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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I know this topic has been discussed before but is it considered ok for a middle aged couple (47 and 49) to play with an 18 yearold?

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By *uby0000Woman  over a year ago

hertfordshire

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What you playin'?

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By *uby0000Woman  over a year ago

hertfordshire

up to them really

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple  over a year ago

Bolton

entirely up to them - hasn't got anything to do with you really! Z

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

wouldn't give them a second thought

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Each to their own, I personally wouldn't. I won't consider playing with anyone younger than my son-in-law who is approaching 32. My kids are 22 & 25 so wouldn't play with anyone younger, it just seems wrong to me. xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If it's between consenting adults, then what's the problem ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If they're over 18 they can do what they want but personally I wouldn't entertain the idea.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Frankly none of my business. Never discuss ages when in a club as all are consenting adults.

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By *ScotsmanMan  over a year ago

ayrshire

my daughters just turned 18 and i would naturally just cut the guys cock off and ram it down his wifes throat and worry about why the fuck she was there later. x x X

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

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"I know this topic has been discussed before but is it considered ok for a middle aged couple (47 and 49) to play with an 18 yearold?"

If all parties are OK with it then sure. I (a [young looking ] 46 year old) regularly play with 18/19 year olds at parties. The conversation can be shit but they're full of vim!

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By *ancs MinxWoman  over a year ago

Burnley


"If they're over 18 they can do what they want but personally I wouldn't entertain the idea."

I am not a couple but if I saw a veri on your profile from a girl that age, I would give you a wide berth, so be careful it does not backfire on you

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By *araidWoman  over a year ago

the west (ish)

I can't see the attraction myself but each to their own I guess. But neither do I think I'd want to met anyone in their forties or above who played with 18 year olds either though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We wouldn't. Anyone that age makes us think of our own kids

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If they're over 18 they can do what they want but personally I wouldn't entertain the idea.

I am not a couple but if I saw a veri on your profile from a girl that age, I would give you a wide berth, so be careful it does not backfire on you"

Woooow its not me..............I was invited to play with a couple and they have a veri from an 18 year old. Not my scene at all. I posed the question only because I think its off the scale of reasonableness?

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By *nigmatic1Woman  over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

I'd find that a bit freaky too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'd find that a bit freaky too!"
I did find it a bit freaky if I am being honest.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple  over a year ago

Bolton


"If they're over 18 they can do what they want but personally I wouldn't entertain the idea.

I am not a couple but if I saw a veri on your profile from a girl that age, I would give you a wide berth, so be careful it does not backfire on youWoooow its not me..............I was invited to play with a couple and they have a veri from an 18 year old. Not my scene at all. I posed the question only because I think its off the scale of reasonableness?"

so what? it's up to them how they play - they aren't breaking any laws! Z

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By *nigmatic1Woman  over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

This goes back to 'each to their own' ...plenty would, plenty wouldn't !

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

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"If they're over 18 they can do what they want but personally I wouldn't entertain the idea.

I am not a couple but if I saw a veri on your profile from a girl that age, I would give you a wide berth, so be careful it does not backfire on youWoooow its not me..............I was invited to play with a couple and they have a veri from an 18 year old. Not my scene at all. I posed the question only because I think its off the scale of reasonableness?

so what? it's up to them how they play - they aren't breaking any laws! Z"

Well the OP did ask if he was being judgemental. The answer is obviously 'yes, and you're not the only one'!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If they're over 18 they can do what they want but personally I wouldn't entertain the idea.

I am not a couple but if I saw a veri on your profile from a girl that age, I would give you a wide berth, so be careful it does not backfire on youWoooow its not me..............I was invited to play with a couple and they have a veri from an 18 year old. Not my scene at all. I posed the question only because I think its off the scale of reasonableness?

so what? it's up to them how they play - they aren't breaking any laws! Z"

Maybe I am being judgemental but I do have concerns as at 18 I didn't know my arse from my elbow!

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple  over a year ago

Bolton


"If they're over 18 they can do what they want but personally I wouldn't entertain the idea.

