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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

Chester

What's with women not liking porn?

I know the majority of women on here are sexual and do like it... But have any of you fellas met 'non fab' women?

Most of the women I know are not sexual in the slightest. Has anyone else come across this?

What's happened to women's sex drives?!? Why do most women hate porn or anything sexual?

Lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've never enjoyed porn, my brain needs more stimulus than watching it, now give me an erotic story to read any day

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A woman's sex drive has nothing to do with her liking (or disliking) porn.

I find that almost every woman I've ever met has been sexual in some way or another - even if its asexual.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I know loads of women that like porn

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like porn, nothing wrong with my sex drive either.

Is it you?

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

Chester


"I know loads of women that like porn "

So do I! But they are only on this site! All the women I know outside of fan have no apparent sex drive at all! Apart from maybe one...

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

Chester


"I like porn, nothing wrong with my sex drive either.

Is it you? "

Correct me if I'm wrong.... But you're on fab.

;)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There's loads of women not on here that love porn my mates all watch it and none are on here

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

Chester


"I've never enjoyed porn, my brain needs more stimulus than watching it, now give me an erotic story to read any day "

This is what majority of my female friends are like. Don't like anything visual. Like to hear/read about it only. It seems that they actually get turned off by anything visual!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i don't just like porn, i bloody love it. I'm the girl who watches with a partner and either gets overcome and says 'let's fuck', gets overcome and pounces on the partner, or says 'oh...oh,oh,oh! do THAT to me!'

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

not a big porn fan, the grunting, oohing and aahing does my tits in.

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

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"What's with women not liking porn?

I know the majority of women on here are sexual and do like it... But have any of you fellas met 'non fab' women?

Most of the women I know are not sexual in the slightest. Has anyone else come across this?

What's happened to women's sex drives?!? Why do most women hate porn or anything sexual?

Lol"

Huh? Watching porn is not having sex, it's the exact opposite!!

I don't need porn to turn me on or get me off, and if there's a man in the room, porn is entirely unecessary!!

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

Chester


"There's loads of women not on here that love porn my mates all watch it and none are on here "

Oh right! Omg... I don't know any women from outside of fab who like porn!

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I've never enjoyed porn, my brain needs more stimulus than watching it, now give me an erotic story to read any day

This is what majority of my female friends are like. Don't like anything visual. Like to hear/read about it only. It seems that they actually get turned off by anything visual!"

Because it looks all contrived and fake to me, why would that turn me on

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"not a big porn fan, the grunting, oohing and aahing does my tits in."

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

Chester


"What's with women not liking porn?

I know the majority of women on here are sexual and do like it... But have any of you fellas met 'non fab' women?

Most of the women I know are not sexual in the slightest. Has anyone else come across this?

What's happened to women's sex drives?!? Why do most women hate porn or anything sexual?

Lol

Huh? Watching porn is not having sex, it's the exact opposite!!

I don't need porn to turn me on or get me off, and if there's a man in the room, porn is entirely unecessary!!"

Eh? I didn't say watching porn was having sex. But yeah...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

could be the way they have been brought up and having hang ups about the way they look, most women seem to worry about the way they look too much, comparing themselves to other women all the time. most men dont give a toss do they.

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By *ScotsmanMan  over a year ago

ayrshire

they all say that but if you can actually get her down to look for 5 the damp patch in her pants says different

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There's loads of women not on here that love porn my mates all watch it and none are on here

Oh right! Omg... I don't know any women from outside of fab who like porn!"

There will be lots of women who won't admit it...but watch it. I used to be embarrassed to say I watched it before I cane on here .

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

Chester


"I've never enjoyed porn, my brain needs more stimulus than watching it, now give me an erotic story to read any day

This is what majority of my female friends are like. Don't like anything visual. Like to hear/read about it only. It seems that they actually get turned off by anything visual!

