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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do some men think that they have to mention stuff like "I love an older woman" or "mature women are my thing" in their mails to me? Do they think that I'll presume they hadn't noticed my decrepit age before they sent message! They must think its flattering or something to be referred to thus, goodness knows why. The really really irritating thing though and one guaranteed a biting response is when the men are in their forties and say they love older women to me, I'm 48 ffs, when I'm ninety well.....they'll probably be dead.
I'm going to start writing messages like "I am very interested in balding men" or " I just love men who have let themselves go" or even " the younger ugly man really makes me horny"  |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"Why do some men think that they have to mention stuff like "I love an older woman" or "mature women are my thing" in their mails to me? Do they think that I'll presume they hadn't noticed my decrepit age before they sent message! They must think its flattering or something to be referred to thus, goodness knows why. The really really irritating thing though and one guaranteed a biting response is when the men are in their forties and say they love older women to me, I'm 48 ffs, when I'm ninety well.....they'll probably be dead.
I'm going to start writing messages like "I am very interested in balding men" or " I just love men who have let themselves go" or even " the younger ugly man really makes me horny" "
I start mine with "i love a woman who has heart beat" or "women that are still breathing are my thing" works for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some men think that they have to mention stuff like "I love an older woman" or "mature women are my thing" in their mails to me? Do they think that I'll presume they hadn't noticed my decrepit age before they sent message! They must think its flattering or something to be referred to thus, goodness knows why. The really really irritating thing though and one guaranteed a biting response is when the men are in their forties and say they love older women to me, I'm 48 ffs, when I'm ninety well.....they'll probably be dead.
I'm going to start writing messages like "I am very interested in balding men" or " I just love men who have let themselves go" or even " the younger ugly man really makes me horny" "
Not sure, but since it's Help the Aged week, lovely profile pics.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've had a few want my young cock messages. Then they say age is just a number. So why mention it? "
Indeed. And the next bloke who refers to me as a cougar is looking to have his lights punched out, so beware at the Chester social this week and watch your language |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i dont get many that mention my age and im 53, doesnt bother me too much when they do. i guess its because so many men like much younger women, they cant always get one though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just delete mail I don't like. No screaming or lengthy forum rants or threats of physical violence. Just a quick click of a button and it's gone forever.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get people saying they like older women to me
Jeeeeez I am 33
Makes me feel old
You're 33 and you get older woman messages 
Who's sending you those? 18 year olds lol "
Even like 28year olds send me them
FFs really lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i dont get many that mention my age and im 53, doesnt bother me too much when they do. i guess its because so many men like much younger women, they cant always get one though. "
The point is though that they have messaged me so I assume that have looked at my profile, considered my assets and my age and have decided that its worth a try. There is no need for any justification, I'm not going to tell them off and point out the fifteen months age gap to them and ask if they're sure they can stand watching everything hit the floor when the bra comes off. You like someone and message them don't justify to them why your doing it unless you are actually justifying it to yourself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just delete mail I don't like. No screaming or lengthy forum rants or threats of physical violence. Just a quick click of a button and it's gone forever. "
+1 this |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just delete mail I don't like. No screaming or lengthy forum rants or threats of physical violence. Just a quick click of a button and it's gone forever. "
Always one isn't there, complains about lengthy forum posts then proceeds to add to it with a post of their own. The forums are for people to discuss issues, if none of us had issues because we just dealt with them by using the delete button then there would be no forums and I would have nothing to do on a boring Sunday morning.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont get many that mention my age and im 53, doesnt bother me too much when they do. i guess its because so many men like much younger women, they cant always get one though.
The point is though that they have messaged me so I assume that have looked at my profile, considered my assets and my age and have decided that its worth a try. There is no need for any justification, I'm not going to tell them off and point out the fifteen months age gap to them and ask if they're sure they can stand watching everything hit the floor when the bra comes off. You like someone and message them don't justify to them why your doing it unless you are actually justifying it to yourself "
 at the fifteen months age difference.
