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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have to talk to someone on a regular basis with work, attractive, great personality and we are quite flirty, but I try to be professional and keep it that way.
She's dropped hints her partner isn't too bothered about her, and she told me she can't get me out of her head...
I like her...
I've got to remain professional and not cross that line haven't I???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to talk to someone on a regular basis with work, attractive, great personality and we are quite flirty, but I try to be professional and keep it that way.
She's dropped hints her partner isn't too bothered about her, and she told me she can't get me out of her head...
I like her...
I've got to remain professional and not cross that line haven't I??? "
Oh dude, just go for it! I'm sure it will be very exciting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My advice is " Don't pork the payroll" 'life can get get get very complicated and you could risk your / her jobs. I was working at a firm some time ago stopping in a b&b local to the office and was kept up by a couple going like hammer a tongs in the mext room. Whilst I enjoy hearing couples having sex in hotels I couldnt take it after a fewchours needing sllep for work next day and went out to knock on the door to politely ask them to quieten down - I was gobsmaked when my married boss answered the door with his ( also married) secretary behind him! Awkward words were exchanged and I promised to say nothing and add his room cost to my expenses but it was fairly obvious to most people in the office that something was going on, and it made me feel very uncomfortable. It became common knowledge after a while and caused resentment with the other girls working there if they felt she was getting special treatment one of them phoned both their partners after an argument. She hsd to leave the company. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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DO NOT cross that line between work and play, if she does want to see you, suggest she finish with her partner first .... should let you know how serious she is about him then.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Err funnily enough Meetthefockers I was working in Bolton when this happened. 
Lol erm I'm innocent honestly it wasn't me  "
Ha ha I know Meet, wrong ages but I did check out your profile before I posted as I still have dealings with my ex boss and I didn't want to drop myself in the doo doo with him when we next speak. They got married in the end and as far as I know are happy together so all ended well but it was traumatic at the time.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes don't cross the line please don't do it belive me it's heartbreaking! "
My plan is not to cross the line...I just wish she hadn't said anything as it was easier when I didnt know. I'll stick to pleasing married/single ladies on here. 
I must be good
I must be...
I must... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes don't cross the line please don't do it belive me it's heartbreaking!
My plan is not to cross the line...I just wish she hadn't said anything as it was easier when I didnt know. I'll stick to pleasing married/single ladies on here.
I must be good
I must be...
I must... "
Bloody phone
Be stong, keep clear. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a similar experience with a married guy I work with. I'm glad I didn't cross the line, as it would have been well awkward at work as he now works for me.
Like others have said mixing work & play never generally ends well!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know they shouldn't mix...the next 5 years are going to be tough though as our paths will still cross and there will be a need for contact at times.
I'm flattered she likes me and being a single guy it's nice to know someone, even if untouchable, wants me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personally don't know why you're asking a bunch of strangers what you should do as I'm sure you'll do whatever your cock tells you."
Unlike some single guys on here I do think with my brain not my cock...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personally don't know why you're askig a bunch of strangers what you should do as I'm sure you'll do whatever your cock tells you."
Another reason for asking is as the forums a place to air views and topics of conversation, it is interesting to get the views of others, even if I know what I'm going to do already.
So far I've been advised to go for it and avoid. As mentioned previously experience has taught me to think with my head not my cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know they shouldn't mix...the next 5 years are going to be tough though as our paths will still cross and there will be a need for contact at times.
I'm flattered she likes me and being a single guy it's nice to know someone, even if untouchable, wants me "
I personally wouldnt risk it..
and im sure there are plenty on here who want u |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I mixed business and pleasure together several times over the years. It has been good fun and I never suffered because of it. I was Lucky!!!
You must be ABSOLUTELY certain she is interested in you and you must gather proof of it. Otherwise you will be out on your ear for sexual harressment the minute she sees you look at another woman.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The next time she drops hints you could have a chat with her and explain that while you too fancy her you will not cross that line as doing that inside of a work situation would be unprofessional and she has a partner ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Take a chance Son.
If you like her go for it.
They say better to regret something you have done than not"
My dad says as long as you're happy son...
I am happy, I would not be if we succumbed to temptation, got caught, wrecked a marriage, hurt the kids, or lost my job! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a manager I've see way to many times the problems after some one crossed that line!! Keep work and play separate! Others take sides, there becomes a divide of feelings in other staff members, people walk out of their jobs because they can't stand to be around that person! Think wisely! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As a manager I've see way to many times the problems after some one crossed that line!! Keep work and play separate! Others take sides, there becomes a divide of feelings in other staff members, people walk out of their jobs because they can't stand to be around that person! Think wisely! "
I don't work with her,nor her me, we are in contact through my job |
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