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I’d guess men who want to feel demasculinated and humiliated will select the appropriate people to make them feel less of a man and humiliated when they are with them..... so hard to say if you call that luck or not. |
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By *ickmeallover OP Woman
over a year ago
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the men that like a collar and lead though, dont feel like that, they feel elated and free
They like a lady taking charge
And I am a lady and I do
after all, its really not a lot different to telling your kids to eat up all their cornflakes in 5 minutes or you will be late for school
SOMEONE always has to be in charge  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I tried to put one on Rob I would get bitten
If you like sub men then cool,I prefer men to act like men and not crawling around with collars and leads on
I do understand its a release for them though,all decision making has been taken out of their hands so I can see how it can de stress some people
Personally I would just laugh |
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By *ickmeallover OP Woman
over a year ago
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"SOMEONE always has to be in charge
I don't mind someone being in charge, I do have a problem when they start getting bossy tho!  "
Oh I never insist on anything that the other person does not want to do
honestly
But its a bit like the bi male thing
men are often reluctant to admit to liking it but when you ask them face to face, its amazing how many do |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"men are often reluctant to admit to liking it but when you ask them face to face, its amazing how many do"
And that will be the same for females & couples too! It isn't only men who don't always say what they like straight away  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But its a bit like the bi male thing
men are often reluctant to admit to liking it but when you ask them face to face, its amazing how many do"
But Evie,when you have them tied up and shining a spotlight in their face its hard to for them say no |
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But its a bit like the bi male thing
men are often reluctant to admit to liking it but when you ask them face to face, its amazing how many do
But Evie,when you have them tied up and shining a spotlight in their face its hard to for them say no "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My sub playmates are all different.
From lingerie, toys, spanking, collar, lead, watersports, wax etc. Some like all, some a few, some I have sex with some I don't!
It's a myth that they're not men. One of my subs is ex Sandhurst and was wounded in Afghanistan, he now heads up his own security company! That's why I say alpha males (outside the bedroom). Wishy washy namby pamby men don't do anything for me at all!
Something VERY erotic having a hunk doing everything to please you: fun for me! |
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By *ickmeallover OP Woman
over a year ago
a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5 |
"My sub playmates are all different.
From lingerie, toys, spanking, collar, lead, watersports, wax etc. Some like all, some a few, some I have sex with some I don't!
It's a myth that they're not men. One of my subs is ex Sandhurst and was wounded in Afghanistan, he now heads up his own security company! That's why I say alpha males (outside the bedroom). Wishy washy namby pamby men don't do anything for me at all!
Something VERY erotic having a hunk doing everything to please you: fun for me! "
Thanks so much
I like sub men in the bedroom but not essentially out of it
The men I meet are real men
Not lesser men because a women tells them what to do
In fact maybe they're more or a man, whose to say
But a 6 footer on his knees in front of me is a joy to behold
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Do all men expect to be put on the collar and lead?
Or are many in denial?
All my men seem to like it, am I just a very lucky girl? "
Evie, i couldnt think of anything worse personally, but i know you loves it ya minx lol, now i much prefer to have the collar on and someone else in control of the leash  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do all men expect to be put on the collar and lead?
Or are many in denial?
All my men seem to like it, am I just a very lucky girl? "
Definitely not ALL men - mine certainly would not and he is not in denial either.
I seem to attract submissive men, too, perhaps it has something to do with vibes I am giving of being a somewhat strong character - and I can be dominant but it is not what I enjoy for my pleasure.
I like a slightly dominant man, and dominance is about intelligence and imagination, the ability to create an atmosphere more than anything else.
For me anyway - others differ.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone tried to put a collar on me they'd get a fookin slap as soon as I managed to stop laughing. "
reminds me of a situation where we were at well-known club (no, not chams) with another couple. The other woman and I had decided to collar and blindfold the chaps and lead them from the changing rooms to the play area. On the way there, the other women applauded us, saying "go girls" and we had a lot of fun. Sadly our two blokes started laughing, not taking us terribly seriously, playing with their collars and it ended up in all of us rolling around laughing so not much domination.
But it was fun trying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does no one want a 50/50 split
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I can only speak for myself: this is fantasy fun for me nothing more.
