if it does shake hands no harm done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"drink there beer and leave lol"
we got invited to a party once.
the other attendees were rather ignorant, and when play started turned their backs on us, so we ate their chicken wings and walked out lol |
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over a year ago
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"You're a couple and you have a meet planned with another couple.
When you get there, your partner/ other half says they changed their mind and don't want to full swap anymore.
What would you do?
Go with it.
Uncomfortable and awkward as it would be, their feelings would be more important to me than those of the other couple.
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this - its most important to us that we respect each others wants etc - |
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"You're a couple and you have a meet planned with another couple.
When you get there, your partner/ other half says they changed their mind and don't want to full swap anymore.
What would you do?
Go with it.
Uncomfortable and awkward as it would be, their feelings would be more important to me than those of the other couple.
I agree it would be pretty awkward. It was on another thread that got me thinking. Sounded like the husband was apologising for his wife's change of heart. But I would hope the person would stick together with their other half."
Depends how he was apologising......
"I'm really sorry but we're going to have to knock it on the head as we're just not feeling it tonight" is acceptable as you're showing support for your partner but apologising to the other couple who will have made the effort to meet you.
"I'm really sorry but the silly cow has changed her mind" maybe not so good...... |
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"You're a couple and you have a meet planned with another couple.
When you get there, your partner/ other half says they changed their mind and don't want to full swap anymore.
What would you do?
Respect their wishes."
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