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over a year ago
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Is it just us or has anybody else noticed that when you think you've found a single F she then turns round and says but i only meet with my FB  ..Wtf  ..i know it's a safety issue and we can fully relate to that but jeez it's soo bloody frustrating. ..Any others come across similar problems? |
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"Is it just us or has anybody else noticed that when you think you've found a single F she then turns round and says but i only meet with my FB ..Wtf ..i know it's a safety issue and we can fully relate to that but jeez it's soo bloody frustrating. ..Any others come across similar problems? "
Yes have found a few women like that on here, really can't understand why they don't just make a couples profile to be honest if that is how she wants to meet? |
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I'm a single f with a fb profile, if someone messages my profile I take it they're looking for a single girl, not a couple.. if I didn't meet alone, I would only have the fb profile.. If people have safety worries, maybe they should only meet as a couple instead? Maybe they don't want to which is fine, but I personally would have it that way so people aren't wasting their time  |
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when they said they only meet with their fb, did you leave it at that, or say he is welcome, but is not to be involved as you contacted a single female?
she may well just want him there as safety and he may or may not be involved.
you need to make sure before you just dismiss it |
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"when they said they only meet with their fb, did you leave it at that, or say he is welcome, but is not to be involved as you contacted a single female?
she may well just want him there as safety and he may or may not be involved.
you need to make sure before you just dismiss it"
I don't see how that matters , if she is worried about her safety then a couples profile stating he will not be joining in is better than a single one. A single profile means you expect one person not 2 even if one isn't playing. |
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This is my single profile, I also have a couples profile with my husband, I have written in capitals that I only meet in clubs and only go to clubs with my husband yet I still get the can we meet now, get called a fake. I only use this to chat, keep up with friends. I don't use it to arrange meets, it even says so in the header, but still called a fake and blocked because people can't or won't read.  |
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"when they said they only meet with their fb, did you leave it at that, or say he is welcome, but is not to be involved as you contacted a single female?
she may well just want him there as safety and he may or may not be involved.
you need to make sure before you just dismiss it
I don't see how that matters , if she is worried about her safety then a couples profile stating he will not be joining in is better than a single one. A single profile means you expect one person not 2 even if one isn't playing. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is my single profile, I also have a couples profile with my husband, I have written in capitals that I only meet in clubs and only go to clubs with my husband yet I still get the can we meet now, get called a fake. I only use this to chat, keep up with friends. I don't use it to arrange meets, it even says so in the header, but still called a fake and blocked because people can't or won't read. "
If you only use it to chat, why bother with all the text? Just have a simple line saying 'profile only for chat'. Most people can read one line.
Then remove everything from the 'looking for' bit because that takes you off the searches.
So like mine.... I don't get any hassle. x |
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I have both - the single fem came first, newish at the couples profile thing x
I like my single fem profile - mainly used to chat, never had any negative comments - yet! Lol
Sara |
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"This is my single profile, I also have a couples profile with my husband, I have written in capitals that I only meet in clubs and only go to clubs with my husband yet I still get the can we meet now, get called a fake. I only use this to chat, keep up with friends. I don't use it to arrange meets, it even says so in the header, but still called a fake and blocked because people can't or won't read. "
Question is....Why bother with the single female profile then? Why not use the couples profile to chat, keep up with friends, etc?
By the sound of things, would save you a lot of hassle having to deal with people who are wanting one to one meets? |
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"This is my single profile, I also have a couples profile with my husband, I have written in capitals that I only meet in clubs and only go to clubs with my husband yet I still get the can we meet now, get called a fake. I only use this to chat, keep up with friends. I don't use it to arrange meets, it even says so in the header, but still called a fake and blocked because people can't or won't read.
Question is....Why bother with the single female profile then? Why not use the couples profile to chat, keep up with friends, etc?
By the sound of things, would save you a lot of hassle having to deal with people who are wanting one to one meets?"
Because I can and do meet people in clubs and play as a single, even though I don't go to the club on my own. I always say that WE are going to a certain club, I just won't do private/hotel meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Why should a single female who is not attached have to make a couples profile ?
She may have a few fb's... So how many profiles does she have to have ?
I bet if she turned up with a female friend no one would be complaining !
To expect a single girl to meet a couple for a first time play on her own is crazy .
We have met and played with plenty of single girls , but always met first at a club .
Couples who sit at home expecting them to turn up on their own are deluded  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"when they said they only meet with their fb, did you leave it at that, or say he is welcome, but is not to be involved as you contacted a single female?
she may well just want him there as safety and he may or may not be involved.
you need to make sure before you just dismiss it"
Yep we asked and her reply was that he's there to join in as well so we said thanks but no thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"when they said they only meet with their fb, did you leave it at that, or say he is welcome, but is not to be involved as you contacted a single female?
she may well just want him there as safety and he may or may not be involved.
you need to make sure before you just dismiss it
Yep we asked and her reply was that he's there to join in as well so we said thanks but no thanks "
Report the profile because it's against site rules. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why should a single female who is not attached have to make a couples profile ?
