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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
intelligence in meeting somebody for fun?
I am not asking for a man to explain string theory to me while exploring my femininity... but I like him to be a match!
So how important is intelligent wiity banter for you guys?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends on what you mean by intelligence.
I love chaps to be quick-witted, funny, interested in the world around them and responsive. To me that's intelligence. (not saying that should be anyone elses view, just thought I'd best say that)
Educational attainment is useless really as you can be a complete dullard. |
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Very important. If they don't engage my mind I don't meet. While you're taking a breather between bouts you need to be able to have a conversation.
It was the witty,intelligent conversation that lead to me meeting my other half on here. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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Interesting conversation is important to me - I would enjoy someone explaining string theory while fiddling with my g-string. I like rounded people. I'm not educated so it's not about degrees with me but passion for something that they can convey is very beguiling.
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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I guess this is what makes it an interesting debate. I like a man (and woman) to have a simialr sense of humour and a quick wit. If that is not there, if there is not a connection at mental, cerebral level I am not interested. Why woudl I want to shag anyone with whom I have nothing in common?
I d be better off with a dildo - at least it would not annoy me with its lack of perception and intelligence... |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"It depends on what you mean by intelligence.
I love chaps to be quick-witted, funny, interested in the world around them and responsive. To me that's intelligence. (not saying that should be anyone elses view, just thought I'd best say that)
Educational attainment is useless really as you can be a complete dullard."
I can go along with this one hundred percent. It is not necessarily about education but about raw basic intelligence  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It depends on what you mean by intelligence.
I love chaps to be quick-witted, funny, interested in the world around them and responsive. To me that's intelligence. (not saying that should be anyone elses view, just thought I'd best say that)
Educational attainment is useless really as you can be a complete dullard."
ditto.
is important for me. Most probably you've realised from my posts but I just love a laugh and good banter. The perfect meet is someone who can give as good as they get. |
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"It depends on what you mean by intelligence.
I love chaps to be quick-witted, funny, interested in the world around them and responsive. To me that's intelligence. (not saying that should be anyone elses view, just thought I'd best say that)
Educational attainment is useless really as you can be a complete dullard.
I can go along with this one hundred percent. It is not necessarily about education but about raw basic intelligence "
that's not how your op came across
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"It depends on what you mean by intelligence.
I love chaps to be quick-witted, funny, interested in the world around them and responsive. To me that's intelligence. (not saying that should be anyone elses view, just thought I'd best say that)
Educational attainment is useless really as you can be a complete dullard.
I can go along with this one hundred percent. It is not necessarily about education but about raw basic intelligence that's not how your op came across
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Well that is what is how it was intended. I like people who can interact at that level - if I only want a shag I am better with my dildo - at least it does not argue back in a less than articulate manner. |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"It depends on what you mean by intelligence.
I love chaps to be quick-witted, funny, interested in the world around them and responsive. To me that's intelligence. (not saying that should be anyone elses view, just thought I'd best say that)
Educational attainment is useless really as you can be a complete dullard.
ditto.
is important for me. Most probably you've realised from my posts but I just love a laugh and good banter. The perfect meet is someone who can give as good as they get."
Indeed and that means there has to be a level of intelligence! |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"I guess this is what makes it an interesting debate. I like a man (and woman) to have a simialr sense of humour and a quick wit. If that is not there, if there is not a connection at mental, cerebral level I am not interested. Why woudl I want to shag anyone with whom I have nothing in common?
I d be better off with a dildo - at least it would not annoy me with its lack of perception and intelligence... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It depends on what you mean by intelligence.
I love chaps to be quick-witted, funny, interested in the world around them and responsive. To me that's intelligence. (not saying that should be anyone elses view, just thought I'd best say that)
Educational attainment is useless really as you can be a complete dullard."
Someone said to me once "Common sense is not common." As long as you can express yourself intelligently and you're passionate about subjects outside the world of Fabs then you're good with me.  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Intelligence and a quick wit are important to me. It's essential to engage my mind before anything else can happen.