Because it looks all contrived and fake to me, why would that turn me on "

Yeah... This is what my best friend says. Its fake! What I said to her is well yeah its fake but doesn't it turn you on? She said not at all.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

Chester


"could be the way they have been brought up and having hang ups about the way they look, most women seem to worry about the way they look too much, comparing themselves to other women all the time. most men dont give a toss do they."

I think secretly, it might be this. I wouldn't dare ask though haha!

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

Chester


"they all say that but if you can actually get her down to look for 5 the damp patch in her pants says different "

Lol... She won't! Its 'disgusting' apparently!

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I've never enjoyed porn, my brain needs more stimulus than watching it, now give me an erotic story to read any day

This is what majority of my female friends are like. Don't like anything visual. Like to hear/read about it only. It seems that they actually get turned off by anything visual!

Because it looks all contrived and fake to me, why would that turn me on

Yeah... This is what my best friend says. Its fake! What I said to her is well yeah its fake but doesn't it turn you on? She said not at all."

See, we have already given you our reasons why.....Are you still confused then?

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

Chester


"There's loads of women not on here that love porn my mates all watch it and none are on here

Oh right! Omg... I don't know any women from outside of fab who like porn!

There will be lots of women who won't admit it...but watch it. I used to be embarrassed to say I watched it before I cane on here ."

Ahh right... I think society discourages women from being sexual.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Most porn is aimed at men

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

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Eh? I didn't say watching porn was having sex. But yeah... "

You did equate the two - ie watching porn meant having a sex drive. Not so - if you have sex drive you seek real sex!!

Porn seems to me to depict crap sex most of the time anyway.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

Chester


"I've never enjoyed porn, my brain needs more stimulus than watching it, now give me an erotic story to read any day

This is what majority of my female friends are like. Don't like anything visual. Like to hear/read about it only. It seems that they actually get turned off by anything visual!

Because it looks all contrived and fake to me, why would that turn me on

Yeah... This is what my best friend says. Its fake! What I said to her is well yeah its fake but doesn't it turn you on? She said not at all.

See, we have already given you our reasons why.....Are you still confused then? "

No no, I've got some answers! These answers are sufficient for the time being haha.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

Chester


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Eh? I didn't say watching porn was having sex. But yeah...

You did equate the two - ie watching porn meant having a sex drive. Not so - if you have sex drive you seek real sex!!

Porn seems to me to depict crap sex most of the time anyway."

Ahh I see what you mean. That wasn't an intentional comparison.

Yeah but why do you think it depicts crap?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A sexy story yep. A shit porno no thanks. Rather make my own with my 'vanilla non fab' girlies thanks haha. Not all non fab women are frigid, I have several non fab ladies that watch porn and make their own with their bfs/partners. I have a few short vids of using my toys on them for their bfs haha. Just depends on who you know.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Most porn is aimed at men"

Exactly - I was just about to say this...

It's men who pay for porn - so it's aimed at them, and completely misses the mark for many women....

I'd love to watch some good porn, but 99% of it is just too simplistic and boring - and very disappointing!!!

I'd pay for good women's porn - and so would a lot of non-Fab women that I know - it just isn't out there.. and we're a little bit fed up about it!!!

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

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"A sexy story yep. A shit porno no thanks. Rather make my own with my 'vanilla non fab' girlies thanks haha. Not all non fab women are frigid, I have several non fab ladies that watch porn and make their own with their bfs/partners. I have a few short vids of using my toys on them for their bfs haha. Just depends on who you know. "

Ahhh... Ok ok... So it seems that there are *some* sexual, non fab women at least... Thank heavens for that!

I must just be meeting the boring ones haha! Having said that, some of the negative points pointed out here by the fabbers do seem to be generic. Through fan and normal world!

I think there's not much in porn for women... More for men.

I guess women prefer to be prepared than just being thrown into a sex session. I'm going to research it later!

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

Chester


"Most porn is aimed at men

Exactly - I was just about to say this...

It's men who pay for porn - so it's aimed at them, and completely misses the mark for many women....

