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Ok ..not wanting a (its up to the individual.) type debate ...but as a full swap couple ...was wondering ..where do you draw the line up to soft swing .ie ..in the throws of passion so to speak . Yes yes I know the concept but we personally think its like vodka and ..without the vodka .....?!!!!! Just saying like ...  |
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"Hahahahaha no no no ...im not asking anyone to be force fed vodka ..your not reading the point of the post ....was simply asking views to tne break off point .......!!!! "
I thought you wasn't wanting not wanting a "its up to the individual" responses which is pretty much the way I see it as is swinging, bisexuality and abstinence and fidelity. |
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"Ok ..not wanting a (its up to the individual.) type debate ...but as a full swap couple ...was wondering ..where do you draw the line up to soft swing .ie ..in the throws of passion so to speak . Yes yes I know the concept but we personally think its like vodka and ..without the vodka .....?!!!!! Just saying like ... "
Vodka & Coke? - ewwwwwwwe, - I hope this isn't premium Russian vodka that you're wasting!!!  |
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"Ok ..not wanting a (its up to the individual.) type debate ...but as a full swap couple ...was wondering ..where do you draw the line up to soft swing .ie ..in the throws of passion so to speak . Yes yes I know the concept but we personally think its like vodka and ..without the vodka .....?!!!!! Just saying like ... "
Lots of couples already have discussed before meeting anyone, communication between said couple, usually communicated with another couple prior to meeting. |
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"Ok ..not wanting a (its up to the individual.) type debate ...but as a full swap couple ...was wondering ..where do you draw the line up to soft swing .ie ..in the throws of passion so to speak . Yes yes I know the concept but we personally think its like vodka and ..without the vodka .....?!!!!! Just saying like ... Lots of couples already have discussed before meeting anyone, communication between said couple, usually communicated with another couple prior to meeting."
..yes was just saying I know some couples only like soft play .and yes it is obviously discussed prior..but in the throws it seems hard not to go on ...ie ..tne cut off point ...  |
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"Ok ..not wanting a (its up to the individual.) type debate ...but as a full swap couple ...was wondering ..where do you draw the line up to soft swing .ie ..in the throws of passion so to speak . Yes yes I know the concept but we personally think its like vodka and ..without the vodka .....?!!!!! Just saying like ... Lots of couples already have discussed before meeting anyone, communication between said couple, usually communicated with another couple prior to meeting...yes was just saying I know some couples only like soft play .and yes it is obviously discussed prior..but in the throws it seems hard not to go on ...ie ..tne cut off point ... "
I don't want penetrative sex with another man. There's my cut off point. Plus we only play fully with bi men. We 'dabble' with couples but only in a group sense and not in a definite swap scenario. This is pretty easy to do at clubs - where we play. |
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Ok .were out of date ...swinging is about so much more ..look whatever....... its about having sex soft or full sex with strangers ...when you go further it brings it into a second relationship ..im out of date !!!!!!! ...give yourself a shake will ya ..??????????? |
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"Ok ..not wanting a (its up to the individual.) type debate ...but as a full swap couple ...was wondering ..where do you draw the line up to soft swing .ie ..in the throws of passion so to speak . Yes yes I know the concept but we personally think its like vodka and ..without the vodka .....?!!!!! Just saying like ... "
The post doesn't make sense.
Or (as per your later posts) were you just trying to take the piss out of people that soft swap?
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"Ok ..not wanting a (its up to the individual.) type debate ...but as a full swap couple ...was wondering ..where do you draw the line up to soft swing .ie ..in the throws of passion so to speak . Yes yes I know the concept but we personally think its like vodka and ..without the vodka .....?!!!!! Just saying like ...
The post doesn't make sense.
Or (as per your later posts) were you just trying to take the piss out of people that soft swap?
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not at all it all went silly ...was a genuine post but people seems to have high moral standards in this forum ...were a genuine full swap cple and was jusy asking a bit of a view ..but got outed by the forum bullies  |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok ..not wanting a (its up to the individual.) type debate ...but as a full swap couple ...was wondering ..where do you draw the line up to soft swing .ie ..in the throws of passion so to speak . Yes yes I know the concept but we personally think its like vodka and ..without the vodka .....?!!!!! Just saying like ...
The post doesn't make sense.
Or (as per your later posts) were you just trying to take the piss out of people that soft swap?
not at all it all went silly ...was a genuine post but people seems to have high moral standards in this forum ...were a genuine full swap cple and was jusy asking a bit of a view ..but got outed by the forum bullies "
Where? |
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"Ok ..not wanting a (its up to the individual.) type debate ...but as a full swap couple ...was wondering ..where do you draw the line up to soft swing .ie ..in the throws of passion so to speak . Yes yes I know the concept but we personally think its like vodka and ..without the vodka .....?!!!!! Just saying like ...
