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How to judge a time waster?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Did they stand you up in a pub or something? What do you call a time waster? Maybe you're coming across too needy or something, not sure why anyone would do that... It happened to me a few times as well on a previous profile, not this one though thankfully xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Did they stand you up in a pub or something? What do you call a time waster? Maybe you're coming across too needy or something, not sure why anyone would do that... It happened to me a few times as well on a previous profile, not this one though thankfully xx"
when i say time waster a person who arranges something like a meet then doesn't turn up, or says they can't do it last minute etc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Four in four days? 
That's either epically bad luck - or possibly very poor selection criteria!
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bit of both i'm guessing, one was for an FFM in birmingham i went there any everything to meet up, i had her number so i thought i could trust her. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Did you ring her for a quick chat first?
yeah i did, then once i went where we were going to meet i got no response."
The I'd suggest reporting them as 'arranged a meet - did not show'.
We're they verified and a long standing member - or a newbie with no track record?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ok 4 in 4 days is bad luck, but if one of those had to cancel last minute for some reason it doesn't always mean they're a timewaster. it's possible that was genuine. i have a young munchkin and have had to reschedule meets due to childcare falling through once and getting a phone call from the school twice.... once as i was leaving got the meet! it can't be helped, sometimes. but good luck in future. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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youve only been on a couple of weeks and to have 4 possible meets in that time is pretty darn good if i go by the single men comments here - take a bit more time to get to know who you are meeting - its not a sex guaranteed site yanno |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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to you they appear as time wasting as your obviously disappointed. but they may have genuine reasons and if im honest if 4 diffent people backed out in 4 days id take a look at yourself as it may just be something about you thats putting them off. you call it time wasting they may consider it a lucky escape...different perspective thats all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" i had her number so i thought i could trust her."
Was it actually her number?...did you speak to her or communicate in any way?...
But you've been on the site 2 weeks and 4 potential meets, I would be questioning if that's true and/or the meets were legitimate...to be fair.
It took me a month to get my first meet.
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