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Advice needed. Although may not want to hear it. Based on lying thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hey all. Adviced needed here. Even though I may not want to hear it. I still need people's opinions in this. Here's what happened:

I went out on the 21st of last month and for what seemed the entire time I was getting grief off my mates (maybe I was being over sensitive with this). Anyway all through the evening I was just fighting words with words. In the end I had enough and told one or two people who were quiet that I was off to the next place we were going to. If you want to join me or if anyone asks.

When I got to the other place I got a text saying there was no need to ditch them. I explained I finished my drink first, couldn't be arsed to wait and I told a few people I was going anyway. Anyway this same sort of grief still continued and the situation just wasn't changing. It was like I was the subject for the day. One of them knows how much this sort of thing gets to me as I have told him quietly once or twice before in private and I confronted him strongly 2 weeks ago, which is unlike me as I never offer people out. The night ended and we all caught a taxi and still the grief continued and I said "carry on with this and I'll get out and walk". The one who I confronted 2 weeks previous claimed I wouldn't dare. So I did. Not long after I got a text saying I have blown it with everyone and I won't be asked out again, etc. So I replied the next day, in the afternoon so both of us was sober and he still claimed I was sensitive and was out of order for walking. I explained what exact things got be going and didn't have a reply then. About 6 days later I text one or two people and it turns out I done nothing to them and we were fine anyway. I text the other person who said I was out of order for walking off. That this is a sensative issue for me and that's why I went off on one. So don't mention it again and I am also sorry for my actions. Can we put it behind us. The reply came 4 days later and he was acting all pally asking if I wanted to go to socialise, etc.

Now this is where the lies come in. When I left the taxi the bloke who said I was out of order. Went online posted a big lie about me and a relative who he has spoken to and seen once in his life. He posted it on facebook for the world to see and after he had about 3 comments off different people. He sobered up and deleted it and someone who questioned this by messaging him is the same person who told me this.

It sounds like he posted this when he was on our way home. Deleted it 10 minutes after. Had my apology even though I think I am owed one too. Then started acting all nice to me like nothing had happened. Basically acting like he always does.

Not sure if one I should believe it as I've known him for about 10 years and even though he's known for telling the odd porky and over exaggerating a bit. He's always there for people, etc. (Including me) and if I do believe it. How should I handle it as it's one person out of about 10 that has lied (that's if he has).

So my question is: If you were the "victim" of the lying. How would you handle it?

Sorry it's a lng story by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

That's some mates you've got there

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"That's some mates you've got there "

Firstly it wasn't all of them. 2 or 3 I had grief off. But it's the lying that's got to me as I could have just over reacted to the other things

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Anybody else confused here? Whaich part was the lie?

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By *nnyMan  over a year ago

Glasgow

Grow up laddie.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I am not sure what your asking ? If I was in your boat I would ask the friend if he posted it and if he says no , well you have no prof . So ether you drop him as a friend or suck it up butter cup !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Chat face to face

Or

Forget about it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

personally i would ask him outright about it but in all honesty if they can spend the night ribbing you then i would be questioning all aspects of my friendships

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Maybe it's my age but all I can hear is a silly spat between young uns involving Facebook.

If your friend contributes nothing positive to your life, or the negatives outweigh the positives then they aren't friends.

Buck up, stop wingeing and move on. It's a minor problem not a major drama.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lying gets to me too, there really is only one way to deal with it.

If someone starts to lie to you, it says it all. ( sorry)

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Maybe it's my age but all I can hear is a silly spat between young uns involving Facebook.

If your friend contributes nothing positive to your life, or the negatives outweigh the positives then they aren't friends.

Buck up, stop wingeing and move on. It's a minor problem not a major drama.

"

Spat wasn't on facebook. "Spat" happened in town and he posted "what happened" on there.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe it's my age but all I can hear is a silly spat between young uns involving Facebook.

If your friend contributes nothing positive to your life, or the negatives outweigh the positives then they aren't friends.

Buck up, stop wingeing and move on. It's a minor problem not a major drama.

Spat wasn't on facebook. "Spat" happened in town and he posted "what happened" on there."

So you had a prob with him it town that ended with you throwing your toy out or the cot ! He posted on face book about it and then changed his mind and deleated it !

SUCK IT UP BUTTER CUP !!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i prefer to be honest

if you didn't want tp be there why just say

"im going home cya"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"personally i would ask him outright about it but in all honesty if they can spend the night ribbing you then i would be questioning all aspects of my friendships "

OP you do seem a sensitive sort. Nothing wrong with that, just pick your friends more wisely.

People will only be sympathetic for so long. Possibly your mates are fed up of treading on egg shells with you? Don't take that the wrong way. It's meant in kindness. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Maybe it's my age but all I can hear is a silly spat between young uns involving Facebook.

If your friend contributes nothing positive to your life, or the negatives outweigh the positives then they aren't friends.

