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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Any thoughts or _iews on this,the people that tend to moan and groan about not getting and meets. I say have a positive attitude and outlook any you with get better results. Some people are beat before they start. Chin up people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id say that it works in life in general. Be positive, even when its hard to be so. A good attitude goes a long way and attracts others with the same.
Lx"
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over a year ago
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I look at it this way if you think oooo I am fat I am not nice I am unhappy with life and I am this and that you will be, As we are what we think about ourselves it become true to us . So I keep positive . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I look at it this way if you think oooo I am fat I am not nice I am unhappy with life and I am this and that you will be, As we are what we think about ourselves it become true to us . So I keep positive ."
I'm a realist as opposed to an optimist or pessimist. |
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"I look at it this way if you think oooo I am fat I am not nice I am unhappy with life and I am this and that you will be, As we are what we think about ourselves it become true to us . So I keep positive .
I'm a realist as opposed to an optimist or pessimist."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nowt wrong with moaning but if it's for the right reasons. Moaning cause you can't get a meet is fair in my _iew but doesn't necessarily mean everyone will listen or jump on you "
Nothing wrong with moaning. But its not attractive and people dont like to move towards it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I look at it this way if you think oooo I am fat I am not nice I am unhappy with life and I am this and that you will be, As we are what we think about ourselves it become true to us . So I keep positive .
I'm a realist as opposed to an optimist or pessimist."
I think you still can be a realist and think very positive I am one myself . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can't imagine that moaning statuses and/or profiles ever make people want to send a message."
agree if a profile doom and cloom moaning about not getting any action or meets why would you send a mail |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you put out a negative outlook - you aren't exactly inviting wonderful things
Easier said than done though "
yes I know at times it can be hard turning things around and can take time. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a bit of a positive outlook last night. Hell, was I wrong there Well keep it up you may get it today , "
Made the mistake of meeting a old school friend. no spark. he is old before his time and younger than me, doesn't understand fab, I could go on but won't. He is married but has no idea of what women want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a bit of a positive outlook last night. Hell, was I wrong there Well keep it up you may get it today ,
Made the mistake of meeting a old school friend. no spark. he is old before his time and younger than me, doesn't understand fab, I could go on but won't. He is married but has no idea of what women want. "
Well a friend is nice so maybe he should just stay one . xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A positive mental attitude doesn't necessarily change the outcome (although it may), but it definitely helps you to see and take the positive from the outcome. |
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"Some people are born miserable with no sense of humour though . No amount of positive thinking can change misery guts like that in my opinion . "
I don't believe that anyone is born miserable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a bit of a positive outlook last night. Hell, was I wrong there Well keep it up you may get it today ,
Made the mistake of meeting a old school friend. no spark. he is old before his time and younger than me, doesn't understand fab, I could go on but won't. He is married but has no idea of what women want. Well a friend is nice so maybe he should just stay one . xx "
Im not sure he would be up for that. I have till the middle of the week to think of a nice way to tell him |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I look at it this way if you think oooo I am fat I am not nice I am unhappy with life and I am this and that you will be, As we are what we think about ourselves it become true to us . So I keep positive .
I'm a realist as opposed to an optimist or pessimist."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any thoughts or _iews on this,the people that tend to moan and groan about not getting and meets. I say have a positive attitude and outlook any you with get better results. Some people are beat before they start. Chin up people. "
You make it sound like a meat market. If people can't form a relationship without using a swinging forum then they should really reevaluate their lives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Whilst I am a realist in many respects, its taken me many, many years to accept the fact that I can allow myself to be happy and to accept happiness as a part of my life. That happiness is in itself its own reward and is a positive not a negative thing.
The positive mental gains and feeling of inner peacefulness when you let go of negativity cannot be measured nor easy communicated. |
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