She may have a few fb's... So how many profiles does she have to have ?
I bet if she turned up with a female friend no one would be complaining !
To expect a single girl to meet a couple for a first time play on her own is crazy .
We have met and played with plenty of single girls , but always met first at a club .
Couples who sit at home expecting them to turn up on their own are deluded "
Excuse me,how would you know how the conversation went . In fact the single F contacted us and we fully explained she didn't have to meet us anywhere she wasn't 100% com fatal with so that comment is irrelevant ??we didn't put up the post to receive cheeky replies like yours!. As being new we just wanted to see if it was a regular situation that others have been |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"when they said they only meet with their fb, did you leave it at that, or say he is welcome, but is not to be involved as you contacted a single female?
she may well just want him there as safety and he may or may not be involved.
you need to make sure before you just dismiss it
Yep we asked and her reply was that he's there to join in as well so we said thanks but no thanks
Report the profile because it's against site rules."
We didn't even think to do that lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This is my single profile, I also have a couples profile with my husband, I have written in capitals that I only meet in clubs and only go to clubs with my husband yet I still get the can we meet now, get called a fake. I only use this to chat, keep up with friends. I don't use it to arrange meets, it even says so in the header, but still called a fake and blocked because people can't or won't read.
Question is....Why bother with the single female profile then? Why not use the couples profile to chat, keep up with friends, etc?
By the sound of things, would save you a lot of hassle having to deal with people who are wanting one to one meets?
Because I can and do meet people in clubs and play as a single, even though I don't go to the club on my own. I always say that WE are going to a certain club, I just won't do private/hotel meets."
And that's totally fine because you stated it and we understand the safety issue but the ones or majority of them say single F looking to meet alone... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm single f on here. No choice but to meet alone but I'd like a couples relationship so that if I met on my own I'd know there was someone who knew where I was and who with |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This is my single profile, I also have a couples profile with my husband, I have written in capitals that I only meet in clubs and only go to clubs with my husband yet I still get the can we meet now, get called a fake. I only use this to chat, keep up with friends. I don't use it to arrange meets, it even says so in the header, but still called a fake and blocked because people can't or won't read.
Question is....Why bother with the single female profile then? Why not use the couples profile to chat, keep up with friends, etc?
By the sound of things, would save you a lot of hassle having to deal with people who are wanting one to one meets?"
Give this man a hammer...you nailed it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have both - the single fem came first, newish at the couples profile thing x
I like my single fem profile - mainly used to chat, never had any negative comments - yet! Lol
Sara"
Lol ...but without looking at your profile,I bet you wouldn't say your single and looking to meet alone to then suddenly turn around and say "oh by the way,my FB will be joining us"  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm single f on here. No choice but to meet alone but I'd like a couples relationship so that if I met on my own I'd know there was someone who knew where I was and who with "
Aww bless Hun,sounds like you need a safe buddy to tell where you've gone,it's dangerous just meeting when nobody knows where you've gone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm single f on here. No choice but to meet alone but I'd like a couples relationship so that if I met on my own I'd know there was someone who knew where I was and who with
Aww bless Hun,sounds like you need a safe buddy to tell where you've gone,it's dangerous just meeting when nobody knows where you've gone"
I have a lady on here who is willing to know where I am. I did have a outside friend for this but we are no longer friends. I have survived so far been lucky I guess but thank you for your message |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm single f on here. No choice but to meet alone but I'd like a couples relationship so that if I met on my own I'd know there was someone who knew where I was and who with
Aww bless Hun,sounds like you need a safe buddy to tell where you've gone,it's dangerous just meeting when nobody knows where you've gone
I have a lady on here who is willing to know where I am. I did have a outside friend for this but we are no longer friends. I have survived so far been lucky I guess but thank you for your message "
You're welcome sweetie...be careful  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The single female profile will always generate more interest some use it to lure you in.
I have spoke to a few women and hubby or fb is not even mentioned on the profile.
But later they say I won't meet without him there.
And he also has to be able to watch.
And he also has to able to film.
And in one case he also has to be able to suck you off |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm single with a single profile. Guess I'm unique then  
I am too  "
Wow,I guess it must just be F from the west mids then lol ....they'll all probably come out to prove us wrong |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The single female profile will always generate more interest some use it to lure you in.
I have spoke to a few women and hubby or fb is not even mentioned on the profile.
But later they say I won't meet without him there.
And he also has to be able to watch.
And he also has to able to film.
