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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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we meet, we are pleasant, respectful & both enjoy the sex. we part company nicely and MAY meet again if both want it or we may not
if we don't, it does not mean their is anything wrong with the other person. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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Wham, bam, thank you ma'am sex isn't NSA to me...mutual fun, be it a quickie, a couple of hours, an overnight or a weekend are all NSA in my opinion...I've met folk and just never got round to meeting again (so many men, so little time), they've left the site for whatever reason, they've never been in contact again, I've never been in contact again...loads of things get in the way but I never feel like there's a "fault" if I never hear from someone again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Considering that according to Snowdon the NSA is monitoring most calls, texts and webcam broadcasts, this can have a very different meaning.  "
they must be all sore from wanking over all the swinging sites bunch of pervs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we meet, we are pleasant, respectful & both enjoy the sex. we part company nicely and MAY meet again if both want it or we may not
if we don't, it does not mean their is anything wrong with the other person."
 this!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so what does it mean to you all out there ??? why does everyone think that if you want just a bit more than wham bam thankyou mam ,that you should'nt be on here ,but on a dating site ???"
Honey I don't think that. Personally I don't want copious one offs as I like to be friends with my lovers - it suits me. Others can make of that what they choose - it's of no significance to me.
Whether you choose to use the site for fun,friendship, company, one-offs or whatever - perhaps consider using it as a snack until you're ready for the main course
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stick that term NSA into anything, email SMS whatever and the American secret service eventually reads it  it's all to do with homeland security. Oops that comes up on the filters too haha |
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thats it i wanted someone to be friends with .someone you can have a drink ,have a laugh spend some time together ,then you do your thing and they do theirs ,but been lied to and deceived by guys has spoilt this for me .maybe i;m too sensitive to be on here but i defy anyone not to get hurt by the deceit ,but yet certain folk say if i get hurt i should'nt be on here ,well pardon me for being human x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"thats it i wanted someone to be friends with .someone you can have a drink ,have a laugh spend some time together ,then you do your thing and they do theirs ,but been lied to and deceived by guys has spoilt this for me .maybe i;m too sensitive to be on here but i defy anyone not to get hurt by the deceit ,but yet certain folk say if i get hurt i should'nt be on here ,well pardon me for being human x"
I dont think you can expect people to want to be friends with you on a swinging site, i like to keep in contact with some of the people i have met by chatting online sometimes, i dont expect or am bothered if we meet again though. |
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I'm friends with my FWB but I didn't go looking for it to be that way, it just happened. I also meet other people, have sex and then never see/talk to them again.
It's probably safer to assume that people on here are only interested in sex, not friendship, despite what they say. Then if it does happen great. If not you don't get hurt. |
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NSA is just that. People meet for mutual fun. How can that be deceiving you? Friendships can and do form out of regular meets. Some you will become buddies with, some will just contact you when they want a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so what does it mean to you all out there ??? why does everyone think that if you want just a bit more than wham bam thankyou mam ,that you should'nt be on here ,but on a dating site ???"
Fun without commitment and jealousy its not unreasonable but has scope for friendship and more than just a fuck and go relationship if all are happy with it. |
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"so what does it mean to you all out there ??? why does everyone think that if you want just a bit more than wham bam thankyou mam ,that you should'nt be on here ,but on a dating site ???
Fun without commitment and jealousy its not unreasonable but has scope for friendship and more than just a fuck and go relationship if all are happy with it. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm friends with my FWB but I didn't go looking for it to be that way, it just happened. I also meet other people, have sex and then never see/talk to them again.
It's probably safer to assume that people on here are only interested in sex, not friendship, despite what they say. Then if it does happen great. If not you don't get hurt."
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we have met loads of guys who have largely all remained friends with ..many lasting years ..we dont all live in each others pockets but just get together when it suits everyone ...works great for us |
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"we meet, we are pleasant, respectful & both enjoy the sex. we part company nicely and MAY meet again if both want it or we may not
if we don't, it does not mean their is anything wrong with the other person."
This! |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"thats it i wanted someone to be friends with .someone you can have a drink ,have a laugh spend some time together ,then you do your thing and they do theirs ,but been lied to and deceived by guys has spoilt this for me .maybe i;m too sensitive to be on here but i defy anyone not to get hurt by the deceit ,but yet certain folk say if i get hurt i should'nt be on here ,well pardon me for being human x
I dont think you can expect people to want to be friends with you on a swinging site, i like to keep in contact with some of the people i have met by chatting online sometimes, i dont expect or am bothered if we meet again though."
Why not?
I met Fox on here and we're now a couple.
I'm also friends with people I met on here before we got together, as well as since.
Making friends and using a site such as Fab aren't mutually exclusive - but if people want to meet with the 'no strings' bit of NSA meaning just one off meets, or occasional fun - then their definition is really the only one that matters!
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"thats it i wanted someone to be friends with .someone you can have a drink ,have a laugh spend some time together ,then you do your thing and they do theirs ,but been lied to and deceived by guys has spoilt this for me .maybe i;m too sensitive to be on here but i defy anyone not to get hurt by the deceit ,but yet certain folk say if i get hurt i should'nt be on here ,well pardon me for being human x"
As I see it you are aware that being a member of this site is causing you hurt so you have a choice, you can carry on meeting and continue to get hurt or you can stop meeting. Eventually we have to take responsibility for behaviours that damage us rather than blame others for not living up to our expectations.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"and that is why i'm not meeting anyone anymore that way i not get hurt by guys ,just stay here to go on the forums .
thanks guys you see there are difference of opinions about nsa sex .x"
Sometimes i think i dont know if i should be doing this, you never know what people are going to be like sometimes. you have got some nice verifications though and even though you arent meeting anyone at the moment you never know someone who is right for you might come along.
I still think its better to meet different people because you can get bored with each other easily and you could be missing out on something better with someone else.
i may not have especialy liked people i have met that much sometimes but they have given me pleasure. |
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