The post doesn't make sense.
Or (as per your later posts) were you just trying to take the piss out of people that soft swap?
not at all it all went silly ...was a genuine post but people seems to have high moral standards in this forum ...were a genuine full swap cple and was jusy asking a bit of a view ..but got outed by the forum bullies "
What bullies? People just replied.
I still don't know what your question was, sorry. |
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"Ok ..not wanting a (its up to the individual.) type debate ...but as a full swap couple ...was wondering ..where do you draw the line up to soft swing .ie ..in the throws of passion so to speak . Yes yes I know the concept but we personally think its like vodka and ..without the vodka .....?!!!!! Just saying like ... Lots of couples already have discussed before meeting anyone, communication between said couple, usually communicated with another couple prior to meeting...yes was just saying I know some couples only like soft play .and yes it is obviously discussed prior..but in the throws it seems hard not to go on ...ie ..tne cut off point ... "
We like to soft swap. Our cut of point is normally when I've bolted all over the other women's lills. Or if the other bloke throws his stuff all over Ju. We normally find things calm down after that. |
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Most responses off hidden profiles or profiles with no pics or info on.....an whos the ones that are out off touch with swinging ...at least we are genuine ...
This has gone from a genuine question from a genuine full swap swinging couple ....to a load off nonsense replies from predominantly fake members ¡!!! |
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"Most responses off hidden profiles or profiles with no pics or info on.....an whos the ones that are out off touch with swinging ...at least we are genuine ...
This has gone from a genuine question from a genuine full swap swinging couple ....to a load off nonsense replies from predominantly fake members ¡!!! "
Who's on crack now ? |
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"Most responses off hidden profiles or profiles with no pics or info on.....an whos the ones that are out off touch with swinging ...at least we are genuine ...
This has gone from a genuine question from a genuine full swap swinging couple ....to a load off nonsense replies from predominantly fake members ¡!!!
Who's on crack now ? "
eh ??? Lol ..yous av a hidden profile |
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"Most responses off hidden profiles or profiles with no pics or info on.....an whos the ones that are out off touch with swinging ...at least we are genuine ...
This has gone from a genuine question from a genuine full swap swinging couple ....to a load off nonsense replies from predominantly fake members ¡!!!
Who's on crack now ? eh ??? Lol ..yous av a hidden profile "
Ten out of ten for observation. |
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"Most responses off hidden profiles or profiles with no pics or info on.....an whos the ones that are out off touch with swinging ...at least we are genuine ...
This has gone from a genuine question from a genuine full swap swinging couple ....to a load off nonsense replies from predominantly fake members ¡!!!
Who's on crack now ? eh ??? Lol ..yous av a hidden profile
Ten out of ten for observation. "
speachless ..absolutely speachless ..lol.lol.  |
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It's a shame the op has only had one clear answer to his question .
And another example of why so few members bother with the forums .
It's frustrating for a new poster to be immediately shot down when he asks a simple question with smart arse answers .
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"It's a shame the op has only had one clear answer to his question .
And another example of why so few members bother with the forums .
It's frustrating for a new poster to be immediately shot down when he asks a simple question with smart arse answers .
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one clear answer to his question ,,, for 1 im not trying to answer my own questions ... ;-no2 .new poster ??? Is there a posting club (well lol.) an 3..smart arse answers well youve managed to sort that out all one your own ....wots the story with the forum warriors on?? here try going on facebook or twitter to vent your nonsense .... |
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Can anyone give us a tips how to join the forum club so not to make a fool of ourselves when asking swing related questions ....as this post was quite obviously a non starter with being a new poster ...... |
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"It's a shame the op has only had one clear answer to his question .
And another example of why so few members bother with the forums .
It's frustrating for a new poster to be immediately shot down when he asks a simple question with smart arse answers .
one clear answer to his question ,,, for 1 im not trying to answer my own questions ... ;-no2 .new poster ??? Is there a posting club (well lol.) an 3..smart arse answers well youve managed to sort that out all one your own ....wots the story with the forum warriors on?? here try going on facebook or twitter to vent your nonsense .... "
I don't ever start threads and hardly comment but I think that this couple were defending you, not trying to make a smart arse comment just pointing out avid forum users make new posters look stupid, without them answering the actual question you asked
.. I may be wrong, but that's how it came across to me anyway?  |
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"It's a shame the op has only had one clear answer to his question .
And another example of why so few members bother with the forums .
It's frustrating for a new poster to be immediately shot down when he asks a simple question with smart arse answers .
one clear answer to his question ,,, for 1 im not trying to answer my own questions ... ;-no2 .new poster ??? Is there a posting club (well lol.) an 3..smart arse answers well youve managed to sort that out all one your own ....wots the story with the forum warriors on?? here try going on facebook or twitter to vent your nonsense ....