Just respond and say great, it's a pity I don't like old men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not going to tell them off and point out the fifteen months age gap to them and ask if they're sure they can stand watching everything hit the floor when the bra comes off"
Lolololololololol!
In tears here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just delete mail I don't like. No screaming or lengthy forum rants or threats of physical violence. Just a quick click of a button and it's gone forever.
Always one isn't there, complains about lengthy forum posts then proceeds to add to it with a post of their own. The forums are for people to discuss issues, if none of us had issues because we just dealt with them by using the delete button then there would be no forums and I would have nothing to do on a boring Sunday morning. "
Some like to stand on the moral high ground.... that's made of quick sand . |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"I get people saying they like older women to me
Jeeeeez I am 33
Makes me feel old
You're 33 and you get older woman messages
Who's sending you those? 18 year olds lol
Even like 28year olds send me them
FFs really lol"
28 year olds!!!  That is shocking!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah forums are just for issues they are a smorgasbord of topics covering everything lol
PS I only posted that so i could use the word smorgasbord lol "
ARENT* |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just delete mail I don't like. No screaming or lengthy forum rants or threats of physical violence. Just a quick click of a button and it's gone forever.
Always one isn't there, complains about lengthy forum posts then proceeds to add to it with a post of their own. The forums are for people to discuss issues, if none of us had issues because we just dealt with them by using the delete button then there would be no forums and I would have nothing to do on a boring Sunday morning. "
Yes there's always one person on any forum post with a rational and politely expressed point of _iew which differs from that of the OP.
Last I checked, such posts were still allowed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some like to stand on the moral high ground.... that's made of quick sand ."
What's wrong with the moral high ground? Why is it made of quicksand?
I'm genuinely confused by your post. Please explain. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just delete mail I don't like. No screaming or lengthy forum rants or threats of physical violence. Just a quick click of a button and it's gone forever.
Always one isn't there, complains about lengthy forum posts then proceeds to add to it with a post of their own. The forums are for people to discuss issues, if none of us had issues because we just dealt with them by using the delete button then there would be no forums and I would have nothing to do on a boring Sunday morning.
Yes there's always one person on any forum post with a rational and politely expressed point of _iew which differs from that of the OP.
Last I checked, such posts were still allowed. "
You weren't expressing an alternative point of _iew, you weren't saying that it should be expected that messages will refer to my age. You were saying I shouldn't post about it. So you were acting as quality control rather than offering an alternative _iewpoint. No one forced you to take part in this post, it isn't taking up valuable space that could be devoted to you interests. |
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"I just delete mail I don't like. No screaming or lengthy forum rants or threats of physical violence. Just a quick click of a button and it's gone forever.
Always one isn't there, complains about lengthy forum posts then proceeds to add to it with a post of their own. The forums are for people to discuss issues, if none of us had issues because we just dealt with them by using the delete button then there would be no forums and I would have nothing to do on a boring Sunday morning.
Yes there's always one person on any forum post with a rational and politely expressed point of _iew which differs from that of the OP.
Last I checked, such posts were still allowed.
You weren't expressing an alternative point of _iew, you weren't saying that it should be expected that messages will refer to my age. You were saying I shouldn't post about it. So you were acting as quality control rather than offering an alternative _iewpoint. No one forced you to take part in this post, it isn't taking up valuable space that could be devoted to you interests."
The alternative point if _iew is ignore and delete instead of wanting to scream |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some like to stand on the moral high ground.... that's made of quick sand .
What's wrong with the moral high ground? Why is it made of quicksand?
I'm genuinely confused by your post. Please explain. "
There are some forum posters who like to devalue someone's justifiable and often tongue-in-cheek rant. They come across as though they are taking the high ground whereas in the real world there are very few people who could do that in ANY context. This means their moral high ground is shaky and won't stay high for too long.
