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By *ig jugs OP Woman
over a year ago
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I havent had sex in 11 months due to having 3 ajor surgeries, and 2 bouts of scepticemia which resulted in very long stays in hospital.I often get asked why I am sill on here lol.What is the longest anyone has gone without sex .Did it make you loose your sex drive too? xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Almost 4 years after my divorce until I realised I was going to wither away before my time and decided to get back at it so to speak......gotta say, best decision of my life, beaten only by my decision to divorce  |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I havent had sex in 11 months due to having 3 ajor surgeries, and 2 bouts of scepticemia which resulted in very long stays in hospital.I often get asked why I am sill on here lol.What is the longest anyone has gone without sex .Did it make you loose your sex drive too? xx"
Between my divorce and nursing my dying mum - 2 years. |
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Six years towards the end of my marriage, then it was probably a year after we split that I found a guy I wanted to have sex with as I thought I might be totally rubbish in bed, so 7 years for me, trying to make up for it now though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nearly 3 years, I think.
I stopped counting after a while.
The longer I go without, the easier it gets. And the harder it is to actually do it again."
 Well it was 12 years
in a straight run, then after that it was
just over 6 years, and now its 2 years 4
months and its 20 years since unloading
at all thats what happens when you get
long spells without, thank god we have alternative ways...  ..  Can,t imagine not haveing that after 40 years on a regular basis along with a few sex
aids along the way...  |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I don't believe anyone that says over a month! Come seriously id be Trippin over my balls"
Women don't have balls. And when you have a lot of very serious emotional stuff going on then sex can be side lined. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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2months but only coz I was in and out of hospital with leg nd ankle ops. That was last year tho. In more recent terms it's about a week the longest....having a regular fb for past 5months has And is good xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Almost 16 years. But after I lost my virginity about two months.
Previous posters have a good point about most women going far longer without than most men, as is borne out by the answers given.
Women find it a lot harder than men to have sex without the whole range of emotions and issues having to be spot on beforehand, as natural born multi-taskers if other things are on their minds its pretty tricky for them to even want it.
Whereas blokes find it easier to switch off the rest of the world and concentrate on the moment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I havent had sex in 11 months due to having 3 ajor surgeries, and 2 bouts of scepticemia which resulted in very long stays in hospital.I often get asked why I am sill on here lol.What is the longest anyone has gone without sex .Did it make you loose your sex drive too? xx"
No way near that long I would say 3 months at a guess but if I had had all you have had sex wouldn't be a huge priority. Sex is great but walking talking and living life is far more rewarding. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah mine was about a year without sex when my ex just point blank refused to sleep with me. I went off it too.
It is all fine now. I have sam
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I take it he became an ex due to his being such an noticeable fool? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't believe anyone that says over a month! Come seriously id be Trippin over my balls
Women don't have balls. And when you have a lot of very serious emotional stuff going on then sex can be side lined. "
Yes there was abit of sarcasm there let's not get all emotional it was just abit of banter hun |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't believe anyone that says over a month! Come seriously id be Trippin over my balls
Women don't have balls. And when you have a lot of very serious emotional stuff going on then sex can be side lined.
Yes there was abit of sarcasm there let's not get all emotional it was just abit of banter hun"
I didn't say I was emotional. I merely pointed out that people go through emotional stuff and so sex is often not important at those times.
And the put down wasn't necessary. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I havent had sex in 11 months due to having 3 ajor surgeries, and 2 bouts of scepticemia which resulted in very long stays in hospital.I often get asked why I am sill on here lol.What is the longest anyone has gone without sex .Did it make you loose your sex drive too? xx"
I went 11 years without sex when a relationship went tits up...i just stepped away from men and didnt even use toys...nothing....
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't believe anyone that says over a month! Come seriously id be Trippin over my balls
Women don't have balls. And when you have a lot of very serious emotional stuff going on then sex can be side lined.
Yes there was abit of sarcasm there let's not get all emotional it was just abit of banter hun
I didn't say I was emotional. I merely pointed out that people go through emotional stuff and so sex is often not important at those times.
And the put down wasn't necessary. "
I'm sorry I have offended you really wasn't ment in that way I've never bin emotionally hurt so I wasn't aware of the different effects it has on people I feel bad now .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men need to have sex at least once a week or there balls get bigger and bigger and eventually explode, showering everybody within a 50' radius in jizz and bits of bollock.
I was it on the web so it must be true |
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as my ex wanted sex all the time ,he never went without ,even had sex with me whilst he was on/off with the woman he left me for.
so now been able to go without if i want to is great ,its currently about 2 months x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men need to have sex at least once a week or there balls get bigger and bigger and eventually explode, showering everybody within a 50' radius in jizz and bits of bollock.
I was it on the web so it must be true "
I've just discovered that diet really stings when it goes up your nose and into your eyes.
Mercy bucket deepest blue for causing an unintended and unattractive snort, mercy bucket!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Few days. Before then, two years. You'd think that would have eased the tension a bit. No. Coupled with quitting smoking, I feel like I'm taking viagra for breakfast every day...
Oh look, I'm on Fabswingers! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men need to have sex at least once a week or there balls get bigger and bigger and eventually explode, showering everybody within a 50' radius in jizz and bits of bollock.
I was it on the web so it must be true
I've just discovered that diet really stings when it goes up your nose and into your eyes.
Mercy bucket deepest blue for causing an unintended and unattractive snort, mercy bucket!
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I don't believe anyone that says over a month! Come seriously id be Trippin over my balls
Women don't have balls. And when you have a lot of very serious emotional stuff going on then sex can be side lined.
Yes there was abit of sarcasm there let's not get all emotional it was just abit of banter hun
I didn't say I was emotional. I merely pointed out that people go through emotional stuff and so sex is often not important at those times.
And the put down wasn't necessary.
I'm sorry I have offended you really wasn't ment in that way I've never bin emotionally hurt so I wasn't aware of the different effects it has on people I feel bad now .."
No worries. I said that I went without after my divorce and whilst caring for my mum who was dying. A lot of people posted similar. Those kinds of things do tend to take precedence. Sex was certainly not on my mind at the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Eight months or so. Mind you in the last year I had rumpy pumpy with ladies who were six and twelve yrs!! ( sans sex )
Serious rephrasing needed here! "
lol that does not sound right somehow |
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