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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago
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left my phone at my mums last nite she bought it back to me this morning and 101 messages from my fb first hi then cos he got no teply I got who you fucking? followed by more accusations
this annoyed me as he was supposed to come up but then said he had to watch his son play football then didn't go so why take it out on me? and trust is the biggest issue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh that does my head in when people keep messaging when you haven't replied to the first. Like you're constantly welded to your phone! Guys do it on here too. |
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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Oh that does my head in when people keep messaging when you haven't replied to the first. Like you're constantly welded to your phone! Guys do it on here too. "
that's what gets me starts off nice then after not replying gets nasty |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That would piss me off!!
Did he not just try calling instead of sending all them messages.
glad he didn't cos my mum may have answered "
At the end of the day he's your FB, he's no right to treat you that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh that does my head in when people keep messaging when you haven't replied to the first. Like you're constantly welded to your phone! Guys do it on here too.
that's what gets me starts off nice then after not replying gets nasty "
No one needs that crap. Any decent person would send a message and just wait for a reply, people have other things going on in their lives. He sounds a bit obsessed! If I send a message I don't expect an instant reply, people will reply when they want to. |
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"That is not normal behaviour id be fucking him off out of my life asap
ive had this with him before been thinking of ending it for a while "
Hmm, sounds like he has a problem with jealousy that is somewhat out of control! |
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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago
hertfordshire |
"That is not normal behaviour id be fucking him off out of my life asap
ive had this with him before been thinking of ending it for a while
Hmm, sounds like he has a problem with jealousy that is somewhat out of control!"
im beginning to see that now I often get messages saying I belong to him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile states that your married so you shouldn't be putting up with this kind of behaviour, which indicates a belief of ownership.
It would really annoy me, messages on here asking if everythings ok if I don't jump to respond really irritate me and I don't jump to attention and I certainly wouldnt in your situation. |
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"That is not normal behaviour id be fucking him off out of my life asap
ive had this with him before been thinking of ending it for a while
Hmm, sounds like he has a problem with jealousy that is somewhat out of control!
im beginning to see that now I often get messages saying I belong to him"
oh my! Thats one loose cannon right there! Wish you luck with getting shot of him... Don't sount like its gonna be easy   |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"left my phone at my mums last nite she bought it back to me this morning and 101 messages from my fb first hi then cos he got no teply I got who you fucking? followed by more accusations
this annoyed me as he was supposed to come up but then said he had to watch his son play football then didn't go so why take it out on me? and trust is the biggest issue"
101 messages overnight???? Sounds like bunny-boiler territory. And, if he cancelled your meet, then, you are free to do what you want? He's an fb so, I assume, he has no claim on you.
I barely ever text my fb, and vice versa. Whoever he sees when he doesn't see me is his business and likewise I see whoever I like when not meeting him. Neither of us has a claim on the other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if I had been your mum and the phone beeped 101 times, I would have smashed the fucking thing to bits.."
True or my Mum would have been on the landline telling me to pick it up as its vibrated off the table on to the floor  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I barely ever text my fb, and vice versa. Whoever he sees when he doesn't see me is his business and likewise I see whoever I like when not meeting him. Neither of us has a claim on the other."
Ditto. Me and my FB text each other about once a fortnight, to arrange a meet. The only person I will swap loads of texts with is my daughter, and even she stops at 4 or 5 a night. |
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"left my phone at my mums last nite she bought it back to me this morning and 101 messages from my fb first hi then cos he got no teply I got who you fucking? followed by more accusations
this annoyed me as he was supposed to come up but then said he had to watch his son play football then didn't go so why take it out on me? and trust is the biggest issue"
That does not sound good... there really is no place for jealousy in swinging. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I barely ever text my fb, and vice versa. Whoever he sees when he doesn't see me is his business and likewise I see whoever I like when not meeting him. Neither of us has a claim on the other.
Ditto. Me and my FB text each other about once a fortnight, to arrange a meet. The only person I will swap loads of texts with is my daughter, and even she stops at 4 or 5 a night."
I cannot stand lengthy text 'conversations'. My sister-in-law is manic about it. She also easily takes umbrage if you don't respond quickly. She text once to have a pop at me not answering. I waited until it was safe to pull over in the car and pointed out that texting whilst doing 70 on the motorway was not only an offence but dangerous and that I was actually on my way to hers. She did apologise afterwards. |
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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago
hertfordshire |
"I hope its no a pay as u go phone @10p each..."
he has unlimited texts .. it was not on loud cos I didn't want to be disturbed while seeing my daughter yesterday he sends lots of one word texts like hi or hello and he texts me so much sometimes I get a headache from replying |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I hope its no a pay as u go phone @10p each...
he has unlimited texts .. it was not on loud cos I didn't want to be disturbed while seeing my daughter yesterday he sends lots of one word texts like hi or hello and he texts me so much sometimes I get a headache from replying "
1. Have you told him that this is excessive?
2. What was his response?
3. Did you come up with any agreement or boundaries regarding texting?
4. Is he ignoring those?
Dump him! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That is not normal behaviour id be fucking him off out of my life asap"
Dead right. You should read the thread about clairs law. This is how bad things start.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile states that your married so you shouldn't be putting up with this kind of behaviour, which indicates a belief of ownership.
It would really annoy me, messages on here asking if everythings ok if I don't jump to respond really irritate me and I don't jump to attention and I certainly wouldnt in your situation."