And in one case he also has to be able to suck you off "
Haha ..we haven't had one of those ones before...what was your reply? Lool |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why should a single female who is not attached have to make a couples profile ?
She may have a few fb's... So how many profiles does she have to have ?
I bet if she turned up with a female friend no one would be complaining !
To expect a single girl to meet a couple for a first time play on her own is crazy .
We have met and played with plenty of single girls , but always met first at a club .
Couples who sit at home expecting them to turn up on their own are deluded
Excuse me,how would you know how the conversation went . In fact the single F contacted us and we fully explained she didn't have to meet us anywhere she wasn't 100% com fatal with so that comment is irrelevant ??we didn't put up the post to receive cheeky replies like yours!. As being new we just wanted to see if it was a regular situation that others have been"
Nothing cheeky about my response !
Simple facts , and since you didn't explain how the conversation went , of course I didn't know how it went .
My responses are just as valid though , and since we have no 'frustration' it may help if you see them as relevant , rather than cheeky ?
And as you are new , I can assure you it is regular situation . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why should a single female who is not attached have to make a couples profile ?
She may have a few fb's... So how many profiles does she have to have ?
I bet if she turned up with a female friend no one would be complaining !
To expect a single girl to meet a couple for a first time play on her own is crazy .
We have met and played with plenty of single girls , but always met first at a club .
Couples who sit at home expecting them to turn up on their own are deluded
Excuse me,how would you know how the conversation went . In fact the single F contacted us and we fully explained she didn't have to meet us anywhere she wasn't 100% com fatal with so that comment is irrelevant ??we didn't put up the post to receive cheeky replies like yours!. As being new we just wanted to see if it was a regular situation that others have been
Nothing cheeky about my response !
Simple facts , and since you didn't explain how the conversation went , of course I didn't know how it went .
My responses are just as valid though , and since we have no 'frustration' it may help if you see them as relevant , rather than cheeky ?
And as you are new , I can assure you it is regular situation ."
Well if you would've asked then we would've been happy to explain but at the same time thank you for your opinion |
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We bumped up the courage to message a single fem for fun and got the reply that she had 2 fuck buddies and we could meet all 3. Yeah right. If that's what we were looking for we wouldn't have messaged a single fem ddeerrrrrr |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm single f on here. No choice but to meet alone but I'd like a couples relationship so that if I met on my own I'd know there was someone who knew where I was and who with "
i have 2 trusted friends that know i'm on here and i always tell them where i'm going and who i'm meeting. also check in with them regularly to let them know i'm safe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The single female profile will always generate more interest some use it to lure you in.
I have spoke to a few women and hubby or fb is not even mentioned on the profile.
But later they say I won't meet without him there.
And he also has to be able to watch.
And he also has to able to film.
And in one case he also has to be able to suck you off "
Silence |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We bumped up the courage to message a single fem for fun and got the reply that she had 2 fuck buddies and we could meet all 3. Yeah right. If that's what we were looking for we wouldn't have messaged a single fem ddeerrrrrr "
Exactly... . That was our thoughts .if that was the the case we would've messages a couple in the first bloody place |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm single f on here. No choice but to meet alone but I'd like a couples relationship so that if I met on my own I'd know there was someone who knew where I was and who with
i have 2 trusted friends that know i'm on here and i always tell them where i'm going and who i'm meeting. also check in with them regularly to let them know i'm safe"
Too right chick |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The single female profile will always generate more interest some use it to lure you in.
I have spoke to a few women and hubby or fb is not even mentioned on the profile.
But later they say I won't meet without him there.
And he also has to be able to watch.
And he also has to able to film.
And in one case he also has to be able to suck you off
Silence "
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"I'm a single f with a fb profile, if someone messages my profile I take it they're looking for a single girl, not a couple.. if I didn't meet alone, I would only have the fb profile.. If people have safety worries, maybe they should only meet as a couple instead? Maybe they don't want to which is fine, but I personally would have it that way so people aren't wasting their time "
We'll said Hun and that's from a single F aswell..we like you |
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By *aisy100Woman
over a year ago
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It also works the other way too, I have single F profile but married and like to have fun with other women, I have clearly stated I wont meet couples but still get messages from the "female" just wanting to chat but then wanting to meet.... with a male partner/husband/FB! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It also works the other way too, I have single F profile but married and like to have fun with other women, I have clearly stated I wont meet couples but still get messages from the "female" just wanting to chat but then wanting to meet.... with a male partner/husband/FB!"
Oh wow..I didn't think it went that way aswell |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A single female has the right to decide at any time what her meeting terms are; i.e. personal preference.
If she forms a temporary association with a fb and chooses for a while to only meet with him there then, as far as I can see, so long as her profile says what her meet requirements are, she can retain the single profile.