I am not a couple but if I saw a veri on your profile from a girl that age, I would give you a wide berth, so be careful it does not backfire on youWoooow its not me..............I was invited to play with a couple and they have a veri from an 18 year old. Not my scene at all. I posed the question only because I think its off the scale of reasonableness?

so what? it's up to them how they play - they aren't breaking any laws! ZMaybe I am being judgemental but I do have concerns as at 18 I didn't know my arse from my elbow!"

So that's the same for everyone else then? I started courting a guy who was 40 when i was 19 - i was with him for 20 years! Everyone is different! Z

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire


"If they're over 18 they can do what they want but personally I wouldn't entertain the idea.

I am not a couple but if I saw a veri on your profile from a girl that age, I would give you a wide berth, so be careful it does not backfire on youWoooow its not me..............I was invited to play with a couple and they have a veri from an 18 year old. Not my scene at all. I posed the question only because I think its off the scale of reasonableness?

so what? it's up to them how they play - they aren't breaking any laws! ZMaybe I am being judgemental but I do have concerns as at 18 I didn't know my arse from my elbow!"

but not all 18 year olds are like that especially nowadays.

There all consenting adults

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

personally, I wouldn't play with anyone that age

but

would the op or anyone else feel differently if the 18 year old was married to a middle aged person and they invited someone to play with them? just out of curiousity

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

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"If they're over 18 they can do what they want but personally I wouldn't entertain the idea.

I am not a couple but if I saw a veri on your profile from a girl that age, I would give you a wide berth, so be careful it does not backfire on youWoooow its not me..............I was invited to play with a couple and they have a veri from an 18 year old. Not my scene at all. I posed the question only because I think its off the scale of reasonableness?

so what? it's up to them how they play - they aren't breaking any laws! ZMaybe I am being judgemental but I do have concerns as at 18 I didn't know my arse from my elbow!but not all 18 year olds are like that especially nowadays.

There all consenting adults

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Some of them have been at it for several years by the time they're 18

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I know this topic has been discussed before but is it considered ok for a middle aged couple (47 and 49) to play with an 18 yearold?"

I've done it many times, always enjoyed it and been invited back again and again lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If they're over 18 they can do what they want but personally I wouldn't entertain the idea.

I am not a couple but if I saw a veri on your profile from a girl that age, I would give you a wide berth, so be careful it does not backfire on youWoooow its not me..............I was invited to play with a couple and they have a veri from an 18 year old. Not my scene at all. I posed the question only because I think its off the scale of reasonableness?

so what? it's up to them how they play - they aren't breaking any laws! ZMaybe I am being judgemental but I do have concerns as at 18 I didn't know my arse from my elbow!"

If you are asking about this them maybe you still dont know. I would say if you are having to ask you really already know the answer in your mind.

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I will admit, I am very judgmental, or should I say very sceptical, if some guy contacts me, and they have been verified by someone 20 years younger than me? My cynical side kicks in...and no I don't have any hangups about my body, I just think there is a huge difference between a 20 year old and a 40 year old, and nothing will change that

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It's not for me but I leave adults to do their own thing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"personally, I wouldn't play with anyone that age

but

would the op or anyone else feel differently if the 18 year old was married to a middle aged person and they invited someone to play with them? just out of curiousity"

Wouldn't make a difference to me ~ I've declined a few couples where the guy is say my age and the female is 19/20ish.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If they're over 18 they can do what they want but personally I wouldn't entertain the idea.

I am not a couple but if I saw a veri on your profile from a girl that age, I would give you a wide berth, so be careful it does not backfire on youWoooow its not me..............I was invited to play with a couple and they have a veri from an 18 year old. Not my scene at all. I posed the question only because I think its off the scale of reasonableness?

so what? it's up to them how they play - they aren't breaking any laws! ZMaybe I am being judgemental but I do have concerns as at 18 I didn't know my arse from my elbow!