The time will come when I'm bored with this and I'll actively seek a "normal" relationship. Although I have a dominant personality in a relationship I let my partner believe we have a 50/50 split! |
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"Does no one want a 50/50 split
I can only speak for myself: this is fantasy fun for me nothing more.
The time will come when I'm bored with this and I'll actively seek a "normal" relationship. Although I have a dominant personality in a relationship I let my partner believe we have a 50/50 split! "
my partner and I tend to quibble over the decimal points... |
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
Up North :-) |
"Do all men expect to be put on the collar and lead?
Or are many in denial?
All my men seem to like it, am I just a very lucky girl? hope the collar and leash are matching btw!!!! "
I think i could manage a few leads no probs. Used to walk mums 2 old dogs and never had a prob with walkies |
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
Up North :-) |
"my partner is collared and is definatly not a wimpy guy, he also bi so i have the best of both worlds
xxxxxk
good for you gf
good init"
Well darling with a neck like mine it wouldn't fit in a collar even if i was inclined! lol |
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By *ickmeallover OP Woman
over a year ago
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"my partner is collared and is definatly not a wimpy guy, he also bi so i have the best of both worlds
xxxxxk
good for you gf
good init
Well darling with a neck like mine it wouldn't fit in a collar even if i was inclined! lol "
my collar, well the biggest was made for a st bernard and it will fit ya so there |
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
Up North :-) |
"my partner is collared and is definatly not a wimpy guy, he also bi so i have the best of both worlds
xxxxxk
good for you gf
good init
Well darling with a neck like mine it wouldn't fit in a collar even if i was inclined! lol
my collar, well the biggest was made for a st bernard and it will fit ya so there "
Bet it still wouldn't fit!
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By *ickmeallover OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Does no one want a 50/50 split
sorry I have to say this
but does your husband even get 50/50
Oh Lord, It's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way "
me neither haha
but you brought up a 50/50 split
wondered if it was only only something you wanted for me and not everyone
no offense meant as I said sorry for bringing it up even
but it did strike me as being ironic
nothing personal meant I promise |
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"Does no one want a 50/50 split
sorry I have to say this
but does your husband even get 50/50
Oh Lord, It's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way
me neither haha
but you brought up a 50/50 split
wondered if it was only only something you wanted for me and not everyone
no offense meant as I said sorry for bringing it up even
but it did strike me as being ironic
nothing personal meant I promise"
I haven't got an ironic bone in my body!
What I mean was why does someone have to be in charge.
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By *ickmeallover OP Woman
over a year ago
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Oh someone always has to be in charge
if you have 2 ditheres nothing gets done
If you have 2 dommes, everyone gets done
If I'm in charge, I get what I want done
hahaha
and I am single with no one else to consider really |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"Does no one want a 50/50 split
sorry I have to say this
but does your husband even get 50/50
Oh Lord, It's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way
me neither haha
but you brought up a 50/50 split
wondered if it was only only something you wanted for me and not everyone
no offense meant as I said sorry for bringing it up even
but it did strike me as being ironic
nothing personal meant I promise"
Sorry, but why bring it up in the first place then?
Everyone's relationship is their business and should never be questioned really!
Note I did say sorry at the start so no offence meant |
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By *ickmeallover OP Woman
over a year ago
a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5 |
"Does no one want a 50/50 split
sorry I have to say this
but does your husband even get 50/50
Oh Lord, It's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way
me neither haha
but you brought up a 50/50 split
wondered if it was only only something you wanted for me and not everyone
no offense meant as I said sorry for bringing it up even
but it did strike me as being ironic
nothing personal meant I promise
Sorry, but why bring it up in the first place then?
Everyone's relationship is their business and should never be questioned really!
Note I did say sorry at the start so no offence meant "
but its ok for the lady in question to feel the need to question why I dont want 50/50
its a 2 way street really
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"Oh someone always has to be in charge
if you have 2 ditheres nothing gets done
If you have 2 dommes, everyone gets done
If I'm in charge, I get what I want done
hahaha
and I am single with no one else to consider really"
But if you have two people on an equal footing, neither feels like they are being used or abused.