It may help those couples seeking the Holy Grail of a single bi female to follow their oft stated own advice and read the profiles fully.
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"A single female has the right to decide at any time what her meeting terms are; i.e. personal preference.
If she forms a temporary association with a fb and chooses for a while to only meet with him there then, as far as I can see, so long as her profile says what her meet requirements are, she can retain the single profile.
It may help those couples seeking the Holy Grail of a single bi female to follow their oft stated own advice and read the profiles fully.
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Excuse me..instead if jumping into a conversation that you haven't fully read..read all posts..not about to repeat ourselves because you've just got an opinion. |
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"I'm single f on here. No choice but to meet alone but I'd like a couples relationship so that if I met on my own I'd know there was someone who knew where I was and who with
Aww bless Hun,sounds like you need a safe buddy to tell where you've gone,it's dangerous just meeting when nobody knows where you've gone
I have a lady on here who is willing to know where I am. I did have a outside friend for this but we are no longer friends. I have survived so far been lucky I guess but thank you for your message "
i have a friend i txt details to some times. Is it odd that i find a small Asian girl a safer safety buddy then my sted head para mates lol.
she genuinely scares me, i fear for the person who ever kidnaps me lol.  |
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"I'm single f on here. No choice but to meet alone but I'd like a couples relationship so that if I met on my own I'd know there was someone who knew where I was and who with
Aww bless Hun,sounds like you need a safe buddy to tell where you've gone,it's dangerous just meeting when nobody knows where you've gone
I have a lady on here who is willing to know where I am. I did have a outside friend for this but we are no longer friends. I have survived so far been lucky I guess but thank you for your message
i have a friend i txt details to some times. Is it odd that i find a small Asian girl a safer safety buddy then my sted head para mates lol.
she genuinely scares me, i fear for the person who ever kidnaps me lol. "
Maybe because their para? Lol
Send her to us...she sounds feisty |
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"I'm single f on here. No choice but to meet alone but I'd like a couples relationship so that if I met on my own I'd know there was someone who knew where I was and who with
Aww bless Hun,sounds like you need a safe buddy to tell where you've gone,it's dangerous just meeting when nobody knows where you've gone
I have a lady on here who is willing to know where I am. I did have a outside friend for this but we are no longer friends. I have survived so far been lucky I guess but thank you for your message
i have a friend i txt details to some times. Is it odd that i find a small Asian girl a safer safety buddy then my sted head para mates lol.
she genuinely scares me, i fear for the person who ever kidnaps me lol.
Maybe because their para? Lol
Send her to us...she sounds feisty "
haha true the paras are bunch of wusses, not as sissy as the marines though :p
she doesn't swing lol |
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"The single female profile will always generate more interest some use it to lure you in.
I have spoke to a few women and hubby or fb is not even mentioned on the profile.
But later they say I won't meet without him there.
And he also has to be able to watch.
And he also has to able to film.
And in one case he also has to be able to suck you off
Silence
Lool "
I had one like this message when I first came on this site. No mention of partner on profile, few messsges in meet must be at my boyfriends house, with him present filming it, oh and his mate needs to be there to do the lighting! Guess what my response was??! Second word was 'off' |
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"Is it just us or has anybody else noticed that when you think you've found a single F she then turns round and says but i only meet with my FB ..Wtf ..i know it's a safety issue and we can fully relate to that but jeez it's soo bloody frustrating. ..Any others come across similar problems? "
thought it was just us lol x |
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We are getting quiet brave swinging now. Having done quiet a few things and loving it more and more over the last 2 years but the single female is the holy grail for us. We still get the odd single female messaging but it's always with a fb on tow. So no single females for us. Shame as she would get spoilt by Leslie and a little from my self too lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why should a single female who is not attached have to make a couples profile ?
She may have a few fb's... So how many profiles does she have to have ?
I bet if she turned up with a female friend no one would be complaining !
To expect a single girl to meet a couple for a first time play on her own is crazy .
We have met and played with plenty of single girls , but always met first at a club .
Couples who sit at home expecting them to turn up on their own are deluded
Excuse me,how would you know how the conversation went . In fact the single F contacted us and we fully explained she didn't have to meet us anywhere she wasn't 100% com fatal with so that comment is irrelevant ??we didn't put up the post to receive cheeky replies like yours!. As being new we just wanted to see if it was a regular situation that others have been
Nothing cheeky about my response !
Simple facts , and since you didn't explain how the conversation went , of course I didn't know how it went .
My responses are just as valid though , and since we have no 'frustration' it may help if you see them as relevant , rather than cheeky ?
And as you are new , I can assure you it is regular situation ."
I like this!!
It made me smile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A single female has the right to decide at any time what her meeting terms are; i.e. personal preference.
