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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Now some may have come across this men or woman saying we are just shagging each other and not others but still here with a profile . It can not be easy to trust here as people make up all sorts of stories at times. I know some meet and marry here but they really must have worked everything out together to do this on a swingers site . And maybe no different if they was on a dating site end of the day and lived miles apart they still have to trust to make things work. Or just do there own thing as its a lot easier not to say .?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"a desperate need to be loved/wanted/desired sometimes waives the need for trust.
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Just I would find it so hard .And how others do the trust thing I take my hat off to them . |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"a desperate need to be loved/wanted/desired sometimes waives the need for trust.
Just I would find it so hard .And how others do the trust thing I take my hat off to them ."
You have been before, you were let down and learned from it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There has to be an element of trust. The question is how far that goes on what is essentially a contact site. If the contact becomes a relationship then the trust needs to grow. No different to any relationship |
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By *RS79Man
over a year ago
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"There has to be an element of trust. The question is how far that goes on what is essentially a contact site. If the contact becomes a relationship then the trust needs to grow. No different to any relationship"
I would agree - you also need to have a degree of trust in the person you are meeting to ensure they take the correct precautions etc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"a desperate need to be loved/wanted/desired sometimes waives the need for trust.
Just I would find it so hard .And how others do the trust thing I take my hat off to them .
You have been before, you were let down and learned from it. "
Yes you learn . How easy it is to be a sucker ,lol  |
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By *s. AppletreeWoman
over a year ago
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I have given up on trust .....in my sense of what trust is ...no one is ever what they seem and once you trust in your own ability to remember that you've protected your self from hurt ....but a girl still gotta play |
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"I have given up on trust .....in my sense of what trust is ...no one is ever what they seem and once you trust in your own ability to remember that you've protected your self from hurt ....but a girl still gotta play"
Yes, and even on an nsa basis I would rather deal with trustworthy people if I can find them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"a desperate need to be loved/wanted/desired sometimes waives the need for trust.
Just I would find it so hard .And how others do the trust thing I take my hat off to them .
You have been before, you were let down and learned from it. Yes you learn . How easy it is to be a sucker ,lol "
Not a sucker. It's the fault of the person that abused your trust. Otherwise how could we ever trust anyone? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"a desperate need to be loved/wanted/desired sometimes waives the need for trust.
Just I would find it so hard .And how others do the trust thing I take my hat off to them .
You have been before, you were let down and learned from it. Yes you learn . How easy it is to be a sucker ,lol
Not a sucker. It's the fault of the person that abused your trust. Otherwise how could we ever trust anyone?"
True .. But I fine close family I trust not strangers or so called friends . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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trust is far becoming a thing of the past on the internet, with loads of sites such as these and now even tv adverts cheating is as easy as buying a loaf of bread,In my life now I have decided in this day and age its time to replace trust with proof, if its easy to cheat on the internet I have found its just as easy to catch them on the internet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"trust is far becoming a thing of the past on the internet, with loads of sites such as these and now even tv adverts cheating is as easy as buying a loaf of bread,In my life now I have decided in this day and age its time to replace trust with proof, if its easy to cheat on the internet I have found its just as easy to catch them on the internet."
yes your right .. xx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now some may have come across this men or woman saying we are just shagging each other and not others but still here with a profile . It can not be easy to trust here as people make up all sorts of stories at times. I know some meet and marry here but they really must have worked everything out together to do this on a swingers site . And maybe no different if they was on a dating site end of the day and lived miles apart they still have to trust to make things work. Or just do there own thing as its a lot easier not to say .? "
yep, we live the best part of 200 miles away from each other.
im on here, on the forums, most of the time im logged in.
answer messages and so on, V checks in when she wants to, but we talk about everyone that gets in touch, chat about whats been posted in the forums, and so on.
i have actually been propositioned about going to see a few people while she hasnt been here, having a couple of 3somes with localish couples, leading to a 4some when she is here, and even a couple of one on ones (including one from a nice chatty single guy lol)
but have never been even remotely tempted to do anything, especially without her. its not for the fear of getting caught cuz she would never know, i firmly believe that, its just not in my nature.
when my marriage broke up, i never looked at another woman while i was single, just wasnt interested until she came along.
so there ya go.
its hard work making any relationship work, keeping the trust going and not abusing it, distance just adds a little more pressure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"a desperate need to be loved/wanted/desired sometimes waives the need for trust.
Just I would find it so hard .And how others do the trust thing I take my hat off to them .
You have been before, you were let down and learned from it. Yes you learn . How easy it is to be a sucker ,lol
Not a sucker. It's the fault of the person that abused your trust. Otherwise how could we ever trust anyone?True .. But I fine close family I trust not strangers or so called friends . "
have been shit on by close family too, so not even they can be trusted.
at least your friends are people you choose to bring into your life.
your family are there by default |
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