I'd love to watch some good porn, but 99% of it is just too simplistic and boring - and very disappointing!!!

I'd pay for good women's porn - and so would a lot of non-Fab women that I know - it just isn't out there.. and we're a little bit fed up about it!!!

"

That's interesting. So what do you ladies want to see then? What makes it good for you?

I'm going to try this out haha!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I like porn, nothing wrong with my sex drive either.

Is it you?

Correct me if I'm wrong.... But you're on fab.

;)"

Yes well I'm old n not had my mere

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I like porn, nothing wrong with my sex drive either.

Is it you?

Correct me if I'm wrong.... But you're on fab.

;)Yes well I'm old n not had my mere "

need lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like porn, but not all porn and am very selective about the porn I watch. There are a million and one reasons I won't watch certain scenes...for example if it looks fake, if they attempt to put a crap storyline in, if she makes weird noises, if he is unattractive, if the background music is cheesy then I won't enjoy it and so I'll turn it off.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

Chester


"I like porn, nothing wrong with my sex drive either.

Is it you?

Correct me if I'm wrong.... But you're on fab.

;)Yes well I'm old n not had my mere need lol"

Ha.... Right... Gonna make a new post.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Most porn is aimed at men

Exactly - I was just about to say this...

It's men who pay for porn - so it's aimed at them, and completely misses the mark for many women....

I'd love to watch some good porn, but 99% of it is just too simplistic and boring - and very disappointing!!!

I'd pay for good women's porn - and so would a lot of non-Fab women that I know - it just isn't out there.. and we're a little bit fed up about it!!!

That's interesting. So what do you ladies want to see then? What makes it good for you?

I'm going to try this out haha!"

I like watching gay male porn. It's on the whole more realistic

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i only like porn if i find the women attractive. the men usualy look ok.

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By *mallteaserWoman  over a year ago

Central

I love watching porn, it's a fantasy too make one, lol x

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

Chester

Ok ladies... She new thread.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Most porn is aimed at men"

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

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Yeah but why do you think it depicts crap?"

It's not real - they are people paid to fake it and look like it - mechanical, void of sensuality or sublety or seduction, it's just sex for the camera angle, not for the enjoyment of those participating. And I feel no need for it anyway.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

Chester


"

Yeah but why do you think it depicts crap?

It's not real - they are people paid to fake it and look like it - mechanical, void of sensuality or sublety or seduction, it's just sex for the camera angle, not for the enjoyment of those participating. And I feel no need for it anyway."

Cool cool! Basically, it just has to be realistic...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

you never see them using lube or hear the woman say ouch that hurts, or stop being so rough. do you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Yeah but why do you think it depicts crap?

It's not real - they are people paid to fake it and look like it - mechanical, void of sensuality or sublety or seduction, it's just sex for the camera angle, not for the enjoyment of those participating. And I feel no need for it anyway.

Cool cool! Basically, it just has to be realistic..."

the noises women make in porn are laughable. Some just can't act

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

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Yeah but why do you think it depicts crap?

It's not real - they are people paid to fake it and look like it - mechanical, void of sensuality or sublety or seduction, it's just sex for the camera angle, not for the enjoyment of those participating. And I feel no need for it anyway.

Cool cool! Basically, it just has to be realistic..."

Even if it was, I for one would not bother, I just feel no need to watch people have sex, but then I am kinaesthetic in the fuller sense.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

Chester

Ha, well that's true... But would you really want them to complain during sex? Ha! Oh wait a minute... I'm feeling a bit sore.. . haha! Now that would be funny.

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By *imjohnCouple  over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

We make amateur porn because its aimed at couples rather than just guys, we filmed a guy the other day showing us how he uses pussy pumps on his FB & thought it was amazing as we had never seen this before...after all these years we are still learning new stuff lol!