Buck up, stop wingeing and move on. It's a minor problem not a major drama.

Spat wasn't on facebook. "Spat" happened in town and he posted "what happened" on there.

So you had a prob with him it town that ended with you throwing your toy out or the cot ! He posted on face book about it and then changed his mind and deleated it !

SUCK IT UP BUTTER CUP !!! "

No. What's so hard to understand about me saying what he did was him lying about a situation

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd be questioning why i am friends with a group of people that upset me when I go out with them and lie about me (though I must admit I found the post hard to follow, but I gather that was the general jist).

My friends are in my life because they enhance it. If they brought grief and/or drama they wouldn't be my friends.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"personally i would ask him outright about it but in all honesty if they can spend the night ribbing you then i would be questioning all aspects of my friendships

OP you do seem a sensitive sort. Nothing wrong with that, just pick your friends more wisely.

People will only be sympathetic for so long. Possibly your mates are fed up of treading on egg shells with you? Don't take that the wrong way. It's meant in kindness. x"

The first part of the message you are correct and that's why I said I didn't know if I over reacted, which is why I apologised.

The second bit is completely wrong as no one stands on egg shells with anyone. This is only the second time it's happened, but without the lies. I won't take it the wrong way as this is the only sensible post I have read so far.

The situation does NOT bother me. It's the fact he mentioned a relative of mine online like they know each other and they have only met once, for like a minute, about 10 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There are plenty of good, honest people in the world - although it may take a little time and effort to identify them.

But if anybody has shown that he or she is capable of telling big lies - then that's an inherent part of their nature and it will always surface again.

Especially if it's when they're d*unk, 'cos that's when the truth comes out! In vino - veritas!

Once somebody has lied to me then they are out of my life and are never allowed back in.

Take the pain, make the hard cut, and move on....

Good luck, whichever path you choose...!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire

banter and a wind up are all well and good, but friends dont push it to the point that someone loses it..

sounds like you need to look at whom you are friends with..

if your talking about 'offering out' ditch the person who is getting under your skin or look at whats causing you to react in such a manner..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Anyone else waste their time reading bollocks grow some balls lad an give him a slap that's wa appens were I cum from

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Maybe it's my age but all I can hear is a silly spat between young uns involving Facebook.

If your friend contributes nothing positive to your life, or the negatives outweigh the positives then they aren't friends.

Buck up, stop wingeing and move on. It's a minor problem not a major drama.

Spat wasn't on facebook. "Spat" happened in town and he posted "what happened" on there."

Read my post. I said 'involving' Facebook not ON Facebook which is factually correct.

It was a spat. Nothing more. If you're questioning a friendship then it's not a friendship. In time you may come to realise that.

And like I said it's not a big drama. There are worse problems in life.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hard to comment when we don't know what the lie was.

did he tell all of Facebook that u don't like cheese or that you fucked your dog.

big differences

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hard to comment when we don't know what the lie was.

did he tell all of Facebook that u don't like cheese or that you fucked your dog.

big differences"

He should bring it all here shud take it to his 'mates'

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Are you all girls ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Anyone else waste their time reading bollocks grow some balls lad an give him a slap that's wa appens were I cum from "

Oh yes, violence solves all problems.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Hard to comment when we don't know what the lie was.

did he tell all of Facebook that u don't like cheese or that you fucked your dog.

big differences"

Well as I have stated I walked home after getting out of the taxi. So obviously it seemed like we all got along to that point. The lie that "was" posted on facebook was he was annoyed with me for making him look bad so told me that. Then his relative chipped in so he punched him which knocked him out and when I said "don't hit him" he done the same thing to me. So the argument I am going on about was nothing to do with what happened on the night out, but the fact I heard he posted that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone else waste their time reading bollocks grow some balls lad an give him a slap that's wa appens were I cum from "

It saddens me that people function on such a basic level that their default response to what appears to be little more than petty conflict and drama is to resort to talk of violence.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Tbh. Without knowing what you were being ribbed about all night to make you sensitive in first place, then I would say you over reacted. As for fb post, you didn't see it, only have heresay that was even posted

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Hard to comment when we don't know what the lie was.

did he tell all of Facebook that u don't like cheese or that you fucked your dog.

big differences

Well as I have stated I walked home after getting out of the taxi. So obviously it seemed like we all got along to that point. The lie that "was" posted on facebook was he was annoyed with me for making him look bad so told me that. Then his relative chipped in so he punched him which knocked him out and when I said "don't hit him" he done the same thing to me. So the argument I am going on about was nothing to do with what happened on the night out, but the fact I heard he posted that "

You are starting to not make sense....just move on from it...it happens

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone else waste their time reading bollocks grow some balls lad an give him a slap that's wa appens were I cum from

Oh yes, violence solves all problems. "

Nope givin someone a slap for what to me sounds like he's gettin the piss took out of him by his mates n they think he's a divvy which to prove his point needs to give the main 1 a slap e0xpecially when he's told his mate in the past how it gets him goin? Right or wrong

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Anyone else waste their time reading bollocks grow some balls lad an give him a slap that's wa appens were I cum from

Oh yes, violence solves all problems.

