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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"*Got too many emails can't reply all* .. I find this sometimes over exaggerating .Whats your peeps take on this one? "
We went on holiday for a few days and came back to 120 + plus emails. We were not going to reply to all of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a fanny attracts mails..simple..said fanny doesnt even need pics!
straight single guys exaggerate VERY much, as they get 'tonnes' of bi/gay/straight males messaging them...
...when they actually mean, they get a cpl of mails per week, from men..but it makes them very angry and disgusted  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know someone who gets 150 per day at minimum.
If she puts her filters right up she'll get at least 20. And that's guys dodging the filters.
I know that because I was with her when she logged in for about 5 minutes and she got 17 messages. Lol!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know someone who gets 150 per day at minimum.
If she puts her filters right up she'll get at least 20. And that's guys dodging the filters.
I know that because I was with her when she logged in for about 5 minutes and she got 17 messages. Lol!
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I knew it was u when u replied about how hot u found my cock  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With an age range of 25 to 50 I was getting too many to answer them all. I had 180+ unread messages at one point. It's not a job its a hobby "
180?
That's 4 years worth for me lol |
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"I know someone who gets 150 per day at minimum.
If she puts her filters right up she'll get at least 20. And that's guys dodging the filters.
I know that because I was with her when she logged in for about 5 minutes and she got 17 messages. Lol!
I knew it was u when u replied about how hot u found my cock "
Get a room you 2  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"*Got too many emails can't reply all* .. I find this sometimes over exaggerating .Whats your peeps take on this one? "
Some get a lot and some clearly exaggerate which is amusing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not an exaggeration at all, I only un-hid my profile a few hours ago and I've had about 50messages, this is with filters set too! "
It must be all those pork pies. You make everybody hungry lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not an exaggeration at all, I only un-hid my profile a few hours ago and I've had about 50messages, this is with filters set too!
It must be all those pork pies. You make everybody hungry lol
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Yeah they all ask for some, sure that's the only reason they want to meet   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With an age range of 25 to 50 I was getting too many to answer them all. I had 180+ unread messages at one point. It's not a job its a hobby
180?
That's 4 years worth for me lol"
lol I had to mass delete and start again. Filters well and truly on at the moment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not an exaggeration at all, I only un-hid my profile a few hours ago and I've had about 50messages, this is with filters set too!
It must be all those pork pies. You make everybody hungry lol
Yeah they all ask for some, sure that's the only reason they want to meet "
Yeah, i'm quite sure too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The funniest tale I have heard was from a couple who the female half put up a profile aged mid 70s with unflattering pictures to see what would happen and it got over 900 messages in a 48 hour period. They were shocked and recorded it on cam to prove it and it all goes to show its anyone who looks attainable that can suck in the messages. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
Even when I take my filters off I never have the hundreds that some folk get...I'm sure there's some who exaggerate but I also know of some who do get into 3 figures easily enough as I've glimpsed friends profiles when they've been logged on at mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"*Got too many emails can't reply all* .. I find this sometimes over exaggerating .Whats your peeps take on this one? "
Try logging into my account and tell me I'm exaggerating, also take into account I may have logged on to go into forums or chat rooms, only have an hour to do so, because, yep you got it, I got a real life, so yes, most time I havent got time to mess about replying, especially as most of those messaging me dont meet what I'm looking for, but still take chance on messaging, then moan when dont get a reply. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"It's official then. I'm obviously a man. "
We don't have to worry about having too much mail to reply too either.
Leaves us more time to go browsing ourselves and for me to read the forums.  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"*Got too many emails can't reply all* .. I find this sometimes over exaggerating .Whats your peeps take on this one? "
Just because it doesn't happen to you doesn't mean it doesn't happen at all.
However, yes sometimes it's an exaggeration to say they can't reply to them all. What they mean is they don't want to spend their time replying to people who don't interest them, or they don't want to reply to them all. That's entirely fair. Nobody is owed a reply. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
I got over 300 messages in my first 24 hours on Fab.