If she forms a temporary association with a fb and chooses for a while to only meet with him there then, as far as I can see, so long as her profile says what her meet requirements are, she can retain the single profile.
It may help those couples seeking the Holy Grail of a single bi female to follow their oft stated own advice and read the profiles fully.
Excuse me..instead if jumping into a conversation that you haven't fully read..read all posts..not about to repeat ourselves because you've just got an opinion. "
Actually, as a single female the chap makes a valid comment. He is also entitled to his opinion as am i. There is no excuse for an abrupt and dismissive response. |
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Excuse me..instead if jumping into a conversation that you haven't fully read..read all posts..not about to repeat ourselves because you've just got an opinion. "
Op, I agree with the point you're making in your opening post, there are lots of 'single fem' profiles that are not single fems. In fact some are actually managed by the male in the couple.
That said, I don't agree with the way you attack anyone who chooses to disagree or challenge you in an open forum. The idea is to generate discussions and debate, other opinions are important in achieving that. |
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Excuse me..instead if jumping into a conversation that you haven't fully read..read all posts..not about to repeat ourselves because you've just got an opinion.
Op, I agree with the point you're making in your opening post, there are lots of 'single fem' profiles that are not single fems. In fact some are actually managed by the male in the couple.
That said, I don't agree with the way you attack anyone who chooses to disagree or challenge you in an open forum. The idea is to generate discussions and debate, other opinions are important in achieving that. "
Oh here we go..attack is bit of strong word as if he had read our post he wouldn't have made the comment he did..nothing about people not being allowed an opinion..stick to the subject in question please |
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"A single female has the right to decide at any time what her meeting terms are; i.e. personal preference.
If she forms a temporary association with a fb and chooses for a while to only meet with him there then, as far as I can see, so long as her profile says what her meet requirements are, she can retain the single profile.
It may help those couples seeking the Holy Grail of a single bi female to follow their oft stated own advice and read the profiles fully.
Excuse me..instead if jumping into a conversation that you haven't fully read..read all posts..not about to repeat ourselves because you've just got an opinion.
Actually, as a single female the chap makes a valid comment. He is also entitled to his opinion as am i. There is no excuse for an abrupt and dismissive response. "
Obviously our response is going to be dismissive as his comment was based on him not reading all post because if he did his response would've been helpfully and not trying to attack us for asking the forum a genuine question |
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over a year ago
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"The single female profile will always generate more interest some use it to lure you in.
I have spoke to a few women and hubby or fb is not even mentioned on the profile.
But later they say I won't meet without him there.
And he also has to be able to watch.
And he also has to able to film.
And in one case he also has to be able to suck you off
Silence
Lool
I had one like this message when I first came on this site. No mention of partner on profile, few messsges in meet must be at my boyfriends house, with him present filming it, oh and his mate needs to be there to do the lighting! Guess what my response was??! Second word was 'off' "
lol,love it! ...we don't mind but don't chat for ages only to mention it just before we decide to exchange numbers.. |
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"Is it just us or has anybody else noticed that when you think you've found a single F she then turns round and says but i only meet with my FB ..Wtf ..i know it's a safety issue and we can fully relate to that but jeez it's soo bloody frustrating. ..Any others come across similar problems?
thought it was just us lol x"
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over a year ago
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"A single female shouldn't be managed by a partner in my opinion "
We'll if she has a partner,she can't be single lol but here they are with single profiles with no mention of having a partner,fb,fwb or nothing lol |
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"We are getting quiet brave swinging now. Having done quiet a few things and loving it more and more over the last 2 years but the single female is the holy grail for us. We still get the odd single female messaging but it's always with a fb on tow. So no single females for us. Shame as she would get spoilt by Leslie and a little from my self too lol "
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over a year ago
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"I'm single with a single profile. Guess I'm unique then
Me to x but think we are minority on here . "
Does your fb have to be with you? Lool (only joking) |
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"A single female shouldn't be managed by a partner in my opinion
We'll if she has a partner,she can't be single lol but here they are with single profiles with no mention of having a partner,fb,fwb or nothing lol"
it's a trap lol I have buddies I'd like to meet couples with but I'd make a couples account. It is a scary thought meeting 2 people alone though. There would have to be safeguards for me to agree to meet |
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I am aghast at all this negativity people are allowed a singles and a couples profile I know plenty of women who meet alone yet go to a club with a guy next we will see shouts of that to be banned. If a woman doesn't feel confident in meeting 2 other people on her own then hey take someone far better than ending up the victim of the next cereal couple victims Lynda Gouth wished she had been accompanied when she met the Wests. I am not saying every couple is a West but if a woman doesn't feel comfortable then she has 3 choices, go and feel uncomfortable, go with a friend or not go at all. The couple has 2 I would think and that's cancel or meet with the accompany I would not think there is any couple out there who would push a single woman into meeting them when she felt uncomfortable is there?? |
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over a year ago
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"A single female shouldn't be managed by a partner in my opinion
We'll if she has a partner,she can't be single lol but here they are with single profiles with no mention of having a partner,fb,fwb or nothing lol
it's a trap lol I have buddies I'd like to meet couples with but I'd make a couples account. It is a scary thought meeting 2 people alone though. There would have to be safeguards for me to agree to meet "
Oh yeh get that and that's why we say to have a social first I. A public place..they could even bring him with them to the meet if there still not fully comfortable just not to play |
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"I am aghast at all this negativity people are allowed a singles and a couples profile I know plenty of women who meet alone yet go to a club with a guy next we will see shouts of that to be banned. If a woman doesn't feel confident in meeting 2 other people on her own then hey take someone far better than ending up the victim of the next cereal couple victims Lynda Gouth wished she had been accompanied when she met the Wests. I am not saying every couple is a West but if a woman doesn't feel comfortable then she has 3 choices, go and feel uncomfortable, go with a friend or not go at all. The couple has 2 I would think and that's cancel or meet with the accompany I would not think there is any couple out there who would push a single woman into meeting them when she felt uncomfortable is there??"