Nope givin someone a slap for what to me sounds like he's gettin the piss took out of him by his mates n they think he's a divvy which to prove his point needs to give the main 1 a slap e0xpecially when he's told his mate in the past how it gets him goin? Right or wrong "

Here is a shovel....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hard to comment when we don't know what the lie was.

did he tell all of Facebook that u don't like cheese or that you fucked your dog.

big differences

Well as I have stated I walked home after getting out of the taxi. So obviously it seemed like we all got along to that point. The lie that "was" posted on facebook was he was annoyed with me for making him look bad so told me that. Then his relative chipped in so he punched him which knocked him out and when I said "don't hit him" he done the same thing to me. So the argument I am going on about was nothing to do with what happened on the night out, but the fact I heard he posted that "

Pardon?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Tbh. Without knowing what you were being ribbed about all night to make you sensitive in first place, then I would say you over reacted. As for fb post, you didn't see it, only have heresay that was even posted"

The fact I couldn't and haven't pulled. Then the one who flaunted it saying what they had. That's when I offered them out that was 2 weeks before this though. Yet this time it still carried on. But this time I didn't offer anyone out and just took it as a form of banter, even though it got to me.

The person who told me about this. I have known for about 15 years.

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Anyone else waste their time reading bollocks grow some balls lad an give him a slap that's wa appens were I cum from

Oh yes, violence solves all problems.

Nope givin someone a slap for what to me sounds like he's gettin the piss took out of him by his mates n they think he's a divvy which to prove his point needs to give the main 1 a slap e0xpecially when he's told his mate in the past how it gets him goin? Right or wrong "

Wrong. Assault is still an offence to which the defence 'he's a divvy and was taking the piss' usually cuts no ice in court.

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By *nnyMan  over a year ago

Glasgow


"Anyone else waste their time reading bollocks grow some balls lad an give him a slap that's wa appens were I cum from

It saddens me that people function on such a basic level that their default response to what appears to be little more than petty conflict and drama is to resort to talk of violence.

"

More often than not its just talk. Indeed, those who talk about it are seldom those who participate.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone else waste their time reading bollocks grow some balls lad an give him a slap that's wa appens were I cum from

Oh yes, violence solves all problems.

Nope givin someone a slap for what to me sounds like he's gettin the piss took out of him by his mates n they think he's a divvy which to prove his point needs to give the main 1 a slap e0xpecially when he's told his mate in the past how it gets him goin? Right or wrong "

wrong

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Tbh. Without knowing what you were being ribbed about all night to make you sensitive in first place, then I would say you over reacted. As for fb post, you didn't see it, only have heresay that was even posted

The fact I couldn't and haven't pulled. Then the one who flaunted it saying what they had. That's when I offered them out that was 2 weeks before this though. Yet this time it still carried on. But this time I didn't offer anyone out and just took it as a form of banter, even though it got to me.

The person who told me about this. I have known for about 15 years. "

u said 10 before make ur mind up

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Tbh. Without knowing what you were being ribbed about all night to make you sensitive in first place, then I would say you over reacted. As for fb post, you didn't see it, only have heresay that was even posted

The fact I couldn't and haven't pulled. Then the one who flaunted it saying what they had. That's when I offered them out that was 2 weeks before this though. Yet this time it still carried on. But this time I didn't offer anyone out and just took it as a form of banter, even though it got to me.

The person who told me about this. I have known for about 15 years. "

Oh ffs! Is that it? ???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone else waste their time reading bollocks grow some balls lad an give him a slap that's wa appens were I cum from

It saddens me that people function on such a basic level that their default response to what appears to be little more than petty conflict and drama is to resort to talk of violence.

More often than not its just talk. Indeed, those who talk about it are seldom those who participate."

shhhhh, you'll upset the internet hardman who punches all who dare cross him!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Tbh. Without knowing what you were being ribbed about all night to make you sensitive in first place, then I would say you over reacted. As for fb post, you didn't see it, only have heresay that was even posted

The fact I couldn't and haven't pulled. Then the one who flaunted it saying what they had. That's when I offered them out that was 2 weeks before this though. Yet this time it still carried on. But this time I didn't offer anyone out and just took it as a form of banter, even though it got to me.

The person who told me about this. I have known for about 15 years. u said 10 before make ur mind up"

My mate I have known for 10 years. He's the one who may have posted it,

The person who told me he posted it, I have known for 15 years.

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"Anyone else waste their time reading bollocks grow some balls lad an give him a slap that's wa appens were I cum from

Oh yes, violence solves all problems.