So that's the same for everyone else then? I started courting a guy who was 40 when i was 19 - i was with him for 20 years! Everyone is different! Z"

Indeed and I just think that a couple with an 18 year old is a bit too near the knuckle. Maybe its my hang up but in my _iew its a bit freaky

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I will admit, I am very judgmental, or should I say very sceptical, if some guy contacts me, and they have been verified by someone 20 years younger than me? My cynical side kicks in...and no I don't have any hangups about my body, I just think there is a huge difference between a 20 year old and a 40 year old, and nothing will change that "
Its not about the body its about..........the ability to make reasoned judgement. An 18 year old man (I use the word legally) would jump at the chance to meet a 40 something woman but is that what he needs?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"my daughters just turned 18 and i would naturally just cut the guys cock off and ram it down his wifes throat and worry about why the fuck she was there later. x x X"

Yes of course you would...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If it concerns you about meeting someone a lot younger

Am 37 but sometimes gets asked for ID

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If it concerns you about meeting someone a lot younger

Am 37 but sometimes gets asked for ID

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You point being?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Each to their own but not for me. If it's you who are meeting them then if you aren't comfortable with it then don't do it

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

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"I will admit, I am very judgmental, or should I say very sceptical, if some guy contacts me, and they have been verified by someone 20 years younger than me? My cynical side kicks in...and no I don't have any hangups about my body, I just think there is a huge difference between a 20 year old and a 40 year old, and nothing will change that Its not about the body its about..........the ability to make reasoned judgement. An 18 year old man (I use the word legally) would jump at the chance to meet a 40 something woman but is that what he needs?"

Some men obviously enjoy meeting older women. In fact there are many posts on the forums where they explicitly request meets with older women. As I have posted above, I have met much younger men often and they don't seem to have suffered from it. In fact they asked to meet again. Younger men are often more able to distinguish between sex and love and are less likely to get attached to older women as they are aware that its just sex.

I've yet to come across any with an Oedipus complex but I am sure it happens.

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I will admit, I am very judgmental, or should I say very sceptical, if some guy contacts me, and they have been verified by someone 20 years younger than me? My cynical side kicks in...and no I don't have any hangups about my body, I just think there is a huge difference between a 20 year old and a 40 year old, and nothing will change that Its not about the body its about..........the ability to make reasoned judgement. An 18 year old man (I use the word legally) would jump at the chance to meet a 40 something woman but is that what he needs?"

It's not about what he needs, it's about what his little head is thinking! Sometimes it is as simple as that, and yes, it all depends on the individual and what type of meet they want!

Some just want the fuck and go type and some like myself, prefer a more social experience and enjoy each others company as well as the sex, it's all down to preference at the end of the day!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I will admit, I am very judgmental, or should I say very sceptical, if some guy contacts me, and they have been verified by someone 20 years younger than me? My cynical side kicks in...and no I don't have any hangups about my body, I just think there is a huge difference between a 20 year old and a 40 year old, and nothing will change that Its not about the body its about..........the ability to make reasoned judgement. An 18 year old man (I use the word legally) would jump at the chance to meet a 40 something woman but is that what he needs?

Some men obviously enjoy meeting older women. In fact there are many posts on the forums where they explicitly request meets with older women. As I have posted above, I have met much younger men often and they don't seem to have suffered from it. In fact they asked to meet again. Younger men are often more able to distinguish between sex and love and are less likely to get attached to older women as they are aware that its just sex.

I've yet to come across any with an Oedipus complex but I am sure it happens."

I am sure jocasta would not agree. Maybe its the older woman on FAB filling their boots?

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

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"I will admit, I am very judgmental, or should I say very sceptical, if some guy contacts me, and they have been verified by someone 20 years younger than me? My cynical side kicks in...and no I don't have any hangups about my body, I just think there is a huge difference between a 20 year old and a 40 year old, and nothing will change that Its not about the body its about..........the ability to make reasoned judgement. An 18 year old man (I use the word legally) would jump at the chance to meet a 40 something woman but is that what he needs?

Some men obviously enjoy meeting older women. In fact there are many posts on the forums where they explicitly request meets with older women. As I have posted above, I have met much younger men often and they don't seem to have suffered from it. In fact they asked to meet again. Younger men are often more able to distinguish between sex and love and are less likely to get attached to older women as they are aware that its just sex.

