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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Another person with 'black only' profile nessages me. See this is why us guys ignore 'dos and donts' lists. Even if they looking for something specific on their profile, can look past it if needs be which I think is good thing  |
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over a year ago
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"Another person with 'black only' profile nessages me. See this is why us guys ignore 'dos and donts' lists. Even if they looking for something specific on their profile, can look past it if needs be which I think is good thing "
but surely, it's up to them to choose to go outside of their preferences...not up to you to ignore them? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Another person with 'black only' profile nessages me. See this is why us guys ignore 'dos and donts' lists. Even if they looking for something specific on their profile, can look past it if needs be which I think is good thing
but surely, it's up to them to choose to go outside of their preferences...not up to you to ignore them?"
Lol yeah good point actually |
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"Another person with 'black only' profile nessages me. See this is why us guys ignore 'dos and donts' lists. Even if they looking for something specific on their profile, can look past it if needs be which I think is good thing
but surely, it's up to them to choose to go outside of their preferences...not up to you to ignore them?"
Yep, cos if I ignored women that messaged me who's profiles say they only want guys over 6 feet I'dve missed out on a couple of very interesting meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I still find it weird that people would mistake u as black, or white..without then looking at ur profile which actually shouts "I'M ASIAN", repeatedly lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I still find it weird that people would mistake u as black, or white..without then looking at ur profile which actually shouts "I'M ASIAN", repeatedly lol"
Yeah I know. And I have to shout it too because people dont seem to see it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I also thought you were black!!
Yeah I understand people may think I am black but I got text saying I am asian and I do tell then straight away. "
oh yea. I got engrossed in your pics. I must have scrolled past the I'm Asian text when I read your profile. Surprising how pics can make your mind wander |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Another person with 'black only' profile nessages me. See this is why us guys ignore 'dos and donts' lists. Even if they looking for something specific on their profile, can look past it if needs be which I think is good thing
but surely, it's up to them to choose to go outside of their preferences...not up to you to ignore them?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I still find it weird that people would mistake u as black, or white..without then looking at ur profile which actually shouts "I'M ASIAN", repeatedly lol
Yeah I know. And I have to shout it too because people dont seem to see it lol "
stop misleading people Ok...and use less flash thanks  |
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"I still find it weird that people would mistake u as black, or white..without then looking at ur profile which actually shouts "I'M ASIAN", repeatedly lol
Yeah I know. And I have to shout it too because people dont seem to see it lol "
Hangs my head in shame. I quickly looked at your profile before posting my earlier sun bed comment not realising you're Asian. Wouldn't have said it otherwise  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do folk get hung up on peoples preferences if for example i come across someone who is not what i woukd generally look for but i found either them or profile interesting i would not automatically rule the person out.
O p concentrate on own preferences and leave others to do what they wish with their fab choices. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I still find it weird that people would mistake u as black, or white..without then looking at ur profile which actually shouts "I'M ASIAN", repeatedly lol
Yeah I know. And I have to shout it too because people dont seem to see it lol
Hangs my head in shame. I quickly looked at your profile before posting my earlier sun bed comment not realising you're Asian. Wouldn't have said it otherwise "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I also thought you were black!!
Yeah I understand people may think I am black but I got text saying I am asian and I do tell then straight away.
oh yea. I got engrossed in your pics. I must have scrolled past the I'm Asian text when I read your profile. Surprising how pics can make your mind wander"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why do folk get hung up on peoples preferences if for example i come across someone who is not what i woukd generally look for but i found either them or profile interesting i would not automatically rule the person out.
O p concentrate on own preferences and leave others to do what they wish with their fab choices."
Yeah point taken |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do folk get hung up on peoples preferences if for example i come across someone who is not what i woukd generally look for but i found either them or profile interesting i would not automatically rule the person out.
O p concentrate on own preferences and leave others to do what they wish with their fab choices."
if someone has something on their profile that should rule me out I point it out so they can retract their offer |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why do folk get hung up on peoples preferences if for example i come across someone who is not what i woukd generally look for but i found either them or profile interesting i would not automatically rule the person out.