Nope givin someone a slap for what to me sounds like he's gettin the piss took out of him by his mates n they think he's a divvy which to prove his point needs to give the main 1 a slap e0xpecially when he's told his mate in the past how it gets him goin? Right or wrong

Wrong. Assault is still an offence to which the defence 'he's a divvy and was taking the piss' usually cuts no ice in court. "

it would never go to court haaha yas need to live in real world like ur mates gona get u nicked they take it on the chin n laugh bar it next day haha

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By *ust_for_laughsCouple  over a year ago

Hinckley

Have a kick around with a ball in the playground on Monday, you'll all soon be friends again...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Tbh. Without knowing what you were being ribbed about all night to make you sensitive in first place, then I would say you over reacted. As for fb post, you didn't see it, only have heresay that was even posted

The fact I couldn't and haven't pulled. Then the one who flaunted it saying what they had. That's when I offered them out that was 2 weeks before this though. Yet this time it still carried on. But this time I didn't offer anyone out and just took it as a form of banter, even though it got to me.

The person who told me about this. I have known for about 15 years. u said 10 before make ur mind up"

No the person who told the alleged lie he has known for 10 years the person who told him about the alleged lie he has known for 15 years....I think that's right....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ok so you both got d*unk . You throw your toys out of the cot and ended up walking home . When d*unk he posted on face book that he had punched you and someone elas out . ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Hard to comment when we don't know what the lie was.

did he tell all of Facebook that u don't like cheese or that you fucked your dog.

big differences

Well as I have stated I walked home after getting out of the taxi. So obviously it seemed like we all got along to that point. The lie that "was" posted on facebook was he was annoyed with me for making him look bad so told me that. Then his relative chipped in so he punched him which knocked him out and when I said "don't hit him" he done the same thing to me. So the argument I am going on about was nothing to do with what happened on the night out, but the fact I heard he posted that

Pardon? "

Basically saying he dropped 2 people in a row. When no violence took place and one of the people he claimed to have attacked. He doesn't even know, never mind met.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I gave up halfway through lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Tbh. Without knowing what you were being ribbed about all night to make you sensitive in first place, then I would say you over reacted. As for fb post, you didn't see it, only have heresay that was even posted

The fact I couldn't and haven't pulled. Then the one who flaunted it saying what they had. That's when I offered them out that was 2 weeks before this though. Yet this time it still carried on. But this time I didn't offer anyone out and just took it as a form of banter, even though it got to me.

The person who told me about this. I have known for about 15 years. u said 10 before make ur mind up

No the person who told the alleged lie he has known for 10 years the person who told him about the alleged lie he has known for 15 years....I think that's right...."

to me u sound like u was breast fed til the age of 15 grow up lmao

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By *nnyMan  over a year ago

Glasgow


"Anyone else waste their time reading bollocks grow some balls lad an give him a slap that's wa appens were I cum from

It saddens me that people function on such a basic level that their default response to what appears to be little more than petty conflict and drama is to resort to talk of violence.

More often than not its just talk. Indeed, those who talk about it are seldom those who participate.

shhhhh, you'll upset the internet hardman who punches all who dare cross him!"

He'd better hope his Mummy doesn't find out.

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Anyone else waste their time reading bollocks grow some balls lad an give him a slap that's wa appens were I cum from

Oh yes, violence solves all problems.

Nope givin someone a slap for what to me sounds like he's gettin the piss took out of him by his mates n they think he's a divvy which to prove his point needs to give the main 1 a slap e0xpecially when he's told his mate in the past how it gets him goin? Right or wrong

Wrong. Assault is still an offence to which the defence 'he's a divvy and was taking the piss' usually cuts no ice in court. it would never go to court haaha yas need to live in real world like ur mates gona get u nicked they take it on the chin n laugh bar it next day haha"

What real world is this? And it could quite easily end up in court.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

The fact I couldn't and haven't pulled.

"

In defence of your friends you claim on here to be a shy inexperienced virgin...

That said your friends do sound like a bunch of dicks

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Tbh. Without knowing what you were being ribbed about all night to make you sensitive in first place, then I would say you over reacted. As for fb post, you didn't see it, only have heresay that was even posted

The fact I couldn't and haven't pulled. Then the one who flaunted it saying what they had. That's when I offered them out that was 2 weeks before this though. Yet this time it still carried on. But this time I didn't offer anyone out and just took it as a form of banter, even though it got to me.

The person who told me about this. I have known for about 15 years.

Oh ffs! Is that it? ???"

was you waiting with baited breath lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Ok so you both got d*unk . You throw your toys out of the cot and ended up walking home . When d*unk he posted on face book that he had punched you and someone elas out . ? "

Yes we were d*unk. No I didn't throw my toys out of the pram. Yes he posted that. (That's if I believe what I have been told).

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone else waste their time reading bollocks grow some balls lad an give him a slap that's wa appens were I cum from

Oh yes, violence solves all problems.