And that's exactly what we've just said lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think certain people t hunk we're slagging off the single F and we're not and sorry if it came across like that but if everyone reads the posts then you will see we just asked a simple honest question before people start attacking us (as one M put it) |
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"A single female shouldn't be managed by a partner in my opinion
We'll if she has a partner,she can't be single lol but here they are with single profiles with no mention of having a partner,fb,fwb or nothing lol
it's a trap lol I have buddies I'd like to meet couples with but I'd make a couples account. It is a scary thought meeting 2 people alone though. There would have to be safeguards for me to agree to meet
Oh yeh get that and that's why we say to have a social first I. A public place..they could even bring him with them to the meet if there still not fully comfortable just not to play "
you could have a dungeon and electrodes waiting at home. Actually,I quite like that idea |
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over a year ago
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"A single female shouldn't be managed by a partner in my opinion
We'll if she has a partner,she can't be single lol but here they are with single profiles with no mention of having a partner,fb,fwb or nothing lol
it's a trap lol I have buddies I'd like to meet couples with but I'd make a couples account. It is a scary thought meeting 2 people alone though. There would have to be safeguards for me to agree to meet
Oh yeh get that and that's why we say to have a social first I. A public place..they could even bring him with them to the meet if there still not fully comfortable just not to play
you could have a dungeon and electrodes waiting at home. Actually,I quite like that idea "
Get your ass to us lool  |
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I dont think its right to mislead others but I do understand the safety issue. Would you be opposed to agreeing to meet them only socially with their fb/safety friend? As long as you make it clear to her that couples are not what your are looking for and she should not expect to change your mind at anytime. I would think thst may be reasonable.
We have meet single ladies but they have all come with a fb on the first meeting. And the first meeting has always been a social meet or at a club. After that they have come by themselves and over to our home and now considered friends. We perfer to meet with no expectations of playing because I do believe chemistry can be different in person than it is online. It is still like a "first date". I know we are actively looking for couples so its slightly different than your situation but just a thought.
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"I dont think its right to mislead others but I do understand the safety issue. Would you be opposed to agreeing to meet them only socially with their fb/safety friend? As long as you make it clear to her that couples are not what your are looking for and she should not expect to change your mind at anytime. I would think thst may be reasonable.
We have meet single ladies but they have all come with a fb on the first meeting. And the first meeting has always been a social meet or at a club. After that they have come by themselves and over to our home and now considered friends. We perfer to meet with no expectations of playing because I do believe chemistry can be different in person than it is online. It is still like a "first date". I know we are actively looking for couples so its slightly different than your situation but just a thought.
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Hi guys..no the F could also bring them when they want to play but only the F is invited to play but we already answerd that particular question |
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So back to the OP!! Is it not the case that a single fem who wants a little security on a meet, is NOT the same! as a "single" fem who after initial contact, pic swaps, even number exchange. Only then reveals the "fb/bf/hubby" who "must be present, play, film etc."
We dont think anyone really has an issue with open safety concerns or a fem half of a cpl wanting a little alone play! Its the decite and lack of honesty up front which is the issue!! We say a lie makes it harder to trust and no trust = no play!
And are people genuinely saying a cpls profile stating fem "also likes to play alone!" Would get less attention???
But just our point of _iew! We block anyone who we think is wasting our time, as that way they dont! Its a big old world and we just move on!!
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Some couples know it is a way to increase their chances.
Some females are daft enough to organise meets for the guy to keep him interested in her.