O p concentrate on own preferences and leave others to do what they wish with their fab choices.
if someone has something on their profile that should rule me out I point it out so they can retract their offer "
Yeah I once tried that, they told me to piss off lol |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I still find it weird that people would mistake u as black, or white..without then looking at ur profile which actually shouts "I'M ASIAN", repeatedly lol
Yeah I know. And I have to shout it too because people dont seem to see it lol
Hangs my head in shame. I quickly looked at your profile before posting my earlier sun bed comment not realising you're Asian. Wouldn't have said it otherwise "
It made me smile. And it was clearly not meant in any sort of negative way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I take a good tan......
I just find it bizarre that in a world where
Exclusion is frowned upon and diversity is a must people think writing " black only" is ok. It plainly is wrong.
Just ignore the mail from ethnic groups you do not seek.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do folk get hung up on peoples preferences if for example i come across someone who is not what i woukd generally look for but i found either them or profile interesting i would not automatically rule the person out.
O p concentrate on own preferences and leave others to do what they wish with their fab choices.
if someone has something on their profile that should rule me out I point it out so they can retract their offer
Yeah I once tried that, they told me to piss off lol "
lol can't please people can you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I take a good tan......
I just find it bizarre that in a world where
Exclusion is frowned upon and diversity is a must people think writing " black only" is ok. It plainly is wrong.
Just ignore the mail from ethnic groups you do not seek..... "
How why is expressing a preference 'plainly wrong'?
I'll be honest equal opportunities really doesn't apply to who we fuck.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never got the whole black and white thing...
Surely it should be brown and pink? "
what about peachy with a yellowish tinge. I had my skin colour confirmed last week as men were wrongly assuming it's creamy whiteish. Porcelain someone said, just the camera flash I replied |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Why do folk get hung up on peoples preferences if for example i come across someone who is not what i woukd generally look for but i found either them or profile interesting i would not automatically rule the person out.
O p concentrate on own preferences and leave others to do what they wish with their fab choices."
because people always find a reason to complain about the things that exclude them ......
kinda like trying to attain the unattainable... and then saying you are blameless because the unattainable is unattainable.....
its the "water half full" or "water half empty" thing....
people like the focus on the negatives rather than concentrate on the people who may actually want them.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never got the whole black and white thing...
Surely it should be brown and pink?
what about peachy with a yellowish tinge. I had my skin colour confirmed last week as men were wrongly assuming it's creamy whiteish. Porcelain someone said, just the camera flash I replied "
Peachy with a yellowish tinge. Just rolls off the tongue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never got the whole black and white thing...
Surely it should be brown and pink?
what about peachy with a yellowish tinge. I had my skin colour confirmed last week as men were wrongly assuming it's creamy whiteish. Porcelain someone said, just the camera flash I replied "
well I could say if I seen a slightly discoloured anal area that u are 1% black...just like my lil bits of white pigmentation on my cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I usually read profiles before making contact. I think this may be a mistake since invariably I find some requirement that rules me out!  "
I did a search for women looking for men within 20 miles of me. I stopped reading profiles after the first 20. I would hate to be the male version of me on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP...wow great pics 
Oh be quiet Dee, I've already said that...and yeah, I'm fucking jealous U havent said that about mine!
blocked ash and dee..."
Ha ha ...well having now looked at yours I will say it ...'great pics KFP' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never got the whole black and white thing...
Surely it should be brown and pink?
what about peachy with a yellowish tinge. I had my skin colour confirmed last week as men were wrongly assuming it's creamy whiteish. Porcelain someone said, just the camera flash I replied
Peachy with a yellowish tinge. Just rolls off the tongue. "
and makes me sound jaundiced. On the plus side I tan easily and look much healthier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP...wow great pics
Oh be quiet Dee, I've already said that...and yeah, I'm fucking jealous U havent said that about mine!
blocked ash and dee...Ha ha ...well having now looked at yours I will say it ...'great pics KFP' "
yeah that made me cum thanks xxxx unblocked now...but not that ash guy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP...wow great pics
Oh be quiet Dee, I've already said that...and yeah, I'm fucking jealous U havent said that about mine!
blocked ash and dee...Ha ha ...well having now looked at yours I will say it ...'great pics KFP'
yeah that made me cum thanks xxxx unblocked now...but not that ash guy"
But I think you got great pics too lol |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I take a good tan......