Nope givin someone a slap for what to me sounds like he's gettin the piss took out of him by his mates n they think he's a divvy which to prove his point needs to give the main 1 a slap e0xpecially when he's told his mate in the past how it gets him goin? Right or wrong

Wrong. Assault is still an offence to which the defence 'he's a divvy and was taking the piss' usually cuts no ice in court. it would never go to court haaha yas need to live in real world like ur mates gona get u nicked they take it on the chin n laugh bar it next day haha

What real world is this? And it could quite easily end up in court. "

not in liverpool

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Tbh. Without knowing what you were being ribbed about all night to make you sensitive in first place, then I would say you over reacted. As for fb post, you didn't see it, only have heresay that was even posted

The fact I couldn't and haven't pulled. Then the one who flaunted it saying what they had. That's when I offered them out that was 2 weeks before this though. Yet this time it still carried on. But this time I didn't offer anyone out and just took it as a form of banter, even though it got to me.

The person who told me about this. I have known for about 15 years. u said 10 before make ur mind up

No the person who told the alleged lie he has known for 10 years the person who told him about the alleged lie he has known for 15 years....I think that's right.... to me u sound like u was breast fed til the age of 15 grow up lmao"

Haha how original

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone else waste their time reading bollocks grow some balls lad an give him a slap that's wa appens were I cum from

Oh yes, violence solves all problems.

Nope givin someone a slap for what to me sounds like he's gettin the piss took out of him by his mates n they think he's a divvy which to prove his point needs to give the main 1 a slap e0xpecially when he's told his mate in the past how it gets him goin? Right or wrong

Wrong. Assault is still an offence to which the defence 'he's a divvy and was taking the piss' usually cuts no ice in court. it would never go to court haaha yas need to live in real world like ur mates gona get u nicked they take it on the chin n laugh bar it next day haha

What real world is this? And it could quite easily end up in court. not in liverpool"

Oh please, you sound more pathetic with each post...

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I think it is a case of little boys resorting to violence because they think that that makes them 'real men' in a 'real world'.

I was right first time. A silly spat between young uns involving Facebook. It's quite pathetic really. God help him when he has real problems in the real world the rest of us live in.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone else waste their time reading bollocks grow some balls lad an give him a slap that's wa appens were I cum from

Oh yes, violence solves all problems.

Nope givin someone a slap for what to me sounds like he's gettin the piss took out of him by his mates n they think he's a divvy which to prove his point needs to give the main 1 a slap e0xpecially when he's told his mate in the past how it gets him goin? Right or wrong

Wrong. Assault is still an offence to which the defence 'he's a divvy and was taking the piss' usually cuts no ice in court. it would never go to court haaha yas need to live in real world like ur mates gona get u nicked they take it on the chin n laugh bar it next day haha

What real world is this? And it could quite easily end up in court. not in liverpool

Oh please, you sound more pathetic with each post... "

don't comment bac0k then get back to wa ever u do haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ok so you both got d*unk . You throw your toys out of the cot and ended up walking home . When d*unk he posted on face book that he had punched you and someone elas out . ?

Yes we were d*unk. No I didn't throw my toys out of the pram. Yes he posted that. (That's if I believe what I have been told). "

Just ask him ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"

The fact I couldn't and haven't pulled.

In defence of your friends you claim on here to be a shy inexperienced virgin...

That said your friends do sound like a bunch of dicks "

Offline. I don't come across as that at all. Only time you would sense it. Is if I was trying to pull or maybe vice versa.

This is relatively a new thing. Has happened twice in the amount of years I have mentioned. I will be having words next time I see then. But will choose my words carefully

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Tbh. Without knowing what you were being ribbed about all night to make you sensitive in first place, then I would say you over reacted. As for fb post, you didn't see it, only have heresay that was even posted

The fact I couldn't and haven't pulled. Then the one who flaunted it saying what they had. That's when I offered them out that was 2 weeks before this though. Yet this time it still carried on. But this time I didn't offer anyone out and just took it as a form of banter, even though it got to me.

The person who told me about this. I have known for about 15 years. u said 10 before make ur mind up

No the person who told the alleged lie he has known for 10 years the person who told him about the alleged lie he has known for 15 years....I think that's right.... to me u sound like u was breast fed til the age of 15 grow up lmao"

perhaps in your way of thinking he may do in relation to the issue but tbh fella your coming across as pretty juvenile yourself

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just a thought..

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Tbh. Without knowing what you were being ribbed about all night to make you sensitive in first place, then I would say you over reacted. As for fb post, you didn't see it, only have heresay that was even posted

The fact I couldn't and haven't pulled. Then the one who flaunted it saying what they had. That's when I offered them out that was 2 weeks before this though. Yet this time it still carried on. But this time I didn't offer anyone out and just took it as a form of banter, even though it got to me.

The person who told me about this. I have known for about 15 years. u said 10 before make ur mind up

No the person who told the alleged lie he has known for 10 years the person who told him about the alleged lie he has known for 15 years....I think that's right.... to me u sound like u was breast fed til the age of 15 grow up lmao

perhaps in your way of thinking he may do in relation to the issue but tbh fella your coming across as pretty juvenile yourself

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just a thought.."