Some for safety..... |
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"I'm single f on here. No choice but to meet alone but I'd like a couples relationship so that if I met on my own I'd know there was someone who knew where I was and who with
i have 2 trusted friends that know i'm on here and i always tell them where i'm going and who i'm meeting. also check in with them regularly to let them know i'm safe"
I don't tell anyone where I am going. No one to tell really and I haven't been anywhere anyway  |
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over a year ago
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"I'm single with a single profile. Guess I'm unique then
Me to x but think we are minority on here . "
Can you imagine what would happen if we said my fb is a female. Can I bring her too |
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over a year ago
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"I'm a single woman with a single profile but I am starting to consider, seriously, not continuing this way.
So much disrespect and disregard for women's safety I'm astounded."
It's one of the many reasons I don't meet on my own anymore.
But there are some nice people out there too. All hope is not lost. |
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"you could have a dungeon and electrodes waiting at home. Actually,I quite like that idea
A dungeon and electrodes; welcome to Doctor Nasty's House of Electronic Delirium
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how utterly delightful |
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"So back to the OP!! Is it not the case that a single fem who wants a little security on a meet, is NOT the same! as a "single" fem who after initial contact, pic swaps, even number exchange. Only then reveals the "fb/bf/hubby" who "must be present, play, film etc."
We dont think anyone really has an issue with open safety concerns or a fem half of a cpl wanting a little alone play! Its the decite and lack of honesty up front which is the issue!! We say a lie makes it harder to trust and no trust = no play!
And are people genuinely saying a cpls profile stating fem "also likes to play alone!" Would get less attention???
But just our point of _iew! We block anyone who we think is wasting our time, as that way they dont! Its a big old world and we just move on!!
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You hit the nail on the head exactly! Thanks for the clarity of thought!! It's the lack of honesty that's an issue not to mention the lack of respect in treating you like a desperate idiot! |
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For those women with concerns about safety issues, is'nt it always best to arrange a first meet with someone in a public place like a bar or pub for a chat and a drink so you can check out the guy or couple to see what they are like?
Still can't understand why you would need to take a fuck buddy along for that? |
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we have just had a similar thing - single fem profile all lovely etc - but her veri states they were met as a couple - we questioned this and she says only meet with my husband and he wants to film it - i suggested very nicely she states all this on her profile as some are up for this - we ourselves have played with a fem whilst hubby just watched but that was all clearly stated - tis annoying though |
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"For those women with concerns about safety issues, is'nt it always best to arrange a first meet with someone in a public place like a bar or pub for a chat and a drink so you can check out the guy or couple to see what they are like?
Still can't understand why you would need to take a fuck buddy along for that?"
I agree to be honest if someone felt the need to bring a bodyguard along for safety reasons.
I would scrap the meet if you don't feel comfortable not much point. |
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I'm a single woman (yes, I'm also the female of the human species but please, call me a woman or by my name) and I've never had a meet with somebody else in tow. I play as a single woman because I am a single woman. I have been to clubs with friends but that was for our own desire, not for an arranged meet and although I have had many meets at mine and at others houses, I've never felt unsafe or threatened because I choose well.
One of the reasons the social aspect of this is paramount.
As for being single, sub-ish and not Bi in the truest sense of the word (those bloody labels drive me wonky) that's a little trickier when it comes to meeting couples as there are a lot of preferences and ground work to cover. |
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can i say as a genuine bona fida single
female i have some couples in the past since i started back in all this 3or4 i think ,met them all for a drink/meal first
all on my own ,i not meet anyone with the guys i know as its what they want .
but one thing that grinds my gears folks
is the cpls that ive been in touch with
from here where i the guy wants to meet me alone , |
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over a year ago
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"why is meeting a single guy ok without a minder, yet meeting a couple is less so...
I would have thought, if anything, meeting a couple would be safer."
2 people to tie you up and electrocute you versus one? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"why is meeting a single guy ok without a minder, yet meeting a couple is less so...
I would have thought, if anything, meeting a couple would be safer.
2 people to tie you up and electrocute you versus one? "
even if it is a woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
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as daunting as it may be for a single fem to be with a couple - some we hve met / chatted to say they feel special to be allowed in to share the couple so to speak |
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"why is meeting a single guy ok without a minder, yet meeting a couple is less so...
I would have thought, if anything, meeting a couple would be safer.
2 people to tie you up and electrocute you versus one?
even if it is a woman"
if who was a woman? |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"why is meeting a single guy ok without a minder, yet meeting a couple is less so...
I would have thought, if anything, meeting a couple would be safer.