I would change my phone I could not cope .. your right its like a ownership thing and would irritate the hell out of me . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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whoa that's not normal behaviour for anyone let alone a FB..!!
how well do you know him, he sounds very insecure. if you're married isn't this kind of behaviour a little worrying for you too?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"left my phone at my mums last nite she bought it back to me this morning and 101 messages from my fb first hi then cos he got no teply I got who you fucking? followed by more accusations
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101 messages from 1 person..in 1 night?
Are you serious?.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when he starts texting me he don't stop "
Well anyone who sends 101 fucking messages in 1 night has more issues than if you were fucking someone instead of him could ever solve.
..in my humble opinion. Bloody heck.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"left my phone at my mums last nite she bought it back to me this morning and 101 messages from my fb first hi then cos he got no teply I got who you fucking? followed by more accusations
this annoyed me as he was supposed to come up but then said he had to watch his son play football then didn't go so why take it out on me? and trust is the biggest issue"
Apologies if I have this wrong but bring a fb he doesn't own you and I assume you are both free to meet others in this type of relationship? |
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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"when he starts texting me he don't stop
Well anyone who sends 101 fucking messages in 1 night has more issues than if you were fucking someone instead of him could ever solve.
..in my humble opinion. Bloody heck. "
hes got too possessive anyway shame cos sex is brill with him but he ruins it all when I don't see him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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101 messages? Fuckin'ell!
...i know i chat enough shit on here. But, i ain't got enough hours in the day to be texting 101 messages.
Cor blimey! That's a bit OTT that. He must have some magic fingers on him!
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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago
hertfordshire |
"101 messages? Fuckin'ell!
...i know i chat enough shit on here. But, i ain't got enough hours in the day to be texting 101 messages.
Cor blimey! That's a bit OTT that. He must have some magic fingers on him!
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he has!!!! stop reminding me or I wont give him up lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when he starts texting me he don't stop
Well anyone who sends 101 fucking messages in 1 night has more issues than if you were fucking someone instead of him could ever solve.
..in my humble opinion. Bloody heck.
hes got too possessive anyway shame cos sex is brill with him but he ruins it all when I don't see him "
101 messages..does he not have anyone else to fuck?..as you obviously do.
That is serious nut-job style, I'm being honest.
If a woman sent me that amount I would freak. I really would. |
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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"when he starts texting me he don't stop
Well anyone who sends 101 fucking messages in 1 night has more issues than if you were fucking someone instead of him could ever solve.
..in my humble opinion. Bloody heck.
hes got too possessive anyway shame cos sex is brill with him but he ruins it all when I don't see him
101 messages..does he not have anyone else to fuck?..as you obviously do.
That is serious nut-job style, I'm being honest.
If a woman sent me that amount I would freak. I really would."
he has a gf he even texts me constantly from his work too he was on nights last night hence the texts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just did the maths. That's 1.7 messages per minute. Did he not go to the loo that day? Mind you, that's for the hour lol.
...let me do the 24 hour calculation.
Be right back.
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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I just did the maths. That's 1.7 messages per minute. Did he not go to the loo that day? Mind you, that's for the hour lol.
...let me do the 24 hour calculation.
Be right back.
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I will admit I can text fast |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when he starts texting me he don't stop
Well anyone who sends 101 fucking messages in 1 night has more issues than if you were fucking someone instead of him could ever solve.
..in my humble opinion. Bloody heck.
hes got too possessive anyway shame cos sex is brill with him but he ruins it all when I don't see him
101 messages..does he not have anyone else to fuck?..as you obviously do.
That is serious nut-job style, I'm being honest.
If a woman sent me that amount I would freak. I really would."
Ffs I was only replying to yours!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when he starts texting me he don't stop
Well anyone who sends 101 fucking messages in 1 night has more issues than if you were fucking someone instead of him could ever solve.
..in my humble opinion. Bloody heck.
hes got too possessive anyway shame cos sex is brill with him but he ruins it all when I don't see him
101 messages..does he not have anyone else to fuck?..as you obviously do.
That is serious nut-job style, I'm being honest.
If a woman sent me that amount I would freak. I really would.
Ffs I was only replying to yours!! "
you do freak me out..   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just did the maths. That's 1.7 messages per minute. Did he not go to the loo that day? Mind you, that's for the hour lol.
...let me do the 24 hour calculation.
Be right back.
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That comes to 4 texts per hour in 24 hours.
Fuck my life!!
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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I just did the maths. That's 1.7 messages per minute. Did he not go to the loo that day? Mind you, that's for the hour lol.
...let me do the 24 hour calculation.
Be right back.
That comes to 4 texts per hour in 24 hours.
Fuck my life!!
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that's nothing pops |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am going to tell him my rules or not at all"
Rules are so important! Having a fb that knows his place is ideal for everyone. We have code if he text and I don't text right back after ten minutes he will send another one because sometimes my phone isn't on me or its on silent. If after that he will leave it go until I message him.
Your fb has clearly forgotten his boundaries and needs a refresher course |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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101 messages..does he not have anyone else to fuck?..as you obviously do
That is serious nut-job style, I'm being honest.
If a woman sent me that amount I would freak. I really would."
I was just replying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stop? I would have him blocked. That's is pathetic and verging on scary. X
hes not from here
I mean blocked from contacting you, number blocked.
I will do .. thanks everyone"
Maybe he see himself more then a FB but your lover so think he has a hold on you in some way . |
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