It was directed at me lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

The fact I couldn't and haven't pulled.

In defence of your friends you claim on here to be a shy inexperienced virgin...

That said your friends do sound like a bunch of dicks

Offline. I don't come across as that at all. Only time you would sense it. Is if I was trying to pull or maybe vice versa.

This is relatively a new thing. Has happened twice in the amount of years I have mentioned. I will be having words next time I see then. But will choose my words carefully "

right I will say it now tho, u come up to fab swingers telling everyone what happened you know none of us, when ur problem lies with your mate, hmmm so why can't u pull him about it rather than comin to loads of strangers about a silly night out coz u never pulled big woop move on go the brass house wa ever it's a night out with the lads jus turn it back around n keep with the banter instead of bein a little girl

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Hey all. Adviced needed here. Even though I may not want to hear it. I still need people's opinions in this. "

I'm taking you at your word. You may not want to hear it but here is my opinion and advice:

Grow up.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well I am totally lost, but do want to say FFS grow up. There's real problems and hardships in this life !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I think it is a case of little boys resorting to violence because they think that that makes them 'real men' in a 'real world'.

I was right first time. A silly spat between young uns involving Facebook. It's quite pathetic really. God help him when he has real problems in the real world the rest of us live in. "

Apart from the 2, maybe 3 major things anyone can have in life. I have had or seen the lot. So who are you to tell me what I have or haven't been through .

How can I it be a spat on facebook when everything that happened was in person and only one message got posted and then deleted . Plenty of people have said I was wrong or what they would have done, etc and have written a sensible post. Your posts have just been pointless and not worth the read.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Tbh. Without knowing what you were being ribbed about all night to make you sensitive in first place, then I would say you over reacted. As for fb post, you didn't see it, only have heresay that was even posted

The fact I couldn't and haven't pulled. Then the one who flaunted it saying what they had. That's when I offered them out that was 2 weeks before this though. Yet this time it still carried on. But this time I didn't offer anyone out and just took it as a form of banter, even though it got to me.

The person who told me about this. I have known for about 15 years. u said 10 before make ur mind up

No the person who told the alleged lie he has known for 10 years the person who told him about the alleged lie he has known for 15 years....I think that's right.... to me u sound like u was breast fed til the age of 15 grow up lmao

perhaps in your way of thinking he may do in relation to the issue but tbh fella your coming across as pretty juvenile yourself

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just a thought..

It was directed at me lol "

wasn't directed at u it was directed at creator of post haha

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

Blimey, it sounds like junior school

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Tbh. Without knowing what you were being ribbed about all night to make you sensitive in first place, then I would say you over reacted. As for fb post, you didn't see it, only have heresay that was even posted

The fact I couldn't and haven't pulled. Then the one who flaunted it saying what they had. That's when I offered them out that was 2 weeks before this though. Yet this time it still carried on. But this time I didn't offer anyone out and just took it as a form of banter, even though it got to me.

The person who told me about this. I have known for about 15 years. u said 10 before make ur mind up

No the person who told the alleged lie he has known for 10 years the person who told him about the alleged lie he has known for 15 years....I think that's right.... to me u sound like u was breast fed til the age of 15 grow up lmao

perhaps in your way of thinking he may do in relation to the issue but tbh fella your coming across as pretty juvenile yourself

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just a thought..

It was directed at me lol "

ah..

my response was directed at neanderthal from liverpool..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd be questioning why i am friends with a group of people that upset me when I go out with them and lie about me (though I must admit I found the post hard to follow, but I gather that was the general jist).

My friends are in my life because they enhance it. If they brought grief and/or drama they wouldn't be my friends."

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Oh god I'm getting confused lol...crazed you don't need to take everything to heart...you are not at school any more and these incidents happen....there is far more things to worry about in life

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Tbh. Without knowing what you were being ribbed about all night to make you sensitive in first place, then I would say you over reacted. As for fb post, you didn't see it, only have heresay that was even posted

The fact I couldn't and haven't pulled. Then the one who flaunted it saying what they had. That's when I offered them out that was 2 weeks before this though. Yet this time it still carried on. But this time I didn't offer anyone out and just took it as a form of banter, even though it got to me.

The person who told me about this. I have known for about 15 years. u said 10 before make ur mind up

No the person who told the alleged lie he has known for 10 years the person who told him about the alleged lie he has known for 15 years....I think that's right.... to me u sound like u was breast fed til the age of 15 grow up lmao

perhaps in your way of thinking he may do in relation to the issue but tbh fella your coming across as pretty juvenile yourself

..

just a thought..

