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over a year ago
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"Any chance we can have a body size search? Not into fat women and would make things a lot easier LoL, I like women who take care of their figure!"
Says the blank shadow profile with no pictures!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any chance we can have a body size search? Not into fat women and would make things a lot easier LoL, I like women who take care of their figure!
Says the blank shadow profile with no pictures! "
You beat me to it!!!
At least the majority of us bigger women display what we look like, surely you can run a search and look only at the profiles of slim women who take care of their figures.
This topic has been done to death in the forums, how do you define what is big/fat/tall/thin/slim/short - everybody has a different perspective. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I seem to have caused offence to larger women, never meant to, I'm just looking for a women who's in nice shape and not overweight! I don't see how me having no pictures on my profile reflects on my message? I'm on about people, not peoples pictures! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I seem to have caused offence to larger women, never meant to, I'm just looking for a women who's in nice shape and not overweight! I don't see how me having no pictures on my profile reflects on my message? I'm on about people, not peoples pictures!"
No offence taken here
Im a nice shape :-/ you would be lost without circles in your life  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I seem to have caused offence to larger women, never meant to, I'm just looking for a women who's in nice shape and not overweight! I don't see how me having no pictures on my profile reflects on my message? I'm on about people, not peoples pictures!
No offence taken here
Im a nice shape :-/ you would be lost without circles in your life "
Good, aint got lost so far  good luck tho, bet you get plenty of offers on here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I seem to have caused offence to larger women, never meant to, I'm just looking for a women who's in nice shape and not overweight! I don't see how me having no pictures on my profile reflects on my message? I'm on about people, not peoples pictures!"
it doesn't,but at least we could look at your pics and be gutted or thankful you don't like fatties |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I seem to have caused offence to larger women, never meant to, I'm just looking for a women who's in nice shape and not overweight! I don't see how me having no pictures on my profile reflects on my message? I'm on about people, not peoples pictures!"
Because you're criticising others without having the balls to show yourself. It comes across as cowardly to throw stones whilst hiding behind a screen.
You don't like fat women. Fair enough. There was no need to say that larger women don't take care of themselves.
Besides, a size search wouldn't help because how we judge ourselves is very subjective and one person's large is another person's average. Likewise someone may think they are average when others would consider them slim or curvy.
Threads on here show men vary in what they call "large". For some it's any woman larger than a size 12; for others it's size 20+. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I seem to have caused offence to larger women, never meant to, I'm just looking for a women who's in nice shape and not overweight! I don't see how me having no pictures on my profile reflects on my message? I'm on about people, not peoples pictures!
it doesn't,but at least we could look at your pics and be gutted or thankful you don't like fatties "
And let's face it, there's never been a man on here that describes himself as athletic when he clearly isn't! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I seem to have caused offence to larger women, never meant to, I'm just looking for a women who's in nice shape and not overweight! I don't see how me having no pictures on my profile reflects on my message? I'm on about people, not peoples pictures!
it doesn't,but at least we could look at your pics and be gutted or thankful you don't like fatties
And let's face it, there's never been a man on here that describes himself as athletic when he clearly isn't! "
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"I seem to have caused offence to larger women, never meant to, I'm just looking for a women who's in nice shape and not overweight! I don't see how me having no pictures on my profile reflects on my message? I'm on about people, not peoples pictures!"
Because peoples pictures are often a better way to assess their body shape than their profile.
There are an awful lot of men who consider themselves muscular when their pictures say differently. 
And nice shape is a very subjective term. I certainly don't have a model/gymfit figure but I have sincere fans who think I have a nice shape.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I seem to have caused offence to larger women, never meant to, I'm just looking for a women who's in nice shape and not overweight! I don't see how me having no pictures on my profile reflects on my message? I'm on about people, not peoples pictures!
Because you're criticising others without having the balls to show yourself. It comes across as cowardly to throw stones whilst hiding behind a screen.
You don't like fat women. Fair enough. There was no need to say that larger women don't take care of themselves.
Besides, a size search wouldn't help because how we judge ourselves is very subjective and one person's large is another person's average. Likewise someone may think they are average when others would consider them slim or curvy.
Threads on here show men vary in what they call "large". For some it's any woman larger than a size 12; for others it's size 20+."
I'm not criticising at all am I? Just saying I prefer women who try to keep in shape. I imagine most girls a dress size 16+ are probably large, or classes as overweight by bmi.