2 people to tie you up and electrocute you versus one?
even if it is a woman
if who was a woman? "
we are speaking about meeting a couple.... you said there would be 2 to tie you up and electrocute, so the female in the couple as we are speaking about meeting single females and not males |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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"Is it just us or has anybody else noticed that when you think you've found a single F she then turns round and says but i only meet with my FB ..Wtf ..i know it's a safety issue and we can fully relate to that but jeez it's soo bloody frustrating. ..Any others come across similar problems? "
It's a con. Pure and simple. A 'single female' who can't/ won't meet without a guy coming along is advertising under false pretences. |
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"why is meeting a single guy ok without a minder, yet meeting a couple is less so...
I would have thought, if anything, meeting a couple would be safer.
2 people to tie you up and electrocute you versus one?
even if it is a woman
if who was a woman?
we are speaking about meeting a couple.... you said there would be 2 to tie you up and electrocute, so the female in the couple as we are speaking about meeting single females and not males"
It's still two people against one. Some women aren't 'nice'. |
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"why is meeting a single guy ok without a minder, yet meeting a couple is less so...
I would have thought, if anything, meeting a couple would be safer."
Unless they're called Fred and Rose... |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"why is meeting a single guy ok without a minder, yet meeting a couple is less so...
I would have thought, if anything, meeting a couple would be safer.
2 people to tie you up and electrocute you versus one?
even if it is a woman
if who was a woman?
we are speaking about meeting a couple.... you said there would be 2 to tie you up and electrocute, so the female in the couple as we are speaking about meeting single females and not males
It's still two people against one. Some women aren't 'nice'."
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"why is meeting a single guy ok without a minder, yet meeting a couple is less so...
I would have thought, if anything, meeting a couple would be safer.
Unless they're called Fred and Rose..."
yeah.... I get the Myra Hindley, Maxine Carr etc involvement in murder cases.
Thankfully an exception to the volumes and volumes of male murderers. |
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IM a single fem on a singles profile. I meet alone but go to clubs with male friends. This is for safety, company, shared travel/hotel etc.
i do not need to stick with this person in a club or be minded by them. I can and do, do as i please as i am genuinely single. If a single fem was taking a guy to a home meet in this way, then yes its a little weird... |
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YEs I have, but this one was a couple and only the male wanted to meey and as I said can I fuck your girl to, they never replied to that lol, to easy to spot. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I'm personally not saying that at all...
And axe welding murderers if they are that good could take a couple anyway....
But I do have a process that involves caring for my safety.
(And I would still have one if I was male).
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"YEs I have, but this one was a couple and only the male wanted to meey and as I said can I fuck your girl to, they never replied to that lol, to easy to spot."
makes a change to only the guys wanting to meet me on their own then |
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"IM a single fem on a singles profile. I meet alone but go to clubs with male friends. This is for safety, company, shared travel/hotel etc.
i do not need to stick with this person in a club or be minded by them. I can and do, do as i please as i am genuinely single. If a single fem was taking a guy to a home meet in this way, then yes its a little weird... "
I had a meet with a single girl where I met at hers and found when I got there her chap was in the next room listening, not for her safety, but because it was a fantasy for them.
Had I been told previously? No. Did it bother me? Not really, in fact I rather got into it when she pulled her phone out and asked me to take pics of his lady being a very rude girl and send them to him. I played my part in no uncertain terms and she was like an excited little kitten, bless her!
However I can understand others having problems with this being sprung upon them. |
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"so the single females on here are saying
that they wont meet a cpl without a fb cos the cpl could be murderers ????"
I'm not saying that. If I was meeting on my own, I'd be on my own. I wouldn't be taking a pal with me.
But I would be a bit more cautious with a couple than I would with just a man. Careful either way. |
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Couples who sit at home expecting them to turn up on their own are deluded
Really ? We must be deluded then, even though we've met several single fems who have turned up on their own."
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"IM a single fem on a singles profile. I meet alone but go to clubs with male friends. This is for safety, company, shared travel/hotel etc.
i do not need to stick with this person in a club or be minded by them. I can and do, do as i please as i am genuinely single. If a single fem was taking a guy to a home meet in this way, then yes its a little weird... "
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"I've got to the point of arranging a meet with another single f and then being asked if it's ok for bf to watch! Errr no, that's not what I agreed to! "
Our point exactly |
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I'm single, bisexual, meet guys and couples.... I tend to arrange meets at a club then there's others around...and if they're not for me then they have choices and so do I.... |
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I have a couples account as well as this one but for safety my hubby always attends the first social meet. I tell everyone this and no one has had a problem as yet.
Don't see the problem with this as then if all goes well I meet the guys on my own from then on so why would I then use my couples profile? |
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"I'm single, bisexual, meet guys and couples.... I tend to arrange meets at a club then there's others around...and if they're not for me then they have choices and so do I.... "
Smart woman |
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