I've yet to come across any with an Oedipus complex but I am sure it happens.

I am sure jocasta would not agree. Maybe its the older woman on FAB filling their boots?"

And why not? If a younger guy wants to shag me and we are both attracted to each other and both happy with it then what damage could be done?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I will admit, I am very judgmental, or should I say very sceptical, if some guy contacts me, and they have been verified by someone 20 years younger than me? My cynical side kicks in...and no I don't have any hangups about my body, I just think there is a huge difference between a 20 year old and a 40 year old, and nothing will change that Its not about the body its about..........the ability to make reasoned judgement. An 18 year old man (I use the word legally) would jump at the chance to meet a 40 something woman but is that what he needs?

Some men obviously enjoy meeting older women. In fact there are many posts on the forums where they explicitly request meets with older women. As I have posted above, I have met much younger men often and they don't seem to have suffered from it. In fact they asked to meet again. Younger men are often more able to distinguish between sex and love and are less likely to get attached to older women as they are aware that its just sex.

I've yet to come across any with an Oedipus complex but I am sure it happens.

I am sure jocasta would not agree. Maybe its the older woman on FAB filling their boots?

And why not? If a younger guy wants to shag me and we are both attracted to each other and both happy with it then what damage could be done? "

None it would appear but if I was to do the same with an 18 year old woman is that right? Legally yes but from a correctness stand point ?

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

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"I will admit, I am very judgmental, or should I say very sceptical, if some guy contacts me, and they have been verified by someone 20 years younger than me? My cynical side kicks in...and no I don't have any hangups about my body, I just think there is a huge difference between a 20 year old and a 40 year old, and nothing will change that Its not about the body its about..........the ability to make reasoned judgement. An 18 year old man (I use the word legally) would jump at the chance to meet a 40 something woman but is that what he needs?

Some men obviously enjoy meeting older women. In fact there are many posts on the forums where they explicitly request meets with older women. As I have posted above, I have met much younger men often and they don't seem to have suffered from it. In fact they asked to meet again. Younger men are often more able to distinguish between sex and love and are less likely to get attached to older women as they are aware that its just sex.

I've yet to come across any with an Oedipus complex but I am sure it happens.

I am sure jocasta would not agree. Maybe its the older woman on FAB filling their boots?

And why not? If a younger guy wants to shag me and we are both attracted to each other and both happy with it then what damage could be done? None it would appear but if I was to do the same with an 18 year old woman is that right? Legally yes but from a correctness stand point ?"

I think you're asking the wrong person if you want agreement. It's legal. As long as its consensual (and I suspect most of the encounters on here are) then it's fine by me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I will admit, I am very judgmental, or should I say very sceptical, if some guy contacts me, and they have been verified by someone 20 years younger than me? My cynical side kicks in...and no I don't have any hangups about my body, I just think there is a huge difference between a 20 year old and a 40 year old, and nothing will change that Its not about the body its about..........the ability to make reasoned judgement. An 18 year old man (I use the word legally) would jump at the chance to meet a 40 something woman but is that what he needs?

Some men obviously enjoy meeting older women. In fact there are many posts on the forums where they explicitly request meets with older women. As I have posted above, I have met much younger men often and they don't seem to have suffered from it. In fact they asked to meet again. Younger men are often more able to distinguish between sex and love and are less likely to get attached to older women as they are aware that its just sex.

I've yet to come across any with an Oedipus complex but I am sure it happens.

I am sure jocasta would not agree. Maybe its the older woman on FAB filling their boots?

And why not? If a younger guy wants to shag me and we are both attracted to each other and both happy with it then what damage could be done? None it would appear but if I was to do the same with an 18 year old woman is that right? Legally yes but from a correctness stand point ?

I think you're asking the wrong person if you want agreement. It's legal. As long as its consensual (and I suspect most of the encounters on here are) then it's fine by me."