And you can be totally considerate |
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By *ickmeallover OP Woman
over a year ago
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noe of the men I meet feel abused or used
trust me on that
plus you only have to read my verifications
I prefer to be in charge
some prefer to be sub
its the way it is for some of us |
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"noe of the men I meet feel abused or used
trust me on that
plus you only have to read my verifications
I prefer to be in charge
some prefer to be sub
its the way it is for some of us "
Oh for once we agree, everyone to their own |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"Does no one want a 50/50 split
sorry I have to say this
but does your husband even get 50/50
Oh Lord, It's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way
me neither haha
but you brought up a 50/50 split
wondered if it was only only something you wanted for me and not everyone
no offense meant as I said sorry for bringing it up even
but it did strike me as being ironic
nothing personal meant I promise
Sorry, but why bring it up in the first place then?
Everyone's relationship is their business and should never be questioned really!
Note I did say sorry at the start so no offence meant
but its ok for the lady in question to feel the need to question why I dont want 50/50
its a 2 way street really"
Nope and that will be why I said "Everyone's relationship is their business and should never be questioned really!"
She just asked a question! And to answer it yeah a 50/50 split for fun is great |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"I can see a written contract coming on before each meeting
Just to be sure lol
Oh my solicitor friend has suggested it more than once
he gets off on officialdom"
But is he allowed to wear the collar and lead in the Court? |
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"I can see a written contract coming on before each meeting
Just to be sure lol
Oh my solicitor friend has suggested it more than once
he gets off on officialdom
But is he allowed to wear the collar and lead in the Court? "
And is it charged as an extra |
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"But if you have two people on an equal footing, neither feels like they are being used or abused.
And you can be totally considerate"
OK from my point of view (sexually submissive) I am on an equal footing and don't feel at any stage like I'm been abused or used. If anything I feel like I'm the one using on occasion!!! I get great freedom and pleasure out of been able to hand control over to someone i trust completely. I have to have such tight control on so many aspects of my life that its a relief to hand some of it over for a period.
Hope that makes sense
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"I can see a written contract coming on before each meeting
Just to be sure lol
Oh my solicitor friend has suggested it more than once
he gets off on officialdom
But is he allowed to wear the collar and lead in the Court? "
they are invariably very submissive |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can see a written contract coming on before each meeting
Just to be sure lol
Contracts are very common in D/s or M/s relationships"
I was only being playful - I dont know THAT much about the contracts between dom and subs but would be interested in knowing more... you never know when that could become handy |
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"But if you have two people on an equal footing, neither feels like they are being used or abused.
And you can be totally considerate
OK from my point of view (sexually submissive) I am on an equal footing and don't feel at any stage like I'm been abused or used. If anything I feel like I'm the one using on occasion!!! I get great freedom and pleasure out of been able to hand control over to someone i trust completely. I have to have such tight control on so many aspects of my life that its a relief to hand some of it over for a period.
Hope that makes sense
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So in your mind, the person thinks they are in control, but, in other ways allowing them to control you is your control over them.
It's another way of looking at it |
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
Up North :-) |
"But if you have two people on an equal footing, neither feels like they are being used or abused.
And you can be totally considerate
OK from my point of view (sexually submissive) I am on an equal footing and don't feel at any stage like I'm been abused or used. If anything I feel like I'm the one using on occasion!!! I get great freedom and pleasure out of been able to hand control over to someone i trust completely. I have to have such tight control on so many aspects of my life that its a relief to hand some of it over for a period.
Hope that makes sense
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Its a complex relationship many don't understand. The benefits can be very rewarding for all sides though. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"But if you have two people on an equal footing, neither feels like they are being used or abused.
And you can be totally considerate
OK from my point of view (sexually submissive) I am on an equal footing and don't feel at any stage like I'm been abused or used. If anything I feel like I'm the one using on occasion!!! I get great freedom and pleasure out of been able to hand control over to someone i trust completely. I have to have such tight control on so many aspects of my life that its a relief to hand some of it over for a period.
Hope that makes sense
So in your mind, the person thinks they are in control, but, in other ways allowing them to control you is your control over them.
It's another way of looking at it"
Yes......I am sub in the bedroom, but even though I like the OH to do what the hell he wants with me, I am still in control. |
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
Up North :-) |
"But if you have two people on an equal footing, neither feels like they are being used or abused.
