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Why don't women reply

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm just wondering why some women don't reply a lot of people take time to send message don't u think it's just courtesy to send a reply and say sorry not my type or not interested just asking ???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I try reply to every one but girls get ALOT of msgs on here and alot of the time when you take time to reply and say sorry not my type you get abuse etc so alot of woman just ignore or even block

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh not again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm just wondering why some women don't reply a lot of people take time to send message don't u think it's just courtesy to send a reply and say sorry not my type or not interested just asking ???

Perhaps they don't like the look of your profile, and on here no reply is not interested

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I try reply to every one but girls get ALOT of msgs on here and alot of the time when you take time to reply and say sorry not my type you get abuse etc so alot of woman just ignore or even block"

i agree lots of guys just become obnoxious

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By *edangel_2013Woman over a year ago

southend

Most women, myself included, read a profile before they open a message. I'd delete any message you sent based on this theory.

Anyway, you've had 2 meets in 2 weeks, exactly what was you hoping for?

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Now let me think, no wait has it, yep I m pretty sure this has been covered, I m sure if it hasn t someone will correct me,

The box thats important fella is the In box not your out box,

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Not every one is abusive but I know what ur saying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Simply because we don't have to

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By *ustcutieWoman over a year ago

edinburgh

I tend to check the profile first, that usually determines wether I reply or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Most women, myself included, read a profile before they open a message. I'd delete any message you sent based on this theory.

Anyway, you've had 2 meets in 2 weeks, exactly what was you hoping for?"

I'm not hoping for anything just asking a question thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some here get a lot of letters each day and just don't have the time or the energy to do that and get into ping pong back and fort , so they don't mail don't even look .

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Simply because we don't have to

Don't u think it's ignorant then ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do try to reply to say I'm not interested, although I tend to just delete the messages that just say "hey babe" "fancy a fook" " Skype" "you wanna meet"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Simply because we don't have to

Don't u think it's ignorant then ??"
no its there choice and was your to mail.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do try to reply to say I'm not interested, although I tend to just delete the messages that just say "hey babe" "fancy a fook" " Skype" "you wanna meet"

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and at time you may reply and say no ... and get a nasty letter back .. some don't as had that a lot here.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Oh not again

Considering we get so many of these posts, I feel it would be ironic if no one replied to them

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By *edangel_2013Woman over a year ago

southend

"Simply because we don't have to

Don't u think it's ignorant then ??"

From the site FAQ

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do try to reply to say I'm not interested, although I tend to just delete the messages that just say "hey babe" "fancy a fook" " Skype" "you wanna meet"

and at time you may reply and say no ... and get a nasty letter back .. some don't as had that a lot here."

I usually get a message back thanking me for being polite

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is a "no thanks" really going to make you feel better about having your advances declined?

its fabswingers not fabmanners,get over it and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do try to reply to say I'm not interested, although I tend to just delete the messages that just say "hey babe" "fancy a fook" " Skype" "you wanna meet"

and at time you may reply and say no ... and get a nasty letter back .. some don't as had that a lot here.

I usually get a message back thanking me for being polite "
well your lucky as a lot get all sorts here after saying no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd rather get no reply than the abuse I received last night in response to a polite message I sent.

Be careful what you wish for, fella.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I reply to everyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Not looking to start a war yes maybe people are like that but if u get a knock back I just say thanks for the reply and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I reply to everyone"

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".... don't u think it's just courtesy to send a reply and say sorry not my type or not interested just asking ???

In All honesty no! You only have to read some of the comments on the forums to realise not everyone on Fab is a decent normal person who can accept even a polite "No thankyou"

We prefer to not reply to people we dont want to meet because of some of the abuse from guys ( and a couple) who take no thanks as a personal attack!

Much safer and less stressful not to answer....1 if they obviously havent read the profile and 2. If their profile means theyre not for you. ( or you just dont fancy them)

This of course means decent people are leftfeeling frustrated and thinking you are ignorant- so be it. Normal people forget very quickly and move along.

The problem of the more maladjusted membership who cant leave it at a "OK lets move on" must be much magnified for single Women.

Yes it would be common courtesy to reply to every message...If the reply was read in the spirit it was sent and the person recieving that reply left it at that!

Otherwise no its not worth the aggravation you can conjour up with a "no thanks".

Pip.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But as stated on this site by not answering is a response in itself it's saying "not interested"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not looking to start a war yes maybe people are like that but if u get a knock back I just say thanks for the reply and move on "
That's what you do ........ others don't have too it's their choice . people do what is right for them here.