Noted!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I see lots of things that don't appeal to me, don't ever feel a need to judge others for having preferences that exclude and/or don't appeal to me though. Each to their own.

I find the suggestion that 18 year olds are too emotionally immature/vulnerable to swing laughable. While it may be true, age is no indication of either of those traits

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If it concerns you about meeting someone a lot younger

Am 37 but sometimes gets asked for ID

You point being?"

It wasn't aimed at anyone in particular, Just at females who like the idea about being with younger men

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I know this topic has been discussed before but is it considered ok for a middle aged couple (47 and 49) to play with an 18 yearold?"

Judgemental? ....you mean on fab?

....the MOST judgemental site on the interwebz?...never!

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By *uby0000Woman  over a year ago

hertfordshire

I be scared of the 18 year olds mum lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I see lots of things that don't appeal to me, don't ever feel a need to judge others for having preferences that exclude and/or don't appeal to me though. Each to their own.

I find the suggestion that 18 year olds are too emotionally immature/vulnerable to swing laughable. While it may be true, age is no indication of either of those traits"

You do post quite a lot of opinions on a variety of subjects which could be considered judgemental!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Must admit when I was 18 I would have loved to of had some fun with an older lady maybe in her 30's,but now im in my thirties going with someone who is 18 would be a bit weird personally.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I see lots of things that don't appeal to me, don't ever feel a need to judge others for having preferences that exclude and/or don't appeal to me though. Each to their own.

I find the suggestion that 18 year olds are too emotionally immature/vulnerable to swing laughable. While it may be true, age is no indication of either of those traits"

How can it be laughable, but at the same time 'may be true'?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Picture this the older couple invite a 18 year old to their home. Do they ask for age verification as you never know. The pre coital subjects drifts to music and the invitee asks do the hosts like Drake or Eminem. Said hosts look perplexed and ask if they toured with Michael Jackson? Invitee smiles. What do you like ask the Mrs Robinson role player; Drake asks the invitee? The subject is closed and they retire to the bedroom for mind blowing sex. Yes I am being judgemental!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ha ha ha ha ha..........to the lady who sent me a very abusive message (you know who you are!! Always wanted to say that) I do allright as I am very fit 56 year old! and blocking me is a bit dad for an adult debate!"

I can never understand why people get so worked up and feel the need to do that ~ it's bizarre!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Ha ha ha ha ha..........to the lady who sent me a very abusive message (you know who you are!! Always wanted to say that) I do allright as I am very fit 56 year old! and blocking me is a bit dad for an adult debate!

I can never understand why people get so worked up and feel the need to do that ~ it's bizarre!"

Because she was frustrated or the subject matter was a little too...........well a little too!

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By *exyfuntimes2Couple  over a year ago

Dublin/Carlow

Wow, didn't know that some apparently liberal, open-minded people could be so judgmental!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm a little confused as to what the issue is. If a couple in their mid-late 40s want to meet you, a man in your mid 50s, and you have a good rapport with each other surely that is what is important rather than who else they may have met?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

I find the suggestion that 18 year olds are too emotionally immature/vulnerable to swing laughable. While it may be true, age is no indication of either of those traits

How can it be laughable, but at the same time 'may be true'?"

Sorry I didn't make that clear. I just find it laughable that people say it about youngsters when it is equally applicable to people of all ages. It's true fro some teenagers, it's true for some people twice or 3 times that age. It is true that some people lack the emotional maturity for swinging/NSA sex - others don't. Age is not neccesarily a factor in that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I know this topic has been discussed before but is it considered ok for a middle aged couple (47 and 49) to play with an 18 yearold?

Judgemental? ....you mean on fab?

....the MOST judgemental site on the interwebz?...never! "

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I see lots of things that don't appeal to me, don't ever feel a need to judge others for having preferences that exclude and/or don't appeal to me though. Each to their own.

I find the suggestion that 18 year olds are too emotionally immature/vulnerable to swing laughable. While it may be true, age is no indication of either of those traitsYou do post quite a lot of opinions on a variety of subjects which could be considered judgemental!"