And you can be totally considerate
OK from my point of view (sexually submissive) I am on an equal footing and don't feel at any stage like I'm been abused or used. If anything I feel like I'm the one using on occasion!!! I get great freedom and pleasure out of been able to hand control over to someone i trust completely. I have to have such tight control on so many aspects of my life that its a relief to hand some of it over for a period.
Hope that makes sense
So in your mind, the person thinks they are in control, but, in other ways allowing them to control you is your control over them.
It's another way of looking at it
Yes......I am sub in the bedroom, but even though I like the OH to do what the hell he wants with me, I am still in control."
 Noooooooo |
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"So in your mind, the person thinks they are in control, but, in other ways allowing them to control you is your control over them.
It's another way of looking at it"
No I really do see it as a meeting of equals, its for me to say stop/no/enough and it not listened to we'd both loose. But the key point is I find it both fun and liberating. |
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"But if you have two people on an equal footing, neither feels like they are being used or abused.
And you can be totally considerate
OK from my point of view (sexually submissive) I am on an equal footing and don't feel at any stage like I'm been abused or used. If anything I feel like I'm the one using on occasion!!! I get great freedom and pleasure out of been able to hand control over to someone i trust completely. I have to have such tight control on so many aspects of my life that its a relief to hand some of it over for a period.
Hope that makes sense
So in your mind, the person thinks they are in control, but, in other ways allowing them to control you is your control over them.
It's another way of looking at it
Yes......I am sub in the bedroom, but even though I like the OH to do what the hell he wants with me, I am still in control.
Noooooooo "
As in many things in life, men THINK they are in control |
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"But if you have two people on an equal footing, neither feels like they are being used or abused.
And you can be totally considerate
OK from my point of view (sexually submissive) I am on an equal footing and don't feel at any stage like I'm been abused or used. If anything I feel like I'm the one using on occasion!!! I get great freedom and pleasure out of been able to hand control over to someone i trust completely. I have to have such tight control on so many aspects of my life that its a relief to hand some of it over for a period.
Hope that makes sense
So in your mind, the person thinks they are in control, but, in other ways allowing them to control you is your control over them.
It's another way of looking at it
Yes......I am sub in the bedroom, but even though I like the OH to do what the hell he wants with me, I am still in control.
Noooooooo
As in many things in life, men THINK they are in control "
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"But if you have two people on an equal footing, neither feels like they are being used or abused.
And you can be totally considerate
OK from my point of view (sexually submissive) I am on an equal footing and don't feel at any stage like I'm been abused or used. If anything I feel like I'm the one using on occasion!!! I get great freedom and pleasure out of been able to hand control over to someone i trust completely. I have to have such tight control on so many aspects of my life that its a relief to hand some of it over for a period.
Hope that makes sense
So in your mind, the person thinks they are in control, but, in other ways allowing them to control you is your control over them.
It's another way of looking at it
Yes......I am sub in the bedroom, but even though I like the OH to do what the hell he wants with me, I am still in control.
Noooooooo "
Is that not allowed?  |
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I think 99.9% of us are submissive in the bedroom, to receive a pleasurable experience one has be submissive, it's a question of how far someone is allowed to push our boundaries, that keeps one in control. |
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
Up North :-) |
"But if you have two people on an equal footing, neither feels like they are being used or abused.
And you can be totally considerate
OK from my point of view (sexually submissive) I am on an equal footing and don't feel at any stage like I'm been abused or used. If anything I feel like I'm the one using on occasion!!! I get great freedom and pleasure out of been able to hand control over to someone i trust completely. I have to have such tight control on so many aspects of my life that its a relief to hand some of it over for a period.
Hope that makes sense
So in your mind, the person thinks they are in control, but, in other ways allowing them to control you is your control over them.
It's another way of looking at it
Yes......I am sub in the bedroom, but even though I like the OH to do what the hell he wants with me, I am still in control.
Noooooooo
Is that not allowed? "
Yehhhhhhhhh! Hell yehhhhh Oooo the visions! won't be able to sleep now |
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"I think 99.9% of us are submissive in the bedroom, to receive a pleasurable experience one has be submissive, it's a question of how far someone is allowed to push our boundaries, that keeps one in control. "
So for both parties to receive pleasure at different times each has to be submissive/dominant |
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"I think 99.9% of us are submissive in the bedroom, to receive a pleasurable experience one has be submissive, it's a question of how far someone is allowed to push our boundaries, that keeps one in control. "
I would love to understand the concept of "submissive" properly as I feel it is a bit hazy. Now if being submissive means temporarily giving up control over events in a sexual play I agree that the vast majority would be classed as sub, for it is pleasurable to allow another person to take charge of the experience. No guilt, no responsibility just plain fun.
