FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > male bi-curiousity
male bi-curiousity
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
A turn on for many
A turn off for many others
Pontificate it all ya want, but that's gonna be the outcome.
Reasons will vary by person
I love sexuality in all it's glorious diversity.
Think the only thing I haven't been at one point or other is a lesbian.
There's time yet  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Some people who don't meet bi or bi curious guys don't do it, not because the guy is a turn-off, it's typically for other reasons, so I think I've picked up from others.
If I'm with someone, I often want them to have me as at least 99% of their attention focus. Some group play can be great, but it all depends on what you like when you're playing. I do group play when I'm more turned on by wanting to share the play. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"A turn on for many
A turn off for many others
Pontificate it all ya want, but that's gonna be the outcome.
Reasons will vary by person
I love sexuality in all it's glorious diversity.
Think the only thing I haven't been at one point or other is a lesbian.
There's time yet "
Choice is everything and absolutely right of course. Just reading a few other threads though and it seems that most men who put it on their profile find they are far less successful in meeting people than when it wasn't there. I suspect most bi-curious guys and straight but are open to experiment if the situation and people are right but having a label of sorts means many people discount them. I suspect you are right though, I doubt many people would elaborate further than either turn on, turn off without wanting to express why. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I prefer bi sexual than curious. I like to know what to expect "
Fair point, but I'm sure that could be established pretty quickly? A quick " how bi are you, what are you into and is there anything you don't like?", as an example? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Very Straight Turn off because it usually is displayed by a homophobic which I dislike and is someone that is intolerant.
Bi curiosity and acceptance of sexuality a turn on.
Out and out Bi sexuality turn off because I just don't fancy it but can completely understand it but would probably avoid a completely Bi sexual person if it said so on their profile and was very specific on their likes and dislikes. But as I posted on another thread there are degrees of Bi sexuality which I could accept. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Very Straight Turn off because it usually is displayed by a homophobic which I dislike and is someone that is intolerant.
Bi curiosity and acceptance of sexuality a turn on.
Out and out Bi sexuality turn off because I just don't fancy it but can completely understand it but would probably avoid a completely Bi sexual person if it said so on their profile and was very specific on their likes and dislikes. But as I posted on another thread there are degrees of Bi sexuality which I could accept."
Yes I ought to add to my comment that I would seek to find out if we were compatible in likes and dislikes first. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I prefer bi sexual than curious. I like to know what to expect
Fair point, but I'm sure that could be established pretty quickly? A quick " how bi are you, what are you into and is there anything you don't like?", as an example?"
I thought bi curious meant they don't know what they like? I like men who have had plenty of experience with other men. I wouldn't turn a bi curious man or two down if they wanted a mmf but my preference would be 2 men who know what they want and want to do it with each other |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I prefer bi sexual than curious. I like to know what to expect
Fair point, but I'm sure that could be established pretty quickly? A quick " how bi are you, what are you into and is there anything you don't like?", as an example?
I thought bi curious meant they don't know what they like? I like men who have had plenty of experience with other men. I wouldn't turn a bi curious man or two down if they wanted a mmf but my preference would be 2 men who know what they want and want to do it with each other "
I guess it is a vague label. I use it as I have played with guys as part of a mmf or group fun where the woman or women enjoy it, but wouldn't have any interest in meeting a guy alone. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Very Straight Turn off because it usually is displayed by a homophobic which I dislike and is someone that is intolerant.
Bi curiosity and acceptance of sexuality a turn on.
Out and out Bi sexuality turn off because I just don't fancy it but can completely understand it but would probably avoid a completely Bi sexual person if it said so on their profile and was very specific on their likes and dislikes. But as I posted on another thread there are degrees of Bi sexuality which I could accept."
Would that only be concerning men or do you include women? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"So wrong two males adam and eve not adam and steve as the bible says"
 quoting the bible on a sex site: hilarious! I'm sure you've missed the irony that all of us on here is breaking some religious commandment.
As to the op: it's a turn off for me, the same as a married man would be. They don't add to my sexual experience I've found so I don't meet them. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So wrong two males adam and eve not adam and steve as the bible says"
This is why almost all female profiles say bi and almost all male ones say straight.
It's peer pressure, a typical male fantasy is 2 women. 2 men together is somehow seen as unacceptable so we're left with a skewed reality in the swinging world.
I don't personally believe the numbers of bi females is representative of the truth as it's almost all profiles.
I also don't believe the number of bi males on here is representative of the truth as it's almost no profiles. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Two women fine of course you dont think twice when two
Women hug or walk arm in arm do you"
I will have to check the bible to see where it says God approves of women giving each other oral sex! Walking arm in arm, whether you be man or woman doesn't imply anything about your sexuality.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I prefer bi sexual than curious. I like to know what to expect
Fair point, but I'm sure that could be established pretty quickly? A quick " how bi are you, what are you into and is there anything you don't like?", as an example?
I thought bi curious meant they don't know what they like? I like men who have had plenty of experience with other men. I wouldn't turn a bi curious man or two down if they wanted a mmf but my preference would be 2 men who know what they want and want to do it with each other
I guess it is a vague label. I use it as I have played with guys as part of a mmf or group fun where the woman or women enjoy it, but wouldn't have any interest in meeting a guy alone."
a lot of men I talk to only want to do oral. I want everyone to fuck. I wouldn't demand of course but I like full on sex in bi situations |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"A turn on for many
A turn off for many others
Pontificate it all ya want, but that's gonna be the outcome.
Reasons will vary by person
I love sexuality in all it's glorious diversity.