Okay my opinion and it amused me. so *raspberries*  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You weren't expressing an alternative point of _iew, you weren't saying that it should be expected that messages will refer to my age. You were saying I shouldn't post about it. So you were acting as quality control rather than offering an alternative _iewpoint. No one forced you to take part in this post, it isn't taking up valuable space that could be devoted to you interests."
I said what I do in response to mail I don't like. That's all. I didn't tell anyone what they should or shouldn't be doing.
My post is still up there in black and white. You can always go back and read what I actually wrote, instead of what you think you saw. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Semantics here but a _iew is how you feel about something, i.e. I _iew those mails as irritating. Writing a post about it is an action, not a _iew. I _iewed it as irritation therefore I acted on my _iews and chose to write a post about it. Wanting me to act differently isn't offering me an alternative _iewpoint, for example "I like those mails, they are always welcome to me" is a _iew alternative to mine. Suggesting I delete rather than post is suggesting an alternative action. |
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"You weren't expressing an alternative point of _iew, you weren't saying that it should be expected that messages will refer to my age. You were saying I shouldn't post about it. So you were acting as quality control rather than offering an alternative _iewpoint. No one forced you to take part in this post, it isn't taking up valuable space that could be devoted to you interests.
I said what I do in response to mail I don't like. That's all. I didn't tell anyone what they should or shouldn't be doing.
My post is still up there in black and white. You can always go back and read what I actually wrote, instead of what you think you saw. "
Seconded. Thirded and Fourthted
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Here, this thread is just starting to get good. I am on a train and bored... keep the bickering up guys..."
It does seem to have attracted the self righteous and humourless (and some lovely peeps too, you know who you are xxxxx) just reads some posts on other threads by some posters here and goodness me they are like that bloke at the gangbang who mutters in the corner about self respect and his sainted mother |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just delete mail I don't like. No screaming or lengthy forum rants or threats of physical violence. Just a quick click of a button and it's gone forever. "
Oh and then immediately block so you're not on a communication merry-go-round. Virtually nobody ever does though it seems, maybe it's because although the content isn't wanted, the attention is.
Delete, block and move on up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Here, this thread is just starting to get good. I am on a train and bored... keep the bickering up guys...
It does seem to have attracted the self righteous and humourless (and some lovely peeps too, you know who you are xxxxx) just reads some posts on other threads by some posters here and goodness me they are like that bloke at the gangbang who mutters in the corner about self respect and his sainted mother "
Agrees with OP = 'lovely'
Disagrees with OP = 'self righteous and humourless'
Just some needed clarification. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I just delete mail I don't like. No screaming or lengthy forum rants or threats of physical violence. Just a quick click of a button and it's gone forever.
Oh and then immediately block so you're not on a communication merry-go-round. Virtually nobody ever does though it seems, maybe it's because although the content isn't wanted, the attention is.
Delete, block and move on up."
I try to but they clog up the inbox, seriously. A good 50% of the mails I get are from much younger men (and 47 year olds who think they are MUCH younger) so is getting to be a bit of a grind. So, have solution have blocked mails from men who are under 48, simples....
.hmmmmmm, young cock......where did you go??? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe try a woman instead, you seem to hate men
How on earth do you form that opinion?
profile and attitude.
Hate was a too strong a word though."
I hate wanky men who think I should be grateful, yes, I really do. I love men who have a bit of thought, read my man-hating profile and still manage to sound appealing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Perhaps humour is needed when addressed as mature?
I reply to the 'interested party'' im not mature, im wholly immature and also reckless and irresponsible, does this still suit?
The forums are chock full of threads of couples and females moaning about single males. As an open forum though, any of us can post a response, so we do.
Filter, delete, block and find your perfect swing partner by doing your own running. Granted you then have to work out what to say to guys so as not to have them create a ranting post about you on here but you might find what you are looking for.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Perhaps humour is needed when addressed as mature?
I reply to the 'interested party'' im not mature, im wholly immature and also reckless and irresponsible, does this still suit?