It was directed at me lol

ah..

my response was directed at neanderthal from liverpool.. "

do uno wa? Use can inbox me if u want I'll jus laugh at yas use all bite to anythin u read on here please it's the Internet hahaha, really ur lives tha sad and perfetic u have to bite to what ever is said on here and bitch about it haha sad people

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone else waste their time reading bollocks grow some balls lad an give him a slap that's wa appens were I cum from

Oh yes, violence solves all problems.

Nope givin someone a slap for what to me sounds like he's gettin the piss took out of him by his mates n they think he's a divvy which to prove his point needs to give the main 1 a slap e0xpecially when he's told his mate in the past how it gets him goin? Right or wrong

Wrong. Assault is still an offence to which the defence 'he's a divvy and was taking the piss' usually cuts no ice in court. it would never go to court haaha yas need to live in real world like ur mates gona get u nicked they take it on the chin n laugh bar it next day haha

What real world is this? And it could quite easily end up in court. not in liverpool

Oh please, you sound more pathetic with each post... don't comment bac0k then get back to wa ever u do haha"

Seriously do you think anyone is impressed by your hardman persona? Or do you think people are amused by the unintended comedy value?

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I think it is a case of little boys resorting to violence because they think that that makes them 'real men' in a 'real world'.

I was right first time. A silly spat between young uns involving Facebook. It's quite pathetic really. God help him when he has real problems in the real world the rest of us live in.

Apart from the 2, maybe 3 major things anyone can have in life. I have had or seen the lot. So who are you to tell me what I have or haven't been through .

How can I it be a spat on facebook when everything that happened was in person and only one message got posted and then deleted . Plenty of people have said I was wrong or what they would have done, etc and have written a sensible post. Your posts have just been pointless and not worth the read. "

At twice your age I haven't even seen 'the lot' but well done you. (Note the sarcasm).

You asked for opinions and said TWICE that you may not like them. So, there they are.

You had a falling out with friends because they were winding you up. Someone told you one of them posted lies on Facebook but it's not there now. Seriously? THAT is a problem? Pfft.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Has anyone else noticed the poor lad has deleted his fab account

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Well I guess he was not after the answer he got...I hope he is ok though

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Tbh. Without knowing what you were being ribbed about all night to make you sensitive in first place, then I would say you over reacted. As for fb post, you didn't see it, only have heresay that was even posted

The fact I couldn't and haven't pulled. Then the one who flaunted it saying what they had. That's when I offered them out that was 2 weeks before this though. Yet this time it still carried on. But this time I didn't offer anyone out and just took it as a form of banter, even though it got to me.

The person who told me about this. I have known for about 15 years. u said 10 before make ur mind up

No the person who told the alleged lie he has known for 10 years the person who told him about the alleged lie he has known for 15 years....I think that's right.... to me u sound like u was breast fed til the age of 15 grow up lmao

perhaps in your way of thinking he may do in relation to the issue but tbh fella your coming across as pretty juvenile yourself

..

just a thought..

It was directed at me lol

ah..

my response was directed at neanderthal from liverpool.. do uno wa? Use can inbox me if u want I'll jus laugh at yas use all bite to anythin u read on here please it's the Internet hahaha, really ur lives tha sad and perfetic u have to bite to what ever is said on here and bitch about it haha sad people "

Could you repeat that in English please?

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By *b586Couple  over a year ago

pemberton twp

We have found that with Facebook and drinking neither ever end well. We don't do either. Friends to me means a soft place to fall,respect for one another and understanding. Good fun is one thing but disrespect , lying and causing you to be uncomfortable is none of these things. I agree. Speak face to face. Sometimes we out grow our friends as we move in a different direction. It may be time to move on. Good luck. k

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone else waste their time reading bollocks grow some balls lad an give him a slap that's wa appens were I cum from

Oh yes, violence solves all problems.

Nope givin someone a slap for what to me sounds like he's gettin the piss took out of him by his mates n they think he's a divvy which to prove his point needs to give the main 1 a slap e0xpecially when he's told his mate in the past how it gets him goin? Right or wrong

Wrong. Assault is still an offence to which the defence 'he's a divvy and was taking the piss' usually cuts no ice in court. it would never go to court haaha yas need to live in real world like ur mates gona get u nicked they take it on the chin n laugh bar it next day haha

What real world is this? And it could quite easily end up in court. not in liverpool

Oh please, you sound more pathetic with each post... don't comment bac0k then get back to wa ever u do haha

Seriously do you think anyone is impressed by your hardman persona? Or do you think people are amused by the unintended comedy value?

"

u stil here haahah go back to what u was doin Ull Probs report me

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I hear this kind of issue with youngsters all the time. However, they're all around 12 or 13.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Tbh. Without knowing what you were being ribbed about all night to make you sensitive in first place, then I would say you over reacted. As for fb post, you didn't see it, only have heresay that was even posted

The fact I couldn't and haven't pulled. Then the one who flaunted it saying what they had. That's when I offered them out that was 2 weeks before this though. Yet this time it still carried on. But this time I didn't offer anyone out and just took it as a form of banter, even though it got to me.

