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Over the years have your views changed about swinging ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think we all change with getting older and maybe other things like family life and other things you like as much if not more. One time we would go out a lot it was the highlight of the week the month but now some of my family moved into their houses seeing them and going away with them is my highs. Not just sex . Been there and done most things and now it can be boring .I really have to like .. Its not a leg over now or a one off as like to know people its high risk in my eyes and I do think more about all that now . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It is still the highlight of my week and the highpoints of my month are Leeds First Friday and Big Night Out. To miss one due to work is a disaster, to miss both is catastrophic  "
years ago I felt like that ... xxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes, when we first thought about all this, we actually thought it was for dirty perverts and sluts/tarts, but as we have gone on, we have come to realise that its not at all.
there are all sections of life, and some you would never imagine being laid naked with.
takes allsorts lol
however, one thing that still hasnt changed is the feeling that some use swinging to stop their relationship falling apart, by allowing one, or other, or indeed both, to indulge in extramarital sex without the need to hide it from each other, if that makes sense |
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
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We started off working in the industry films/pics etc & thought of swingers as the unruly lot that were a bit seedy, since we started swinging about 12 yrs ago we realised it was the complete opposite.
90% of our close friends are either swingers or industry workers, the social side is as important to us as the sex & once every ones clothes are off we are all the same regardless of race/class etc.
Yes swinging grows on you but not in an addictive way but more intriguing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think its easier for couples on here.
going to parties and clubs if you can.
most people are ok but have met a few who werent trustworthy, agreeing to use condoms then not using them, being pushy.
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