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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I had a good time with them, yes I would. I don't care about veris or not. Also I always ask if someone wants one and sometimes they say no thanks. I like a nice veri... But it's not essential. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and have done. We met up four or five times on my previous profile. He just never wrote veris. I used to tease him that he was lazy but he made up for it in other ways  Shame he moved away really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met someone about once a week for 18mths who never left me a single veri...never even entered my head not to continue meeting someone I had good sex with because they hadn't left a comment on a website about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suppose it depends on how much a veri means to you....
I've met quite a few people that I haven't verified & vice versa as I don't think they're majorly important and would meet them again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've come to the conclusion that who I meet is our business and no longer feel the need, if I were meeting, for either of us to feel the need to verify the other. There are many stories of some pretty horrible behaviour as a result of veris, so I am no longer a fan |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah but I guess its more of a concern because he doesn't actually have any."
Hmm...hadn't noticed that. I'm confused OP...how have you left them a veri if you are unverified?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I must admit I would be offended if I left someone a veri and they did not do the same . I would think I did something wrong "
Same here! This happened on my last meet,I left him one he said he'd return the favour and I've still not received it,think its a bit rude and am starting to think I did something wrong too  |
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"Regard a veri as a gift. It's lovely to receive but it's not quite the done thing to ask for.
Surely if they want to meet again that is enough. Not everyone writes or wants veris. "
 I certainly don't expect a verification as a given or even as a question of manners..It is a gift and an extra, not at all to be taken for granted.
Meeting again is reward enough. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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I like to leave verifications and if someone left me one, I'd definitely leave them one. Unless they were an arsehole of a spectacularly high order.
All things being equal, I'd meet someone again who didn't leave me one. Do what feels right, unless you are left handed, then do whatever feels left. Unless it is 4AM in a night club and most of the people have pulled, in which case try and do what is left.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How did you verify someone if you don't have verifications?Apologies if im being thick.
Sensing the whole truth isn't being told!"
Certainly some part if the story missing!! |
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"Well I must admit I would be offended if I left someone a veri and they did not do the same . I would think I did something wrong "
I left someone a veri an I didn't get one back. I left it a while then asked (blatantly) along te lines of did you like my veri type message and got a yes thanks type answer but still no veri.
Must have had a veri veto against me.  |
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It's nice to receive a veri to say you were a good meet but not always given. We have had meets were the veris were one sided but certain peeps still want to meet us again so I would not let it worry you. We don't |
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