Even if reading their profile and replying took a minute (and it usually takes more than that) it would take more than 5 hours to reply to that lot. And in that 5+ hours, as I'd appear in the online now list, mail would keep arriving. Plus there would be the follow up messages from the people I was interested in and many of those I said no to.
5+ hours replying to messages is not my idea of fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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most people like to exagerate dont they
i dont count mine, would rather have too many than none at all, people can make time to answere them if they want to, just send a message saying thanks for your message.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's official then. I'm obviously a man. "
I think it may have more to do with the area we live in, you are pretty much the only person that comes up in my local updates! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I first joined years ago I had nearly 200 one night after I logged on. I deleted my profile within the hour. Discovered filters next time round and don't get as many now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's official then. I'm obviously a man.
I think it may have more to do with the area we live in, you are pretty much the only person that comes up in my local updates! "
What?? You mean I'm not a man?.....phew I was worried for a moment that my cock had dropped off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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what do you think if you dont answere someones message and they keep on sending them, do you reply to them when you feel like it or get annoyed and not bother? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you just blocked men and search for your own you'd have none of that nonsense.
Seems totally barmy to me, how can you find anyone decent if you have hundreds of messages, we put the filters on within a day and we both look for suitable guys ourselves.
Is it just a case of liking having hundreds of messages???
Is it that if you look yourself you have to face rejection?
I simply don't get it.
Take control females!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you just blocked men and search for your own you'd have none of that nonsense.
Seems totally barmy to me, how can you find anyone decent if you have hundreds of messages, we put the filters on within a day and we both look for suitable guys ourselves.
Is it just a case of liking having hundreds of messages???
Is it that if you look yourself you have to face rejection?
I simply don't get it.
Take control females!!
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My mum used to say dont chase men if they are interested they will come to you. wouldnt want them to think i am desperate would i. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it just a case of liking having hundreds of messages???
Is it that if you look yourself you have to face rejection?
I simply don't get it.
Take control females!!
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 filters are brilliant. I don't get a quarter of the messages I used to. I've lifted the age restriction filters last couple of days and been getting a lot more, but a lot of those messages are from Forumites which was the reason I lifted them! |
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By *ecca9269Woman
over a year ago
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"If you just blocked men and search for your own you'd have none of that nonsense.
Seems totally barmy to me, how can you find anyone decent if you have hundreds of messages, we put the filters on within a day and we both look for suitable guys ourselves.
Is it just a case of liking having hundreds of messages???
Is it that if you look yourself you have to face rejection?
I simply don't get it.
Take control females!!
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I cant bear to delete because there might be a gem in there!!! |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"If you just blocked men and search for your own you'd have none of that nonsense.
Seems totally barmy to me, how can you find anyone decent if you have hundreds of messages, we put the filters on within a day and we both look for suitable guys ourselves.
Is it just a case of liking having hundreds of messages???
Is it that if you look yourself you have to face rejection?
I simply don't get it.
Take control females!!
My mum used to say dont chase men if they are interested they will come to you. wouldnt want them to think i am desperate would i."
I don't whether to laugh or do this 
I don't have the patience to sit and wait and hope that someone I'm interested in comes along. Much rather try my luck and go searching myself. The worst they can do is say no thanks.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys often love it when you get in touch!!
What a revelation eh?
Sometimes they say they don't fancy you too but despite a lip wobble I never cry.
Admittedly you don't get non-stop attention, begging and swearing but if you're lucky and pick the right guys that will all happen when you meet
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you just blocked men and search for your own you'd have none of that nonsense.
Seems totally barmy to me, how can you find anyone decent if you have hundreds of messages, we put the filters on within a day and we both look for suitable guys ourselves.
Is it just a case of liking having hundreds of messages???
Is it that if you look yourself you have to face rejection?
I simply don't get it.
Take control females!!
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