The person who told me about this. I have known for about 15 years. u said 10 before make ur mind up

No the person who told the alleged lie he has known for 10 years the person who told him about the alleged lie he has known for 15 years....I think that's right.... to me u sound like u was breast fed til the age of 15 grow up lmao

perhaps in your way of thinking he may do in relation to the issue but tbh fella your coming across as pretty juvenile yourself

..

just a thought..

It was directed at me lol

ah..

my response was directed at neanderthal from liverpool.. do uno wa? Use can inbox me if u want I'll jus laugh at yas use all bite to anythin u read on here please it's the Internet hahaha, really ur lives tha sad and perfetic u have to bite to what ever is said on here and bitch about it haha sad people

Could you repeat that in English please?"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Tbh. Without knowing what you were being ribbed about all night to make you sensitive in first place, then I would say you over reacted. As for fb post, you didn't see it, only have heresay that was even posted

The fact I couldn't and haven't pulled. Then the one who flaunted it saying what they had. That's when I offered them out that was 2 weeks before this though. Yet this time it still carried on. But this time I didn't offer anyone out and just took it as a form of banter, even though it got to me.

The person who told me about this. I have known for about 15 years. u said 10 before make ur mind up

No the person who told the alleged lie he has known for 10 years the person who told him about the alleged lie he has known for 15 years....I think that's right.... to me u sound like u was breast fed til the age of 15 grow up lmao

perhaps in your way of thinking he may do in relation to the issue but tbh fella your coming across as pretty juvenile yourself

..

just a thought..

It was directed at me lol

ah..

my response was directed at neanderthal from liverpool.. do uno wa? Use can inbox me if u want I'll jus laugh at yas use all bite to anythin u read on here please it's the Internet hahaha, really ur lives tha sad and perfetic u have to bite to what ever is said on here and bitch about it haha sad people "

wow and I thought Borats attempt at english was bad

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Right I'm off this got things to do other than sit here bored of the same message over n over again oh well bye

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Tbh. Without knowing what you were being ribbed about all night to make you sensitive in first place, then I would say you over reacted. As for fb post, you didn't see it, only have heresay that was even posted

The fact I couldn't and haven't pulled. Then the one who flaunted it saying what they had. That's when I offered them out that was 2 weeks before this though. Yet this time it still carried on. But this time I didn't offer anyone out and just took it as a form of banter, even though it got to me.

The person who told me about this. I have known for about 15 years. u said 10 before make ur mind up

No the person who told the alleged lie he has known for 10 years the person who told him about the alleged lie he has known for 15 years....I think that's right.... to me u sound like u was breast fed til the age of 15 grow up lmao

perhaps in your way of thinking he may do in relation to the issue but tbh fella your coming across as pretty juvenile yourself

..

just a thought..

It was directed at me lol

ah..

my response was directed at neanderthal from liverpool.. do uno wa? Use can inbox me if u want I'll jus laugh at yas use all bite to anythin u read on here please it's the Internet hahaha, really ur lives tha sad and perfetic u have to bite to what ever is said on here and bitch about it haha sad people

wow and I thought Borats attempt at english was bad "

it's scouse haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

whatever it was i didnt get it lol - hes gone now anyway - whoosh

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Tbh. Without knowing what you were being ribbed about all night to make you sensitive in first place, then I would say you over reacted. As for fb post, you didn't see it, only have heresay that was even posted

The fact I couldn't and haven't pulled. Then the one who flaunted it saying what they had. That's when I offered them out that was 2 weeks before this though. Yet this time it still carried on. But this time I didn't offer anyone out and just took it as a form of banter, even though it got to me.

The person who told me about this. I have known for about 15 years. u said 10 before make ur mind up

No the person who told the alleged lie he has known for 10 years the person who told him about the alleged lie he has known for 15 years....I think that's right.... to me u sound like u was breast fed til the age of 15 grow up lmao

perhaps in your way of thinking he may do in relation to the issue but tbh fella your coming across as pretty juvenile yourself

..

just a thought..

It was directed at me lol

ah..

my response was directed at neanderthal from liverpool.. do uno wa? Use can inbox me if u want I'll jus laugh at yas use all bite to anythin u read on here please it's the Internet hahaha, really ur lives tha sad and perfetic u have to bite to what ever is said on here and bitch about it haha sad people

wow and I thought Borats attempt at english was bad it's scouse haha"

All the scousers I know speak English.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Think this might be one only Jeremy Kyle can deal with.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wow! This post really puts all the bad things that are going on in the world into perspective! See this will get you loads of meets on here ' On no - he's gone pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" Think this might be one only Jeremy Kyle can deal with."

To be honest I think even JK would have a hard time with this one. I know the OP has left but he did have a tendance to be a drama queen and make mountains out of molehills

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Right I'm off this got things to do other than sit here bored of the same message over n over again oh well bye "

Wow what a lovely guy you are

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