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over a year ago
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"If you're having fun then thats the way to go 
Took me 4 weeks to ask him if he wanted to meet  "
...it takes me months or maybe even years lol. I think i should stop waiting for them to ask me haha
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Probably better to use the internet to supplement your sexual and social life, rather than as a sole means of meeting others. Fab is very successful for many, but we are all different, and have varying numbers of potential matches locally. Some of us can and cant do short notice meets, and clubs give you immediate availability, as well as a play space, if hosting is not so easy or you just dont want to. Ive been very fortunate on fab, but I also use clubs to meet others. |
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"Clubs are the best place to meet not on here people talk but dont do."
You missed the word 'some' before people. It's not everyone that is all talk.
You have 3 verifications from meets since the start of the year, so not too bad. |
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over a year ago
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"If you're having fun then thats the way to go
Took me 4 weeks to ask him if he wanted to meet
...it takes me months or maybe even years lol. I think i should stop waiting for them to ask me haha
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Start asking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not working for us
Us neither. But mostly because of my fussyness. So not blaming anyone.
Hope you get some soon dear.
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have your other half choose for you. Blindfold
You and see what you make of that. |
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over a year ago
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We tend to use clubs as we are slightly spoilt with having a few local to us and it's less effort. That said we put a meet today up on Saturday and met a lovely couple that night.
It's about finding what works for you. |
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over a year ago
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The vast majority of our meets , infact all but two have been from clubs .
It really depends what you are looking for though . If you are looking for social meets and friends , then arranging through fab is perfect .
If you are looking for NSA sex , clubs all the way , as that's what most who go to clubs are looking for too .
This post is not about which is right however , it's just our opinion , and neither is right or wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we prefer clubs because there is always chance of a plan b if plan a doesn't work out we do find it usefull to post on here to break the ice and display what we want on our profile!  |
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"Not working for us"
It's not a desperately enticing profile to be fair. If it belonged to a single guy there'd be plenty of comments to that effect and far less polite than the ones you're getting. |
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While I like the banter and getting to know people on here,ive changed how we have traditionally done things for a while,we've been to a couple of parties recently.....ended up with lots of lovely new contacts, we know we're all real and we get on face to face which is all good for future arrangements  |
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"Clubs are the best place to meet not on here people talk but dont do."
Personally had six years of fun on this site, met many interesting playmates. Met my other half on here so I'd have to disagree with you. |
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disagree.
things happen wherever you put the effort in.
we have been to a club on 5 occasions and played once.
out of the same amount of meets organised off here we have played 4 times.
the thing with clubs is, there is always someone else thats more attractive a proposition for another party to take their attention away.
we much prefer to have the full attention of whoever we are talking to so one on ones will be the way we go in future, to play at least. |
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over a year ago
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Since we have moved to Kent I have to admit we have had meets in clubs, that's only due to there not being many local to us who actually meet, we don't mind traveling to meets within a reasonable distance, have to say we do prefer private meets though. |
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Our time is restricted due to shiftwork and young children. So primarily we meet at clubs. A lot of people don't like waiting so it's sometimes hard finding dates that work on here.
However we do meet privately when time allows and have had some fantastic times in the past from people on here.
Whatever works for us at the time really lol |
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