I'm not looking for fuck and go arrangements so the ability to converse is vital. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the worry is that people sometimes use terms like intelligence, classy, professional etc to distinguish themselves from others who they consider beneath them. Whether this is what is intended or not, it is often viewed as such and as it can read as such sometimes I find myself reading posts in the voice of Margot Leadbetter for those old enough to remember.
If I had to choose, between someone who believes themselves to be intelligent but used that as a tool to differentiate and someone more humble, id pick humility.
That is my view folks, im not expecting anyone else to agree, but it's my view.
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"I think the worry is that people sometimes use terms like intelligence, classy, professional etc to distinguish themselves from others who they consider beneath them. Whether this is what is intended or not, it is often viewed as such and as it can read as such sometimes I find myself reading posts in the voice of Margot Leadbetter for those old enough to remember.
If I had to choose, between someone who believes themselves to be intelligent but used that as a tool to differentiate and someone more humble, id pick humility.
That is my view folks, im not expecting anyone else to agree, but it's my view.
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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I just prefer people I have some kind of cerebral connection with.
Education is irrelevant and "class", wealth, career or lack thereof don't factor, but an active mind is essential.
Better people? No, just better for me.
I know what I like, that's all. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Connection wit and mental agility are all very important to me. I love the animal passion and intimacy of sex but it's nice to spend the in between times with someone on the same wavelength. "
Ditto |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"quick wittedness, sense of humour and an ability to hold a conversation that interests me is a must ...  
...and the desire for shoes.
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not if they are nicking mine!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just prefer people I have some kind of cerebral connection with.
Education is irrelevant and "class", wealth, career or lack thereof don't factor, but an active mind is essential.
Better people? No, just better for me.
I know what I like, that's all."
Active mind, couldn't have put it better, that's it in a nutshell. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"intelligence in meeting somebody for fun?
I am not asking for a man to explain string theory to me while exploring my femininity... but I like him to be a match!
So how important is intelligent wiity banter for you guys? "
Lack of intelligence is a turn off. Though that should not be confused with lack of education. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Connection wit and mental agility are all very important to me. I love the animal passion and intimacy of sex but it's nice to spend the in between times with someone on the same wavelength. "
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"intelligence in meeting somebody for fun?
I am not asking for a man to explain string theory to me while exploring my femininity... but I like him to be a match!
So how important is intelligent wiity banter for you guys? "
I like it very much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's just sex. As long as he wasn't droning on in a boring voice about something I don't care what he talks about. I don't like cheeky chappy types regardless of their intelligence. It's more about how a man talks rather than what he talks about. I don't mind men that don't talk either |
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String theory is so yesterday m theory seems to be more accepted over the last few years although does obviously incorporate string theory so, a good conversation starter still.
Back to the op, I think it's one of those assets that compliments someone's personality. For example, we've been chatting to some very intelligent people in clubs but the personality is a bit lacking...
When your chatting and the other person(s) pick up on the subtle innuendos and humorous undertones, we tend to forget discussing inter dimensional branes and get fucking. but that's just us.
So yes, personality, with a good lashing of intelligence for us! - not the other way around!
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
"I just prefer people I have some kind of cerebral connection with.
Education is irrelevant and "class", wealth, career or lack thereof don't factor, but an active mind is essential.
Better people? No, just better for me.
I know what I like, that's all."
Nicely put! It is about what each of us individually seek from meeting people off here - and for me that includes meeting people socially. I do need that"active mind" as you so aptly described it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it's job and knock, then I suppose it doesn't really matter, but as we can see from the posts, most people desire a certain level of social/people skills, I guess if a connection is made physically AND mentally you're more inclined to want further meets, and the community grows.
Personally, I like someone who communicates well around all subjects.. They say the brain is biggest sexual organ, that's nonsense after some of the weapons I've seen on here |
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