I've never judged how someone plays or their preferences which is the point I was making

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

At 36 I took a 19 yr old to a party at a fab friends.

She'd been on site since 18, was more mature than plenty of 20somethings and had plenty of meets under her belt before we first met (for a social).

I doubt if anyone gave us or in fact her a second glance age wise.

Age IS sometimes no definer of attitude, maturity or personality.

Other times - it is. But then there's plenty on here that are 31 that you'd suspect have got the digits the wrong way round!

A

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"my daughters just turned 18 and i would naturally just cut the guys cock off and ram it down his wifes throat and worry about why the fuck she was there later. x x X"

And yet you're looking to meet women and couples aged 18-55 ???

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By *utumnWoman  over a year ago

leeds

I stopped seeing a guy of 56 from here when he started getting verified by an 18yr old lady.

He was entitled to see who he wanted and so was I but I chose not to see him anymore because it made ME feel uncomfortable about him.

If that's being judgmental then maybe I was, however my swinging life is how I want it to be so any decisions I take are about how I feel not anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"At 36 I took a 19 yr old to a party at a fab friends.

She'd been on site since 18, was more mature than plenty of 20somethings and had plenty of meets under her belt before we first met (for a social).

I doubt if anyone gave us or in fact her a second glance age wise.

Age IS sometimes no definer of attitude, maturity or personality.

Other times - it is. But then there's plenty on here that are 31 that you'd suspect have got the digits the wrong way round!

A"

I agree age is no definer of maturity etc etc, I have a friend who is 25 going on 45!

For me though it's more the duty of care factor working with young people and having a child not far off that age group.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"At 36 I took a 19 yr old to a party at a fab friends.

She'd been on site since 18, was more mature than plenty of 20somethings and had plenty of meets under her belt before we first met (for a social).

I doubt if anyone gave us or in fact her a second glance age wise.

Age IS sometimes no definer of attitude, maturity or personality.

Other times - it is. But then there's plenty on here that are 31 that you'd suspect have got the digits the wrong way round!

A

I agree age is no definer of maturity etc etc, I have a friend who is 25 going on 45!

For me though it's more the duty of care factor working with young people and having a child not far off that age group."

Duty of care is the issue for me too

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By *ScotsmanMan  over a year ago

ayrshire


"my daughters just turned 18 and i would naturally just cut the guys cock off and ram it down his wifes throat and worry about why the fuck she was there later. x x X

And yet you're looking to meet women and couples aged 18-55 ???"

i dont want to meet couplers and i dontwant to meet 18year olds

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"my daughters just turned 18 and i would naturally just cut the guys cock off and ram it down his wifes throat and worry about why the fuck she was there later. x x X

And yet you're looking to meet women and couples aged 18-55 ??? i dont want to meet couplers and i dontwant to meet 18year olds "

Your profile says FF couples and women from 18-55

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"my daughters just turned 18 and i would naturally just cut the guys cock off and ram it down his wifes throat and worry about why the fuck she was there later. x x X

And yet you're looking to meet women and couples aged 18-55 ??? i dont want to meet couplers and i dontwant to meet 18year olds "

You might want to change your lower age limit then, as its set at 18.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Has somebody upset the op he has left the site!

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By *ScotsmanMan  over a year ago

ayrshire

I'll put what i want on my profile but thanks for the concern. x x X

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham


"I'll put what i want on my profile but thanks for the concern. x x X"

Watch ya cock then in case you fuck another angry dad's 18 year old daughter lol

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By *lassyandadventurousMan  over a year ago

England and Wales

nothing under 30 for me

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

Oh well......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If there all consenting adults who am I to judge .... It happens.

Personally I wouldn't even go there

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By *illwill69uMan  over a year ago

moston

Another troll profile posting in the forum and then deleting account...

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Another troll profile posting in the forum and then deleting account... "

He wasn't a troll, but I don't think he was particularly happy here.