But somehow I think dom/ sub and their contracts... is something quite different. |
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"I think 99.9% of us are submissive in the bedroom, to receive a pleasurable experience one has be submissive, it's a question of how far someone is allowed to push our boundaries, that keeps one in control.
So for both parties to receive pleasure at different times each has to be submissive/dominant "
You got it lol |
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"I think 99.9% of us are submissive in the bedroom, to receive a pleasurable experience one has be submissive, it's a question of how far someone is allowed to push our boundaries, that keeps one in control.
So for both parties to receive pleasure at different times each has to be submissive/dominant
You got it lol "
Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm sounds good to me |
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By *ickmeallover OP Woman
over a year ago
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl"
I met one of yours friday
we have more in common than you think |
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
Up North :-) |
"But somehow I think dom/ sub and their contracts...
Contracts worry me It means a lawyer is making money somewhere along the line  "
Well not sure if they have moved into that business but i'll bet it wont be long |
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"But somehow I think dom/ sub and their contracts...
Contracts worry me It means a lawyer is making money somewhere along the line
The lawyer is the sub ... I think
He writes up the contract as he finds his collar being tightened... WHat a life"
We're not into this sub / dom business, so think it's best we departed this thread here |
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"But somehow I think dom/ sub and their contracts...
Contracts worry me It means a lawyer is making money somewhere along the line
The lawyer is the sub ... I think
He writes up the contract as he finds his collar being tightened... WHat a life
We're not into this sub / dom business, so think it's best we departed this thread here "
nor me really until this evening .. but it was just fun while it lasted. I think I go back to my missionary Night xx |
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"But somehow I think dom/ sub and their contracts...
Contracts worry me It means a lawyer is making money somewhere along the line
The lawyer is the sub ... I think
He writes up the contract as he finds his collar being tightened... WHat a life
We're not into this sub / dom business, so think it's best we departed this thread here
nor me really until this evening .. but it was just fun while it lasted. I think I go back to my missionary Night xx "
Oi wait for us! |
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"But somehow I think dom/ sub and their contracts...
Contracts worry me It means a lawyer is making money somewhere along the line
The lawyer is the sub ... I think
He writes up the contract as he finds his collar being tightened... WHat a life
We're not into this sub / dom business, so think it's best we departed this thread here
nor me really until this evening .. but it was just fun while it lasted. I think I go back to my missionary Night xx
Oi wait for us! "
you coming? |
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"But somehow I think dom/ sub and their contracts...
Contracts worry me It means a lawyer is making money somewhere along the line
The lawyer is the sub ... I think
He writes up the contract as he finds his collar being tightened... WHat a life
We're not into this sub / dom business, so think it's best we departed this thread here
nor me really until this evening .. but it was just fun while it lasted. I think I go back to my missionary Night xx
Oi wait for us!
you coming?"
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"But somehow I think dom/ sub and their contracts...
Contracts worry me It means a lawyer is making money somewhere along the line
The lawyer is the sub ... I think
He writes up the contract as he finds his collar being tightened... WHat a life
We're not into this sub / dom business, so think it's best we departed this thread here
nor me really until this evening .. but it was just fun while it lasted. I think I go back to my missionary Night xx
Oi wait for us!
you coming?"
Oooooo following a sub / dom discussion, we're coming all right |
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"But somehow I think dom/ sub and their contracts...
Contracts worry me It means a lawyer is making money somewhere along the line
The lawyer is the sub ... I think
He writes up the contract as he finds his collar being tightened... WHat a life
We're not into this sub / dom business, so think it's best we departed this thread here
nor me really until this evening .. but it was just fun while it lasted. I think I go back to my missionary Night xx
Oi wait for us!
you coming?
Oooooo following a sub / dom discussion, we're coming all right "
I am trying so hard.......
to log of and go to bed....
it is soooo difficult when you guys keep posting!!!!