I just find it bizarre that in a world where
Exclusion is frowned upon and diversity is a must people think writing " black only" is ok. It plainly is wrong.
Just ignore the mail from ethnic groups you do not seek.....
How why is expressing a preference 'plainly wrong'?
I'll be honest equal opportunities really doesn't apply to who we fuck...."
Equal opportunities definitely doesn't apply to whom I chose to fuck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol not sure how anyone can mistake you for black... When the first thing to read on your profile is that your NOT!
I guess I do things in reverse lol I read the profile first then view the pix... I always firgure why have a perv at someone pics I can't compliment after lol I'm different I know
Anyway on the same note you mentioned the MOST common message I get is If I like white guys.... This always after they tell me that I have sexy pix my response this morning (after unhiding our profile last night...might have been to soon lol) was if you REALLY looked at my pix you'd know the answer to that!
Lol people do make me laugh 
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I never got the whole black and white thing...
Surely it should be brown and pink?
what about peachy with a yellowish tinge. I had my skin colour confirmed last week as men were wrongly assuming it's creamy whiteish. Porcelain someone said, just the camera flash I replied
well I could say if I seen a slightly discoloured anal area that u are 1% black...just like my lil bits of white pigmentation on my cock "
You have a spotty (dotty not zittt!) cock? Cool!!! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I never got the whole black and white thing...
Surely it should be brown and pink?
what about peachy with a yellowish tinge. I had my skin colour confirmed last week as men were wrongly assuming it's creamy whiteish. Porcelain someone said, just the camera flash I replied
well I could say if I seen a slightly discoloured anal area that u are 1% black...just like my lil bits of white pigmentation on my cock
You have a spotty (dotty not zittt!) cock? Cool!!! "
Its dotted for your pleasure.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never got the whole black and white thing...
Surely it should be brown and pink?
what about peachy with a yellowish tinge. I had my skin colour confirmed last week as men were wrongly assuming it's creamy whiteish. Porcelain someone said, just the camera flash I replied
well I could say if I seen a slightly discoloured anal area that u are 1% black...just like my lil bits of white pigmentation on my cock
You have a spotty (dotty not zittt!) cock? Cool!!! "
u have to be up close to lick..I mean see it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never got the whole black and white thing...
Surely it should be brown and pink?
what about peachy with a yellowish tinge. I had my skin colour confirmed last week as men were wrongly assuming it's creamy whiteish. Porcelain someone said, just the camera flash I replied
well I could say if I seen a slightly discoloured anal area that u are 1% black...just like my lil bits of white pigmentation on my cock
You have a spotty (dotty not zittt!) cock? Cool!!!
Its dotted for your pleasure. "
u colour sensationalist  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The spectrum is far too broad, we should all match ourselves to this seasons Dulux colour palette."
I'd say I'm almond white from the Dulux natural hints range. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"The spectrum is far too broad, we should all match ourselves to this seasons Dulux colour palette.
I'd say I'm almond white from the Dulux natural hints range."
I've just had a look and in the absence of "albino white with ginger tones" I shall plump for Absolute White (bloody hell, it sounds like a BNP slogan!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I take a good tan......
I just find it bizarre that in a world where
Exclusion is frowned upon and diversity is a must people think writing " black only" is ok. It plainly is wrong.
Just ignore the mail from ethnic groups you do not seek.....
How why is expressing a preference 'plainly wrong'?
I'll be honest equal opportunities really doesn't apply to who we fuck...."