The forums are chock full of threads of couples and females moaning about single males. As an open forum though, any of us can post a response, so we do.
Filter, delete, block and find your perfect swing partner by doing your own running. Granted you then have to work out what to say to guys so as not to have them create a ranting post about you on here but you might find what you are looking for.
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Cracking idea |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Perhaps humour is needed when addressed as mature?
I reply to the 'interested party'' im not mature, im wholly immature and also reckless and irresponsible, does this still suit?
The forums are chock full of threads of couples and females moaning about single males. As an open forum though, any of us can post a response, so we do.
Filter, delete, block and find your perfect swing partner by doing your own running. Granted you then have to work out what to say to guys so as not to have them create a ranting post about you on here but you might find what you are looking for.
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But what would I say???? Have lost the art of Making the first move, eeeek! How about " love your pics, how are you Hun?" ????? |
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"Perhaps humour is needed when addressed as mature?
I reply to the 'interested party'' im not mature, im wholly immature and also reckless and irresponsible, does this still suit?
The forums are chock full of threads of couples and females moaning about single males. As an open forum though, any of us can post a response, so we do.
Filter, delete, block and find your perfect swing partner by doing your own running. Granted you then have to work out what to say to guys so as not to have them create a ranting post about you on here but you might find what you are looking for.
But what would I say???? Have lost the art of Making the first move, eeeek! How about " love your pics, how are you Hun?" ?????"
Some women on here hate the word hun.
That would be a different thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Perhaps humour is needed when addressed as mature?
I reply to the 'interested party'' im not mature, im wholly immature and also reckless and irresponsible, does this still suit?
The forums are chock full of threads of couples and females moaning about single males. As an open forum though, any of us can post a response, so we do.
Filter, delete, block and find your perfect swing partner by doing your own running. Granted you then have to work out what to say to guys so as not to have them create a ranting post about you on here but you might find what you are looking for.
But what would I say???? Have lost the art of Making the first move, eeeek! How about " love your pics, how are you Hun?" ?????"
And there's a myriad threads about using words like 'hun'' and whining about about using 'how are you?' One is offensive, the other is boring.
Starting to see the point?
Therefore I revert to my original point, if you have such a clear idea in mind of what constitutes your kind of person you go find him/them and don't leave the 20,000 blokes to be able to get on your tits on a daily basis.
Oh and be prepared for knock-backs.
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"Perhaps humour is needed when addressed as mature?
I reply to the 'interested party'' im not mature, im wholly immature and also reckless and irresponsible, does this still suit?
The forums are chock full of threads of couples and females moaning about single males. As an open forum though, any of us can post a response, so we do.
Filter, delete, block and find your perfect swing partner by doing your own running. Granted you then have to work out what to say to guys so as not to have them create a ranting post about you on here but you might find what you are looking for.
But what would I say???? Have lost the art of Making the first move, eeeek! How about " love your pics, how are you Hun?" ?????
And there's a myriad threads about using words like 'hun'' and whining about about using 'how are you?' One is offensive, the other is boring.
Starting to see the point?
Therefore I revert to my original point, if you have such a clear idea in mind of what constitutes your kind of person you go find him/them and don't leave the 20,000 blokes to be able to get on your tits on a daily basis.
Oh and be prepared for knock-backs.