Show an average woman some glossy film with Barbies dolls in it & she can't compete with it but show her an amateur film with normal women in it & she can relate to it much easier.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple  over a year ago

North Yorkshire

well done porn is fine but so much is so false it turns off more than on lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

sometimes think its too serious though, men think that all women like the same things, met an elderly chap once, i gave him a porn film and all the time he was copying what they did in the film and i didnt enjoy any of it that much.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

Chester

Hmmm... Interesting stuff...

You ladies just like to to be realistic.

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By *imjohnCouple  over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

Keep porn light hearted & real & you have winning formula, what pisses me off in a lot of the new films is guys & gushing.

Every guy you meet wants to shove his hand up your pussy as hard as he can hoping to make you squirt, guys can be influenced into thinking what they have seen in porn is the thing they should do.

Kim x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Yeah but why do you think it depicts crap?

It's not real - they are people paid to fake it and look like it - mechanical, void of sensuality or sublety or seduction, it's just sex for the camera angle, not for the enjoyment of those participating. And I feel no need for it anyway.

Cool cool! Basically, it just has to be realistic...

the noises women make in porn are laughable. Some just can't act "

Real life women do it too. We were at a party recently and a woman was trying for an Oscar. It was so fake is was embarrassing. We had to leave the room.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Keep porn light hearted & real & you have winning formula, what pisses me off in a lot of the new films is guys & gushing.

Every guy you meet wants to shove his hand up your pussy as hard as he can hoping to make you squirt, guys can be influenced into thinking what they have seen in porn is the thing they should do.

Kim x"

I suppose guys like that just want to please women. They are trying hard.

I find it a total turn off though and move away. I am apparently a disappointment because I don't put on an amazing show.

Fine by me, they can find someone else.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

Chester

Interesting...

Well I used to meet with a girl from here regularly and she was loud! I think it was learnt but it never put me off. In fact, it made me cum quicker... If only she knew that! Lol

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

Chester


"Keep porn light hearted & real & you have winning formula, what pisses me off in a lot of the new films is guys & gushing.

Every guy you meet wants to shove his hand up your pussy as hard as he can hoping to make you squirt, guys can be influenced into thinking what they have seen in porn is the thing they should do.

Kim x

I suppose guys like that just want to please women. They are trying hard.

I find it a total turn off though and move away. I am apparently a disappointment because I don't put on an amazing show.

Fine by me, they can find someone else."

Its true... Men do love to please women. For me, if I know I'm pleasing the woman, I feel good. If I don't think I'm pleasing her, I feel bad and its not as good.

Weird I know but it seems to be programmed into the majority of the descent guys!

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

Chester


"Keep porn light hearted & real & you have winning formula, what pisses me off in a lot of the new films is guys & gushing.

Every guy you meet wants to shove his hand up your pussy as hard as he can hoping to make you squirt, guys can be influenced into thinking what they have seen in porn is the thing they should do.

Kim x

I suppose guys like that just want to please women. They are trying hard.

I find it a total turn off though and move away. I am apparently a disappointment because I don't put on an amazing show.

Fine by me, they can find someone else.

Its true... Men do love to please women. For me, if I know I'm pleasing the woman, I feel good. If I don't think I'm pleasing her, I feel bad and its not as good.

Weird I know but it seems to be programmed into the majority of the descent guys!"

.

Infact, there was one girl ages ago who I was playing with and she made no noise what so ever. Was not expressive at all. Anyway, I never came in the end because I really thought something was wrong.

It turns out she did want it?!? Anyway, we stayed friends but I never went back there!

Us guys can get funny about this issue I guess.

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By *atsnCorsetsCouple  over a year ago

Sheffield

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By *atsnCorsetsCouple  over a year ago

Sheffield

Typofix:

We watch porn together as a couple. We're addicted to the XXX Parodies. They're funny and surprisingly well acted. We do have to fast forward the actual sex scenes though... Women making dodgy gagging noises and 25minute long single camera angle sex scenes are dull as dishwater.