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By *ScotsmanMan  over a year ago

ayrshire


"I'll put what i want on my profile but thanks for the concern. x x X

Watch ya cock then in case you fuck another angry dad's 18 year old daughter lol"

always. . .or i could just fuck orphans x x X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'll put what i want on my profile but thanks for the concern. x x X"

Nobody said you can't put what you want on your profile but you're threatening violence to a man who wants to have sex with an 18 year old girl yet that's what you want according to your profile as it stands just now?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham


"I'll put what i want on my profile but thanks for the concern. x x X

Watch ya cock then in case you fuck another angry dad's 18 year old daughter lol always. . .or i could just fuck orphans x x X"

Whatever floats your boat cocker

But what's good for the goose is good for the gander!

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By *ensualtouch15Man  over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Some 18 year old are mature some 45 year old are not . Some 18 year old like old school rock some 45 year olds like pop . Some 18 year old like wine some 45 year olds like wine. Some 19 year old uni students like philosophy and sex

The op and others who share the same _iew are simplistic and judgmental , always subjective .

If i was foolish enough to have kids and one were a she I would much prefer her to choose to have experience with a knowledgeable polite considerate inspiration of a man than a grubby 19 year old who knew nothing x

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By *ScotsmanMan  over a year ago

ayrshire


"I'll put what i want on my profile but thanks for the concern. x x X

Nobody said you can't put what you want on your profile but you're threatening violence to a man who wants to have sex with an 18 year old girl yet that's what you want according to your profile as it stands just now?"

i could say not just any 18year old only my 18year old.and she is immature that way...but if i was in a hypothetical situation and i thought another 18year old girl was out her depth i wouldn't ignore the situation...i suppose cutting a cock off and ramming it down anothers throat is a bit extreme so probably wouldn't go that far but wouldn't rule anything out when it comes to myown family. x x X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some 18 year old are mature some 45 year old are not . Some 18 year old like old school rock some 45 year olds like pop . Some 18 year old like wine some 45 year olds like wine. Some 19 year old uni students like philosophy and sex

The op and others who share the same _iew are simplistic and judgmental , always subjective .

If i was foolish enough to have kids and one were a she I would much prefer her to choose to have experience with a knowledgeable polite considerate inspiration of a man than a grubby 19 year old who knew nothing x"

Foolish enough to have kids??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some 18 year old are mature some 45 year old are not . Some 18 year old like old school rock some 45 year olds like pop . Some 18 year old like wine some 45 year olds like wine. Some 19 year old uni students like philosophy and sex

The op and others who share the same _iew are simplistic and judgmental , always subjective .

If i was foolish enough to have kids and one were a she I would much prefer her to choose to have experience with a knowledgeable polite considerate inspiration of a man than a grubby 19 year old who knew nothing x"

I can assure you I'm neither subjective or judgemental in my posting I am simply expressing my _iew.

If you ever have a teenage daughter who wants to have an 'experience' with a 40 year old I wonder if your opinion may change...!!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Woooshhhhh the op has left the building lol

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By *ScotsmanMan  over a year ago

ayrshire


"Some 18 year old are mature some 45 year old are not . Some 18 year old like old school rock some 45 year olds like pop . Some 18 year old like wine some 45 year olds like wine. Some 19 year old uni students like philosophy and sex

The op and others who share the same _iew are simplistic and judgmental , always subjective .

If i was foolish enough to have kids and one were a she I would much prefer her to choose to have experience with a knowledgeable polite considerate inspiration of a man than a grubby 19 year old who knew nothing x

I can assure you I'm neither subjective or judgemental in my posting I am simply expressing my _iew.

If you ever have a teenage daughter who wants to have an 'experience' with a 40 year old I wonder if your opinion may change...!!"

. .you took the words right outa my mouth x x X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I will admit, I am very judgmental, or should I say very sceptical, if some guy contacts me, and they have been verified by someone 20 years younger than me? My cynical side kicks in...and no I don't have any hangups about my body, I just think there is a huge difference between a 20 year old and a 40 year old, and nothing will change that "

I'm the same but the other way round, if a guy my age is showing numerous veris from women 20 years older I wonder why they would then want to meet me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What you playin'? "

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