Mrs D."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get people saying they like older women to me
Jeeeeez I am 33
Makes me feel old
You're 33 and you get older woman messages
Who's sending you those? 18 year olds lol "
Oddly enough there was a thread by an 18 yr old looking for older women and his maximum age was 33 |
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I think most women (and anyone in general really) would simply prefer to be thought as attractive, due to a combination of factors that make them attractive, rather than simply because of one thing like their age/ethnicity etc. Sure, its fine to find those individual attributes appealing in a person, but I wouldn't ever be saying to a woman 'I'm meeting you because I like older women', rather 'It was your age that initially appealed to me, but I'm meeting you because you're intelligent, charming and good-looking, and just so happen to be an age that excites me too'. |
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"I get people saying they like older women to me
Jeeeeez I am 33
Makes me feel old
You're 33 and you get older woman messages
Who's sending you those? 18 year olds lol
Oddly enough there was a thread by an 18 yr old looking for older women and his maximum age was 33 "
well 33 is old to an 18 year old. |
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"I get people saying they like older women to me
Jeeeeez I am 33
Makes me feel old
You're 33 and you get older woman messages
Who's sending you those? 18 year olds lol
Oddly enough there was a thread by an 18 yr old looking for older women and his maximum age was 33
well 33 is old to an 18 year old. "
25 was to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do some men think that they have to mention stuff like "I love an older woman" or "mature women are my thing" in their mails to me? Do they think that I'll presume they hadn't noticed my decrepit age before they sent message! They must think its flattering or something to be referred to thus, goodness knows why. The really really irritating thing though and one guaranteed a biting response is when the men are in their forties and say they love older women to me, I'm 48 ffs, when I'm ninety well.....they'll probably be dead.
I'm going to start writing messages like "I am very interested in balding men" or " I just love men who have let themselves go" or even " the younger ugly man really makes me horny" "
I can understand your frustration as we have had them but I wouldn't educate these folk by sending a message back or posting in the forum |
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"Why do some men think that they have to mention stuff like "I love an older woman" or "mature women are my thing" in their mails to me? "
Always trying to see the other party's perspective - you do hear a fair few women on here say 'I couldn't possibly meet someone that young, they'll be disappointed......' or somesuch. A LOT of women have low self-esteem.
So, the dear little chaps may just be trying to reassure you at the outset that they do really love the bodies of older women with all their little flaws, to make sure THEY don't get rejected out of hand.
Sometimes they also start with 'do you like younger men' despite veris which clearly show I do!! It might just be about THEIR insecurities, consider that before getting too irritated with them maybe. |
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"I just delete mail I don't like. No screaming or lengthy forum rants or threats of physical violence. Just a quick click of a button and it's gone forever.
Always one isn't there, complains about lengthy forum posts then proceeds to add to it with a post of their own. The forums are for people to discuss issues, if none of us had issues because we just dealt with them by using the delete button then there would be no forums and I would have nothing to do on a boring Sunday morning.
Yes there's always one person on any forum post with a rational and politely expressed point of _iew which differs from that of the OP.
Last I checked, such posts were still allowed.
You weren't expressing an alternative point of _iew, you weren't saying that it should be expected that messages will refer to my age. You were saying I shouldn't post about it. So you were acting as quality control rather than offering an alternative _iewpoint. No one forced you to take part in this post, it isn't taking up valuable space that could be devoted to you interests.
The alternative point if _iew is ignore and delete instead of wanting to scream"
Yep that's how I read it too  |
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"I'm going to start writing messages like "I am very interested in balding men" or " I just love men who have let themselves go" or even " the younger ugly man really makes me horny"
Feel free to message me, I fit your criteria perfectly! "
Only 2 out of 3 for me, forget the younger bit |
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"Why do some men think that they have to mention stuff like "I love an older woman" or "mature women are my thing" in their mails to me?
Always trying to see the other party's perspective - you do hear a fair few women on here say 'I couldn't possibly meet someone that young, they'll be disappointed......' or somesuch. A LOT of women have low self-esteem.
So, the dear little chaps may just be trying to reassure you at the outset that they do really love the bodies of older women with all their little flaws, to make sure THEY don't get rejected out of hand.
Sometimes they also start with 'do you like younger men' despite veris which clearly show I do!! It might just be about THEIR insecurities, consider that before getting too irritated with them maybe."
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"I get people saying they like older women to me
Jeeeeez I am 33
Makes me feel old
You're 33 and you get older woman messages
Who's sending you those? 18 year olds lol
Even like 28year olds send me them
FFs really lol"
At the grand old age of 29 I also get the 'I love older women' messages from men in their early 20s. Urgh! |
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