Perhaps not and we all have preferences. I.e not going with.lard asses who call themselves curvy but the point is valid. If you said black/ white only.in any other sphere you'd be at risk of litigation.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another person with 'black only' profile nessages me. See this is why us guys ignore 'dos and donts' lists. Even if they looking for something specific on their profile, can look past it if needs be which I think is good thing "
A bit like the straight blokes who ask me if I want my cock sucked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I take a good tan......
I just find it bizarre that in a world where
Exclusion is frowned upon and diversity is a must people think writing " black only" is ok. It plainly is wrong.
Just ignore the mail from ethnic groups you do not seek.....
How why is expressing a preference 'plainly wrong'?
I'll be honest equal opportunities really doesn't apply to who we fuck....
Perhaps not and we all have preferences. I.e not going with.lard asses who call themselves curvy but the point is valid. If you said black/ white only.in any other sphere you'd be at risk of litigation...."
Follow that line of thought to it's natural conclusion and then see if you can tell why it is flawed?
Seriously how on earth can expressing a preference for who we have sex with be viewed as discrimination. |
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I like Ash's profile and pics
I don't think Equal Opportunities or Diversity or any other 'leveling the playing field' (see what I did there?) legislation includes who you have sex with. It's sexual preferences, not racism or ageism or any 'ism' apart from maybe jism.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like Ash's profile and pics
I don't think Equal Opportunities or Diversity or any other 'leveling the playing field' (see what I did there?) legislation includes who you have sex with. It's sexual preferences, not racism or ageism or any 'ism' apart from maybe jism...."
Hehehe. |
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U do look kinda dark but I have to clarify something black is my complexion half caste oops I can't say that can I mean mixed race is any other complexion to mine there is light skinned black to but apart from that everything else is false advertising |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Another person with 'black only' profile nessages me. See this is why us guys ignore 'dos and donts' lists. Even if they looking for something specific on their profile, can look past it if needs be which I think is good thing "
to be fair with some pics its hard to tell if the person is Asian or mixed race, ive had a few guys mail me and because of lighting etc its hard to tell, maybe they thought you were light skinned black |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I understand where the OP's coming from as I've had the "reverse" of this situation.
I take it as a compliment. I'll entertain a message if they send one. Otherwise, I just block. Way I see it, stating you're not interested yet repeatedly looking at my profile screams confusion. I prefer people who are clear about what they're after. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
"We're all pink on the inside aren't we?"
I'm leopard print, but only on a Friday night when I'm out. If I get run over tonight I'll confuse the heck out of the people in the hospital and then even more so at 2AM when I revert back, just before their photographer arrives to photo this phenomenon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Vaguely understand where OP is coming from. Ie had winks from someone who wasn't looking for single guys.
I get that the broad generalisation means they can pick and choose (as is their right) so when people for whom I am not their noted choice try and get my attention, I just ignore them |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Another person with 'black only' profile nessages me. See this is why us guys ignore 'dos and donts' lists. Even if they looking for something specific on their profile, can look past it if needs be which I think is good thing
to be fair with some pics its hard to tell if the person is Asian or mixed race, ive had a few guys mail me and because of lighting etc its hard to tell, maybe they thought you were light skinned black "
After a thread discussing ethnicity last year I had a message telling me that my profile should clearly state that I'm not white as I am passing myself off as white with a tan.
My view is that you either like the profile and the pictures or you don't. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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My view is that you either like the profile and the pictures or you don't. "
I never realised you were anything but white with a tan till I met you and it doesn't matter a bean. You are you and that is what is important. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
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My view is that you either like the profile and the pictures or you don't.
I never realised you were anything but white with a tan till I met you and it doesn't matter a bean. You are you and that is what is important. "
I have also had a message telling me I "post like a while person" whatever that means.
I understand people have their preferences but you just say no to those outside your preference.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Another person with 'black only' profile nessages me. See this is why us guys ignore 'dos and donts' lists. Even if they looking for something specific on their profile, can look past it if needs be which I think is good thing
to be fair with some pics its hard to tell if the person is Asian or mixed race, ive had a few guys mail me and because of lighting etc its hard to tell, maybe they thought you were light skinned black
After a thread discussing ethnicity last year I had a message telling me that my profile should clearly state that I'm not white as I am passing myself off as white with a tan.