Stop it!!!
xx |
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"But somehow I think dom/ sub and their contracts...
Contracts worry me It means a lawyer is making money somewhere along the line
The lawyer is the sub ... I think
He writes up the contract as he finds his collar being tightened... WHat a life
We're not into this sub / dom business, so think it's best we departed this thread here
nor me really until this evening .. but it was just fun while it lasted. I think I go back to my missionary Night xx
Oi wait for us!
you coming?
Oooooo following a sub / dom discussion, we're coming all right
I am trying so hard.......
to log of and go to bed....
it is soooo difficult when you guys keep posting!!!!
Stop it!!!
xx"
Is that going to bed with a log |
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"But somehow I think dom/ sub and their contracts...
Contracts worry me It means a lawyer is making money somewhere along the line
The lawyer is the sub ... I think
He writes up the contract as he finds his collar being tightened... WHat a life
We're not into this sub / dom business, so think it's best we departed this thread here
nor me really until this evening .. but it was just fun while it lasted. I think I go back to my missionary Night xx
Oi wait for us!
you coming?
Oooooo following a sub / dom discussion, we're coming all right
I am trying so hard.......
to log of and go to bed....
it is soooo difficult when you guys keep posting!!!!
Stop it!!!
xx
Is that going to bed with a log "
yeah ... a firm, solid, smooth....
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"its is far more equal if you like than you would think because the person that is sub has to agree to being sub
so its complex"
It is very complex. One of my subs is Dom with everyone bar me. With him I know intense pain and orgasm takes him out of the sub mode so my control is keeping him there, his control is allowing me to keep him there.
We don't talk to each other before, during or after apart from my instructions.
Usually in these kinds of relationships there are safe words. We've never discused that he's given me control not to hurt him. If someone relinquishes control are you really in control?
In the Stories section I've written an account of one of our meets.
I'll get around to writing about our meets on a packed commuter train, him sat next to me shaking like a leaf while I talk to colleagues! |
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"My sub playmates are all different.
From lingerie, toys, spanking, collar, lead, watersports, wax etc. Some like all, some a few, some I have sex with some I don't!
It's a myth that they're not men. One of my subs is ex Sandhurst and was wounded in Afghanistan, he now heads up his own security company! That's why I say alpha males (outside the bedroom). Wishy washy namby pamby men don't do anything for me at all!
Something VERY erotic having a hunk doing everything to please you: fun for me!
Thanks so much
I like sub men in the bedroom but not essentially out of it
The men I meet are real men
Not lesser men because a women tells them what to do
In fact maybe they're more or a man, whose to say
But a 6 footer on his knees in front of me is a joy to behold
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Phwoar i like the sound of that and ive some lovely pictures of Mistress with her sub |
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl
I met one of yours friday
we have more in common than you think "
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By *ickmeallover OP Woman
over a year ago
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl
I met one of yours friday
we have more in common than you think
Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here"
Oh I so did meet him off here |
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl
I met one of yours friday
we have more in common than you think
Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here
Oh I so did meet him off here"
well its not a regular then lol |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl
I met one of yours friday
we have more in common than you think
Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here
Oh I so did meet him off here
well its not a regular then lol"
Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't!
Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol |
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl
I met one of yours friday
we have more in common than you think
Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here
Oh I so did meet him off here
well its not a regular then lol
Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't!
Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol "
Down boy and eat your bone lol |
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl
I met one of yours friday
we have more in common than you think
Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here
Oh I so did meet him off here
well its not a regular then lol
Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't!
Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol
Down boy and eat your bone lol"
Do you think, all things considered, he can reach his bone? |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl
I met one of yours friday
we have more in common than you think
Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here
Oh I so did meet him off here
well its not a regular then lol
Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't!
Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol
Down boy and eat your bone lol"
It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl
I met one of yours friday
we have more in common than you think
Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here
Oh I so did meet him off here
well its not a regular then lol
Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't!
Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol
Down boy and eat your bone lol
Do you think, all things considered, he can reach his bone? "
It depends on how much walkies I get and how fit I am lol |
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl
I met one of yours friday
we have more in common than you think
Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here
Oh I so did meet him off here
well its not a regular then lol
Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't!
Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol
Down boy and eat your bone lol
It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it "
Chomp, Chomp |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl
I met one of yours friday
we have more in common than you think
Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here
Oh I so did meet him off here
well its not a regular then lol
Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't!
Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol
Down boy and eat your bone lol
It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it
Chomp, Chomp "
Up on my hind legs now begging for more |
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl
I met one of yours friday
we have more in common than you think
Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here
Oh I so did meet him off here
well its not a regular then lol
Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't!
Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol
Down boy and eat your bone lol
It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it
Chomp, Chomp
Up on my hind legs now begging for more "
I am not a voyeur usually... more the exhibitionist but this I would love to see... |
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl
I met one of yours friday
we have more in common than you think
Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here
Oh I so did meet him off here
well its not a regular then lol
Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't!
Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol
Down boy and eat your bone lol
It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it
Chomp, Chomp
Up on my hind legs now begging for more "
Oh love a man that begs |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl
I met one of yours friday
we have more in common than you think
Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here
Oh I so did meet him off here
well its not a regular then lol
Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't!
Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol
Down boy and eat your bone lol
It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it
Chomp, Chomp
Up on my hind legs now begging for more
I am not a voyeur usually... more the exhibitionist but this I would love to see..."
It can be arranged when i get let out for my walkies pmsl x |
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over a year ago
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"There is something that just makes you grin seeing a man in a collar. It is what they were born to wear
{chortle}
What size is your neck "
Too big for any collar to ever fit round it. |
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"People attract people that are on there wave length all "my men" are into the same things as me so i guess that makes me a lucky girl
I met one of yours friday
we have more in common than you think
Well you didnt meet them of here then that is for sure as most of the guys i see that are regular are not on here
Oh I so did meet him off here
well its not a regular then lol
Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't!
Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol
Down boy and eat your bone lol
It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it
Chomp, Chomp
Up on my hind legs now begging for more
I am not a voyeur usually... more the exhibitionist but this I would love to see...
It can be arranged when i get let out for my walkies pmsl x "
Do you errr... cock your leg? |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't!
Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol
Down boy and eat your bone lol
It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it
Chomp, Chomp
Up on my hind legs now begging for more
Oh love a man that begs "
Only beg for the best treats, am a pedigree you know - be there asap |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't!
Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol
Down boy and eat your bone lol
It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it
Chomp, Chomp
Up on my hind legs now begging for more
I am not a voyeur usually... more the exhibitionist but this I would love to see...
It can be arranged when i get let out for my walkies pmsl x
Do you errr... cock your leg? "
Every now and again I do |
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"Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't!
Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol
Down boy and eat your bone lol
It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it
Chomp, Chomp
Up on my hind legs now begging for more
Oh love a man that begs
Only beg for the best treats, am a pedigree you know - be there asap "
Oh and I am a pedigree bitch |
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"Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't!
Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol
Down boy and eat your bone lol
It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it
Chomp, Chomp
Up on my hind legs now begging for more
I am not a voyeur usually... more the exhibitionist but this I would love to see...
It can be arranged when i get let out for my walkies pmsl x
Do you errr... cock your leg?
Every now and again I do "
and you are good at following scents (nice ones only, of course) ??? |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't!
Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol
Down boy and eat your bone lol
It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it
Chomp, Chomp
Up on my hind legs now begging for more
Oh love a man that begs
Only beg for the best treats, am a pedigree you know - be there asap
Oh and I am a pedigree bitch "
Ok with me |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"Oh yes it is! Oh no it isn't!
Sorry just teasing and joining in the wee panto - I will get back on my lead now lol
Down boy and eat your bone lol
It's better for me though when someone else tries to eat it
Chomp, Chomp
Up on my hind legs now begging for more
I am not a voyeur usually... more the exhibitionist but this I would love to see...
It can be arranged when i get let out for my walkies pmsl x
Do you errr... cock your leg?
Every now and again I do
and you are good at following scents (nice ones only, of course) ???"