Yes tho, I agree, it can vary, I'd class a size 8-12 as fabulous, but on here it seems to be size 20+ |
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i must be honest and say that i personally prefer sporty type girls.
slim or curvy for me..i am not into big girls but we dont need a thing to check this for us.
i say stop being lazy and read the profiles as there are plenty of slimmer girls on fab.
have fun you bbw !! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Don't think there is anything wrong in the question, just the way he said it.
On loads of women profiles if you are not tall fit and hunky you can forget it.
Swings and roundabouts really.
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Agreed. It was the lack of tact and saying larger women don't care for themselves that was the problem.
It doesn't bother me that some men don't fancy fat women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't think there is anything wrong in the question, just the way he said it.
On loads of women profiles if you are not tall fit and hunky you can forget it.
Swings and roundabouts really.
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I think the issue most people have with it is it reeks of pure laziness. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I seem to have caused offence to larger women, never meant to, I'm just looking for a women who's in nice shape and not overweight! I don't see how me having no pictures on my profile reflects on my message? I'm on about people, not peoples pictures!
Because you're criticising others without having the balls to show yourself. It comes across as cowardly to throw stones whilst hiding behind a screen.
You don't like fat women. Fair enough. There was no need to say that larger women don't take care of themselves.
Besides, a size search wouldn't help because how we judge ourselves is very subjective and one person's large is another person's average. Likewise someone may think they are average when others would consider them slim or curvy.
Threads on here show men vary in what they call "large". For some it's any woman larger than a size 12; for others it's size 20+.
I'm not criticising at all am I? Just saying I prefer women who try to keep in shape. I imagine most girls a dress size 16+ are probably large, or classes as overweight by bmi.
Yes tho, I agree, it can vary, I'd class a size 8-12 as fabulous, but on here it seems to be size 20+"
Not being critical? Ooookay.
Good luck finding the slim women you're looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I seem to have caused offence to larger women, never meant to, I'm just looking for a women who's in nice shape and not overweight! I don't see how me having no pictures on my profile reflects on my message? I'm on about people, not peoples pictures!
Because you're criticising others without having the balls to show yourself. It comes across as cowardly to throw stones whilst hiding behind a screen.
You don't like fat women. Fair enough. There was no need to say that larger women don't take care of themselves.
Besides, a size search wouldn't help because how we judge ourselves is very subjective and one person's large is another person's average. Likewise someone may think they are average when others would consider them slim or curvy.
Threads on here show men vary in what they call "large". For some it's any woman larger than a size 12; for others it's size 20+.
I'm not criticising at all am I? Just saying I prefer women who try to keep in shape. I imagine most girls a dress size 16+ are probably large, or classes as overweight by bmi.
Yes tho, I agree, it can vary, I'd class a size 8-12 as fabulous, but on here it seems to be size 20+"
Therein lies the problem. Most people take 'fabulous' to mean larger, not smaller. Good luck searching for fabulous women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't think there is anything wrong in the question, just the way he said it.
On loads of women profiles if you are not tall fit and hunky you can forget it.
Swings and roundabouts really.
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Except... it's ok for women to ask for "hunky 6 packs and not baldy oldies". If men use similar terms they are set on with fire and pitchforks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't think there is anything wrong in the question, just the way he said it.
On loads of women profiles if you are not tall fit and hunky you can forget it.
Swings and roundabouts really.
Except... it's ok for women to ask for "hunky 6 packs and not baldy oldies". If men use similar terms they are set on with fire and pitchforks."
I'm hunky and baldie youngsie.
...get in my chum!! Lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I seem to have caused offence to larger women, never meant to, I'm just looking for a women who's in nice shape and not overweight! I don't see how me having no pictures on my profile reflects on my message? I'm on about people, not peoples pictures!
Because you're criticising others without having the balls to show yourself. It comes across as cowardly to throw stones whilst hiding behind a screen.
You don't like fat women. Fair enough. There was no need to say that larger women don't take care of themselves.
Besides, a size search wouldn't help because how we judge ourselves is very subjective and one person's large is another person's average. Likewise someone may think they are average when others would consider them slim or curvy.
Threads on here show men vary in what they call "large". For some it's any woman larger than a size 12; for others it's size 20+."
Exactly this, my ex hubby considered me 'fat' or 'overweight' if I was bigger than a size 10
I'm now a very happy 14 who exercises regularly and is appreciated by some lovely guys and gals on this site for the person I am and the lush body I am lucky enough to walk about in. |
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