"You get a message from a local married fabber who gives you there face pic. You know them and your pals with there misses. Do you tell her? "
Yikes!!!!
Does he say he is playing with permission or not?? |
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Tricky situation.
Personally I think if you have no way of being recognised you should let him know that he has been caught out as he might have a change of heart.
I wouldn't tell her. As much as it seems like the right thing to do it really is a bad idea. |
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"You get a message from a local married fabber who gives you there face pic. You know them and your pals with there misses. Do you tell her? "
People often shoot the messenger: don't involve yourself in other people's business! |
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"You get a message from a local married fabber who gives you there face pic. You know them and your pals with there misses. Do you tell her? "
if it was me id block her and dont say a word i know it is very rude but......
she will get over a wee rejection but if u disclose who u are it may cause problems and a whole lot of embarrassment so i would pretend like i never saw her and continue fabbing with everyone else (thats my 2p worth)
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"You get a message from a local married fabber who gives you there face pic. You know them and your pals with there misses. Do you tell her? "
no, never.
always the messenger that gets shot, never the one that the message is about.
would just be there for her when, not if, she finds out |
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How close to said friend are you. If very close post a note or something with out it getting back to you. She would hate some one telling her but she would also hate not telling her too.
Many Years ago I worked with a fe guys and it was obvious that one was shagging the others misses the way he was bragging I mentioned to the other lad to sort the misses as she was messing about without mentioning who with. He got it sorted and also left the job but he is still with her now  |
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also depends on wether or not your friend and his mrs know your a swinger.
if not, and you spill the beans then they will find that little nugget of information out too and the blame could then be put on you to take the pointed finger away from him
if that makes sense lol |
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"I would let him know you recognise him, advise him you won't say but neither will you lie if ever asked
Block and leave it there.
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yes I think this is the best course of action. The dynamic in other peoples relationships is something no one else can know about (another reason we wont meet married playing alone but that's another thread)so if he knows that you are aware and will not lie for him he has the information he needs, its just a shame that she doesn't. |
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"I would not like to be responsible for there break up if it came down to it 
you wouldn't be responsible for their breakup, the two of them would. "
I know what you are saying but would be guilt ridden |
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Why would you feel the need to get involved. If he's playing away and gets away with it that's grand. Of he gets caught that's grand too. Not your business stay out if it. |
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"You get a message from a local married fabber who gives you there face pic. You know them and your pals with there misses. Do you tell her? "
Send him a face pic with a comment like does XXXX know your swinging, and leave it at that.  |
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"You get a message from a local married fabber who gives you there face pic. You know them and your pals with there misses. Do you tell her?
People often shoot the messenger: don't involve yourself in other people's business!"
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First question is, did he know who you were when he sent you the message?
If yes, you have a problem and I'd just say block.
If no, it's her problem and however good a friend she is, I'd just send him a message saying does xxxx (her name) know you're here? Then block.
Don't tell her. Nobody wants that kind of news from a friend and unless she already knows you swing then you're exposing yourselfvto a whole heap of extra unpleasentness.
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