Yup nose to the ground as we speak lol x |
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"Petillante - we need to co-ordinate or contrast our perfumes ... or he might get confused
Don't worry i can follow 2 scents at once without any touble "
It just means we need to stay together... walking side by side to make sure you dont get traumatised by which Mistress to follow |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"Petillante - we need to co-ordinate or contrast our perfumes ... or he might get confused
Don't worry i can follow 2 scents at once without any touble
It just means we need to stay together... walking side by side to make sure you dont get traumatised by which Mistress to follow "
Now I didnt think of that  that'll be why you are the mistress, mistress |
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"Petillante - we need to co-ordinate or contrast our perfumes ... or he might get confused
Don't worry i can follow 2 scents at once without any touble
It just means we need to stay together... walking side by side to make sure you dont get traumatised by which Mistress to follow
Now I didnt think of that that'll be why you are the mistress, mistress "
Its ok, dont worry, you are a canine in this role and it is not your responsibility to challenge Mistress' decisions. You just need to be a good boy
Now there ...
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"Petillante - we need to co-ordinate or contrast our perfumes ... or he might get confused
Don't worry i can follow 2 scents at once without any touble
It just means we need to stay together... walking side by side to make sure you dont get traumatised by which Mistress to follow
Now I didnt think of that that'll be why you are the mistress, mistress
Its ok, dont worry, you are a canine in this role and it is not your responsibility to challenge Mistress' decisions. You just need to be a good boy
Now there ... "
Awwwww thanks am loving all the patting and stroking right now mistress pmsl x |
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"Petillante - we need to co-ordinate or contrast our perfumes ... or he might get confused
Don't worry i can follow 2 scents at once without any touble
It just means we need to stay together... walking side by side to make sure you dont get traumatised by which Mistress to follow
Now I didnt think of that that'll be why you are the mistress, mistress
Its ok, dont worry, you are a canine in this role and it is not your responsibility to challenge Mistress' decisions. You just need to be a good boy
Now there ...
Awwwww thanks am loving all the patting and stroking right now mistress pmsl x "
Now rollon your back for your tummy tickling lol |
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over a year ago
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"Petillante - we need to co-ordinate or contrast our perfumes ... or he might get confused
Don't worry i can follow 2 scents at once without any touble
It just means we need to stay together... walking side by side to make sure you dont get traumatised by which Mistress to follow
Now I didnt think of that that'll be why you are the mistress, mistress
Its ok, dont worry, you are a canine in this role and it is not your responsibility to challenge Mistress' decisions. You just need to be a good boy
Now there ...
Awwwww thanks am loving all the patting and stroking right now mistress pmsl x
Now rollon your back for your tummy tickling lol "
Tummy exposed and waiting for my tickling |
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"
Tummy exposed and waiting for my tickling
You won;t know which direction to turn to
He does not need to... we tell him
Of course "
Actually, Petillante... have we given permission for him to bark? |
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Tummy exposed and waiting for my tickling
You won;t know which direction to turn to
He does not need to... we tell him
Of course
Actually, Petillante... have we given permission for him to bark?"
Down boy and behave |
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over a year ago
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"
Tummy exposed and waiting for my tickling
You won;t know which direction to turn to
He does not need to... we tell him
Of course
Actually, Petillante... have we given permission for him to bark?
Down boy and behave "
am being a good boy and now off to my basket lol |
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"
Tummy exposed and waiting for my tickling
You won;t know which direction to turn to
He does not need to... we tell him
Of course
Actually, Petillante... have we given permission for him to bark?
Down boy and behave
am being a good boy and now off to my basket lol "
now stay!! |
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Tummy exposed and waiting for my tickling
You won;t know which direction to turn to
He does not need to... we tell him
Of course
Actually, Petillante... have we given permission for him to bark?
Down boy and behave
am being a good boy and now off to my basket lol "
Well as long as you remember to hang up you collar and lead |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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Tummy exposed and waiting for my tickling
You won;t know which direction to turn to
He does not need to... we tell him
Of course
Actually, Petillante... have we given permission for him to bark?
Down boy and behave
am being a good boy and now off to my basket lol
Well as long as you remember to hang up you collar and lead "
I always do, otherwise the studs jab me when I am trying to sleep lol |
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"
Tummy exposed and waiting for my tickling
You won;t know which direction to turn to
He does not need to... we tell him
Of course
Actually, Petillante... have we given permission for him to bark?
Down boy and behave
am being a good boy and now off to my basket lol
Well as long as you remember to hang up you collar and lead
I always do, otherwise the studs jab me when I am trying to sleep lol "
Did you not get permission from Petillante to take them off for the night? |
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