To the OP the topic might not have come up with women outside fab. It might be you that they're not comfortable talking about this subject with. Just a possibility!

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

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"We watch porn together as a couple. We're addicted to the XXX Parodies. They're funny and surprisingly well acted. We do have to fast forward the actual sex scenes though... Women making dodgy gagging noises and 25minute long single camera angle sex scenes are dull as dishwater.

To the OP the topic might not have come up with women outside fab. If might be you that they're not comfortable talking about this subject with. Just a possibility!"

I don't know.. Haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Yeah but why do you think it depicts crap?

It's not real - they are people paid to fake it and look like it - mechanical, void of sensuality or sublety or seduction, it's just sex for the camera angle, not for the enjoyment of those participating. And I feel no need for it anyway.

Cool cool! Basically, it just has to be realistic...

the noises women make in porn are laughable. Some just can't act

Real life women do it too. We were at a party recently and a woman was trying for an Oscar. It was so fake is was embarrassing. We had to leave the room."

How do you know its fake noises though im usualy quiet but sometimes make a lot of noise.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've never enjoyed porn, my brain needs more stimulus than watching it, now give me an erotic story to read any day "

I like to read erotic books too. I am gathering quite a nice selection now

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By *tuartb1970Man  over a year ago

tunbridge wells

I know women who love porn and those who don't care for it

the same must apply for men too

im not averse to watching porn its just that I get very bored watching it or very frustrated because the reason im watching it is that I have no one with me

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple  over a year ago

wirral

I have watch porn to see my ultimate fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I love watching porn, it's a fantasy too make one, lol x"

its my fantasy to make a girl girl porn movie. so horny thinking about it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" All the women I know outside of fan have no apparent sex drive at all! Apart from maybe one..."

You mean they don't want to have sex with you? How peculiar

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Porn would be crap without women

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

Chester


" All the women I know outside of fan have no apparent sex drive at all! Apart from maybe one...

You mean they don't want to have sex with you? How peculiar "

Not exactly, I wouldn't really want to have sex with my friends thanks... That would be a bit odd.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" All the women I know outside of fan have no apparent sex drive at all! Apart from maybe one...

You mean they don't want to have sex with you? How peculiar

Not exactly, I wouldn't really want to have sex with my friends thanks... That would be a bit odd."

All the women you know are your friends? Wow, super popular! if they are all your friends why are you watching porn with them, isn't that a bit odd?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There is a whole range of possibilities when answering this question.

A better question may be; Why do some men make generalisations when talking about the female population? Ian't it more appropriate to appreciate that all humans are different and have varying fantasies.

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

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" All the women I know outside of fan have no apparent sex drive at all! Apart from maybe one...

You mean they don't want to have sex with you? How peculiar

Not exactly, I wouldn't really want to have sex with my friends thanks... That would be a bit odd.

All the women you know are your friends? Wow, super popular! if they are all your friends why are you watching porn with them, isn't that a bit odd?"

Eh? Have I said that I am watching porn with them? Youve misunderstood I think. Im asking why women dont like porn, not why my friends dont watch porn with me. Do you have lots of male friends? Do you watch porn with them?!?! If you imagine watching porn with your closest male friends, do you think it would be odd?

;)

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

Chester


"There is a whole range of possibilities when answering this question.

A better question may be; Why do some men make generalisations when talking about the female population? Ian't it more appropriate to appreciate that all humans are different and have varying fantasies."

That may or may not be a better question, but its not relavant to this thread. Feel free to make a new thread for that! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

*wanders off to find a coherent thread somewhere else*

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Keep porn light hearted & real & you have winning formula, what pisses me off in a lot of the new films is guys & gushing.

Every guy you meet wants to shove his hand up your pussy as hard as he can hoping to make you squirt, guys can be influenced into thinking what they have seen in porn is the thing they should do.

Kim x

I suppose guys like that just want to please women. They are trying hard.

