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Trying to make love of my life feel better
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well she's had quite a lot of shit to deal with in the past year, and then the worst thing was being made redundant this week .
I'm trying to keep her upbeat, because I love her to her bones, but she's on a real downer , can't get to gym as much as she used to, no car, thinks she's failed!!!!
Believe me,,she's an amazizing,sexy,unselfish,giving woman, and I'd like others to reinforce this, so she knows how I feel and what others think. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why a gym?
Why not go for long walks together in the fresh air and enjoy all that there is to be seen and enjoyed?
It's almost Spring. "
She's a gym bunny, always has been, and gets uptight if she doesn't go.
Ps. We go for walks and bike rides to  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell her she has an absolute peach of an ass.
She looks so much younger than her age.
Being made redundant is fucking horrible, so lots of hugs to her. She would make a stunning Secretary. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tell her she has an absolute peach of an ass.
She looks so much younger than her age.
Being made redundant is fucking horrible, so lots of hugs to her. She would make a stunning Secretary."
Lol,, thanks
I've actualy told her all this already, but you know women!! Right now in her head she looks like Susan boyle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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keep doing things sitting round the house not doing anything really makes depressio nworse. just keep active with anything and keep a routine the more you slide into doing nothing the harder it is to climb out of |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tell her she has an absolute peach of an ass.
She looks so much younger than her age.
Being made redundant is fucking horrible, so lots of hugs to her. She would make a stunning Secretary.
Lol,, thanks
I've actualy told her all this already, but you know women!! Right now in her head she looks like Susan boyle"
Susan Boyle  You need some new mirrors for her... she's gorgeous.
Keep telling her how much you love her she'll come though it. |
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By *eno_2004Man
over a year ago
Bishops Stortford |
"Well she's had quite a lot of shit to deal with in the past year, and then the worst thing was being made redundant this week .
I'm trying to keep her upbeat, because I love her to her bones, but she's on a real downer , can't get to gym as much as she used to, no car, thinks she's failed!!!!
Believe me,,she's an
amazizing,sexy,unselfish,giving woman, and I'd like others to reinforce this, so she knows how I feel and what others think."
Lovely to see somebody here really trying to express their love for their partner, it's a shame she's had a bad turn but I'm sure with a great guy like you with her the only way is up .....
And the gym is so paying off tell her not to stop !!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If her job was an integral part of her life and it really made her happy she needs to focus all her energy on getting a new job.
I know exactly what she is going through as I have been there myself.
Once she accomplishes the mission of being employed again her sense of self worth will return and everything else will fall into place.
Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Telling her she's beautiful might not make a difference to how she feels inside. Keep positive for her, tell her everything will be ok and things will get better. There is a light at the end of the tunnel even if it seems miles away. With you to help her towards it she has a better chance of getting there sooner. Be her ray of sunshine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If her job was an integral part of her life and it really made her happy she needs to focus all her energy on getting a new job.
I know exactly what she is going through as I have been there myself.
Once she accomplishes the mission of being employed again her sense of self worth will return and everything else will fall into place.
Good luck!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Redundancy is shit - I have had 3 in my working life - but it is not personal although it feels like it. Encourage her to prepare her personal advertisement for a new job - her CV. go for it girl! |
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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago
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Tell her my story and hopefully it will give her some hope! A year ago yesterday in fact I sat at my redundancy appeal meeting and was told my appeal had not been successful! The night before my appeal meeting I had found out the love of my life had been cheating on me for 5 months and the morning of my appeal he left! I could not have been in a worse place emotionally! The last year has been a hard one, but I have turned to self employed work and I earn more now than I did employed, its also good having the choice about when you work. Also in the last year I took my employer to tribunal and he settled out of court with me. It was an unfair redundancy. But he was an asshole and I am much happier in my working life now. Hopefully one day my heart will mend too, the last year would have been so much easier if I had had a supportive partner by myside. With you there with her it will get easier and hopefully she will be able to look back in a years time with a new job and be a lot happier! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have been where she is now, and its not a good place.
she, however, has something i never did, a loving partner that cares.
mine just went off with someone when i was at my lowest.
the problem is, your self esteem is linked with how useful you see yourself, and as she isnt doing what she normally would, and sees herself as not contributing anything to the relationship, it will be pretty low, if not right on the floor.
all you can do is keep telling her how important she is to you, how much you love her, and make sure everything you do revolves around her, so she feels important and useful to you.
im sure she is everything you say and much much more.
i hope you both work through everything together and come out the other side better, stronger and much more in love than you previously were.
give her our love (and stay strong yourself) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As we have never met, me saying nice things is meaningless and won't help.
BUT she did not lose her job, the company she worked for failed to make enough money to make a job she could fill. So this is an excellent time to look for a better company to work for.
It's also spring so great time to be off work and get the house and garden sorted so both can be more enjoyable in the summer months whilst looking at where she wants life to go in the future.
TBH if redundancy is the worst of the problems then you are doing OK compared to many. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think give her another week- I felt as though the rug had been pulled out from underneath me & financially vulnerable. Suppose I went through a mini grieving process- cried, blamed people, disbelief. But after a week or so I realised the rest of my life wasn't falling apart- brushed myself off, updated my cv & actually ended up with a much better job!! Sometimes it takes the end of something act as a catalyst for something new.
Agree with above as well- a supportive partner during trying times is a god send but you don't have to fix everything, just be there for her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whilst I'm sure compliments that value more than just her looks would probably be better appreciated, I can only really comment on her pics, still, she has fantastic boobs and bum, smouldering lips along with a great figure, and her anal pics are really rather hot.
Overall she looks pretty delightful x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's Hotpiece
Thanks for everyone's input however things not as they seem, I live with my 2 daughters and have a mortgage to pay. I cannot sit back and do the gardening when bills need paying, if only!
N recently lots of shit gone on n never felt so low..... Trying to keep my chin up so thanks xx
Didn't know he posted to forum n guess dempsy needed support from our lovely sexy friends
Xx
Love u all for taking time out to reply! |
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By *eno_2004Man
over a year ago
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"It's Hotpiece
Thanks for everyone's input however things not as they seem, I live with my 2 daughters and have a mortgage to pay. I cannot sit back and do the gardening when bills need paying, if only!
N recently lots of shit gone on n never felt so low..... Trying to keep my chin up so thanks xx
Didn't know he posted to forum n guess dempsy needed support from our lovely sexy friends
Xx
Love u all for taking time out to reply!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And today she finished her job, straight to an inter_iew and got offered the job.
I knew she'd be ok, very proud."
brilliant news.
well done
you go girl
from some not so sexy friends, but still care lol |
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