 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
On one born every minute this girl has asked for her boyfriend and her dad to be in with her has any other women had their dad with them or would any dad want to watch his daughter give birth?? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"On one born every minute this girl has asked for her boyfriend and her dad to be in with her has any other women had their dad with them or would any dad want to watch his daughter give birth??"
Was her mum still alive? Maybe her dad was the closest non-partner available/the one she felt was special in her life.
If my daughter asked me to attend next time - I would, because she asked and I love her.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"On one born every minute this girl has asked for her boyfriend and her dad to be in with her has any other women had their dad with them or would any dad want to watch his daughter give birth??
Was her mum still alive? Maybe her dad was the closest non-partner available/the one she felt was special in her life.
If my daughter asked me to attend next time - I would, because she asked and I love her.
"
agree 100% but i also understand the op. it wouldnt feel quite right.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Woman I work with, she went in with her daughter till it was the crucial time then swapped with her husband purely for the fact she passes out when she sees blood and can't cope with other peoples pain. Apparently he was a great birthing partner and her daughter didn't feel weird having her dad with her at all. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Her mom was alive her parents had split up and was living with her dad but still saw her mom I was just asking as ive only heard of women asking for partners or moms being with them I personally only wanted my partner with me I understand you may be closer to your dad and want him there just wanted to see it from a dads point of view if they would jump at the chance to support their daughter though an amazing experience or if they would feel helpless like most partners do |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
By the time I got to hospital there was barely time to get my partner there, let alone my parents. And the thought of them bickering over me while I gave birth was not attractive. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
When I had my 1st child 23 yrs ago, my dad was there along with my ex, wasn't thru choice just how it turned out because I was so drugged up!
Don't think ex would be there for our daughter as he couldn't cope when his own kids were born, me personally hope I have the privilege seeing first grandchild being born one day x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
my sister had my dad with her when she had her first. The scrote of a 'man' that got her pregnant decided he didnt want to be a grown up (his words) at 5 months pregnant and i had gone to all her antenatal classes with her ready to be her partner however the baby got stuck so she had to have an emergency caesarian.
Our dad is very calm in emergency situations and so it was him she chose over our mum who was in the waiting room (she would have panicked and made the situation more stressful). |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Nope.
But I did have my older brother in with me for my first, along with my mum, my sons dad waited outside with my brothers friend. It wasn't planned this way, my brother and his friend just so happened to be at the hospital when I went in. My sons dad passed out so went outside and at this point my brother came in and stayed. He was puking most of the time and when he wasn't he had his head on my shoulder facing the wall behind us telling me about how horrible birth is and that he didn't feel well. Men!!
I wouldn't do it again like that and had I not been off my head on all the pain relief I would have objected to coming in but hay ho.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
"Nope.
But I did have my older brother in with me for my first, along with my mum, my sons dad waited outside with my brothers friend. It wasn't planned this way, my brother and his friend just so happened to be at the hospital when I went in. My sons dad passed out so went outside and at this point my brother came in and stayed. He was puking most of the time and when he wasn't he had his head on my shoulder facing the wall behind us telling me about how horrible birth is and that he didn't feel well. Men!!
I wouldn't do it again like that and had I not been off my head on all the pain relief I would have objected to coming in but hay ho.
"
Sorry in advance about this but.... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Men should stay out of labour rooms/delivery rooms full stop. They ask stupid questions,fall asleep,get in the way and steal the gas and air. Women only,unless the man is a doctor,midwife or nurse |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Men should stay out of labour rooms/delivery rooms full stop. They ask stupid questions,fall asleep,get in the way and steal the gas and air. Women only,unless the man is a doctor,midwife or nurse "
the 1950's called and asked if you need a new stock of cigars for the waiting room lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Men should stay out of labour rooms/delivery rooms full stop. They ask stupid questions,fall asleep,get in the way and steal the gas and air. Women only,unless the man is a doctor,midwife or nurse "
And miss the birth of my child never  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