I find it a total turn off though and move away. I am apparently a disappointment because I don't put on an amazing show.

Fine by me, they can find someone else.

Its true... Men do love to please women. For me, if I know I'm pleasing the woman, I feel good. If I don't think I'm pleasing her, I feel bad and its not as good.

Weird I know but it seems to be programmed into the majority of the descent guys!.

Infact, there was one girl ages ago who I was playing with and she made no noise what so ever. Was not expressive at all. Anyway, I never came in the end because I really thought something was wrong.

It turns out she did want it?!? Anyway, we stayed friends but I never went back there!

Us guys can get funny about this issue I guess."

I understand what you're saying. No-one wants to fuck a dead fish.

I was just meaning blokes that try too hard. There's a difference between wanting someone to have fun, and trying much too hard. x

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By *ohnjones3210 OP   Man  over a year ago

Chester


"Keep porn light hearted & real & you have winning formula, what pisses me off in a lot of the new films is guys & gushing.

Every guy you meet wants to shove his hand up your pussy as hard as he can hoping to make you squirt, guys can be influenced into thinking what they have seen in porn is the thing they should do.

Kim x

I suppose guys like that just want to please women. They are trying hard.

I find it a total turn off though and move away. I am apparently a disappointment because I don't put on an amazing show.

Fine by me, they can find someone else.

Its true... Men do love to please women. For me, if I know I'm pleasing the woman, I feel good. If I don't think I'm pleasing her, I feel bad and its not as good.

Weird I know but it seems to be programmed into the majority of the descent guys!.

Infact, there was one girl ages ago who I was playing with and she made no noise what so ever. Was not expressive at all. Anyway, I never came in the end because I really thought something was wrong.

It turns out she did want it?!? Anyway, we stayed friends but I never went back there!

Us guys can get funny about this issue I guess.

I understand what you're saying. No-one wants to fuck a dead fish.

I was just meaning blokes that try too hard. There's a difference between wanting someone to have fun, and trying much too hard. x"

Yeah I see what you mean. A lot of girls on here that I've spoken to seem to be really turned off by guys who try too hard. Because they look desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Who cares...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A woman's sex drive has nothing to do with her liking (or disliking) porn.

I find that almost every woman I've ever met has been sexual in some way or another - even if its asexual.

"

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By *mmaNandyCouple  over a year ago

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By *uzy444Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

im not a voyeur and quite frankly its boring sex..in and out and in and out..dull as dishwater..and the noise..get me some gaffa tape, cos its fake fake fake..

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By *andsonjohnMan  over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"im not a voyeur and quite frankly its boring sex..in and out and in and out..dull as dishwater..and the noise..get me some gaffa tape, cos its fake fake fake.."

this

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London


"What's with women not liking porn?

I know the majority of women on here are sexual and do like it... But have any of you fellas met 'non fab' women?

Most of the women I know are not sexual in the slightest. Has anyone else come across this?

What's happened to women's sex drives?!? Why do most women hate porn or anything sexual?

Lol"

Where are you getting this bollocks from?

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By *ackhammer87Man  over a year ago

Walsall


"What's with women not liking porn?

I know the majority of women on here are sexual and do like it... But have any of you fellas met 'non fab' women?

Most of the women I know are not sexual in the slightest. Has anyone else come across this?

What's happened to women's sex drives?!? Why do most women hate porn or anything sexual?

Lol

Where are you getting this bollocks from?

Lol "

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London


"im not a voyeur and quite frankly its boring sex..in and out and in and out..dull as dishwater..and the noise..get me some gaffa tape, cos its fake fake fake.."

Yep, the fake stuff is incredibly boring but there is far more stuff that isn't.

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By *ackhammer87Man  over a year ago

Walsall


"im not a voyeur and quite frankly its boring sex..in and out and in and out..dull as dishwater..and the noise..get me some gaffa tape, cos its fake fake fake.."