I don't ever start threads and hardly comment but I think that this couple were defending you, not trying to make a smart arse comment just pointing out avid forum users make new posters look stupid, without them answering the actual question you asked
.. I may be wrong, but that's how it came across to me anyway? "
It read that way to me as well  |
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we soft play.
we have played with full swingers
its all agreed beforehand.
there are no marks to overstep because everyone knows what is and isnt available.
if, for you, the whole idea of getting another mans cock in your pussy/another womans pussy round your cock is what swinging is about, or you lack the self control to be able to stay within agreed parameters when playing, then no matter what is agreed beforehand, you would probably be best of sticking with couples that have no boundaries.
it really isnt difficult to stick to agreed limits, much like it wouldnt be with couples that dont kiss
dont like anal
dont do piss or poo
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"This is REALLY entertaining. Please continue everyone. "
I wonder if Fab will create a system where you can post a new thread but only the OP can add to it. I think that's what was wanted here  |
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"It's a shame the op has only had one clear answer to his question .
And another example of why so few members bother with the forums .
It's frustrating for a new poster to be immediately shot down when he asks a simple question with smart arse answers .
one clear answer to his question ,,, for 1 im not trying to answer my own questions ... ;-no2 .new poster ??? Is there a posting club (well lol.) an 3..smart arse answers well youve managed to sort that out all one your own ....wots the story with the forum warriors on?? here try going on facebook or twitter to vent your nonsense .... "
I asked for clarification of what you meant in your original post but you didn't explain. I wasn't sure what you were asking. You didn't reply. |
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"This is REALLY entertaining. Please continue everyone.
I wonder if Fab will create a system where you can post a new thread but only the OP can add to it. I think that's what was wanted here "
I got that impression too. |
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"Ok .were out of date ...swinging is about so much more ..look whatever....... its about having sex soft or full sex with strangers ...when you go further it brings it into a second relationship ..im out of date !!!!!!! ...give yourself a shake will ya ..??????????? "
true and there too many pretentious fookers on here who take things way too serious lifes meant too be fun isnt it??
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"Ok ..not wanting a (its up to the individual.) type debate ...but as a full swap couple ...was wondering ..where do you draw the line up to soft swing .ie ..in the throws of passion so to speak . Yes yes I know the concept but we personally think its like vodka and ..without the vodka .....?!!!!! Just saying like ... "
I'm not in a relationship and don't swap but I would assume that passion for most couples is kept for their partner so they don't get carried away and overstep boundaries. However, I did read a few posts somewhere where the couple had agreed on limits but went in to do more than they had agreed before hand. People can change their minds and adapt as they feel more comfortable. I myself wouldn't want soft swing only if I did have a partner as I don't see the point in it |
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Yes the op did misunderstand our post , but all good now .
It's very frustrating when you ask a question , and the topic gets ignored for the sake of trying to be clever , and we understand that .
So staying on track .
When we had our first meet , almost 3 years ago , we had a set of rules which we agreed on beforehand . This included no penetrative sex , and the couple we were meeting were soft swap anyway .
Well , within half an hour , we were all fucking without a care in the world !
The adrenaline and atmosphere was so horny that all 4 of us couldn't see how we couldn't enjoy full swap .
And perhaps this is what the op was eluding to - how and at what point do soft swap couples stop ?
We have enjoyed plenty of soft swap experiences since , which have been primarily girls playing , but we don't really have rules now , regarding what we will and won't do .
It totally depends how everyone feels and how the meet goes .
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"Yes the op did misunderstand our post , but all good now .
It's very frustrating when you ask a question , and the topic gets ignored for the sake of trying to be clever , and we understand that .
So staying on track .
When we had our first meet , almost 3 years ago , we had a set of rules which we agreed on beforehand . This included no penetrative sex , and the couple we were meeting were soft swap anyway .
Well , within half an hour , we were all fucking without a care in the world !
The adrenaline and atmosphere was so horny that all 4 of us couldn't see how we couldn't enjoy full swap .
And perhaps this is what the op was eluding to - how and at what point do soft swap couples stop ?
We have enjoyed plenty of soft swap experiences since , which have been primarily girls playing , but we don't really have rules now , regarding what we will and won't do .
It totally depends how everyone feels and how the meet goes .
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We did try to answer but it was alluded to that because our profile was hidden that we must be fakes. I then got the impression that the OP was just just shit stirring and looking for an argument so I left it. When the OP then started having a go at someone who was sticking up for them I realised that no matter who answered at what they answered they were going to be abused. The OP went on about forum bullies when it was so obvious that they were the ones intent on bullying.
It's a shame really as the soft swap debate it sometimes a good one. We meet soft swap couples and never have we left a soft swap meet and thought something was missing, in fact some of our best meets have been soft swap. |
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