"does anyone insist their meet bring them a gift etc? have heard this not something i do! x"
Bugger that! If I choose to take a gift it's my choice. And I've only done that a few times with regular meets on 'special' occasions...!
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over a year ago
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One guy told me a woman he met insisted on money being transfered to her bank acc so she could buy lingerie for the meet! He told her no and she refused to meet. Prostitution if you ask me. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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I'd never ask for anything, always appreciate a bottle of vino collapso or bunch of daffs...if I'm visiting I'll take wine and/or Cumbrian specialities - I've gifted sausages and Kendal mint cake in the past
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Maybe it's the way I've been bought up - if I'm a guest in someones house, I take a small gift - in swinging, it's usually a bottle of wine. I gave a bottle of Cabernet Sauvignon once and it was called 'Fab Cab' which I thought was apt. |
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over a year ago
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"This is a swingers site.. not a cash for gash..
Its yet another abusive nature of the swinging etiquette to abuse gullible men.
Play nicely
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Cash for gash!!!
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"All the time men agree to buy gifts for meets because they think it allows them access to fanny then the more some women will ask for them"
I'd already 'got access to fanny' so the fact that I took a bottle of wine had no influence on whether I was going to shag her or not. It's not a bribe, I consider it polite. If I was ASKED, however, that's a different kettle of fish. |
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"Maybe it's the way I've been bought up - if I'm a guest in someones house, I take a small gift - in swinging, it's usually a bottle of wine. I gave a bottle of Cabernet Sauvignon once and it was called 'Fab Cab' which I thought was apt. "
a bottle of wine is just a refreshment,like bringing a packed lunch |
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"All the time men agree to buy gifts for meets because they think it allows them access to fanny then the more some women will ask for them
I'd already 'got access to fanny' so the fact that I took a bottle of wine had no influence on whether I was going to shag her or not. It's not a bribe, I consider it polite. If I was ASKED, however, that's a different kettle of fish. "
That was my point |
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"All the time men agree to buy gifts for meets because they think it allows them access to fanny then the more some women will ask for them
I'd already 'got access to fanny' so the fact that I took a bottle of wine had no influence on whether I was going to shag her or not. It's not a bribe, I consider it polite. If I was ASKED, however, that's a different kettle of fish.
That was my point" |
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"Why is the title 'rinsing'? I thought it was about ways to rinse ones hair which proves I'm a sad git for reading it.
Badanna: I could extend my hospitality to some nibbles "
If a multi pack of cheese and onion walkers fell in my lap I'd be ever so grateful |
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"Yes I always expect to be honoured in the appropriate manner. Small golden statues of myself or maybe sacrifice a goat."
would that be an excited effigy of yourself? |
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I think if they ask for gifts or money ....... people should see the signs and say no . As should not be on here if its there job and only here for what they can get from people . Report .... as some mug could really get taken to the cleaners for a lot of money . It should not come into swinging, Lets say a person into this could have a field day here .. some lonely person no joy from his mail but could if he payed for this and that no its not on . |
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"Why is the title 'rinsing'? I thought it was about ways to rinse ones hair which proves I'm a sad git for reading it.
Badanna: I could extend my hospitality to some nibbles
If a multi pack of cheese and onion walkers fell in my lap I'd be ever so grateful "
You sexy bitch! |
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"Yes I always expect to be honoured in the appropriate manner. Small golden statues of myself or maybe sacrifice a goat.
would that be an excited effigy of yourself?"
Yes of course. I'm a big fan of the Roman approach to effigy's. |
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"Yes I always expect to be honoured in the appropriate manner. Small golden statues of myself or maybe sacrifice a goat.
would that be an excited effigy of yourself?
Yes of course. I'm a big fan of the Roman approach to effigy's."
could be a useful toy that. Do you do it in a large? |
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"Yes I always expect to be honoured in the appropriate manner. Small golden statues of myself or maybe sacrifice a goat.
would that be an excited effigy of yourself?
Yes of course. I'm a big fan of the Roman approach to effigy's.
could be a useful toy that. Do you do it in a large?"
I do small, medium, large and actual size IF U NO WAT I MEAN!!¡ |
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"Yes I always expect to be honoured in the appropriate manner. Small golden statues of myself or maybe sacrifice a goat.
would that be an excited effigy of yourself?
Yes of course. I'm a big fan of the Roman approach to effigy's.
could be a useful toy that. Do you do it in a large?
I do small, medium, large and actual size IF U NO WAT I MEAN!!¡"
I'll have one in each size. Send them to my room |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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"If I was asked I'd say no, have a wank, watch some porn and swig the wine mesen *Cumbrian Accent*"
That's not a bad accent for a Southerner, but we'd usually "nek" the wine oursen |
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No. I've never asked for nor received anything other than the sex. I've taken gifts usually edible as guys accommodate me and have picked me up and dropped me home so I thought it was just polite |
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"No. I've never asked for nor received anything other than the sex. I've taken gifts usually edible as guys accommodate me and have picked me up and dropped me home so I thought it was just polite "
sorry had to smile - anything edible is me and him |
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"No. I've never asked for nor received anything other than the sex. I've taken gifts usually edible as guys accommodate me and have picked me up and dropped me home so I thought it was just polite
sorry had to smile - anything edible is me and him "
I realised what id put the minute I hit post. . I take cake and recently chocolates for us to share but we never got to eat them, just each other |
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"If I was asked I'd say no, have a wank, watch some porn and swig the wine mesen *Cumbrian Accent*
That's not a bad accent for a Southerner, but we'd usually "nek" the wine oursen "
Gizashag and I'll bring you some Liebfraumilch |
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A gift is always appreciated but I've never asked for one. I took a gift for a man taking me to a party and have in the past been given a bottle of wine.
Many guys recoil at the thought of a social so can imagine how they would react at being told to bring a gift. |
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"No. I've never asked for nor received anything other than the sex. I've taken gifts usually edible as guys accommodate me and have picked me up and dropped me home so I thought it was just polite
sorry had to smile - anything edible is me and him
I realised what id put the minute I hit post. . I take cake and recently chocolates for us to share but we never got to eat them, just each other "
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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"If I was asked I'd say no, have a wank, watch some porn and swig the wine mesen *Cumbrian Accent*
That's not a bad accent for a Southerner, but we'd usually "nek" the wine oursen
Gizashag and I'll bring you some Liebfraumilch "
Liebfraumilch? I'm a classy Blue Nun kinda gal I'll have you know...or should that be Black Tower...maybe that would be better on a BBC thread |
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"Sometimes take pink champagne and strawberries.........but fun with food is on the agenda lol "
I've used champagne and strawberries...those combined with sex is a real winner.
Caz: a cup of tea and I'm yours |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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"Sometimes take pink champagne and strawberries.........but fun with food is on the agenda lol
I've used champagne and strawberries...those combined with sex is a real winner.
Caz: a cup of tea and I'm yours "
Kettle is always on for you Stevie Boy...bloody hurry up and get up here, I've burnt out 17 fecking elements since I joined |
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