What porn do you like ? Xx

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By *alcon43Woman  over a year ago

Paisley


"I've never enjoyed porn, my brain needs more stimulus than watching it, now give me an erotic story to read any day "

I agree. I'd rather read a good erotic story than watch it. Guys are stimulated more visually, women prefer a build up, reading, teasing, flirting, etc

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like watching porn but not the acted, amature is best. but also I prefer reading s a good sex story, so more better for the mind

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By *uzy444Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"im not a voyeur and quite frankly its boring sex..in and out and in and out..dull as dishwater..and the noise..get me some gaffa tape, cos its fake fake fake..

What porn do you like ? Xx"

i like doing stuff that could be classified as non boring porn

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By *uzy444Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"im not a voyeur and quite frankly its boring sex..in and out and in and out..dull as dishwater..and the noise..get me some gaffa tape, cos its fake fake fake..

Yep, the fake stuff is incredibly boring but there is far more stuff that isn't."

true, still more fun doing it though x

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By *ackhammer87Man  over a year ago

Walsall


"im not a voyeur and quite frankly its boring sex..in and out and in and out..dull as dishwater..and the noise..get me some gaffa tape, cos its fake fake fake..

What porn do you like ? Xxi like doing stuff that could be classified as non boring porn "

Hehe Suzy I bet you have some great moves xx

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By *uzy444Woman  over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"im not a voyeur and quite frankly its boring sex..in and out and in and out..dull as dishwater..and the noise..get me some gaffa tape, cos its fake fake fake..

What porn do you like ? Xxi like doing stuff that could be classified as non boring porn

Hehe Suzy I bet you have some great moves xx"

with friends, i hope so

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By *ackhammer87Man  over a year ago

Walsall


"im not a voyeur and quite frankly its boring sex..in and out and in and out..dull as dishwater..and the noise..get me some gaffa tape, cos its fake fake fake..

What porn do you like ? Xxi like doing stuff that could be classified as non boring porn

Hehe Suzy I bet you have some great moves xxwith friends, i hope so "

Lol your so sexy xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I must be the only woman that likes the professional fake acted stuff

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What's with women not liking porn?

I know the majority of women on here are sexual and do like it... But have any of you fellas met 'non fab' women?

Most of the women I know are not sexual in the slightest. Has anyone else come across this?

What's happened to women's sex drives?!? Why do most women hate porn or anything sexual?

Lol"

Some men don't like porn. I do t like salmon, now don't asume by my statement that it's strange to not like Salmon.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I no a few woman who like watching porn but others who don't . For a man to get a woman to watch porn with him is a turn on for a man . But it's not all about what a man wants , woman have needs aswell . But I recommend FAKE TAXI LOL

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By *rightonCheekyMan  over a year ago

Brighton

Some human beings like porn and others do not. Some are men, some are women and some identify with other flavours in the spectrum

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By *ink Panther.Woman  over a year ago

Preston

I've always read a lot and because I'm used to visualising what's on the page, my imagination can conjure up the most amazing things with very little stimulation. So unfortunately porn doesn't quite come up to scratch, for the most part it's aimed at men who are very visual and their brains work differently to women's sexually. I do love gifs, they capture any sexual act perfectly and are extremely stimulating when teasing and trying to turn each other on while messaging. As for sex drive, that's a particular problem especially with women once they've had children. Women's primary objective is to reproduce so once job is done, no need for sex as far as some are concerned. Men on the other hand are put on earth to spread their seed far and wide and therefore generally their sex drive never changes. However, not all women no longer want sex after children, my sex drive is higher now than it's ever been. The only thing likely to change that is the menopause which thankfully isn't even close!!

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By *ohohoWoman  over a year ago

Up North

Wow this is an old old thread isn't it?

More ladies watch porn than they care to admit. I remember watching it with my friends as a teenager after I found a video tape in my mums room.

Always had a fascination for it since.

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By *uckslut and MCouple  over a year ago

Poole

I have no understanding of this. I love my porn and have too.....

( fem)

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