My view is that you either like the profile and the pictures or you don't. "
I thought you were white |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
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to be fair with some pics its hard to tell if the person is Asian or mixed race, ive had a few guys mail me and because of lighting etc its hard to tell, maybe they thought you were light skinned black
After a thread discussing ethnicity last year I had a message telling me that my profile should clearly state that I'm not white as I am passing myself off as white with a tan.
My view is that you either like the profile and the pictures or you don't.
I thought you were white "
I have enough flesh from different parts of my body to show that none of it is white.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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to be fair with some pics its hard to tell if the person is Asian or mixed race, ive had a few guys mail me and because of lighting etc its hard to tell, maybe they thought you were light skinned black
After a thread discussing ethnicity last year I had a message telling me that my profile should clearly state that I'm not white as I am passing myself off as white with a tan.
My view is that you either like the profile and the pictures or you don't.
I thought you were white
I have enough flesh from different parts of my body to show that none of it is white.
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So what are you out if interest? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Another person with 'black only' profile nessages me. See this is why us guys ignore 'dos and donts' lists. Even if they looking for something specific on their profile, can look past it if needs be which I think is good thing
to be fair with some pics its hard to tell if the person is Asian or mixed race, ive had a few guys mail me and because of lighting etc its hard to tell, maybe they thought you were light skinned black
After a thread discussing ethnicity last year I had a message telling me that my profile should clearly state that I'm not white as I am passing myself off as white with a tan.
My view is that you either like the profile and the pictures or you don't. "
I'm not English i have never put this on my profile or felt the need to mention it, its not something i hide, if a thread comes up about such things i will post, if someone asks me where I'm from i will tell them but its not something i have ever felt the need to tell someone when arranging a meet
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
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to be fair with some pics its hard to tell if the person is Asian or mixed race, ive had a few guys mail me and because of lighting etc its hard to tell, maybe they thought you were light skinned black
After a thread discussing ethnicity last year I had a message telling me that my profile should clearly state that I'm not white as I am passing myself off as white with a tan.
My view is that you either like the profile and the pictures or you don't.
I thought you were white
I have enough flesh from different parts of my body to show that none of it is white.
So what are you out if interest? "
Mostly Asian origin (assumed Indian but not sure where) with Portuguese and a bit of Afro Caribbean. I'm from South America/Caribbean.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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to be fair with some pics its hard to tell if the person is Asian or mixed race, ive had a few guys mail me and because of lighting etc its hard to tell, maybe they thought you were light skinned black
After a thread discussing ethnicity last year I had a message telling me that my profile should clearly state that I'm not white as I am passing myself off as white with a tan.
My view is that you either like the profile and the pictures or you don't.
I thought you were white
I have enough flesh from different parts of my body to show that none of it is white.
So what are you out if interest?
Mostly Asian origin (assumed Indian but not sure where) with Portuguese and a bit of Afro Caribbean. I'm from South America/Caribbean.
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You been using forum for Ges and I always just assumed you were white. Interesting |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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to be fair with some pics its hard to tell if the person is Asian or mixed race, ive had a few guys mail me and because of lighting etc its hard to tell, maybe they thought you were light skinned black
After a thread discussing ethnicity last year I had a message telling me that my profile should clearly state that I'm not white as I am passing myself off as white with a tan.
My view is that you either like the profile and the pictures or you don't.
I thought you were white
I have enough flesh from different parts of my body to show that none of it is white.
So what are you out if interest?
Mostly Asian origin (assumed Indian but not sure where) with Portuguese and a bit of Afro Caribbean. I'm from South America/Caribbean.
You been using forum for Ges and I always just assumed you were white. Interesting "
Ages not ges |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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I thought you were white
I have enough flesh from different parts of my body to show that none of it is white.
So what are you out if interest?
Mostly Asian origin (assumed Indian but not sure where) with Portuguese and a bit of Afro Caribbean. I'm from South America/Caribbean.
