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why so many rude people

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

why is it that some couples on here are very rude when comes to trying to be polite to them and asking how days been then you get blocked for some reason I dont understand them, wouldnt be so bad if kept asking for a meet and sex which dont and wasnt 2 a certain couple from telford

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

try the search tab to your left

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple over a year ago

Bolton

"why is it that some couples on here are very rude when comes to trying to be polite to them and asking how days been then you get blocked for some reason I dont understand them, wouldnt be so bad if kept asking for a meet and sex which dont and wasnt 2 a certain couple from telford"

Well, it someone asks me out of the blue how my days' been I'd just delete and not reply! Send a relevant message and don't expect a reply every time - it's not rudeness - ps - this topic gets done about 6 times a day!!! Z

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

it was just a one off message to them had been chatting for about a week with them that is why sent the message asking how there days gone not just out the blue as you put it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

First time I've seen this Topic posted as well, are some Couples really that rude

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple over a year ago

Bolton

"it was just a one off message to them had been chatting for about a week with them that is why sent the message asking how there days gone not just out the blue as you put it"

lol - don't know if that would freak me out more! Most people looking for nsa sex and not a new bessie mate! Z

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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To be honest, we are on here for meets, not to play ping pong mails with people who are asking how our day has gone.

Try making your mail relevant to what you are looking for, and see if that gets a better response. If you after a meet with the person, say so, rather than skirt round the issue.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple over a year ago

Bolton

First time I've seen this Topic posted as well, are some Couples really that rude

Now, you really are taking the rise! The 'why no reply' thread gets done to death! Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

well when guys just send cock pics and ask fancy a shag i can see why they get blocked thought most people like manners to start with not rude cock shots or r some like you different?

its not was looking for a bezzy mate either just tryin be polite guess next time not bother

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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"it was just a one off message to them had been chatting for about a week with them that is why sent the message asking how there days gone not just out the blue as you put it"

Ah I was typing while you were putting this.

Ok now whoever it was has decided they are sick of saying I am fine thanks and don't want to chat to you anymore. They could have mailed you and said so, but chose to block you instead....maybe they knew what reaction they were going to get, and it has probably proved it to them if they see this thread.

Move on, forget about it, people are allowed to block whoever they like.

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I don't know - why are there so many rude people?

**waits for the punchline**

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

its just being polite and having manners in my eyes thats all nothing wrong in having few manners and I know people here for meets and that but cant be wrong being friends too can it

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By *anfarMan over a year ago

birmingham

Im guessing that women especially and couples to a slightly lesser extent get hundreds and hundreds of messages.

Therefore if they took time to be polite back to every message they got it would take all day.

I to do polite chatty messages but dont mind when they just get deleted, thats the way it goes

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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"its just being polite and having manners in my eyes thats all nothing wrong in having few manners and I know people here for meets and that but cant be wrong being friends too can it"

Some of us don't want friends to play ping pong mail with..it is a swinging site not facethingy.

If people don't want to speak to you, they don't have to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Crikey- shame on you!! lol

Where do you get off asking people how their day has gone?? How terribly intrusive I dont know how you have the nerve to dare ask one of the annointed how their day went.

The sheer cheek. You should be blocked for life by all right-minded people.

(reaches for irony button

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"its just being polite and having manners in my eyes thats all nothing wrong in having few manners and I know people here for meets and that but cant be wrong being friends too can it"

I think you're still missing the point.

It is tiring and very boring receiving a "how are you" or "how was your day" type message.

You said you've been talking to them for a week...perhaps they were expecting the conversation would have moved on by now!

Learn from it and move on. Being rude and petulant will do you no favours!!

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By *ickmealloverWoman over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I like being rude, especially if it means being naked

But I reply to most emails

No one has to reply to anyones mail especially if its unwanted

Its sad but its life I'm afraid

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"its just being polite and having manners in my eyes thats all nothing wrong in having few manners and I know people here for meets and that but cant be wrong being friends too can it"

Here's the thing... you think it's just being polite asking "how has your day been"... and to be fair, if it was someone I had been talking to previously who was asking, I would think they are just being polite... unless I thought I'd already given them the brush-off.

But.... when you login and instantly get 2 or 3 "how's your day been" messages from people you don't know, who don't match what you are looking for and live on the other side of the country..... it no longer feels like they are being polite. And then when some of the same people start popping up time and time again... it now feels like being hassled.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've some sympathy with the OP, it seems the much maligned single male is damned if he does, damned if he don't!

It's far better to be polite, not ask for a meet outright, but not prolong the (social) intercourse longer than necessary!

Even if he was the most polite man here, that doesn't guarantee an adventure, the couple might just have not fancied him, but they could have handled the rejection better...all in my opinion of course!

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By *ebzStarWoman over a year ago

Notting

Hi - how are you???

Hi - how are you???Hi - how are you???

Hi - how are you???

Yep - it gets a tad boring after a while1

hehe

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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"I've some sympathy with the OP, it seems the much maligned single male is damned if he does, damned if he don't!

It's far better to be polite, not ask for a meet outright, but not prolong the (social) intercourse longer than necessary!

After his reaction of coming to the forums to complain about being blocked.....maybe the couple involved realised he wouldn't take rejection very well either?

Anyway, the point is, any member has every right to block any person they want, for whatever reason, just as the OP has the right to.......even if people think it is rude. I don't suppose any of us objects to that?

Being the subject of a forum thread for excersising their right might not be welcomed by them.

So maybe time to shut this now.

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