Think the only thing I haven't been at one point or other is a lesbian.
There's time yet
Choice is everything and absolutely right of course. Just reading a few other threads though and it seems that most men who put it on their profile find they are far less successful in meeting people than when it wasn't there. I suspect most bi-curious guys and straight but are open to experiment if the situation and people are right but having a label of sorts means many people discount them. I suspect you are right though, I doubt many people would elaborate further than either turn on, turn off without wanting to express why."
I always try and up it a level
Straight = might have a dabble
Bi curious = bi sexual
Bi sexual = gay without the ta-da
Gay = elton john
And on that note, am off to fix my weave  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Quoting bible was tounge in cheek lol pheewww thought we had god squad in here for a min lol lol "
Never a good idea to mention the Bible on here, I suspect we are all going to hell for various misdemeanours, whether we be bi, straight or bi-curious!!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Two women fine of course you dont think twice when two
Women hug or walk arm in arm do you
I will have to check the bible to see where it says God approves of women giving each other oral sex! Walking arm in arm, whether you be man or woman doesn't imply anything about your sexuality.
"
And Lo! Eve did sup nectar from Lilith and the urge came upon her to wear a football shirt and chunky gold necklaces.
The Book of Lesbi, verse 2. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Turn on or turn off? Why?
Neither. I don't care either way.
Bloody 'ell woman gerrof that fence. This is Fab. You MUST have an opinion. It's the law !"
I don't care either way. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Turn on or turn off? Why?
Neither. I don't care either way.
Bloody 'ell woman gerrof that fence. This is Fab. You MUST have an opinion. It's the law !
I don't care either way. "
SUCH a rebel ! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"when I am on my knees and gob open, I don't mind if they are straight, bi or gay."
Leaves us I no doubt as to whether you are turned on or not! Enjoy  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"I thought the very nature of swinging was to be open minded and accepting of others. I think if people want to experiment and try new things, this should be encouraged!"
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"
I always try and up it a level
Straight = might have a dabble
Bi curious = bi sexual
Bi sexual = gay without the ta-da
Gay = elton john
And on that note, am off to fix my weave "
Perhaps people should make it clear on their profile as, similarly to the 'soft swap only' everyone seems to have their own boundaries ... And is entitled to!
C describes himself as bi-curious because he has a fantasy of playing with another man, although we have yet to find that man ... and it may just remain a fantasty! He is, however, 100% straight in all our couple meets to date. I like bi/bi curious guys....to me it seems to mean less hang ups about cocks being in close proximity!
Similarly I describe myself as bisexual, but that doesn't mean I ravage all women! Yet some couples with straight women are put off by that. Hey ho. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"So wrong two males adam and eve not adam and steve as the bible says"
Gotta love the homophobic biblical quote from the adulterous bi sexual woman there.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"A turn on for many
A turn off for many others
Pontificate it all ya want, but that's gonna be the outcome.
Reasons will vary by person
I love sexuality in all it's glorious diversity.
Think the only thing I haven't been at one point or other is a lesbian.
There's time yet
Choice is everything and absolutely right of course. Just reading a few other threads though and it seems that most men who put it on their profile find they are far less successful in meeting people than when it wasn't there. I suspect most bi-curious guys and straight but are open to experiment if the situation and people are right but having a label of sorts means many people discount them. I suspect you are right though, I doubt many people would elaborate further than either turn on, turn off without wanting to express why."
It's never affected my meets - either when I was single or now.
I suspect those worried about putting bi/curious are probably not being that successful with 'straight' on their profile either!
A |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Turn on or turn off? Why? "
It doesn't really bother me either way but so far most bi guys are indiscriminate with who they fuck and not really that interesting personality wise. I am sure I will find an interesting one at some point maybe I will have to travel further north to do so. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Turn on or turn off? Why?
It doesn't really bother me either way but so far most bi guys are indiscriminate with who they fuck and not really that interesting personality wise. I am sure I will find an interesting one at some point maybe I will have to travel further north to do so. "
Lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"A turn on for many
A turn off for many others
Pontificate it all ya want, but that's gonna be the outcome.
Reasons will vary by person
I love sexuality in all it's glorious diversity.
Think the only thing I haven't been at one point or other is a lesbian.
There's time yet
Choice is everything and absolutely right of course. Just reading a few other threads though and it seems that most men who put it on their profile find they are far less successful in meeting people than when it wasn't there. I suspect most bi-curious guys and straight but are open to experiment if the situation and people are right but having a label of sorts means many people discount them. I suspect you are right though, I doubt many people would elaborate further than either turn on, turn off without wanting to express why.
I always try and up it a level
Straight = might have a dabble
Bi curious = bi sexual
Bi sexual = gay without the ta-da
Gay = elton john
And on that note, am off to fix my weave "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"Turn on or turn off? Why?
It doesn't really bother me either way but so far most bi guys are indiscriminate with who they fuck and not really that interesting personality wise. I am sure I will find an interesting one at some point maybe I will have to travel further north to do so. "
Wondering what the northern bi guys have over us southerners, probably a whole new thread!
Interesting observation that bi men will shag anything, would others agree with this?
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Turn on or turn off? Why?
It doesn't really bother me either way but so far most bi guys are indiscriminate with who they fuck and not really that interesting personality wise. I am sure I will find an interesting one at some point maybe I will have to travel further north to do so.
Wondering what the northern bi guys have over us southerners, probably a whole new thread!
Interesting observation that bi men will shag anything, would others agree with this?
"
Nope. Not the case at all.
Bi guys are no less discerning than straight ones - they simply have a bigger cross section to select from |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