You been using forum for Ges and I always just assumed you were white. Interesting "
Why? I have always had images.
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I thought you were white
I have enough flesh from different parts of my body to show that none of it is white.
So what are you out if interest?
Mostly Asian origin (assumed Indian but not sure where) with Portuguese and a bit of Afro Caribbean. I'm from South America/Caribbean.
You been using forum for Ges and I always just assumed you were white. Interesting
Why? I have always had images.
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Yeah I must be colour blind because you look white but tanned to me. You got fair skin |
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"Seriously how on earth can expressing a preference for who we have sex with be viewed as discrimination."
I think the underlying question for me on this is the reasoning behind the "preference" specified. Is it as simple as not being attracted to somebody that's "white/black/asian", or is it more a case of "I'm happy to talk to someone at work that's X, Y or Z (and possibly even fancy them a little), but they're not an 'option' in terms of being intimate with them" due to some other stigma associated with doing so?
& if not that, is it the case that some people have had a bad experience with a man or woman of type X and they've decided to write off the rest of that 'group' of people as a result of that?
I'm sure in some cases it is as simple as just being more attracted to / turned on by a certain look or whatever, which makes perfect sense. At the same time, I don't doubt that in some cases there is a little more ignorance involved.
I happen to be lucky enough to be close to people from an array of backgrounds and feel my life is richer as a result of the diversity (and at the same time I don't really even think of us as being all that different at all). |
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I thought you were white
I have enough flesh from different parts of my body to show that none of it is white.
So what are you out if interest?
Mostly Asian origin (assumed Indian but not sure where) with Portuguese and a bit of Afro Caribbean. I'm from South America/Caribbean.
You been using forum for Ges and I always just assumed you were white. Interesting
Why? I have always had images.
Yeah I must be colour blind because you look white but tanned to me. You got fair skin "
I thought Ben Greedy Thump was a white middle aged man until I had a proper look at his profile. Just goes to show |
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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago
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"Oh dear people are really sensitive on this site,I get mistaken for being black sometimes...so what?
I sometimes get mistaken for being female....
It makes my day. "
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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I thought you were white
I have enough flesh from different parts of my body to show that none of it is white.
So what are you out if interest?
Mostly Asian origin (assumed Indian but not sure where) with Portuguese and a bit of Afro Caribbean. I'm from South America/Caribbean.
You been using forum for Ges and I always just assumed you were white. Interesting
Why? I have always had images.
Yeah I must be colour blind because you look white but tanned to me. You got fair skin
I thought Ben Greedy Thump was a white middle aged man until I had a proper look at his profile. Just goes to show "
I'm sure he'd be most upset at the middle aged bit in that comment. |
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"Another person with 'black only' profile nessages me. See this is why us guys ignore 'dos and donts' lists. Even if they looking for something specific on their profile, can look past it if needs be which I think is good thing "
We all have preferences. No blacks, no whites, no Asians, no Bi, no Straight, no fat, no thin, no couple, no single, no bald, no long hair, no one local, no one to far away, etc.
It's easy to feel 'discriminated' against when reading a profile. But with (at this moment in time) 16810 profiles online, I'm sure you can find somebody with a mutual compatability.
...or if you don't agree, to all the guys having a whine, it sounds like sour grapes and you are gonna turn more people off. |
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"Another person with 'black only' profile nessages me. See this is why us guys ignore 'dos and donts' lists. Even if they looking for something specific on their profile, can look past it if needs be which I think is good thing
We all have preferences. No blacks, no whites, no Asians, no Bi, no Straight, no fat, no thin, no couple, no single, no bald, no long hair, no one local, no one to far away, etc.
It's easy to feel 'discriminated' against when reading a profile. But with (at this moment in time) 16810 profiles online, I'm sure you can find somebody with a mutual compatability.
...or if you don't agree, to all the guys having a whine, it sounds like sour grapes and you are gonna turn more people off. "
I dont feel duscriminated against. I am saying even if someone has soecific things they are looking for on their profile, they can put them to one side for the right person. It was meant to be positive post not a negative one |
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